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RoyalRoy: Great analysis

cc150615: one lollipop sweet for u,

op That's all the answer u need

Thanks!

BananaBender: Ehen! This is where I am really going.

The opposite of married is single, right?? LOL!

If marriage (good marriage) can be seen as an achievement, that automatically translate to the fact that an upgrade was made.
You took a step higher.......but from where?? Singleness!

This is not about SINGLE VS MARRIED!
Don't try to make it so!
They are 2 different levels!
Neither an upgrade or a downgrade.
They are 2 SEPARATE categories!

BananaBender: Even if you tell people that your goal is to be single, and you're doing a damn good job at that. No one says Congratulations like they do when you say I'm getting married.

They(single, married) kinda, sorta, have this inherent comparison. Youdon' can't separate the two.

Only in a poverty-stricken environment. . . where ignorance reigns supreme.
You don't owe anyone any explanation on how you choose to live your life.
When you start explaining. . . .you are feeling insecure and lack self-confidence!

BananaBender: If my friend had listed getting married as an achievement in a different context, where we were comparing our mutual friend's marriage to another person's marriage, then it would hv made sense. She mentioned the change in status as the achievement. I just can't see why the change in relationship status should be an achievement even if she has the best husband in the world. That's somewhat controversial.

That is your friend's opinion. . .she is entitled to it!
You stick with yours.
Life is never a competition.
It has nothing to do with feminism!

Some women nor get shame I swear!
The reason they will remain single for life!
Miserable bytch!
Na anoda woman home she wan spread her winchcraft waka come?

He stated, urging the large crowd to stand and pray with holy anger:

Holy anger indeed!
This is a private matter and he did not have to bring it to his congregation.
Tacky!

*he looks like a dehydrated frog.. . . .he ain't even cute*

BananaBender: Just to make sure I get you....



So in this scenario, is it the catch of a supportive husband that is the achievement?? Wouldn't that translate to the fact that women that haven't caught a supportive/good husband are unfulfilled or somewhat less improved than those have?

No comparison between a married woman/man and a single woman/man.

Between a miserable married woman/man and a fulfilled married woman/man. . . . . Yes!
A good marriage with teamwork is always an accomplishment, compared to those who have FAILED to achieve that!
Not all marriages are healthy!
Ask those who are in BONDAGE MARRIAGES where there are second-class citizens in their own homes!

BananaBender: So, to you it is based on preference. If one wants to be single, being just that along with productivity and happiness makes them an achiever. On the other hand, if your goal is to be married, getting married to a supportive husband or a "good" husband is the achievement?

ABSOLUTELY!

A content single person is always better than a miserable single person!

YOU CAN NEVER COMPARE A MARRIED PERSON TO A SINGLE PERSON. . . FEMINIST OR NOT.
Their experiences can NEVER BE THE SAME.
They do not face the same challenges.

Feminists or not. . . a woman has the same basic needs. . . JUST LIKE A MAN DOES!

Women of course.
Because they are more desperate and never think they deserve better. . .all because of the need to be loved!

Never!
We don't believe in such things!
We just go out and work hard to get what we need or want!
Simple!

Have a good support system!

That means you need some help with self-management.
It is a lot easier to smile than frown!

Feminists do not see marriage as an achievement.
We only see GOOD MARRIAGES TO SUPPORTIVE HUSBANDS AS AN ACHIEVEMENT!
Big difference.

Marrying a cow IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT!

Being single is not an achievement.
Being single, happy and productive in life is an achievement.
Big difference!
Being single and spreading misery all over the world because of depression is not an achievement!

Fucck: Kanwulia's dad wasn't strict, we was lovely & caring though he died in 2010.
Kanwulia was devastated because of her father's death.

Who is this ijjjiot?
Please, I have noticed you.
Die in pieces!

*ID to ignore list*

dayosaurus: Not all are the same, nd not all take out their frustrations on their kids... Mmine was never rich but took us his children has his friends. if you see me discussing football teams with mmy dad u go laff, but there was a line n when u cross that line.. You urself would be beating yourself before he beats..... Me will never forget my pman

I did not state 'all'. . . did I?
Abeg make una dey read posts before una begin dey quote others!
Thanks in advance!

Fucck: Douche bag...
what is phcn ??

Fucck: Kanwulia..
I have seen many of your type in New york.
Guess what, they just left Nigeria
WE don't make noise

*bored*

Next please. . . .

Fucck: When kanwulia's husband dies,mad men will take turn in lubricating her engine..

Arrrrrrrrrggggh!
You trust me ke.
Before the man die. . . I don become ambassador to Spain like Bianca ashawo Nnewi!
Na only 'krase' widow dey wait till im husband die to begin beg for rice and stew with assssssssssshawo work!
I for don 'tule' since!

Bianca for wait for Naija na. . .She for dey suck DEBE OJUKWU im blokos to train those her FFK children by now!
Mu che che che che che che

Fucck: Kanwulia, Are you high on paw paw leaves ??

E be like say PCHN don give una light for one hour for Nigeria!
Na you dey high on smelling the fart of EBOLA dead bodies in Nigeria!!!

turl: lmao allah you dey crase! Na who get 2 kobo blokos?

Nigerian men of course!
Nor be even beta blokos dem dey take chase these women!
Old man blokos!
PEDO-PHILES AND RA-PISTS OF AFRICA!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqG1PPkH_4Y

kristylopezz: u rilly hate ur 9ja men with passion. (dis is nt d 1st). Any personal experience? D'you mind sharing? If non please MELLOW DOWN biko!.

I nor hate Naija men o!
I hate the way they treat womlen and children!
Look at this rat deeeeeek in this story that tried to phock one widow because of 800 Naira?
Na so una lives be.
Personal experience ke. . . .I go kill the man first ke! Try moi!
I have none. . . the reason I boil with anger when I read SORDID stories like these!
Na your level be dat o!

Mellow down for wetin?
Sorry I can't. . . . No apologies!

ayukdaboss: Dumb bottom

I am sure you are the one that tried to phock one of those widows with a bowl of rice!
Ebola brain!
Go and die!
Stinking azzze!

kobonaire: Yet you are always plugged into NairaLand everyday without fail ... smh

Oh yes o!
At least I don't have to smell your funky azzzes on NL!
My choice!

Not capable of such emotions as jealousy or envy.
There is nothing you may have that may interest moi.
I gatz mine!
I was raised to be CONTENT with whatever I have. . . .and whatever I don't have. . .I MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT NEED!

Envy and jealousy can only apply to the materially/spiritually poverty-stricken!
Or those who worship their JEALOUS GOD!
Ta!

A waste of calories!

Meanwhile another 2011 study, done in the Netherlands, revealed benign envy as a powerful motivational force. Researchers at Tilburg University discovered that—compared with feelings of malicious envy and pure admiration—benign envy led students to dedicate more time to their schoolwork, and perform better on.

Only with the WHITE race. . . .

To suffocate them I am sure!
Hmmmmm!
I don't trust that they will take care of those patients with dignity!
Nigerians too wicked abegggggggggi!!!!

I will rather die at home!
Make them come quarantine me for my house abeg!
Instead of being burned alive in one 'MAKOKO' bush clinic!

[b][size=14pt]Oyetayo said the first person to make séxual advances at her was her late husband’s best friend.[/size]

“He was my husband’s best man during our wedding. Just one month after my husband died, he came to me and asked me how I would be able to pay the rent and my two children’s school fees. Before I could even answer him, he said he was available and he would give me anything I wanted as long as I slépt with him.

“Apart from him, I have had several other advances from men even till tomorrow. But I know myself, I don’t intend to mess up and I will always be focused,” she said.

But Aganbi recalled that she actually went out with some of the men simply because she needed to eat and get extra food for her children.

“I remember a man that met me one day that I was crying. He asked me what was wrong with me and I told him I needed N800 for my kids’ food and transportation to school the following day. He gave me the money but also suggested I follow him to a hotel because he wanted to “take me out.”

[size=20pt]“While at the restaurant, he ordered for chicken and rice. I devoured my rice and even asked for more. They brought it and the man went to the reception to ‘arrange’ for room. I quickly told him I was going to urinate and I took off with the rice. That was what my children ate that night,” she said.


Oyewole said that most men primarily want to sleép with widows and perhaps, take advantage of them.


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OMO! SEE GOBE!!! ORIGINAL GOBE!!!! AYAKATAAAA!!!! Kei!!!!!
Trust NAIJA men now.
Sickening creatures!!!! Twa!!!!
Dem go phock shegey comot from your azzze for a 'bowl' of rice!!!



The reason I work hard! Widow or no widow o. . . .DEM NOR GO SEE MY BREAK-LIGHT!
I will NEVER ALLOW ANY NIGERIAN NIGGA to take advantage of moi.
I will never live in such a USEEEEEEEEELESS COUNTRY called Nigeria!!!!

All men wanno do is take advantage of women with their 2-2 kobo kpomo blokoses!

LWKMD!!!
Is this s joke?
Na wetin I dey read so?
So these women nor dey use dem fingers 'mast--ur--bate'?
Abi nor be to shout 'oooooo aaaaaaah'. . . .SQUEEEEEEEEZE BOBBY AND "CLITO" weh-weh. . . .SMELL MY FINGERS PUT FOR MOUTH . . . .then wear pant go sleep be the main tin?
I sabi dat wan well well o!
YEYE WOMEN!
Shioooooor!!!!

‘I sewed up my vag-ina’
But a female catechist of a Catholic Church in Lagos, Mrs. Maria-Rose Aganbi, claimed she has not slépt with a man since her husband died 21 years ago and might never in her lifetime

“When I feel the urge, I run to the church. The first few years I lost my husband, I would always go to the church to sweep it. I will listen to the radio. At times, my kids would not be around, they would go back to school. I don’t even have a maid. But I will manage,” she explained.

“I managed to live a life of chastity for three years. I am a human being and I am young. I had to get into a relationship so that I don’t jump from one bed to another. My husband’s death was painful. He died in a motor accident and it has not been easy. For a woman to stay and have nobody to ‘lubricate’ her is not easy at all. I will not lie and tell you that I have not slept with any man since my husband died.”

Na which kain LOCAL women be all these?

Well, mine was strict.
They are all the same. Taking out their frustrations on their children for being children.
But I now understand that like MANY OTHER AFRICAN PARENTS. . . he was just frustrated with life in NIGERIA.
Most of the 'strictness' you see in many parents is all about 'BROKE WEATHER'!
No pepper for pocket!

Poor things!
Na poverty. . . just pity them.
They need love.

But I was VERY CLOSE TO MY DAD . . . even more than my mom. . . .10/10!!!!!

priest2u: please can you stop commenting nonesense everywhere, you are so insensitive and you will give accounts of every word you are speaking here someday. Not every everything should be joke about .smh
@op it well with you, you will be fine . You've made mistake in the choice of a partner but thank God you are alive and have the opportunity to make it right the next time.Take good care of your kid and due time God will surely visit you.

Who is this attention-seeker?
Who is joking here?

IJIIIIIIOT!!!!
Make mouth like 'GOD'S TIME THIS. . .YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE IN THE CHOICE OF PARTNER. . . yen-yen-yen-yen-yen!
LOCAL TOUT!
Can you please make your contributions, no matter how daft!
You don't have to quote me.
Thanks!

Why na so-so UNCOMPLETED building full Nigerian wedding pictures?

Marriage nor be jail sentence or life term!
IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU SEE. . . LEAVE!
No need to come to NL to make noise!
Period!

Make I catch my phone for any man hand. . .HUSBAND OR NOT!
You go see wetin I go take your eye and nose smell that day!
Sheeeeeeeeeeesh!!!!

Me nor kia wetin dey for ya phone.
If you nor wan to marry. . .COMOT FOR MY HOUSE!
Simple!!!!

All these CONTROL FREAKS wey nor dey meihn dem bissness!

ANODA REDUNDANT TOPIC! Mtchew!

parrotibaba: u d form badoo abi ? u sure had smtin dat scared d Ebola out of u

Form badooo for disease?
These parasites nor fear you?
Everyone knows Ebola is deadly.
But how it EATS the human body is SCARY!

A Northerner was not the VP!
Now SAMBO has the chance come 2015!
Una go gree stay for only 2 years?

So. . .wetin make we do?