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Nothing wrong, just that a lot of risk is attached to it and more trust issues.

The key is to make physical contact with the person soon enough and maintain contact afterwards.

All in all when two truthful and honest people meet, the relationship will certainly work provided all other conditions remain constant(religious beliefs, life orientations etc)

The people who use the internet are humans, what that means is that there is a chance of meeting a good partner since internet is not for just bad people(it's for everyone)

Just imagining a case of ChopUrMoni and K2039.
K2039 is a honest and truthful guy, if ChopUrMoni is same, then you can be sure their relationship will work provided they have thesame orientation in key areas of life.

I'm certain I have not taken up to 1% of all the meals at the dining table.

I see absolutely nothing wrong, my opinion though.

I Know this is a joke.

I just dont get your point, is it that GEJ shouldnt be blamed for all the wrong in the presidency currently?.

Idokojimmy: But what is the morality in it? Does one realize how corrupt a system is only when he is out of it? Should such campaign be regarded as genuine? Is there any possibility that such people would continue the campaign if given fresh appointments?

The point is simple, they still have political ambitions, win the masses to yourself and you just might get their vote if the opportunity comes againa and that way they can have their revenge against any politician they have any issue with.

The point is most Nigerians have a short memory, the politicians realise this and they capitalise on it.

190: I said don't quote me, Inverter

afam4eva: You're spot on...

But i think people need to start being friends with people they can recommend their siblings to.

The main reason for being friends in the first place is not with the intent of friends getting married to one's siblings.

Besides, you cant be sure the brothers are saint themselves, they and their friends could just be birds of a feather.

talk true: But most of the pictures we have been seen from Adam to Jesus have been representing white men with long curly hair.

There was no camera then, certainly those pictures are hoax.

That't the only way they can win the masses to themselves since they are out of power with the incubent power brokers.

Maxymilliano: Point of correction, the President was not 'ranting' to the whole public, he was addressing the audience at the president Christmas Carol, and i wondered what statistics you talking about when the President was only officially elected into office about 19 months ago. Some remarkable steps have been taken by the present administration since he was sworn in to office, but like i said earlier, he can still do better and that's why he need every support he can get at this time.

12 months from now should be enough to objectively assess the President, and to the 'masses' you claimed have lost interest in the President, the problem is that some of them are just incurable pessimist and don't want to see anything good in the President, even when Jonathan achievements is glaring for all to see, that's when some people will now start comparing the Nigeria economy with that of US just to put hole in the President accomplishments.

Ofcourse, the carol was live on tv, besides he was sure his speech will get to the masses, so he was ranting.

If his accomplishments were glaring, then the pessimist would just be exhibiting plain stupidity, but frankly, we know that reverse is the case.

Being Christlike

I agree with you governor, he is not a launderer but a money transporter(he works for the CBN, mtchew).

190: Because people are now indulging in a s-e-x free relationship
In order 2 succeed in relationships today you gotta indulge fully in s-e-x
And know all its 101 positions 2 spice up ur relationship


No body should quote me - I know what I'm saying

One thing I have learnt to do is to invert your post, trust me when I do that, your post always makes maximum sense.

Maxymilliano: There's no gainsaying the fact that GEJ is at a crossroad of perception but hope you'll be magnanimous enough to give him some credit if he truly leaves up to his words...

Till then.

But based on statistics which in itself is based on his past record, I doubt if there really will be any surprises.

If he really wanted to do anything worthy of note, he should be working on his plans and not ranting to the whole public, infact with his rant it will only get worse for him, because he will be held accountable for his words.

Besides, all in all, it shows the masses have lost interest in their president, his words just dont count again.

Logicboy03: Denial......how many times was jesus denied?

Prove your point.

all of the above doesnt apply to me.

My president doing what he knows how to do best, 'making promises'.

I'm surprised no committee was set up to the attainment of this promise of his'.

There definitely has to be a record to run on for me to rate him.

What that means is that I can only rate him based on previous years, but has it stands I can't, because I only joined recently. Maybe next year though.

People are in the relationship for the wrong reasons.

Also too many kids(emotionaly, psychologically, financially etc) going into relationship(evident by the some of the threads on the romance section).

Besides not every relationship is meant to lead to marriage.

I'm sure Adam was neither white nor black, he must have all the race in him,lol.

I just dont see this seeing the light of the day. My fears has everything to do with conflict of interests; which party produces the president, vice president, how will the ministers emerge.

If it eventually falls through and they win in 2015, their will certainly be a big problem for the nation because this conflict will still crop up again(Imagine a scenario in which a president will likely not have the full power to sack a non-performing minister because he is from another party).

Very dry joke.

Op, it's morning and too early for this.

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The more desperate you are, the lesser your chances of finding the right one.

You shouldn't be eager or desperate to find her on nairaland, just relax, make friends and see where that takes you.

Certainly, you can find a wife on nairaland, the people on nairaland are human beings who will either get married later in life or are already married, so with all certainity their will be wife materials since I'm also a husband material and I'm on nl.

Only one thing is constant in life, CHANGE.

As the marriage progressess, certain parameters changes like beuty fades, child rearing, more responsibility etc, but for a real man there is always a correction factor which annuls the effect of the changes and it's called COMMITMENT(commitment will reduce the effect of those changes, it simply means inspite of this changes we will make each other happy and ensure this marriage works).

Most times it's not really that people change after marriage, it's just that most people are blind enough to see their partner for who he was or he was probably pretending, the chase is over, the prize is won, now you are exposed to the real him.

At other times it is as a result of the third law of motion, for every action their is a corresponding reaction.What that means is that the changes could be as a result of changes in the woman, example nagging, laziness etc.

The list is certainly not comprehensive enough, I can't find k2039.

Everything in life is a risk.
Every decision in life has a opportunity cost.

From your post I certainly know your preference is to get back with him, obviously you love him(so obvious in your post), just that you have doubts if this will really work due to the distance and his uncertainity about his return.

Your post is not comprehensive enough for me to decide why he just isn't sure when he will be returning(Why he keeps postponing his return is not explicit in your post), though since he is involving his families in your relationship I will say he probably has good intention.

As it stands, if you decide to move on, he may just return sooner than you expect. If you decide to stay, he may stay later than expected.
Another possibility, he may return and probably dissolve the relationship and decide he just doesnt want you again, also he may return and you guys may just get married.
Certainly one of this four assumption will be the final outcome.

I cant tell you which one will take place, but here is where opportunity cost will likely come in, certainly, I know you love him and he probably does to, so I suggest you give him one last chance.

The condition for another chance will be him telling you in explicit and certain terms when he will be returning, any deviation from the set time will mean a break up.
If you think the time is reasonable enough for you to wait and it wont cost you too much waiting for him should he say is no longer interested, then you can wait for him.
If you are not okay with the time frame he gives then you dissolve it.

In the end it's all about you decision. Every decision has a consequence.

I laugh in greek, mtchew.

I understand almost everyone needs God, (atheist will generally not agree though, that's why I used allmost).
But most of Nigeria's problem are man made and can only be corrected by man not God.

So praying to God on something you know you can solve or change is plain and obvious stupidity.

pdp.

Politicians are like diapers; they need to be changed often and for the same reason.

They are not any different from each othe.

If ACN didn't haave anything to do with Tinubu, I would have chosen ACN.But as it stands I prefer PDP

Hillary has presidential ambitions and Bill will go a long way in making it happen, he sure has a lot of influence.