I feel pain for the pple in here. Nigeria and africa at large have lost its real sense of being. The modern world as they call it has spoiled everything. what happened to our tradition and culture? we now think and live like the white man. what happened to the uniqueness in being different? in having a different way of life from other pple? why do women of nowadays disrespectful, stubborn and wicked to their husband in the name of civlization? No doubt our forefathers will be turning in their graves for the lost of our traditions and culture. i SMH for u pple. you`re a lost bunch. I don`t support wife or human beaters and i don`t read books that will teach me how to enslave my wife. i read books that makes marriage work and be blissful. i give u a little idea of the book not everything about it, and you all jumping on my neck. This thread is about abused wieves and gfs, and they are here for solutions. so we all are suppose to give suggestions on how they can solve their problems from their own angle since their spouse are not here. but u keep on talking about their spouse over and over again. How will that solve their problem.

I feel pain for the pple in here. Nigeria and africa at large have lost its real sense of being. The modern world as they call it has spoiled everything. what happened to our tradition and culture? we now think and live like the white man. what happened to the uniqueness in being different? in having a different way of life from other pple? why do women of nowadays disrespectful, stubborn and wicked to their husband in the name of civlization? No doubt our forefathers will be turning in their graves for the lost of our traditions and culture. i SMH for u pple. you`re a lost bunch. I don`t support wife or human beaters and i don`t read books that will teach me how to enslave my wife. i read books that makes marriage work and be blissful. i give u a little idea of the book not everything about it, and you all jumping on my neck. This thread is about abused wieves and gfs, and they are here for solutions. so we all are suppose to give suggestions on how they can solve their problems from their own angle since their spouse are not here. but u keep on talking about their spouse over and over again. How will that solve their problem.

9ja_Hottest_Gay:
i feel like doing u. Pls, can u pls be mine??
I wanna smotch and make u ask for more baby sweetus

Oga gayman no dey confuse person for here o.

willibounce:

Just listen to d title of the movies u just mentioned. 'Pride of a princess' 'queen of the jungle' LMAO. I'm sure ur a village gal. Asamkpokoto gal like u. Rubbish.

If she is a village gal, then you`re a bush boy. you no even fit buy video camera, you dey curse pple weh dey make film and make their money. u get sense atall?

How una go know jnr pope when una don carry una bed and kaya come camp for NL.

bukatyne:

There is no use discussing with you anymore.

Op, please note the book and DON'T read it

Na wa o. Feminists everywhere. no wonder the rate of single women and mothers are high. @op, even though u don`t like my posts. try and read that book. there is no harm in trying. don`t leave any stone unturned in trying to save your marriage. this bunch of pple here telling u to do otherwise will still be the ones to chastise u for being a single mother and divorcee. be motivated by the words of David Livingstone. ` I WILL GO ANYWHERE AS LONG AS IT IS FORWARD. I rest my case.

bukatyne:

Interesting.... esp the bolded.

You believe when she doesn't appear 'fragile or totally dependent' she can't be submissive or be a good wife?

I have no problem with submission as God requires it from wives to their husbands.

However, my problem is what people esp. husbands have defined submission to mean. God also expects men to love their wives and the wives submit to create a balance.

Do you know we are to submit to each other as Christians?

Think of how you envision a wife to behave to her husband... with all these be weak be fragile advice

Do you think that is what God expects

Thats the problem with some of u women. you demand equality with men. which is not right and will never happen. two captains cannot rule a ship just like a country cannot have two presidents. there will be lots of problems when this happen. when two he-goats drink water in the same bucket, they are bound to lock horns and fight. what am trying to say is that women should understand that God did not create them equal with men but created them to be submisive and helpful. now a wise woman will be submisive and helpful and at the same time use her FEMININE WISDOM to dissuade him from using his advantage to ride roughshod over her.

bukatyne:

Interesting!

So now a man can be wicked and devilish and instead of advising the man to change or undergo therapy, the woman should keep eroding and killing her spirit so that the hubby 'change' and 'reward' her with cars or jewelry?

One of the root problems is that the men are spoilt and the women are expected to adjust to suit the man's misbehavior.

Please share the principles and ideas in the book

Lol. But there is no man here with complains. we are talking about abused women here. so we should talk from the angle were women can find a solution to their problems. The general principle is how a woman can SUBMIT TO CONQUER. About how the power of a woman lies in her being a woman. that her power as a woman lies in what men ignorantly perceive as weakness. her power is in her ability to appear fragile while making her husband feel he is all poweful. it is in her ability to make her husband believe that she is obedient, submissive, loyal and totally depedent on him. when she has achieved this, then she will be able to motivate her husband to do whatever she wants. she should not use this ability of hers for her own selfish interest, else it backfires. she should quietly inspire him to achieve great things for her family and her community. this is the express way to her own happiness and fulfillment.

bukatyne:

Can you please summarize what the book is about so that the ladies go back to read what ruins their self esteem more.

The book is about a woman whose marriage was about to end in a divorce. However, she, consults an old woman who gives her ideals that she uses to make her home a paradise of love, peace, happiness and wealth. seriously i have read this book over and over again, and as a man i believe that any woman who understands and uses the ideas expressed in this book will make her husband love her unconditionally no matter how wicked and devilish he is.

swag queen:


Lol. Thanks. Hope say with your "madness", u no dey beat woman.

I no dey beat woman. but i no fit denial verbal abuse when dem provoke me. but most of the time i use the silent treatment. that really provokes them.

swag queen:


Uncle paulo,biko that one don pass. RR dey on ground to close this thread if we mess up. Biko mere m ebere.

Thanks.

Aunty swagg no kwams. no problemo. dem dey hide my posts self. so i go carry my madness go another place. but b4 i go, i go recommend one book for u weh i hope say e go help for your marriage. the name of the book na THE WISEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD by Lawrence ossy okeke. try get am, he go help u well well.

Na wa o

GSKing:
i can assure you that everything is alright n i bet u dont understand everything u just wrote. The world will be a better place if more and more people agree with "us"

The world will be a better place when you`re thrown in jail for 14yrs.

I want to see the so-called mukina2 pic. this op get liver o cuz i hear say mukina na one wicked old mama weh dey live for ilesha. them say her grandchildren give her one big computer make she dey use keep busy. unfortunately na ban she dey use am dey ban.

arcbabe: Peter have been behaving weird ever since he propose to Lola

I don`t understand u. do u hang out with him or something?

Which sane guy wouldn`t have a crush on SniperInDiper.

Mrs.Chima:
Ghanaians.

you never liked Nigeria men for once, why? how do put up with Mr chima then?

demelza: Take up your case with the Mods and hope they give a hoot

Abeg i no be lawyer weh dey take case o.

demelza: Oga you miss road? If you want serious news enter the politics section, this is the celeb section in case you didnt notice

I thought important topics are surposed to make front page. why put this trash on fp?

joshua idibia: This is nt twitter wer u folo folo celebs anyhw. Since wen has any single tin about a celeb become our concern? Hw does this help us,d common nigerian? Hw dos dis reduce d price of the white substance in the market? How does this help to put an END in a TIME like this wen THINGS in nigeria re hard? There are so many useful and reasonable threads out there that could have made FP. Example(like d unilag post graduate student who used magnets in proving same sex marriage wrong). They say our govt is not doing there work. Wel,some ppl here are not doing their work well. #P.S# I hope am not geting a ban again from my beloved friend MUKINA2. :-D 1LOVE Y'ALL

I`m with you bruh. these are the same people complaining about how bad the economy is. not knowing that they are the one contributing to the bad economy by talking about celebs everytime instead of doing something worthwhile. if a celeb goes to his toilet, they will discuss about it, she wears the latest designer clothes, they will compare her with another celeb wearing the same dress. Haba! una no get work?

How e take fuel my jet

SniperInADiaper:

I wasn't gone long enough to be missed.

You`re right.

dayokanu:

What kind of things?

Craddle robbering!!!