Rubbish! For your info. I am from Edo State and love SOME of the rich culture of Edo State I don’t know what you think of this dirty Benin Kingdom sef! Small joke from Bob Risky and the Oba is now a “god”?
MaxInDHouse: You got it right about my parents, they weren't and never cared to be Christians. But as for me let me hint you on what being a Christian means then think about me once again. I was a Muslim and i love to see a world where everyone will be at peace with one another but it seems impossible because throughout the whole world most people are selfish, greedy and self-centered. So i opted for atheism. But atheists only talk about problems they don't think of any solution. That's why i became open minded trying to see if there are people like me in this world. When i first come in contact with Jehovah's Witnesses their beliefs sounds so heretic to me because it doesn't correlate with any of the teachings i've heard in the past. Then i thought within myself "if i don't listen how am i going to find what i'm looking for?" That's why i allowed them, at first i ran away after discovering they're the one and only true believers in Jesus Christ but i later came back and joined them because there is no other group of people practicing what Jesus taught!
I like the fact that you have been embarking on a “spiritual pilgrimage”.
Any time anyone tells me one religion is the ONLY TRUE BELIEVING MEDIUM, I pause and take a stop back. I have only tried to practice Christianity and only fooled myself. As for attempting to understand or join Islam, HELL will freeze over first. ✅
I really am weary of “imported” religions.
When you look around Africa as a whole, one thing is certain. The people and the “gods” they serve are not communicating.
No matter what religion, Africans remain spiritually-retrogressive.
Look at the ways WE LIVE AND RELATE TO EACH OTHER? A total failure. Of what use is your religion when it does not show in your lives or environment?
MaxInDHouse: Well if the answer to all these is NOor you're not sure then your parents were never followers of Jesus of Nazareth so they weren't Christians!
I think I already established this EMPIRICAL FACT. The answer is NO.. Neither are you nor your parents. We were only good at “faking Christianity”! Satan was also versed in quoting the scriptures.✅
descarado: They will bond. Its not her fault. The same way children bond with absentee fathers. The void is there. As for ffk, he wasn't smart at all. Precious is from my place. Our tradition says if your wife is impregnated by another man while married to you, that child belongs to you. But here, ffk didn't pay pride price. So the customary law is not holding. The constitution of Nigeria will make him her husband yet he didn't do court marriage. The worst is that 6yrs living with him, no sex. What is ffk fighting for actually. Its a lost battle, I tell you. Very dumb man. Precious is the smart one here. Just time and patience.
That's why he refused dna. I don't pity him
At first I never wanted to comment on this matter as I was so angry with that lady but after informations started coming out, I know she knew what she was doing when odds turned against her. Her family were in it too. If not, he would have paid pride price at least.
I really do not care about PC or FFK. Once you have had children together, you are spiritually-married for LIFE!✅
The children are my only concern. PC will make a better single-parent than FFK. I’d rather them grow up in PC’s family than CFK’s checkered family background.
Chances of the boys having another loving father with PC is higher than being raised with a mentally-unstable degenerate like FFK who cannot keep a woman at home.✅
Kobojunkie: I too asked myself similar questions some years ago, and it was only after a very long period of careful consideration that I realized that I needed to apply the right standard when judging who is a Christian and who isn't- Pagan.
Christians, like your average Pagans, are humans and as such ▪︎ Have propensity for good and evil but they chose to do good works, this in direct obedience of God's laid out commandments which are documented in the Gospel teachings of Jesus Christ- the books of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. ▪︎They are subject to the same socioeconomic, medical and emotional vulnerabilities. This because they are in this world, however,they are not brought down by these because they are not of this world. ▪︎definitely, every Christian is born and so will die - either a natural or unnatural death. This, a fact!
However what makes a Christian different from a pagan is that ■ Christians are called to Live their existence in complete submission to and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, God's New Covenant, which are rules meant to redeem them as men from God's curse on mankind, this since Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22
■ Christians are expected to become Sons of God, this as the continue to live their lives away from the curse, becoming vessels worthy of God's own Spirit and Truth to reside in - John 8 vs 31 & John 14 vs 15 - 25
■ Through complete submission and obedience to the Will of God - the teachings and command of Jesus Christ- and God's Truth and Law in the Kingdom of God, Christian individuals are expected to do the works that Jesus Christ did and more - John 14 vs 1 - 6
As for how to tell a Pagan from a Christian, there is only one way, and according to Jesus Christ, those who love Him are those who do as He asks .I.e. those who submit to and obey His teachings and His commandments, not to be confused with the doctrines and teachings of men(and their churches). - John 14 vs 15 - 25
Thanks Kobojee! Good to see you, my original NL-warrior! Welcome.
My sentiments exactly. Question for you. HAVE YOU EVER MET A TRUE CHRISTIAN?
I have NEVER met one! NOT ONE. All I see around me are PAGANS who keep making a mockery of CHRIST and CHRISTENDOM.
Dtruthspeaker: 1) Christians and not church goers, DO ONLY THE GOOD AND THE RIGHT. Others do only some good and great evil.
But, Christians (and not church goers) ONLY DO IN ABOUT 98-99% of the time, ONLY THE GOOD AND THE RIGHT!
2)THE WHOLE WORLD ATTACKS THEM CONTINUALLY. insulting them because of their Good Doing aka goody-goody and their easy propensity to do the good.
3) And always perpetually trying to stop them from doing The Good. ("I know no why you jus be like dis. Why you know jus do like everybody?"
4) And always selling to them the evil things that they should do ("you know dey see how Itoro fine wife dey look and gbadun you? Why you never give am face? You see her yansh and everything?.
The-evils aka D'evils Always Continually and Continuously Attack Christians and they do not do so to Others.
These are some of the major differences between a Christian and Others including Church goers!
5) AND IT IS ONLY THE CHRISTIAN WHO WILL TELL YOU TO YOUR FACE, THAT THE WICKEDNESS AND EVIL YOU ARE DOING OR HAVE DONE IS WICKED OR EVIL OR BAD (WHATEVER THE DEGREE OF IT) ANYTIME AND EVERYTIME YOU ASK HIM, WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT!
Correction!
It is the living who are examined, and not the dead!
Thus, another difference is when the Wicked and the-evil Die, there are shouts of Joy but when The Righteous Die, the whole earth mourns.
I am glad you were able to make the distinction between being a Christian and a church goer. One reason I gave up Christianity is that I never met ONE CHRISTIAN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. . . . Only church-goers.✅
This is not an attack on “Christians”. I only wanted to point out that there is really no difference between a “church-goer” and a PAGAN!
If you can’t be 100% like CHRIST, how can you call yourself a CHRISTIAN?
If we really had “CHRISTIANS” anywhere in AFRICA. . . . ? All we have are CHURCH-GOING-PAGANS!
That’s my point. Only making a philosophical statement. Think and express yourself objectively. Don't get personal.
Hiahn! We know what you can do ke! Who wan try you? Kpokpogri, Jane Mena and “Barby-Risky” still dey roast for barbecue pit. Dem still nor gree done o.
descarado: What that lady need is patience. Those boys will eventually be hers on the long run. Ffk already has age against him. For how long will he continue to fight? Children will follow their mama at age 18. Man isn't the father, no pride price, no court marriage. Haba.
Person wey hold piking property, when hand begin pain am, he will give pikin his property back. Pikin has to exercise patience and wait.
By 18?
Every day separated from the children makes her a stranger to them.
How can they bond with her when she was not part of raising them?
As boys, the fear is that they will become just as psychologically-damaged as FFK.
Any child FFK raises cannot be normal. The only reason his daughters are well-adjusted is because he did not raise them.
I see why PC (Precious Chikwendu) is concerned. What mother will be ok with house-helps raising her children when she is alive?
FFK is afraid that PC will do a DNA test on the boys and expose him to the world that they are not biologically related to him.
Remember PC said something to that effect?
If the DNA comes back with negative paternity status for FFK. GAME OVA! FFK will be without sons. Where will he start from again?
My favorite? Just to admire o, not interested in “harem life”. . . No matter the amount of fame, comfort and wealth.
I looooooove Oba Ewuare for many reasons.
1. Being from Edo state, I can identify with the culture. I understand the culture.
2. Oba Eheneden (given first name we called him in those days) ❤️ has his house in ORDER! No drama. He is in TOTAL control.✅
3. I know people he had dated in the past who had children for him. They can testify on his “SWAG”!
4. He is polished and lived abroad in his early days.
5. He is loved and respected by his people and vice versa!
6. He has such FINE TASTE in women. I mean CLEAN BABES! Not “TOKUNBO”-recycled Oloris( No shade intended please). He RESPECTS his women and treats them all WELL.
7. The way he projects his FIRST WIFE, as the mother of ALL WIVES!
8. NO WIFE has ever been divorced or has RUN away from the palace.
How can you tell without the “hype” and noise pollution?
I walked around today and observed the good, bad and ugly around me. Without even trying to justify the basis of their faith, they all looked the same to me.
1. They all had the same propensity for good and evil (to various degrees on ANY given spectrum).
2. They are all subjected to the same socio- economic, medical and emotional vulnerabilities.
3. They are all born and they all die the same ways. They are kidnapped and tortured the same way.
My question for Christians is:
WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT FROM A PAGAN? By what grace or “disgrace”?
Definition of a pagan in lay man’s terms is: A NON-CHRISTIAN.
No, I am not Christian, though was born in a “Christian” home. I was never one(only faked it like I was taught to), and will never be one. I know better now as an adult. For this sole reason, I can observe all with an unbiased intellect.
WHEN A PERSON IS LAYING IN A MORGUE or DECAYING in a SIX-FOOT spiritual sub-marine, can you tell what kind of life was lived or what faith practiced?