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Gooooood morrrrring my pipo! Wetin children they were go school these days na waya o!
We are not in a private school and no school uniforms to help matters.
I want to know what constitutes decent fashion senses.

From ages 10 to 17.
What kinds of dress codes have you seen that made you go yaaaay or naaaaay?

When money starts talking. . . . . BOOLSHYTE will start walking.

Since MAN was created, women have never been safe!

Dis una God got just leave EVE and the SERPENT without creating ADAM I swear.

Because of men’s desires, a woman will traffic children for money.

And on the 7th day he rested INDEED, without finishing his HOMEWORK!

ireneidiva:
That video was terrible! And people kept sharing it. This generation is ....

It was heart-breaking ON ALL LEVELS OF HUMANITY.

I do not understand this world we live in any more.

People NEED to SHARE IT!✅
Because Nigerians/Africans are very quick to condemn other countries and cultures with all that holier-than-thou attitude raising children. Naija 10-year olds dey act demonic porrrn.

Here I am complaining about 10 year old having BJ competitions behind school buses over here.

Then these misguided children of HEATHENS have done the WORST of it all!

WALAHI!!! That school should be closed down.

As for the parents of those children? They are only reaping what they have sowed. Karma!

What you go to other children will come back to your own children of course.

What a GODLESS SOCIETY!

Okaaaaaaaaaay!
I finally got to see the disgusting video of AWON CHRIST-LAND pre-teen POOOORRRRN-STARS!
This happened in DUBAI? ? ? ?

I don DIE!!!!!!
So Nigeria don reach this level?

Abeg! Make my pikins and grand-pikins dem rotten for US hia.

Having children in this day and age ehn? A BIG RISK!

Tufiaaaaaaakwa!!!!!

Fake religion - fake marriage!
All the name of copying western culture and their oyinbo jesus!

Not by force.
If they ask to be greeted, then greet them.
Culturally, it is important to some people.
If people want greetings-greet them.
Avoid bad belle. Simple.

Typical of unmotivated husbands who have lost the drive to hustle.
Dem full road o.
Awon 'EKWUEME'-Husbands.
Please, watch your back o.
A MAN THAT HAS NO JOB IS A TICKING TIME BOMB!

Because they are old fashioned and naive.
They forget times have changed.
They are in for a real shocker!

Ignore her or get a divorce.
SIMPLE!

I will keep the married man on the side o.
You are married, he is married,
I give my blessings.
If it was a SINGLE dude-I would have been PISSSSSED!

I believe in "equal yoking" . My best flings have are only with married men.

From the book of 'Sweetest Taboo", Chapter 1, verse 1.

I never dated single men as a married woman. I WILL NEVER DO SUCH A THING.
Why lower your standards with the single crowd that are given to blackmail and emotional extortion?
BLOODY WASTE OF ORGGAMS!

* no apologies-i am a FREE THINKER- religion can never have any place in my life. free world!*

He is not a Muslim!✅

Who marries a man with a face like dis?
His pehnis go wor wor die!
Shegey!

Dis na FIRST-CLASS DEMON ke.

What da heeeeeeehhhhl is wrong with women?

Desperation!

This one for be another “Osina-EKWENSU”!
Any woman that is abusive LEARNED from the SICK men in their lives. Men are the CHIEF CULPRITS when it comes to abusive personalities.


CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE?
Tufiaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

Marry a pastor?
The WORST of all SEXUAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSERS!

Cold, callous, mean-spirited, sadististic and narcissistic.

One of the many reasons I LOATHE Christianity.

You can NEVER find ONE that acts like CHRIST!

Only to swindle and brainwash people that are lost in the deepest parts of spiritual forests!

I cannot understand what kind of “God” they claim to worship.

Only a “God” like them of course.

I don’t want to speak evil of any dead, especially where the dead has paid the ultimate price in the realm of MIND-CONTROL.

How can a woman HAVE 4 CHILDREN with a BEAST? ? ?

This OSINACHI woman ehn?

Mrs. Harris!
This is our chance!

A personal choice belonging to THE WIFE only. The husband can only tolerate OR LEAVE the marriage.

Simple.

Wolf in rat’s clothing!

What is all this SPAM rubbish?

lefemmechoclat:
Unfortunately this advice cant help me now. I married at 32 cos i wanted to be sure now look at me. I cant returj the kids now. I noy thing i can do at this point his get everything i can in court to cover these debts, get a savings going and repair my credit. Thank God i dont have to worry about buying a house my parents have 2 that are paid off nearby. I can move there. We will have to seel this

Good! Then get on with it.✅
You have a plan. Don’t waste your precious time searching for any useless, lost dog!❤️

I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

In the West, it is a whole different story. You hear of parents being arrested for hitting their minor children for misbehaving.

How will you handle the incident?

True story of a Nigerian family in my neighborhood.

Case scenario: A mother hits her 15 y/o child and she tackles her down to the floor like a heavy-weight champion. Daddy intervenes and beats the crap out of the 15 y/o daughter.

Daughter calls police and have parents arrested. Father is charged with child-battery and BANNED from coming to the house till the daughter leaves the house at 18 years old.

Fast forward: Daughter is now 20 years old and lives alone with no contact with her parents. When she graduated from high school, her parents did not attend! They practically disowned her and gave her to the state to take care of.

In Africa, no police station will entertain such complaints because corporal punishment is part of disciplining children.

Some parents go too far when they decide not to spare the “ROD”. Children have been maimed out of anger by parents or other adults incapable of self-restraint.

GboyegaD:
Please, if possible, don't go this route. You both should seek counseling first and see if things can be worked out.

Like I said, he's wicked, no doubt however, his thoughts could have attended from the thoughts some of the men on this thread are displaying. Let's for the sake of your marriage think about it as ignorance.

Find a middle ground that works for both parties and where he's a major contributor to the family. As it is right now, he's at the losing end since he will have to pay child support but being the money, the children need both parents.

Are you for real
It takes 2 to make ANY level of a relationship to succeed. I think it is too late for this advice of yours. People need to be smart in relationships.

A man is making plans to retire as a single man and wasted the most fruitful years in marriage DOING HIS OWN THING, and you are proposing “counseling” at the 99th hour?

You are a “male”, so it is not difficult to see where your sympathies are cast.


PEOPLE! Be smart in your relationships!
Don’t wait till the last minute to fix a broken marriage. ACT IMMEDIATELY. People usually show themselves within 2 years of marriage or earlier. Women especially, need to control how to PROCREATE when they choose to get married to LOSERS!✅

lefemmechoclat:
Honestly I would have never married if I would have known this. When speaking to quite a few Nigerian friends they all said it's typical for men to build properties while their wives work multiple jobs or long hours.

Me being a wife and having a career I could have been a housewife and put all the burden on him or not helped at all. I didn't do that.i helped with the down-payment to our home,his first car, our wedding I paid half,paid for most of my ring cost.etc. I just feel culture or not that first money should have been prioritized to us. My special needs child has autism and literally has no money saved for his future. I don't like saying oh he has time to save int he future at the end of the day his parents had a comfortable home but if something happens to us tomorrow there is no savings. ..

I do not think he prioritizes having retirement savings paid off debts a solid trust for 1 of my kids and for the others savings cos he didn't grow up that way. I did and I take account for that. It's always money transfer to someone there yea it's small money but it adds up. It was so bad I had to turn off my Facebook anonymous messages because friends of his family etc people I never met when they couldn't reach him would message me begging for money. He is supporting atleast 3 cousins I know of monthly for money as well. But if I ask him to put money in his kids savings or for us it's an argument.

You will need to find ways to continue ALONE. He is not planning to retire and grow old with you.

When he was making his plans, you should have been making yours. There is no “we” in a TYPICAL Nigerian marriage.

You will need to continue without him.

If you are old enough to be an atheist, you should know how to handle any believer of any faith.

First of. . . . Grow some independent balls!

Typical of African men.
All na part of Nigerian marriage abeg.
For better for WORST? Enjoy!✅

ZONE TO LOSE!

Keep dreaming!

Only a fool will ZONE TO LOSE!

Power to the NORTH for ever.

Tinubu? See ya life?

BU hari
Tinu BU

SAY NO TO ANY “BU”!

Ati KU!✅

What an insult to Dubai!

What SOUTHERN candidate can PDP produce?

Only a NORTHERNER can checkmate TINUBU.
Any other southern WILL LOSE!!!

Please, SOUTHERNERS, stop day-dreaming!