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crackkhaus:
Unless you're referring to the entire medial scientific community as disorganized people, then OCD is a mental illness classified under a spectrum of anxiety disorders, NOT personality disorders.

It requires treatment like cognitive-behavioural therapy and/or medications.

It's nothing to be proud of.

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/ocd/what-is-obsessive-compulsive-disorder

Oh please!

You are referring to extremes here.
I am very proud of my OCD! It is not recurrent or intrusive. I stay on my lane always o. I can go daaaaays without cleaning. Not repetitive be any means. I can’t stand “wonky” objects on my walls. I LOOOOOVE SYMMETRY! I don’t like people in MY PERSONAL SPACE and I don’t go to OTHER PEOPLE’S PERSONAL SPACES!

My boss knows to GIVE ME MY OWN WORK AREA ALWAYS!

Yes! It causes me a great deal of anxiety to see FILTH AND CLUTTER. Is that a bad thing? Fine!

You may want to note that EVERYONE is guilty of one form of OCD or another.

My OCD ends with CLUTTER AND FILTH!

Yes, it is a mental disorder with various degrees on a VERY BROAD SPECTRUM!

You have yours too. Check well!

In the final analysis, WE ARE ALL SICK!
Including ALL DRUG ADDICTS, RITUALISTS, SERIAL RAPISTS, PEDOPHILES, WOMANIZERS, MASTURBATOTRS, ASHAWOS, PORRN-ADDICTS and the list is endless.

Is OCD a mental illness? Yes! With NO CURE!

Waiting for the “Nigerian Boys” version.

Confusedgirlie:
The context shows he was. I think he was.
Am seriously considering confronting him, but am doubtful he could spin it.

Don’t assume o.
A dude can have 5 side-chickens all claiming to be the main fowl.

You go WEAK!

The friend he was chatting with might not even know you exist fa!

Confusedgirlie:
He is quite a decent person. I don't think he cheats.
But one time, he was sleeping and I went through his phone (he accidentally left it open).
Doesn't look like he's talking actively to any other girl. I don't think so. But in one of his chats with a male friend who asked why he couldn't leave his current relationship (don't know why that friend asked), he said, "she is rich and has a good job".
What do I do?

He might not be referring to you.
Simply show him the text and let him explain.

Simple.

Don’t waste time o. Strike when the iron is HOT!

No worries!
I gat FOUR different kinds of SECURITY systems ALL OVER MY HOME! Motion sensors EVERYWHERE! Monitored from my phone 24/7! Straight to 911! I don’t allow people/Nigerian relatives in my home. Social distancing and isolation is my specialty!

The children are well educated about such occurrences too. The rest. . . Na protection from higher powers! I “done did” my part!


No need for too much talk, I dey watch like HAWK!

OCD is just a personality “disorder” to disorganized people. Yup! I pay attention TO EVERY DETAIL!

Just do as I do. I have my own areas of the house where NO ONE DARES TO ENTER.

I stay away from other people’s areas and spaces.
It can be frustrating for all. I CANNOT DATE OR MARRY AN UNTIDY OR DISORGANIZED MAN. I cannot visit people with cluttered homes. I avoid them. In the final analysis it is a reflection of YOUR STATE OF MIND.

Present!
You just have to manage us like that and keep to your own side of the house and marriage because you can NEVER WIN under such circumstances. My husband just keeps away jejely to avoid wahala.

Mine is soooooo bad, I am known for that at work o. The jokes are endless. I can’t stand clutter. When I go on break for just 30 minutes at work, my co-workers will gang up and SCATTER EVERYTHING on my desk and work area just to capture my reactions on video and have a goooooood laugh at my expense.

One respiratory therapist calls me “MRS. CLEAN”!

My husband has even threatened to file a complaint with the police department FOR TRESPASSING, if I DARE enter his room to re-arrange his stuff ONE MORE TIME.

Shuooooo? For my own house agaaaaaain?
I should sit and watch the whole house run down kwa nu? Lai-lai! Na so termite nearly destroy our house, he did not even have a clue since he has left the house-cleaning to me. I was re-arranging the house early this year and found termites’ hot spots around the house. Cost me $1000 on the spot to start ONGOING treatment. Mtchewww!

My mom calls me “madam arrangee”!
EVERY 3 MONTHS, I RE-ARRANGE THE WHOLE HOUSE! Oga ho just dey look, waka pass!

As for the kids, he spoils them, I discipline them. Different styles, no wahala there! I banished them ALL from my section of the house o. Dem get their own bathroom, living room and kitchen. They are NOT allowed to TOUCH MY REFRIGERATORS! As far as I am concerned, THE KIDS ARE BUG-MAGNETS with ever-stinky armpits and behinds! They can be doing cartwheels in their own section of the house. THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR KEEPING THEIR AREAS TIDY AND CLUTTER-FREE!

Gosh! I am such a germaphobe and I can’t help it!

I dun play dat!

My God!

I don’t even remember any names I was called. As a Nigerian child, I was used to it and developed extremely THICK SKIN. I choose my words carefully when addressing children sha. I don’t like the way they look and feel when I get mouthy with them.

Besides, they will learn to be verbally and physically abusive if you subject them to abuse.

I avoid this as much possible. Not in this day and age please.

rockstarB:
How is it struggle love? abi she no see the man like this before she married him. OP didnt say she was forced or coerced into the marriage. She needs to get a job too, so she can live the kind of life she wants.

You think only women experience “struggle love” in relationships and marriages?

Time for NL “dudes” to cry with the OP!

Level don sssssshange o.

A NIGERIAN pastor for that matter. . . . .
Could not read past the first 3 words. . . .

ademidedavid:
She tends to be the best wife and mum if their is money but changes once its the opposite even her mum noticed her mood during this lockdown period.

Who says things and people stay the same in marriage?

Still on “STRUGGLE LOVE”!

A thread with a “bemoaning, god-fearing husband” las las.

I blame the children.
The have choices and understand consequences more than we give them credit for.

They choose to be on social media, sneak around their parents and people of authority. You lay down rules to guide them, they refuse to abide by them. They get into trouble, you assist them.

Who is to blame? THE CHILDREN! They make the choices and must live or die with the consequences.

Kaamisha:
I could feel sorry for how you rubbed the bitter truth about her in her face but I remembered how she stands for responsibility. And since she has long known how people react to her below average IQ threads, I'd say she has brought it upon herself.

Amen!

Sorry for a STOLID/DEADPAN/CHIMERIC online-nonentity?

Na juju? Must we agree because his/her “jazz” is all powerful? Please, save your pity for others with humane attributes on and off NL.

You know what happens to people with “messiah-complexes”? They die like their “messiahs” ke!

I serve a “messiah” of caring and sharing, not one that engages in gender-based biased/endless castigations of people they feel superior to. . . . or overindulgence in unwarranted/useless self-sacrifices to build up a false sense of reality or campaign for online validation from like-minded theoretical delusionists.

I can’t wait for the next: “O-ye-ungodly-miserable-FEMINIIST-women-of-the-world” thread.

The day I will READ a thread “O-Ye-PSYCO-GODLY-CHAUVINISTIC-MISERABLE-ANTI-FEMINIST-MEN-of-the-world” thread, from this emotionally/spiritually-JADED ID I love to refer to as BUKA-T ehn? . . . . . . I will celebrate. His/her fellow women is always the main focus of his/her threads.


Poppycock!

Absolutely not!
Don’t feel like it.

Gustavo Fringe - Breaking Bad!

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
don't give me a knock and still say thanks.. what's the thanks for?

E is for Effort . . . . and T is for Trying!

Black “STRUGGLE LOVE” 001!

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
can I send a pm

No! Thanks.

Titi03:
Watching you make a fool of yourself just like you're doing now

Titi03:
I can see you're minding yours

Thanks! Have a blessed day!

BUKA-T!
Next thread please! I am waiting in anticipation ooooooooo. Nothing like seeing my fellow “women” struggle in “ungodly-marriages”!
Please, make it better than this one!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIhdCXNfCxk

Titi03:
I can see you're minding yours

Yup! By addressing the OP and topic he/she raised! What are you doing?

Where were you on page 1?

Titi03:
So I guess that gives you a pass to continuously poke and bully her especially when she's no longer responding to you.

What exactly is YOUR BUSINESS?
You should be banned for starting proxy-wars on a thread you never participated in from page 1! Cyber miscreants like you only show up late in the game, with multiple IDs to propagate discord.

Poke and bully?
She does not have to respond to me and NEITHER DO YOU!

I believe we are discussing what SHE started.
If she wanted to post undisturbed, the DIARIES section on NL is always an option.

Unlike MOST of YOU, I don’t CARE to asss-lick-or-kiss on or off NL. Seun knows that and THAT IS WHAT I MEAN. Frankly my dear, I am IMMUNE to cyber terrorism or bullying. Banning nko? Oh please! Una fit try ke!

Thank your stars that some of us are still here since 2008. . . . Where are the rest to keep you and your DEAD NL alive?

I state my points directly and logically as possible.

Please. learn to do the same. . . . . While minding your gaddddam bizzzzzz!

Thanks!

Another case of “STRUGGLE LOVE” on NL!

Because most Fs-I-L never raised their children and so have no close ties to their children. Women remain the nurturers for LIFE!

Kaamisha:
She might actually be one of the Jehova's Witnesses nutheads who think that preaching gets them a ticket to heaven and when you reject or chase them away God is even more pleased with them. This or she is indeed totally insane to keep opening these threads addressing women who would be anything but her.

Thanks to social media ke!
I can’t imagine the kind of person that demeans her fellow women for living their lives offline. Only insensitive and reckless people shove their beliefs down the throats of others. The reason I gave up Christianity and all religions a looooooong time ago. Name one religion that does not assist men WITH THE HELP OF SOME GULLIBLE WOMEN to humiliate and brainwash women?

What type of so-called Christian viewpoint does Buka-T exhibit in ALL her threads? Are there women like Buka-T in the “holy books”?
No progressive mind can be so judgmental and unaccommodating of others. If you do not walk in the shoes of others, why try to mock them all to make yourself superior?

The reason I look forward to the “OP’s” thread, is that the ID is supposed to be a female. I would not be surprised indeed if that ID is a male in reality. Such lack of empathy displayed on a continuous and consistent basis is extremely puzzling.

But then again, the “bible” can also be used as a gun.

DO OR DIE!!!!

bukatyne:
Too long a post saying nothing on a question 'what is marriage to you?' considering you have been married for 20yrs plus.

A mad person also thinks a sane person is insane.

It is all a matter of perception.

Well! Another long post for you!

Just got my “KanwuliaExtra” ID back from that busybody “Spambot” for celebrating my SWEET MOTHERS’ DAY from work yesterday. Someone was “extremely embittered” that I was spending the almighty “UTERUS day” at my “career center” fa!

What a DARE! Instead of being home as a “companion” to my “HUSSEY” and breast-feed children aka “god-fearing” robots around my house!

What marriage means to me is simply none of your BEEZWAX! Not the topic of YOUR THREAD. We nor dey compete. LAI-LAI!!! Take the suggestions offered from discerning minds and work on delivering your “flight of ideas” COHERENTLY!

Thanks for the entertainment.

Just returning from by “career-WITH-PAY-$$$” RUNZZ abeg and off for the next 4 days to concentrate on “family”. MY CHOICE.

I can do both! What areas I choose to place the “wrong emphasis” on, and get ZERO FULFILLMENT in my life, is also my GADDEM BIZZZZZZ! NOT YOURS.

Yes o! 20 years +++++. . . . without making a single effort FROM MAN OR GOD too! Whether it crashes or survives is not my gaddem bizzz.

Stop acting like this “marriage“ should be a competitive sport among women with “MEN AND CHILDREN” as the ONLY FOCAL-POINTS/TROPHY FOR EVERY FAMILY SET-UP.

Me? I nor kukuma ask you. Na your “companionship and godly-children” wahala be dat! You are lucky you are expressing all these view-points online. Try yourself offline and experience “stories that touch”! You know what happened to the son of your “GOD” abi? Na gospel him try to preach too.

Nitey-Nitey!

*waiting in anticipation for the next BUKA-T marital exhibition*

hekkyboi:
does this vikings has an end? i mean like a last season of it.

Season 7 rumored to be out in November, 2020. . . . I think.

Love you mom. Always.
Thanks you for being the VERY BEST!❤️❤️❤️



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6f1WZOZUku4

It is HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY at work!
It is NURSES’ week too.

Double celebration at work!!!
Free LUNCH from the “BABY BLUE TEAM” from GUSTOS!


Life is sweeeeeeet!
I work every weekend, so no celebration at home.
With my “other family”!

Yaaaaaaaay!!!
Shout out to the best of the best!
EMORY! You ROOOOCK!!! So proud to be part of the BEST TEAM OF MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL IN THE WORLD!