₦airaland Forum

D father must be buhari. Na so he de treat Nigerians

Acidosis:
Actually, I don't trust people who hire young/teenage girls in the name of "help" or "training".


A househelp should be treated like any other employee (driver, gateman, PA, manager, marketer, etc.). It is a job, and the mode of payment is MONEY (like I mentioned earlier, ankara is not a legal tender). A young girl who cannot bargain her Salary/Wage should never be hired for any form of JOB. It is called SLAVERY.

Dear stop seeing it in dat view. No body is hiring anybody. Most at times they are related to either d madam or Oga and sometimes they are coming for help (as in, training them in school and so on) but its unfortunate dat some wicked people maltreat them.

APC !!! ------ Hunger

Acidosis:
Iffahear say you love someone else's pikin more or same way you love your blood. There are certain things and sacrifices you can only make for your son/daughter.

Meanwhile, let's get this straight, training another man's son/daughter is completely different from hiring a maid.

The question is: how many people adopt these kids for the purposes of training ONLY?

Concerning ur first paragraph I know u won't believe so lets 4get it.

I understood what u said but some good people takes in someone's child, treat him or her well, train him/her in school etc. not allowing such a child to indulge in any house hold chore is child abuse because u are training him/her to be lazy. Dat girl in dat pics is up to 7 and if she is my biological daughter I think its not bad for her to at least know how to wash plates and carry my hand bag.( I said this because some are crying dat the girl may be helping her madam do little things) when it will be wrong now, is if I try to over labour her or maltreat her in anyway. Since I won't like to spoil or maltreat my own child I won't do dsame to someone's child.


In conclusion, please if u know dat u won't treat ur house help (although I don't fancy house help stuff ) well 4get about having any but if u can take good care of him/her I don't see anything wrong with dat.

abbeyboy2o15:
Did you saw my message madam kirikiri.

Did u saw? Cha!! God have mercy

Acidosis:
Again, the craze about househelps won't end in this country.

Treat your house help the same way you would treat your employees.

Take it or leave it, YOU cannot love your house help more than your FAMILY. No employer loves his employees more than his family. My family comes first over any house help, PA or manager. In fact buy them (househelp & your children) same ankara, deep down, we all know who you LOVE more.

The only thing we should fight against is CHILD LABOUR. Any adult should be free to take any house help job and be proud about it, the same way graduates proudly carry the 'PA' title. If you want to work, WORK! Do not expect your employer to love you more than his family (I WON'T). And to the employees, PA, or Househelp, you have a family too, love them more over your job. Do not kill yourself over a job, if you receive bad treatments, RESIGN.

Enough on the house help craze already. Nobody will love anybody more than himself/herself. Do your job, and get paid, mess up and GO!

The earlier we see HOUSEHELP as a JOB, the easier it will be to get over this hypocritical disposition to a normal, usual and paid job.


Meanwhile, I STRONGLY condemn CHILD LABOUR. What I see here is CHILD Labour, if she isn't related to you in anyway, ADOPT her legally or employ an adult who IS READY TO WORK & GET PAID.

Ankara is not the reward for a job well done. Pay an adult MONEY and let him/her decide on what to do with the payment.

Hahahahahah u people can make nonsense comments eee. Take it or leave it some children are more responsible if they are trained by someone else. Believe me there are some people who can love someone's child dsame way they love their own kids.( Eg I) its a thing of hrt. Not everybody is wicked and hrtless as u think.



What is not acceptable in my sight and in d sight of God is maltreating ur ward (house help, errand boy bla bla bla etc.) Some parents die when their kids are too tender, ( may dat Neva be our portion in Jesus name) are u now saying people shouldn't take them into their homes or what?

Congrats dear. May God bless ur family more.

Dat old man, 19 years?

Anyway dats not d issue they should continue

Hmmmmmmmmm
Imagine!!!

Hahahahahaha. They will also service his Engen




Una Neva see something

Y calling her Albino? U sure say u love her?

kossyablaze:
I rather die... Than not testing bae b4 I marry her... Virgin or no virgin

u rather die abi? Pls do watch ur language

What are u guys typing sef? I mean people dat said both of them will cheat, For what kwanu? Unless d love is not there. I can't cheat on my hubby as long as he is alive and we both are communicating.

mizzbouqui:
Sis I've been in a relationship where we didn't had sex
But I could tell that can satisfy me in bed (I won't share that)
I just want you to know that, a man satisfying his woman on bed is not all about sex

Clarify urself dear. When u talk of satisfaction in bed, it means having sex or romance till d person reach orgasm. If am wrong correct me with good and clear instance/s. I think dat point is irrelevant when u are claiming u are into no sex/no romance relationship

Oooooooo some people sef, please Op, if actually dat girl is very comfortable in ur sister's house as she looks good in those pics, definetly ur sister is trying and should pls continue in dat manner. Don't mind those hypocrites dat are everywhere typing trash. Most of them don't understand d predicament of some children born into poor homes where they turn into prostitutes and arm robbers out of faustrations.

duduade:
Matured pictures

Congrats

Oga nofin like " matured" pls its Mature

Abeg who won?

I vote fynestboi


Cc Nljega

olaniyi0:
where is ambode?

Are u okay?

I vote KINGINVAHALA



Cc Nljega

Hbd sweet girl llnp.

Oh my God!!! I tap from their blessings in Jesus name. Amen!!!!

I vote KINGINVAHALI



Cc NL jega

Omohjick:
Must u question him b4 u'll know he's sick?

Ignored!!!

CXLVII:
God bless His Excellency, President Mohammadu Buhari


God bless The Federal Republic of Nigeria

Are u well at all?

Buhari, which way? #1=$1. I laugh in congo

God please Neva allow such to come near my kids but if any fool try such evil against my little child. I must kill him or her and go to jail. Mad people everywhere

onatisi:
Very good. They should also impose tax on dead bodies in the morgue.

Hahahahahahahaha

mylife2019:
no I pass through it . bad English doesn't means I am bad at studying thanks for your input .

OK dear, UWC