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truthsayer009:
There should always be an avenue to return your kids back to Nigeria or their African if they have passports already. Nigeria is a safe space for kids to learn respect for at least one or two years before they return again.

This is something i take very important and that's why this Western enforcement of Nigeria accepting their form of Libéralism doesn't go well with me.

Take them back to Africa and let them learn.

I am super sure i can't be caught in this situation.

I thought about NIGERIA many times.
But ever since I saw that story of that beautiful Chidimma-KILLER, I had a rethink.
Her mother had not seen her since she was 10 or 11! Then surfaced on the news for killing a business man in a hotel room. Life imprisonment at 19 abi na 22?

Nigeria with the level of poverty there? Tufiakwa!

My niece is 20! Lives in Nigeria. She has been temporarily disowned by my brother till she is 25, married with her own kids.

Wetin she do?
She left medical school and went to camp in Oyakhilome’s church in Lagos. . . To be doing “ASHAWO-in-Christ” for dia! While in the cult, they BLOCKED ALL FAMILY MEMBERS PHONE #s from her phone. She refused to talk to any of us.
That was it. Her father, my brother has dashed her to the church. He has vowed not to have anything to do with her till she is 25. We have dashed her to her mother’s people!✅

1Sharon:
The kids get it from their friends or buy it with money they've saved up.

Thank you!
The kids have allowances ke.
Children start earning money for chores as from 10 years old. So they learn how to manage money and SAVE to buy birthday gifts for their friends.

Besides, no BAGA or MAGA will trick them to some dark alley to offer them $10 for turning tricks, because they don’t have money of their own.

NoToPile:


This woman ehn

Loool at parent in peace.

You have to be creative.
You know it gets to a stage you call the police and the lt ALREADY KNOW YOU BY YOUR FIRST NAME!

They will say “Hello “MISS LAURA”, are you calling about your “REPEAT OFFENDERS” again?

And I will reply: “YEP”!
Then they will say-“We are on our way”!

One day, the sent 4 HEAVY BLACK COPS to tackle 2 of them. The cops insulted the children ehn? Shegeeeeey!

The children told them I threatened to SHOOT them!

I told them YES! In self defense.
I told them I would not hesitate to gun them down if they show up in MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE UNINVITED. They can reach me via phone or landline intercom.✅

1Sharon:
Ha! You mean they aren't eating fruit either?

Did she learn from having to go to the ER?

Growing up I was never given more than 2 snacks a day.

Even as an adult I feel guilty when I overindulge.

Fruits ke! Dem go feed am to the dog and make it poop all over the house with diarrhea ke! You will now start running to the VET to cure the dog! More wahala for you.

Or they will flush it down the toilet and BLOCK the whole sewer system! Another $500 bucks to cough out!✅

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

1. NEVER-NEVER-NEVER leave marks on your kids when you spank them. If you leave marks on their bodies, YOU ARE A GONNER!✅

Tell them to open their hands and spank them on their PALMS. Good luck with that, because they will refuse to open their palms and will proceed to running ALL OVER THE HOUSE. You will have a stroke chasing them from room to room.

I wait till they are sleeping, lock the door and the shows begins!✅

1Sharon:
Ha.

On a real note sis, limit what she eats.

If she looks like this now, it's only gonna get worse as she gets older.

Na your own you dey talk o!
See what I find in her room almost EVERY DAY!

One day we ended up in the ER!
Severe constipation. They had to go in and dig out a lot of POO! To drink water nko?

If you cook, they will just wrap the food in plastic bag and straight to the NEIGHBORS’ trash! :

Na you go taya ke!

Rotten food everywhere. So I wait till 3:00AM wake them alll up to start cleaning. Shikena!

1Sharon:
Right. Looking at her picture, not surprised seeing her. She does look alot older for her age.

Girls who matured much earlier were the ones who wanted to look grow beyond their years with revealing clothing and make-up. If your daughter was a tomboy or a late bloomer. She'll have wanted to look like a child for much longer.

This one is an over-bloomer! She is bigger than most 17 year olds. With make up, she looks 18!

Her shoes are already SIZE 10!

Highly fallacious!

OP, please work on your grammar.
Your command of the English language and literary skills leave much to be desired..

Nairaland rule # 21 abeg!

Ohhhhh!
My darling GREAT UNIBEN VC!
Salute!

Tribute from 1984 - 1988 set!❤️

Even if zoned to the East, the East will still lose! Is zoning the problem? Where is the support?

I guess Spaghetti is from Spain?

Bia OP? How many issues do you have in this one post?
I counted like 50!
Na only you waka kam?

Only in Nigeria for sure.
In this day and age?’
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew!

Not again. . .

See wahala o?

They must have some “BIG BIG ENERGY”!

baby124:
They fit watch and no mean they understand the implications or consequences. That is where you step in.

Like I have control over that one.
See dem for bus stop ke! They will gather and start “watching crrrrrrap” on their phones.

They may not understand, but the mind is a terrible thing to waste.

The next thing you know- they will start practicing. We do a lot of educating.
That’s the best you can do.✅

I will always snoop on their phones when they are sleeping sha! I don’t want any future surprises.

Birds and bees talk kwa?
For children were dey watch LGBTQ PORRRRN on CHRISTMAS MORNING? As in 12:00AM sharp?

I dey laff!

@1Sharon

Back to that 11 y/o boy.
The mother complained that while she was at work, the little boy was SELLING IGBO- marijuana from her mail box!
She called the police and had him ARRESTED!✅
They took him straight to a psych ward.
She was gonna kill him ke. So she just called the police instead.


Some people got a hold of him via TIk Tok and made him their “drug mule”!

I started receiving all kinds of packages from FedEx, Amazon, EBay and God knows where else. I warned all the children that if they order ANYTHING without my permission, I will confiscate it.✅

Yes! You call the police on your kids before they call the police on JHUOOO!
Let them start having a JUVVY RECORD WITH THE STATE- push it back to them.

Now, juvvy records are sealed for ONLY TWO YEARS, till you as a parent decide to seal it PERMANENTLY!

If you DO NOT SEAL the juvvy record permanently, there are grave consequences for that unfortunate child.

As a child? The record follows you to adulthood.✅

1. You can’t join the army, navy or military.
2. No government scholarships or federal school loans.
3. The background check will have red flags for job applications.

Beremx:
good evening Auntie Kanwulia. Longest time and how are you doing? Trust you are good.

@topic, when we were growing up as teenagers during our time, who born you to wear skimpy clothes? Who even will buy for you? There was a lot of discipline by our parents.
Children of these days no dey hear word both home and abroad. The social media has worsened everything by interfering in their upbringing. Abeg hold your daughter wella. No mind the yeye police people

Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke.
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me?

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh?

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out.

No one wants to call police any more o!
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE!

1Sharon:
Both of you in a way since you're supposed to be a team. Where did she get the clothes or money to buy them from?
You said she loved to dress provocatively, so it's something you let slide for a while.


I understand it's not easy, as a 13 year old, she doesn't get it. As an adult, she probably gets it now, I do aswell. Think back to when you were 13, she thought she was grown because her curves were coming in. Young girls who were allowed to dress however and act however were the type to have boyfriends too early and get pregnant while still a teen.

Well the police seems to agree with you so they left, you're lucky it could have gone left, they could have kicked down the door accuse you of sexual assault.

Is the pic your daughter at 13?

Let me let you know how fast these little boys and girls can be IF YOU DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO EVERY DETAIL.

1. Girls can suck **** to make money!✅
There are reports of 10 year olds having ****-sucking competitions in school bathrooms and behind school buses FOR MONEY!✅

2. I did not assault anyone. The police were infringing on my parental rights and thought they could intimidate me.

3. Yes! That little lady is 13!✅
We went to a kid’s party one day, before I knew what was happening, she had mascara and lipstick on. One DUDE called me and ask why I let her out of the house like that. I said I didn’t. She just went to the bathroom and did it. I totally ignored her. She wanted me to make a scene in public. I did not fall for it.

When we got home, we suspended her phone and electronic privileges for SIX MONTHS!✅

This is a STRAIGHT As student. We are talking TWO GRADE CLASSES above her age. But she wanno hang with the big girls! Some spoiled, rich white kids in their school are teaching them about “independence”!


I was a teenager in Nigeria, not in the US. We did not have such latitude.

This is the age of Snapchat and Tik Tok. You can’t compare.

Example:

I worked at a psych facility last year.
One 11 y/o boy was sent there by his mother or aunt/guardian. Guess what he was doing?

1Sharon:
Both of you in a way since you're supposed to be a team. Where did she get the clothes or money to buy them from?
You said she loved to dress provocatively, so it's something you let slide for a while.


I understand it's not easy, as a 13 year old, she doesn't get it. As an adult, she probably gets it now, I do aswell. Think back to when you were 13, she thought she was grown because her curves were coming in. Young girls who were allowed to dress however and act however were the type to have boyfriends too early and get pregnant while still a teen.

Well the police seems to agree with you so they left, you're lucky it could have gone left, they could have kicked down the door accuse you of sexual assault.

I don’t think you understand the mindset of teenagers. You can only talk. They will do what they want to do. If you react, you are giving them the greatest satisfaction.

They have been educated MANY TIMES. . . . Children wey dey buy dem own clothes ONLINE? Welcome to “the new age”!


You don’t know in this day and age children can get money from friends or sell some of their stuff?

You can talk till your voice is gone, I choose ACTION only.

First, I change their schools or call the cops on them. Simple.✅

Second! Next! I only work from home! Thank MY GOD!✅

Otherwise, garri for don swallow mami wota tey tey! ONE PARENT HAS TO STAY HOME o! Good news! Working from home is an option.

Finally! Get a dog! Everybody coming near this house will think TWICE- including THE POLICE!✅

Shokoloko:
The typical African parent is a bully. Children are beaten and tortured for no reason.
Children are beaten up for not understanding her schoolwork, Children are beaten up for getting sexually molested, Children are beaten up for crying from the previous beaten, Children are beaten up for not answering quickly enough, Children are beaten up for daring to have a different point of view.

In your example, how can a man and wife (two people) hit, tackle to the ground and beat the crap out of a 15 year old. Like 2 people to one person? Even if she was an adult and not their daughter, two people to one is an unfair situation.

What Nigerians and Africans refuse to learn is that violence destroys a country. See how all the violent countries are experiencing reduced GDP compared to those that are not. Africans will continue to create and breed monsters.

It will be very easy for a 15 year boy to rape and beat up a 6 year old child because he has been beaten to the point of trauma he feels its not a big deal, his mother's has beaten the house help to stupor, and his father has beaten his mother to stupor so violence is a part of life.

*Clarification:THE DAUGHTER TACKLED THE MOM TO THE FLOOR LIKE A PRO-WRESTLER and was beating the MOM! Not the other way round.


Now, your cases are quite EXTREME!
Not the norm in the Western world.
Beating kids has ABSOLUTELY ZERO effect for the better. You only prove you have anger- management issues or are frustrated with your stressful life.

There is a MAJOR difference between ABUSE and DISCIPLINE.

If you truly love your children, you will discipline them WITHOUT ABUSING THEM!

Many PARENTS do not know the difference because they were victims themselves!

1Sharon:
I'm sorry I'm your daughter is dressing provocatively at 13, isn't that a highlight of your parenting?

And what if she got raped while she was outside in just her underwear?

Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house?
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL?

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” in this complex. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers roaming aimlessly around here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno commit crime? You see anybarry dey waka with leg for hia? Before you reach here 50 neighbors don snap you with RING camera. CCTV nko? Plus where everyone is FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck!

Yes ke!

Turn by turn!

Why is she so upset?
I don’t get it.

It is only when you die you will really know your loved ones.

See this SMELLING-APE-MOUTH.

Easy to preach what you can’t do.
9 years of confusion and wastage under your UGLY AZZZZZE!



Baba-EWU!

All hail the king of BABY MAMMAS!

AFONJAZZZZZZY!!! :

Yes o!
Just as the MILLIONS politicians kill daily with mis-governance.

Nigerians cry everyday.

So take it as you see it.

Death will come for us all. It was his time to go.

The real TRUTH and NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!

Nigerian politicians are WORSE THIEVES!

When all of dem don join tey tey.