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Family › Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by KanwuliaExtra: 6:55am On May 21, 2020
pDudd:
Hahahahahahahahahahaha. No entity o. I'm just a long time fan of yours.
DATZZZZZ GOOOD!
I dey kamkpeeeeeeee! cool
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2087151/amp/Mildred-Baena-Mother-Arnold-Schwarzeneggers-love-child-divorces-husband.html
Arnold has secretly been supporting Mildred and their son for years.

Earlier this month it was rumoured that the actor and his estranged wife Maria were calling off divorce proceedings after they were each spotted with a ring on their wedding finger.[/Arnold has secretly been supporting Mildred and their son for years.

Earlier this month it was rumoured that the actor and his estranged wife Maria were calling off divorce proceedings after they were each spotted with a ring on their wedding finger.

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
sisisioge:
I think its an agreement between them both. Besides, if she wanted to really finalize she would have done so since.
The divorce is now final.
You know it takes 2 to finalize a divorce. I don’t think they were ready to let the marriage go. Too painful for both of them I think.

30 years na JOKE? undecided
This is an article from April,

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.amomama.com/amp/188275-inside-maria-shriver-arnold-schwarzenegg.html

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
cococandy:
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
wink wink wink wink wink




This MATA Na real SOAP OPERA!
Let the “crying-game” begin. grin

Why is it ALWAYS MORE PAINFUL when a MAN is on the receiving end? undecided
Even me FEEL the pain for the Beana-Dude! cry

*lemme ‘epp NL dudes cry* cry cry cry cry cry

C-H-A-I- !!!!! This is soooooo touching. SOME WOMEN SHAAAAAAA!!! undecided


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1390543/amp/Arnold-Schwarzenegger-love-child-Mildred-Baenas-ex-husband-says-feels-betrayed-didnt-know-son-wasnt-his.html
He learnt the truth just last week, when news broke of Schwarzenegger's love child.

In an emotional interview Rogelio said he feels 'betrayed' and claims 'Arnold Schwarzenegger for me, [was] my hero... Maria [Shriver] is destroyed forever.'
sad sad sad sad sad


And while he is coming to terms with the news, Rogelio said he still considers the boy his child.

He told Entertainment Tonight he wanted to tell the youngster: 'I am your father. That's all

Meanwhile wronged wife Maria Shriver, 55, who was married to 63-year-old Schwarzenegger for 25 years, has filed for divorce.

'It's not a matter of if Maria will file for divorce, but when,' a source told the website.

The former TV presenter, who gave up her high-flying career to support her husband's political ambitions, has hired celebrity divorce lawyer Laura Wasser to represent her.

Asked whether he was angry at the revelation, he said in broken English: 'For sure. I was angry. I feel betrayed. I feel like no good.'
sad sad sad sad sad

Rogelio also speculated that the boy does not know about the furore surrounding his paternity.

'I don't think he has seen television. I don't think he knows,' he said.

Rogelio was married to Baena, 50, for ten years and helped raise her other three children. shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

According to new reports today, Baena insisted on a DNA test when her son was just a toddler, to prove Schwarzenegger was the father.


Although the actor accepted paternity of the boy, who is his spitting image, Baena wanted the relationship made official.

'Arnold knew all along that [the boy] was his child,' a source told gossip website Radar. 'But Mildred insisted on a DNA test – and it proved that Arnold was the father.'


Baena worked for the Schwarzenegger family for 20 years and only retired in January.

Her son was unaware of his paternity and would visit the Schwarzenegger family home with his mother, where he would unknowingly play with his four half siblings.

The child is just five days younger than his half-brother, Christopher.

Entertainment Tonight also showed video footage of Baena singing Happy Birthday in Marilyn Monroe style along with Mildred and her family photographed with Schwarzenegger at family events.

Colombian-born Rogelio also said he did not know where Baena is hiding.

'Nobody knows where she is,' he said.

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
sisisioge:
Initially, to protect his political status... Now it has to be money
Ok.

Arnold or Maria? Who is wealthier? undecided
Who was “dragging” the divorce finalization?

IT IS INDEED COMPLICATED! cheesy

Ms Shriver filed for divorce on July 1, 2011, citing “irreconcilable differences”.

Since Maria filed the papers, the couple have appeared to have a good relationship.

They have both attended family dinners and have supported one another at events.

Maria is said to have started dating political consultant Matthew Dowd in 2013m while Arnold has been with physical therapist Heather Mulligan, who is 27 years his junior, for several years.

However, despite the couple being on good terms and both moving on to new partners, Mr Schwarzenegger reportedly refused to sign the divorce agreement.

Family › Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by KanwuliaExtra: 4:57am On May 21, 2020
Tinyemeka:
All fingers are not equal.

All cerebrum do not fire equally.
Please, explain. wink
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:56am On May 21, 2020
sisisioge:
Hmmmm...it will be strong o. No thank you!


Arnold's sin here is more than the original sin

1. Cheated on his wife.
2. With their maid right under his wife's nose
3. Forrrking her without protection thus exposing his wife to diseases.
4. Knocked them up at the same time
5. Had is illegitimate child under their room without disclosure.
6. The maid too was a married woman while the affair lasted.

Na real wa o. No forgiving pls!
. . . . And after Maria found out?
The maid continued to WORK with them TILL SHE RESIGNED BEFORE CHRISTMAS! Why would ANY WIFE do such A THING? undecided

I have not yet answered the question.
What would I have done? undecided I am still THINKING!
Trying to put myself in MARIA’S SHOES. I am trying to understand WHY SHE IS STILL LEGALLY MARRIED TO ARNOLD with all 4 children ABOVE 20 YEARS OF AGE. undecided
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:37am On May 21, 2020
yvelchstores:
love child is a child that was had from cheating, ie there is already a marriage before the illegal conception. You are mixing it up.
I am referring to a LOVE-CHILD conceived IN A MARRIAGE by either spouse. Not mixing it up. The reason I am using Maria and Arnold an example. It was the LOVE-CHILD that mainly caused them to separate t think.

It appears they were BOTH CHEATING. . . . But only Arnold had a child from his cheating spree!

Now, the housekeeper(Mrs. Beana), Arnold had the affair with was ALSO MARRIED! She and her husband are divorced.✔️
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:29am On May 21, 2020
armadeo:
Dem resemble sha.

No need for DNA test.
I think he looks more like his mom who looks is a more masculine version of Maria. grin

One thing is certain, Joseph Beana looks like Christopher(Arnold’s last child with Maria).

Joseph and Christopher are only 1 week apart. wink They were almost TWINS! cheesy

Arnold was a VERRRRRY BUZZZZZY MAN! cheesy
Family › Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by KanwuliaExtra: 4:20am On May 21, 2020
pDudd:
Callotti the Callo cheesy wink

Chai I don miss you o. How na grin
Indeed!
Which of your online personality am I dealing with? The abusive one or the cowardly one?

huh


Let me give you time to reveal your real agenda.

Welcome!
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:19am On May 21, 2020
nana228:
If a man does it everyone will know. In this case it is women that decides to keep the child or have an abortion and the other scenario is if the other woman eventually has the child and wants people to know.

However, when a woman does it, especially in Nigeria where DNA tests are done out of absolute necessity, the men will train another man's child even until they die, most of them won't find out.
No, I am referring to cases when the spouse eventually finds out and HOW THEY HANDLE IT.
Do they forgive, stay in the marriage and move on, or they remain unforgiving, bitter, get separated/divorced and move on.

Or do dey feel miserably-trapped, unable to forgive, move on BUT stay in the marriage?

Maria never forgave Arnold. She is stil LEGALLY-MARRIED to Arnold. She has to some extent moved on with her “old-new“ lover. The case of Arnold and Maria is quite complicated.
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
liberalchick:
How is she mixing it up? Women have love children too, only the husband thinks it’s his.
Oh no! I am referring to cases where the spouse EVENTUALLY finds out while still married, like the case of Maria and Arnold. You are referring to the other case, where Mr. Beana was TOTALLY in the dark. grin
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
postmann:
It goes both ways indeed. You've always been loose woman. I know having your vulva clasped against different assortment of dicks has been your hobby.

But a true woman knows she's defiled immediately two or more dicks interchange visitation to her love-tunnel (stench-trench, in your case). This is something your "evolved" mind would never understand.

When men invented words like "cum dump" we have someone like you and your ilks in mind.
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin
LWKMD!!!! You will be very goooood at writing “literary KPORRNO” I swia. See as you juss dey describe “ya fantasy”? shocked

You still dey alive on and offline? cheesy

What have all these got to do with this thread? undecided
Those days don passsss wey I go siddon for work dey type crrrrrap to posters like YOU on and off NL. Glad I can wait till my days off to read nonsense from posters like “YOU and your ilk”, who can’t stick to topics without interjecting “personal mis-feelings” into every gaddem thread they show up on.

I don really give a piece of ratzzzarse what you think about me. I thought you would have grown up by now. Very entertaining. cheesy

Please, have a seat at the very back of this thread, till your “SUCRUTUMS” have something to offer on this thread besides my “vulva” to fantasize about. cheesy

* I tok am say some men go shed tears on and off line when woman begin play the same game *



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky42q5dnp2k

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
It is not as easy to walk away in MOST CASES.
I think MEN are less tolerant and forgiving than women.

I also believe it is more difficult for African women to walk out of a marriage when the man has an insane amount of wealth. Much easier in western cultures. But the case of Arnold and Maria not finalizing their divorce AFTER NINE years? I wonder! grin
Family › Re: What Is The Socio-cultural Impact Of Childlessness Among Married Couples by KanwuliaExtra: 9:50am On May 20, 2020
Alero3Arubi:
@kanwuliaextra I AM LOOKING FOR FOCUS INTERVIEWS NOT PUBLISHED RECORDS.
I have done my research but now i am stuck with interviews and questionnaire generation. Because of the current pandemic restrictioms, it is difficult to carry it out so i am stuck with seeking for it online.
Shey Na “research” you want? cheesy

You want “focused” interviews from NLanders?
Where do you expect to get these interviews from?

There are already sooooo many topics online about this. Just trying to share them:

Ok. Let us wait for the “focused interviews” on NL.

Good luck! kiss
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:17am On May 20, 2020
A case of 2 CHEATS in a marriage? undecided

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 4:03am On May 20, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
Monogamy is a horrible arrangement for men if not why should women congregate on this thread to bitch about love-child or absence of it.
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

This goes both ways.
Wait till I bring the woman with “love children” in their marriages. Women bytching will be child’s play. Men will shed tears on and offline!
Family › Re: Growth Spurt In Children:Barron Trump! by KanwuliaExtra(op): 3:56am On May 20, 2020
ifyalways:
Hello AJ . I'm so happy to see you around. kiss kiss kiss
Asa, udo diri gi.
Wooooow!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aminnnn ooooooo!!!
Nne kedu?
Was wondering about you.
O ga di ri gi mma!
Iseeeeee!!!!
Family › Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by KanwuliaExtra: 10:34pm On May 19, 2020
. . . . . PHOCK LESS!!! kiss

Save your energy for job hunting.
Family › Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by KanwuliaExtra:
In some ways.
But in most? Negative! kiss

I keep only 20%. The rest I throw in the garbage. kiss
The ability to adapt to various circumstances and the cultural heritage(the arts).

FINISH!!!!!

African upbringing stands for:

Patriarchal DOGMA?
Chauvinistic MEDICRITY?
Nauseating MISOGINY?
Religious VODOOISM?
Lackadaisical WORK ETHIC?
Domestic, physical and sexual ABUSE?
Gender INEQUALITY?
Spiritual POVERTY?
Cultural PREJUDICE?
Lack of SELF PRIDE and REPRODUCTIVE CONTROL?
Ethnic and religious BIGOTRY?
Intellectual and Financial ILLITERACY?
Control FREAKISHNESS?
Relationship/marriage ROLE CONFUSION?
Sense of ENTITLEMENT?
Poor COMMUNICATION SKILLS?
Inability to GIVE AND APPRECIATE LOVE?
Materialism and VANITY?
Amoral HYPOCRICY?
Virginity RITUALISTS?
Homophobes and Sexual DEVIANCE?
LAWLESSNESS?
Psycho-Social MISFITS?
Poor ROLE-MODELLING?
Political SYCOPHANCY?
Lack of personal PRINCIPLES?
Civil COWARDICE?
Corrupt GENETIC POOLING?
Unpatriotic PSYCHE?
Low SELF-ESTEEM?
Poor COPING MECHANISM?

Hell To Da No!kiss

Tufiaaaaaakwa I say!!!
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 10:09pm On May 19, 2020
This is TWISTED! undecided

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 10:05pm On May 19, 2020
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 10:00pm On May 19, 2020

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op): 9:58pm On May 19, 2020
A major screw-up indeed!
How can a MAN of this status perform this kind of BLUNDER? With a family and everything going for THEM ALL?

Maria was PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD! undecided

Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
I absolutely love the fact that Arnold Schwarzenegger never abandoned his son, but he hurt his wife and children badly. Arnold and Maria separated and yet to finalize their fivorce.

Maria already moved on and has a new boyfriend.❤️

Family › How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by KanwuliaExtra(op):
Case study:Joseph Beana.

This was the ULTIMATE BETRAYAL!

Family › Re: Growth Spurt In Children:Barron Trump! by KanwuliaExtra(op): 9:35pm On May 19, 2020
Family › Re: Growth Spurt In Children:Barron Trump! by KanwuliaExtra(op): 9:32pm On May 19, 2020
Only 4 years ago. . . .

Family › Growth Spurt In Children:Barron Trump! by KanwuliaExtra(op): 9:29pm On May 19, 2020
It is only been 4 years.
Barron Trump has grown into A HANDSOME, TALL young man.❤️

Family › Re: What Is The Socio-cultural Impact Of Childlessness Among Married Couples by KanwuliaExtra:
Your #4.
Identity, social construction and meaning.

Like I started earlier, depends on who you ask. It is all here:



https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/02/the-desire-to-have-a-child-never-goes-away-how-the-involuntarily-childless-are-forming-a-new-movement



It’s noticeable, in the comments section of Day’s blog, how often it’s mothers, not fathers or other childless women, who most frequently cause upset or offence among people who have not been able to have children.

“Surely a mother is more than someone who has children? And I’m more than someone who doesn’t.”
Family › Re: What Is The Socio-cultural Impact Of Childlessness Among Married Couples by KanwuliaExtra:
Your #3.
Stigma.

From whom? From Where? undecided

This should interest you. wink
Is this the kind of stigma you are referring to? undecided

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/1471-2393-13-72

There is a tendency of society to blame the woman for failed conception [13]. Consequently, the accepted norm is that infertility in a couple stigmatises the wife as barren and the husband as sterile. In this manner the implication of sterility presents men with an opportunity to abandon barren wives and de-stigmatise themselves by opting out of childless marriages.

Participants’ in a study conducted in Cape Town indicated that they had to deal with being called Idlolo, meaning barren and stjoekoe (failure) [5]. Traditional customs, such as having to wear a scarf until a woman has a child also contributes to more pressure on women who suffer from infertility.

In a study in South Africa, women expressed that they felt especially stigmatized and ridiculed in their families and in their communities. Participants’ described how they were sworn at, shouted at, cursed and victimized, seeing themselves as outcast, especially within their husbands’ families.
https://academic.oup.com/socpro/article-abstract/33/4/268/1644853?redirectedFrom=fulltext

I conclude that, although physically infertile women feel more stigmatized, physically fertile women manage information more actively to protect their husbands from the stigma associated with sexual dysfunction.
Family › Re: What Is The Socio-cultural Impact Of Childlessness Among Married Couples by KanwuliaExtra: 7:42pm On May 19, 2020
Your #2.
Religious and Spiritual Effects? undecided

What religions are you using to illustrate this point? How? I can’t fathom. Please, explain. cheesy

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