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NiZOOria! We wail thee!

Kayceenaz:
The way you obstinately use some instances of where love was poorly practised to infer all blacks are incapable of love, despite my efforts imploring you to review your false evaluation, is pathetic. Being open-minded is a virtue, kindly imbibe it. About role models, Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva, David and Faith Oyedepo, Ngozi Okonjo Iweala and her supportive husband, to mention a few.

I did not state anything about ALL of the BLACK RACE or any other race. I meant generally-speaking. With Olu and Joke, business was always mixed with pleasure on and off screen.

Let me conclude since there is no more angle of interest to explore in this topic.

Yes, it is possible to love MORE with your head than your heart. You make wiser decisions and you are not fooled by the whims and caprices of opportunistic, romantic/financial predators.

The process of loving goes through phases.
1. The crushy or infatuation phase, where reason and rationality take the back seat. This is the phase of emotional and financial vulnerability, where your heart is the driver and your head is in a coma! Pleasure over business. You always regret the outcome because keep making unnecessary sacrifices as a result of low self esteem.

2. The rational phase of deliberation and intuitive thinking. You should have learned from your past experiences or the experiences of others. You know about actions and consequences. Your head is the driver and your heart is the slumbering passenger(not in a coma). When you love with your head, it is ALWAYS MORE OF business first and pleasure later! You get PAID in the end and enjoy the rewards with your dignity always intact.

Good morning.

chii8:
Lol...Aunty Anuli,Weldon ma.

Tank you ma pikin.
Make I teach this OP sointin.

OP! I dey wait you o.
Hope you nefa yan ya gramma finish o!

Emir hia, Emir dia! Hiahn!
All dez CORO-EMIR sef.
Na police constable post?

Kayceenaz:
First, coexistence of opposites often requires concessions. When people pass through the wilderness of heartbreak, it is commonplace to hear sympathizers chip in while mopping running tears, “Next time, love with your head all the way. Don’t leave it behind.” This tone suggests compatibility of love and reason in full measure respectively. Love is rudimentarily emotive, involving great affection for another inspired by appreciation of who, not what, the person is. Whereas reason is chiefly rational, focusing on available facts and speculating on those with potential of becoming one.


When love and reason meet, shedding happens, minimizing reason somewhat.

Second, love risks losing its peculiarity when reason, either actually or supposedly, functions unrestricted. Deep affection breeds sentiments which are instrumental to showing love to someone.

This was in play when Prince Harry forwent his royal privileges to please his wife, Megan Markle. Full dominance of reason in a lover, let me suppose this scenario, suffocates and kills these sentiments, eliciting relations between lover and loved to be significantly a means to an end, rather than an end in itself.


Reason is typically interrogative, asking “how can he/she further my goal?” Love is not as probing, as it basks in the sufficiency of the loved.

Against this backdrop, it makes profound sense to say love is a decision; love is intentional. The predicate highlights reason’s paramount place in balancing and consolidating love. They are intertwined. Hence, “Love with your head” is tautology. Although love sometimes begins from instinct, reason completes its cycle, preparing it to endure. Our reason gives up some of its power for love to subsist.


Don’t get it twisted anymore.


©Kaycee Naze,
Rational Pen.

See you?
This shows you have proven me right. You are discussing profound emotions and levels of human interaction well-above your pay-grade and intellectual capacity as a BLACK PERSON.

See as you take Harry and Megan dey blow big-big grammar! LWKMD!!!!
Na awon MC Oluomo “Agbero-In-Chief” you wan preach all dez wans to?
JUBRIL and AISHA nko?

You are talking of my “neo-colonial” mindset.
Why don’t you use your NOLLYWOOD love birds and awon “Chaka De Zulu” epic love stories to illustrate your points? Don’t you have role models in Nigeria and Africa?

Please, leave dem “Bella Ciao” peeps alone and promote your OWN!

Wey your own “MONEY HEIST” featuring CBN?

THIS IS YOUR KIND OF MONEY HEIST!

https://www.nairaland.com/5842055/fresh-319m-abacha-loot-uk


Shior!


Talk about BUSINESS BEFORE PLEASURE?
Stolen money GIVEN BACK TO THE CITIZENS!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBnA5kQy0zE

WHERE IS YOUR ABACHA LOOT, I ASK YOU AGAIN? ? ?

Everyone go tok about loff, BLACK MAN GO OPEN NYANSH dey mess too?

Kayceenaz:
Indeed, the line between business and pleasure should be thick, clearly defined to avoid jeopardising goals therein. However, I disagree with the bolded sentence suggestive of overgeneralization and a neo-colonial bias. Love among Caucasians get contaminated, too. It's not peculiar to Negroes.

You miss the point

Yeah, it is NOT peculiar to NIGGGGARS! But we are THE MOST CLUELESS!
Love has to do with caring and sharing.
How well does your “post colonial” government handle YOUR BUSINESS instead of THEIR PLEASURES?

You can disagree all you want.

The lines between business and pleasure can only be THICK to those who are QUALIFIED to see that line. I repeat, the BLACK RACE keeps failing with a CAPITAL “F”! The blacker the skin, the blinder they get!

You wonder why dem nor put BLACK HISPANIC for Money Heist Cast?
E for leave im post begin TEIF and PHOCK efry tin for that BANK OF SPAIN ke!

Even MUMU TALLAB could not successfully blow himself up!

Muhehehehe.

E Wo? If I come dis world again, ANYTIN BLACK nor go smell my nose o!

Please, be real! ONLY NIGERIANS, AFRICANS AND BLACKS ALL OVER THE WORLD FAIL when it comes to seeing the lines between business and pleasure.

By the way? Have you received your share of your “ABACHA INVESTMENT”?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zl4Fc8sd5rU

Too many grammatical errors. Not readable.

Only a weak mind(A BLACK ONE from THE BLACK RACE) will put pleasure over business. They reason the WHOLE AFRICAN CONTINENT REMAINS AN ABYSMAL DEBACLE!

Oh heck yes!
After loving with your HEART, you then love with your head after your eyes, nose and mouth “don clear” fa! It is natural to mix business with romance/pleasure, but the natural progression of a mentally-sound PSYVHE is TO GROW UP FAST and use your HEAD more than your heart in ALL levels of relationships. Obsession and infatuation have no place in the lives of psycho-socially balanced peeps!

It is called EMOTIONAL/INTELLECTUAL MATURITY! You are governed less by your WANTS and more by your NEEDS!

If you are STUCK with using your heart more than you head, you will FAIL in everything you dey out to accomplish. MONEY HEIST would have failed if most of the characters dared to put their hearts instead of their HEADS in the tasks to be done. They succeeded ONLY because they were not ruled by their emotions. Business always came FIRST!

After the shakara, Rio eyes clear abi?

What about DENVER and STOCKHOLM?

The PEOPLE within the WHITE or HISPANIC races LOVE more with their heads than their hearts.

Using your MONEY HEIST platform for example:

1. BERLIN(my kind of man)! I LOVE THAT MAN DIE O!!!!

2. THE PROFESSOR.
3. ALICIA.
4. NAIROBI.
5. HELSINKI.
6. PERLERMO.
7. ATURO.
8. STOCKHOLM.
9. LISBON.
10. MOSCOW.
11.Garcia, THE ASSASSIN. . . Chai! See as he juss obliterate Nairobi!

Only DENVER, RIO and TOKYO are the romantic juveniles who constantly put others at risk with their puppy crushes and erratic impulses.

There is hope for RIO, but TOKYO and DENVER,. . . . lost causes. Tokyo should have died instead of Nairobi and Denver should have died instead of Moscow, his father.

The black race has no concept of love, only selfishness and callousness, so will not be used by me for any point of reference.

Will not even share it with the husband not to talk of with relatives.

Nothing like matrimonial bed after 5 years of marriage.

Strictly by invitation ONLY!

sacajawea:
Do they know about your Runs and Faji lifestyle too?

Wetin go consine dem with all dat?
Go ask Madonna or Omotola!

How did it get out of NiZOOria in the first place?

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
nice lipstick if you ask me

Fighting CORO with swag!

sacajawea:
How old are your Children

11-15!

But look over 18!

NextD18:
Impressive. Y'all have been trying and I wish you good safety and more grace.
I
D18 wanna say Hi.

Thanks.❤️

NextD18:
Wow! You a nurse?

YUUUUUP!!!

NextD18:
Funny face mask.

That's you?

YUP!
#FRONTLINE-WORKER# ❤️

He is “applauding” somewhia sha-sha!

Amotekun ZOMBIE!

Yet all his GBAJA-GBAJA children are not in Nigeria.

Na by force to take VASIN?

They should start with interacting with themselves FIRST!

Are they gonna interact as NIGERIANS or BIAFRICANS?

Are they united? For whiaaaaa?
EGO first o!

Too greedy to think straight.
Too “small-minded” with all that “slave-mentality”!

Everybarry done dem wrong!
After starting civil wars they botched with their own hands and expected not to be slaughtered!

They need to change their mindset INDIVIDUALLY and COLLECTIVELY. Or else . . . . .
No hope!

Ndi IGBOS phocked up, and paid the HEFTIEST price for ever.

Period!

When US is proposing hazard pay ($25000 -$35000) bonus for healthcare workers and frontline workers.

Na “applause” dem go chop?

Government by EWUs for EWUs!

Nature will always replenish what it has lost a million fold!

CORONA! See ya life.

No more LOOTERMONI?

Na today? ? ? ? ?

Simple as ABC.

Aboki Billionaire Cabal!

How do you judge between the clueless of the living vs the clueless of the dead?

You don’t have enemies in marriage, only ANTAGONISTS.

Yes, they are synonymous, but the use of the word “enemy” is extreme.

Marriage nor be battle field abeg.

Answer: ALL OF THE ABOVE!
We only take turns to destroy the marriage.

Bella Ciao!

La Casa De Papel!❤️



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJTOD5jjac4



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46cXFUzR9XM

1. You are looking for perfection in your wife.
2. You have lost control of your life and your home.

Simple.

WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU THINK MARRIAGE ENTAILS?

I married her because she has a good heart, a good woman, tall, slim, dark skinned and beautiful. She is good academically (graduated with a 2-1), very hard-working but her intuitive and conscious reasoning is a problem.

Too many inconsistencies and missing links to your storyline. Reminds me of this song:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXBHCQYxwr0

The characters in your story are not believable.
Let your wife come and tell her own side of the story. Till then. . . . .

All the best.

The Rain.

Better Call Saul. The Prelude to Breaking Bad.
Beautifully done.❤️

crackkhaus:
I didn't mention any animated or live-action movies like Aladdin though, lol.


If you and your family loved Black Panther, then you will certainly love ALL the movies in Marvel's Cinematic Universe because the stories all connect in all of them.
For instance, the Black Panther character in the Black Panther movie is not the first MCU film he appears - he first appeared in MCU's Captain America Civil War. In this film, his father is still alive, is still king and everything leading up to his father's death was shown here...something you only got to see as a 2secs flashback in the Black Panther movie.
The same Black Panther also appears in two more MCU movies - Avengers Infinity war & Avengers Endgame.

DC comic movies are not animated either, perhaps seeing comics in there gave you another idea.
The latest one of them (released early this year) is Birds of Prey, a sequel to Will Smith's Suicide Squad - you can watch these with family too.
Some other films under DC comics are Aquaman, Wonder Woman, and a host of others.. all beautifully made family-friendly movies good enough to hold your attention.

The list of series you gave above are definitely not under18 appropriate, although I would rate La Casa De Papel as age-14 and above appropriate.

The series SEE which I suggested earlier has the GOT/Vikings kind of feel to it, but unlike those ones is completely family-oriented...you would probably like it and be able to invite your children to sit and watch it with you.

Oooooooh! Wonderful.
You sure know what you are writing about.
Will see reviews of ALL your recommendations and watch accordingly.

Thanks a lot! Oo la lah!