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apocalypse:
@ honeric01 : The Ben Dover looks more like the Bend Over position , as per the other styles I think I'll pass for now

@ justwise : Yeah that is a big IF , we only just started dating in November of the previous year and altho we've started having she hasn't done any kinky stuff to suggest she's into such.

I understand that, don't push her into it, have a chat with her about it and see her reaction.

aroy1:
Does anyone know if it's possible and how to go about getting another Nigerian new E-passport?I heard this can be done.Hope to hear from you soon.One love!

Why do u want to change ur detials? Remember that ur first passport got ur finger print and all the details are linked to the finger print, u can't change ur finger print, its uniquely idenfies you. You will get urself in a big mess IF u attempt to get a new e-passport with a new ID. All these pple telling that it can be done are just dubious, you will regret it.

Delta007:
Not necessary tho; I know I do knock agencies but there are some agencies that will give you your money's worth. They work side by side with employment agencies. However, with the recession, it's hard getting jobs via proxy unless you possess skills that are really really in shortage and those professions are highly regulated. Not impossible, but in today's climate, quite improbable.
P.S. I dunno why this is even an issue. Under the Skilled Worker Category and some other provincial nominee programs, Arranged Employment is not a pre-requisite. I'd rather gloss over it and make my application stronger in other areas than pay someone to waste my time. Just my 2 cents.

Thats my points as well.

honeric01:
if the girlfriend is the adventurous type, she would be more glad he's coming up with new positions.

I agree with u but that is IF and a big IF

Imeobong:
@Delta007 & megastu, thanks again for your contribution, they are now talking about Arranged employment and how it will improve my chances of migrating, what advise do you have here? is there any way I can arrange a job for myself from here? and having an Arranged employment or not having it, does it influence my chances of getting the visa?

Be very careful, very very careful with anybody suggesting that to u. They are going to give u forged employment letter and the Canadian embassy can easily put a call through to the company in question. Think.

steaming:
@ justwise, verify your claims before u insult people. ask questions first. dont just grab meanings at surfaace level!

you may miss out on sumthings in life.

Don't be silly, who do u thinking u are kidding? Sharing money on behalf of Nigerian govt? Just stop it. All you are doing is selling worthless form to pple and they will never see a penny after paying for the form. Like i told u b4, u will may sale that form on handcuff.

apocalypse:
@ aisha 2 , justwise : I'll definitely try exercising a little more when I have the time. As per the positions , I don't know if you guys know any that can be of help.
@190 : Come to think of it you might not be far from the truth because she was very bitter at the breakup and she actually sent a poison pen text saying I'll never succeed in life for what I did to her.
@every other person : I'll also go see a doctor but not a psychiatrist

** my girlfriend ** sorry for the typo

See the positions posted by honeric01 , she needs to be comfy with them b4 u try it out else u will end up putting her off. Good luck

funkybaby:
kai !
see professional/experienced frog kissers giving advice

Yea i'm taking after u

@op,

Try different position, having intimacy is a walk-out on its own, try some flexiable positions and see how it goes.

amara2:
With a guy younger than me, he's only 24 and I'm way older than him.
He loves me so much and worships the ground I walk on and makes me feel so special. In bed he's the best I have had so far,Is it a crime?

Not at all, i don't see anything wrong with the age gap. Enjoy!!!

megastu:
@Delta 007. How are you doing?trust that you are fine. @ poster, I think the advantage of using agencies is the experience they have. However, if you feel you can be meticulous enough, then you can go ahead and process yourself.

Many of them here got no experience, the only experience they got is how to charge rediculous fees and forge documents.

ifihearam:
Not quite an hour ago,a very good friend of mine lodged in a complaint and requested my candid advise over a pressing situation he is experiencing and he is at the verge of loosing the woman he loves the most.He said he has been dating this girl for well over 8 months and the relationship has grown very serious wherein he is considering marrying the girl,matters however turned sour when he was with another group of friends and he decided to call his babe to join the groove and also use the medium to introduce is wife-to-be to his beloved friends.
As soon as the girl came into the gathering,one of his friends recognized her having slept with her before(i did not ask him if it was a fling or they dated because it would be foolish of me,considering the pain he is going through)and he felt so bad because he has boasted with the chick so much in our presence,and this scenario played out,he is so confused.I advised him to look critically into the matter before ruing into any conclusion he might live to regret wether positive or negative.Please the matured minded people should gve their opinion/advise if you were to be in his shoes.

Your friend is a proper bush man, his friend slept with the girl BEFORE he met her, did she tell him that she is a virgin?

Dogworld:
[b]Guy it depends on how you see it,if you pronounce it overstay then its overstay,but when your spirit tells you you have greener pastures somewhere,why not listen to your mind go get it,It depends on luck "Head"you can be there and work online 24hrs,you can be sure of swift wireless broadband with just 5pounds a month 2.) Security guaranteed Queen cant ever be missing. 3.) nice weather to make you look fresh like some black american 4.) Cheaper fodd and clothing rates,chicken n chips 1.99p while Nando for 9ja na hmm, em em . make i no compare jo
Hawes and Curtis T.M Lewin Charles Wright f**kn cheaper than what you get here and the quality again is better,2ce as nice hmmmm. Cars are cheaper, you have opportunity to mingle with the world no limitation to only people that cant hep but to drain the lil you have.
Men i advice you think well if you can be sure to secure your source of income nutin do you,you will not regret it like those that did but give testimony like those that did. Remember its "Head"No lite No fuel No President No Job No Food No Road 9jeria go better Andrew no check out oh. Andrew say meen thank God say i check out o levels don change big time.lol the heat in town now is sometin else and no lite 9ja is hell believe it or not,if you have money you live in stress no money wahala why not stay where you have peace of mind Andrew

[/b]
Rubbish!!

drify:
just click on the link below. it is a picture of my VERIFIED and FUNDED paypal account. i can open one 4 u. call me on 08131002053.

Rubbish, anybody can copy that and paste, having a pic of verified paypal account is not a proof.

ONYENMA:
Good day All, I sincerely need a genuine advise,I frequently catch my hubby flirting with girls, He apologises though, and I let go, I don't cheat on him and he knows that, but recently he has started accusing me of flirting around, He lives abroad and does not have a job over there, I send him money for upkeep and visit him often, he now threatens to divorce me after all my sacrifices based on this his false accusation, we are from different tribes, I love him so much and he professed same to me and showed it that was why I married him, One fault he has is he is Mummy's puppet and just recently his mother was denied a visa to go and see him, and she has called me names on that and threatens to deal with me, what do I do, we don't have a child yet, I'm deeply in love, Pls help with your advise.

Is this a joke or what? He lives abroad and u send him money for his up keeps? I mean, there must be more to this. Well u really need to wake up, thank God there is no child involved cos this is a joke

ifedy:
I see within and beyond figures

Very rare quality then .

ifedy:
Am with you 100% What people dont know is that money has wings. It can fly away anytime.

Oh! thank God u are one of those who can see beyond figures

Missy B:
These are just as important as his Pocket.

Well, I don't have a problem with getting married to a man who earns less than I do.
Just get Your a$$ to work and bring money home, that's all I ask. [size=5pt]One of the things I ask[/size].

I don't think ANY man with a single brain cell would want to nurse the feeling of getting married WITHOUT having a job. Hey! to some ladies here, having a job is not enough but his pay cheque. I don't mind marrying a jobless woman IF we are inlove but i wouldn't marry a woman with list of materia things i must have cos when those materia things are gone she goes. Women like that don't think beyond handbags, shoes, cloths and how to outshine other married couples.

@ chika98

There is no need calling me names in Igbo language, i can read and understand Igbo langauage pretty well though i can't say the same about writing it.

Now back to the topic. My problem with some of u claming that u can't marry somebody who makes less than u do is this: Marriage is not ONLY about money money and money. Every job pays different salaries and different pay pacages, maybe his take home salary is less than that of his wife but other incentives like car, house, medical insurance may add more value than the wife's take home salary.

Marrying a man's pay cheque and not his personality or looks is just pure shallow. What happens when the money is not there? U jump to another fat cat? What happens to caring, understanding and love? This is why divorce rates are going up, cos pple marry for wrong reasons.

noniwealth:
Thank you all for your contributions on this thread,I have sent the link to my friend and it seem to work as he is changing his mind on selling his properties,Though he still believes in [b]Martinosi[/b]and said there should be a way for him,the Goodnews is he will not overstay anymore even if he plans to change his status

I think as a friend u have done alot to help him, its now up to him to make his choice and live with it. Sometimes pple prefered learning from experience. Friends like u are rare.

@nwangap

This is Romance section you bloody plonker, its not for dubious individuals like u.

@nwangap

Hungry scammer trying to dupe Nigerians.

@nwangap

Keep going around NL exposing urself, u will sale that form on handcuff.

@nwangap

You shameless criminal, who do you think u are kidding?

@nwangap

So the Nigerian govt employed you to distribute the money? When will you heartless fools stop stealing? Be careful, be really careful cos you maybe sale more than that form on monday. You may regret posting this here.

THE AMAKA:
[color=#ff00cc]^^^
i wasnt only talking to you, others too.[/color]

But the point u raised got nothing to do with where i'm coming from. The topic was about a man not having a job and not about making less money.

THE AMAKA:
[color=#ff00cc]you insecure guys keep driving this thread out of context.
can you marry a jobless man? NO. how does that translate to being a gold-digger and being money hungry?
so love alone puts food on the table, pays the bills, takes care of the kids? really? SINCE WHEN? why would a man that has no source of income even consider getting married in the first place? or is there something that I'm missing here?
just because you say you can't marry a jobless man doesn't make you an automatic gold-digger.[/color]

Did u read her 1st post? She said she wouldn't even marry a man who makes less than her. When has making less money equal to joblessness?

When i read ur post 2 things spring to mind, (a) maybe u are joking (b) that ur defination of love is money, hence my 1st question and ur reply says it all.

chika98:
Then why ask the rhetorical question then? Clap for yourself

Just wanted to know if u got ANY serious reason to fall inlove with his money rather than his personality or looks.