pocohantas:


Oga, no quote me with nonsense again o. I no care who you be. If you talk nonsense for reality, I go give you response wey fit you. So any time wey you see my monicker, you pass am. If you decide to quote me, whatever you think you are in reality is the business of you and your family members/dependents.

Bye…

You still be newbie for where I dey. But I no go treat you like that. You still dey develop sense but I go ignore that.

I'll always call you out and anyone one like you on this forum who gives terrible advice misleading young girls and faking informed.

pocohantas:


May your sister not be misled. May she become a babymama for a man like OP.

You don’t blame who? And what did social media cause? Both social media and real life, e do you like say I dey notice you? I done quote you before? Na you buy data or phone give me? C’mon leave my sight osiso.

Chai...like I said na faceless forum and you can run your hands anyhow sha. I still no blame you o.

Please if my sister becomes a babymama It's not your business biko....shuuu or do you want to meed her? I don't understand this recent obsession....

ZUBY77:


I understand your view but a good economic plan will solve lots of problems.
He is not perfect and wont solve everything but i prefer him over the other two candidates.

The grand plan is actually to wrestle power from these political thugs holding us down since independence

We could also have another brand of thuggery too. Especially mob actions

Seun:
I'm not convinced that Peter Obi can manage the diverse interests in this country. I believe that by the end of Soludo's governorship, he will be ready to become a fantastic president. Having gained federal experience as a CBN governor and also executive experience as a state governor. He's also dealing with unknown gunmen; if he is successful then he can apply the same ideas federally to deal with bandits and terrorists.

I strongly believe we just need a decentralised police system. State Police and a Federal Police to deal with very serious crimes.

pocohantas:


Oga give him your sister. Leave all this long talk. Since I am misleading young girls by advising them not to have kids with men like him who only want babies. Then give him your sister. In fact, may your sister not be be misled by me. May she become a babymama for a man like this. Hypocrite! Spits on his bald head.

Lol. I don't know how my sister got into your mouth. But if my sister decides to have a baby mama, it's her choice. Not yours, not mine.

But I don't blame you sha. Na social media cause am. And yes, you are misleading a lot of young girls like you just did on this tread. Until you turn to a Linda Ikeji.

sunboy:


Morally yes they both have a say.

Legally, the lady has a say about what kid she’s keeping or not cos it’s her body.

If he choose to be single man then he could had the baby by himself or arrange with her to just give him baby or arrange with a surrogate.

My point being, women wield more power as regards pregnancy. Her body is changed forever, she has to want it for herself not for him.

I don't agree with you on the legal part. But if both have disagreement and she decides to abort it, please it should never be that its because she's a 'woman' and 'her body' because truly, in future she may have difficulty having kids and then regrets sets in.

There will be other concrete reasons and she could as well just give a flimsy excuse. But it's not her sole decision to make. That's my point.

And what if she wants it for herself and he doesn't? Then we come here to call the man irresponsible?

Like it said, both have equal say in what happens.

pocohantas:


Lol. It is one-sided when you guys are advised to walk the talk? But you people can stay online all day running your wide mouths on surrogacy and babymama. Give him your sister na. At least she would follow your own advice to be his babymama. Nkapi.

Lol. Between you and I, it's obvious who's running their mouth waaaaaa online.

I'm sure you're the exact opposite of what you rant every time online. It's just a matter of time. Continue shining rants to lots of naive young girls who don't know that the world is just black, white and gray...never colorful.

loswhite:
Are you ok? So why do want her to have a baby? If she has a baby won't that destroy her own chances of getting married? You no get sense ni?

You wey get sense...I'm asking you...must I marry her before she can have kids?

If your sense tells you yes, then OK. If it tells you no then OK.

Use your own sense wey you get WELL...

purples25:


If your point is that we cannot find that here, then you can see a very good reason why more women are kicking against becoming baby Mama's. No woman wants to be a disgrace abeg.

If an unmarried woman has a child, she has really tried, because the stigma no be here.

How about women who get pregnant to hitch a guy?

My point has been that not all women want to get married and then have kids. Some women just want kids and do not want the drama that comes with marriage. Some women also would love to have kids and then marry. So it's not always as we think it is.

Also, you must not be married before having kids. Not everyone is religious and a lot of people, women inclusive just want a simple life sometimes defined by them.

It is the society, like you and I that creates that stigma of an irresponsible woman because she has kids and is not married and it could be her choice. Until you get to that stage or know someone whos in that situation, don't conclude

brosom:
She senses the increase in ur body vibration, ur tone and ur thrust pace to know when u re about to cum, but that ur girl wey dey only maon when u re about to come , well make I no talk wetin dey mind.

But for me if noticed she has mastered when I'm about to cum, I'll change Pattern of operation to trick and confuse her, that way you'll know when u re dating a girl and olosho.

Na a had core olosho dey fully know when a man is about to come because Dem work with time.

Abeg no talk o

Mynd44:
They asked women question, men dey answer.


E be things ooo

sunboy:


No you do not have to be married to her.

And so you should not force her to be a single mother.

Great...

But I'm not forcing her even if I'm okay to be a single dad.

My point is, both have an equal say in what happens to the child.

purples25:


Yes, it's a must, to keep the woman respectable, and also for a stable home for the children.

It is a must to marry, else the woman becomes an unhappy unwanted creature that every man will shun, calling her baby mama. Without marriage, how can you boldly hold a man to child support? You think any woman wants to have a child while the father jumps around with different women? By that, wetin she gain? Abeg o.

Hmmmm....

So if we take a survey here on nairaland we will find married women who are respectable and in a very stable home, who are happy wanted creature that every man will not shun, calling her mummy this and that?

mastermaestro:


Whistleblower? Go and sleep jor! Father of what? Illegitimate children are one of the reasons the world is upside down presently. If he wanted a child so badly, getting married would have been the sensible thing to do, not having a baby through scam to the detriment of another person’s daughter.

Do you know what it means to wear the baby mama badge? I wish you would know it by experience when deceitful destructive boys like the op turn your female children into baby mamas.

I see that married couples always have perfect children

OkoAnike:



She has everything to defend the act, If she says that the pregnancy come down on it own what will you say, haven't you seen or heard people loosing pregnancy before... which ever way you go, it's a lost battle and again what did you stand to gain, the baby is gone what is left is trouble and agony with Police wahala and you know nothing go free with Police... All in all I wish you well. Regards

Chai...na to just move on my brother...

dazzlingd:


He will go to jail for impregnating a girl or I don't understand

Me sef follow you no understand o

ovieigho:



You need a child ?

Go and get married na ?

You think you can tie her down with that pregnancy and turn her to ‘baby mama’

They saw the unserious-ness in you …

Married before I have a child?

What if I get married and could not have children in that marriage and I do wish to have one? I'll keep marrying?

ViceGovernor:
Op just poison her codedly and everyone will blame it on the abortion.
She must be mad why did she murder the child.

God knows if any woman kills my child after we've agreed to keep it she will follow it to the grave

Easy na on the poision

loswhite:
He wants the girl to give him a child and yet he cannot go and do the needful.
Who will marry the girl after you have turned her to baby mama?

What needful?

Pay her bride price and marry her? Then it turns out later they are not compatible and we begin to read about daily domestic abuse?

harlems02:
Her papa suppose arrest you for impregnating her daughter.

Mtcheeew!

Is this also a crime for impregnating someone's adult child?

AmazonTopaz:

They said he should report, report to who how can he prove it?

Haba....simple na..

purples25:


If you don't think of that woman's future, she would think of it herself. If you are the woman, in her shoes, will you have a baby for a guy that hasn't married you, will you carry a big belly up and down while all enemies and friends laugh at you? Will you like to be the subject of all ridicule for YEARS?! Just imagine it was you.

Then tell me you will see the guy that put you through all this and you won't feel somehow.

Haba, I have seen unmarried couples looking for children.

And besides when two people in a relationship have unprotected sex, are they not agreeing to whatever happens?

Why do you always think it's all about you the woman?

And I'm asking also, must every woman be married before having kids?

pocohantas:


He wants child na. Fatherhood dey sweet them die. Yet they can’t respect the vessels of this gift. See mouth like I want a baby. They would learn the hard way that only a woman knows when she wants to be a mother and which man she wants to be the father.

He should go pay for surrogacy. Shebi women are useless and they don’t want female kids. Ndi ala!

Na so una dey spread one sided false narrative.

I pity a whole lot of young women who follow these sort of advice.

purples25:
Who do you want to walk around with a huge belly and no ring? Eh? You will just sit in one corner and be coming to see your child while she bears all the disgrace, scars, and discrimination.

Na wa o.

Must I be married to get pregnant again?

sunboy:


Yes you do after you agree that it’s not a “me” thing.

Then she will be carrying the “our” baby for 9 months which will change her life forever.

For a man that has not married her but instead casually fornicating with.

But baba, must I be married to her?

If its our baby, I believe we should both have equal say in what happens next na.

And is fornicating a bad thing?

JBriel:


Can you prove the pregnancy to begin with ?


If she aborted, can you prove the aborted foestis is yours ?

If she says she had multiple partners, can you prove it wasn't another who got her pregnant ?

Can you prove she didn't have a miscarriage and it was an abortion?

You just displayed your joblessneee you poor urchin

What right do you have? Is she married to you. Or has a foetus been scientifically proven to be a child.

You really need a child but can't put a ring on it and have her properly married. You're a big full with this mindset looking for naive females to prey on, Jaguar

Carry your sexual predatory, lust and sexual escapades to hell plz

Habaa

sunboy:


You’re too entitled, you said “my” pregnancy like say na only you put an there.

First correct yourself, it’s “our” pregnancy cos it’s a collective effort.

Secondly, No you cannot sue her, it’s her body. She decides what she wants with her body. She’s not your legal wife, you folks were just casually fornicating.

Ring her first before looking for a baby… too many baby mamas out there abeg Nigerian government no dey give child support o.

If its our pregnancy, don't I also have a say even if its her body?

elantraceey:
If you need a child then get married. You want the fruit of matrimony but don't want to participate in it.

Must you be married before having children?

Misterone:
yeah call me all the names. If you can go to upper iweka, nkpor junction, Owerri road, Vinas, or ukpor at night then I will vote Peter Obi. The insecurity in Anambra state is something else. By 8pm you can hardly see anyone outside. That aside, Anambra is the dirtiest place in Nigeria. Corruption is something else. The hold up at site junction can be as long as a mile just because the state traffic warden want to collect money from motorist. Driving one-way is a normal thing. All you need is your N200. The amount of deaths and kidnapping in Anambra is more than that of sambisa forest.

Is it the fault of Peter Obi?

TooNoisy:
Peter Obi invested $30million of Anambra State money in his father's company. Please tell me how this is right Nd what has happened to the investment now?

https://saharareporters.com/2019/01/30/peter-obi-questioned-why-he-invested-30m-state-funds-company-where-his-family-owns-shares

This is verified and he has admitted it. I havent seen any other governor that has gone this low. You call Tinubu a thief but he invested Lagos State money in Econet and made huge profits for Lagos state

Peter Obi literarily took Anambra State money and invested in family business.please who does that in a sane climate. That was one of the reasons he was impeached.

And before you respond to me, please go and do a thorough research about BLIND TRUST

TooNoisy:
Peter Obi invested $30million of Anambra State money in his father's company. Please tell me how this is right Nd what has happened to the investment now?

https://saharareporters.com/2019/01/30/peter-obi-questioned-why-he-invested-30m-state-funds-company-where-his-family-owns-shares

This is verified and he has admitted it. I havent seen any other governor that has gone this low. You call Tinubu a thief but he invested Lagos State money in Econet and made huge profits for Lagos state

Peter Obi literarily took Anambra State money and invested in family business.please who does that in a sane climate. That was one of the reasons he was impeached.

Please relax. If you don't have valid reasons why Obi should not be president, please stop boldly spreading false information everywhere.

He was impeached but reinstated. Just stop with the lies. I'm not supporting Obi and still I can't begin to open threads writing false information about him

TooNoisy:


There is a difference between a global company trading in a country and its Nigerian entity. The foreign entity owns some shares and ther is Nigerian ownership as well. Due to local content restrictions and to have Nigerians on the board, share are given to Nigerians as well.

The local entity is partly owned by Peter Obi's family and he never denied it. Some of those guys just don't have any education.

The local entity is part owned by Obi's family and he invested $30million of Anambra State money in that company. That is clear conflict of interest and he was impeached for that offence.

And was reinstated by the court. So the impeachment should not have been done in the first place