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coolcatty:
This message touch me nobi small.....i genuinely feel for you.

Its really sad...i know how you feel..been through this shiiit some years back..though with a girlfriend...your situation is precarious because this is supposed to be your wife....your partner...but she has clearly failed you...so many months without reaching out...upon the fact that you guys have kids together...i was in this kind of ego/pride malice issues in the early stages of my marriage...but my wife always reached out often using our child to draw me closer,even made a rooster for child visitation,always wanted me to visit her in her Father's house,we gist and all that and i'm sure your wife is not even half as educated,intelligent and highly placed career wise than my wife..women have pride but your wife's own is a rare mix of pride,ego and gross stupidity/silliness.

its hard but you need to get busy...focus on your job,education..get a another woman,a new car,apartment,do threesooomes etc...just do anything that will take your mind away from that woman..she clearly is not concerned and values her ego more than you.

three some , common be serious.Thanks for your concern anyways. I really appreciate

Google up Nigerian lawyers online and contact anyone for help with divorce. Alternatively, contact the Nigerian Bar association and they will be able to help you with a lawer. All the best

sisisioge:
Awwww...loving eyes never really see no matter how much otherwise one tells oneself. You clearly miss her. Pele. Biko send her divorce papers. Don't think of mending fences. She's been gone for too long. A loving heart wouldn't have been able to maintain the silence for this long. Let her go jare...forget her. If you two go back together, it's only a matter of time before you go asunder again. It is well...may God bless us with wonderful people.

The best way, they say, to get over someone is to get under another

Thanks

ChiefAzubuike:
Here in USA today, Maryland shooting occur. See as the whole world carry the news. Even as far as middle east like aljazeraa. People die like chickens for plateau the news no make waves. People roast like Bush meat for Lagos nobody hear anything outside the shores of naija. Una wey dey live for that country dey try abeg.

my brother nija na hell bikooo. Forget people that are saying things are okay Nor let anybody decieve you. Enjoy Yankee. How can over 200 people be murdered and the world is not shouting. 5 people killed in France airport the world stood still.

anath:
I v done that, or u should pls pm me. Don’t kill urself because of Another person daughter rather do so for ur mum’s daughter to some extent though. Guy, know ur worth...... Jst pm me I will appreciate this sir.

please this email, I could not open that one lisbonabdulahi@yahoo.com. Thanks

anath:
I v done that, or u should pls pm me. Don’t kill urself because of Another person daughter rather do so for ur mum’s daughter to some extent though. Guy, know ur worth...... Jst pm me I will appreciate this sir.

check your mail in 5 minutes

anath:
Bros bros don’t love those that don’t let be u. U can’t do more than what u hav done before, pls forget her. No one worth more than u. Infact u were leaving better before u met her likewise u will also leave better if she is not existing on earth. U v lost huge number of love ones and still u are still happy let alone she is not dead she still alive, so ps forget her. Just assume she is not existing, hav fun and enjoy ur freedom. Enjoy the advantages of bachelorhood. Just hav fun, life sweet ooooooooo. No one , I mean no one worth killin ur pride even after trying ur best.

Thank you my brother. But some of the statement you wrote there are making worried. It appears you know me, because those things you mentioned are all true.especially this : YOU HAVE LOST HUGE NUMBER OF LOVED ONES. I sincerely do not want to be known, I don't like social media marital battle. I just want advice and move on with my life. Thank you so much for your time. Please if you know me, pm me

sexy74:
live your life, don't let her thoughts or what she does becloud you.
Occupy your mind and grow yourself in all you do.
it will be painful initial but trust me you will get over it and come out stronger.
Always remember this" never love a woman with all your hear, always keep the one you will use move on.

I understand your point, but is is not reallywrong go love someone truely, it is just that people abuse it

[quote author=yettymuse post=68911505]Pele! It is understandable how difficult it is to move on. In a situation where you have exhausted all options and still proves abortive, your happiness and sanity should be priority. You both would be fine.

Separation might even mean FRESH AIR, an avenue for peace and total self absorption. Like the story coolcatty mentioned, there might still be a miraculous bliss after all. Don't stop being the best father to your kids as you forge ahead. I wish you all the Best. [/quote Thank you so much.

yettymuse:
3 threads yet you're saying enough is enough, you obviously still love your woman but ego no gree you. Madam sef carry shoulder pad. You people should go your separate ways let us all breathe some fresh air! Everybody go dey alright las las!

It is just being patient.

sexy74:
live your life, don't let her thoughts or what she does becloud you.
Occupy your mind and grow yourself in all you do.
it will be painful initial but trust me you will get over it and come out stronger.
Always remember this" never love a woman with all your hear, always keep the one you will use move on.

thanks for your time and advise

The previous threads

1. https://www.nairaland.com/4447411/wife-finally-moved

2. https://www.nairaland.com/4457718/update-wife-finally-moved


Hello all the good people of naira land and family section, I am updating you all on my previous thread, about how my wife and I have refused to speak with each other, I have always been to call and work out things when situation gets bad, but this time, I have resolved never to. As for me, enough is enough. For the fact that we have still not communicated since these past months just for an issue as simple as that, and that we do not live in the same place, I think this is more than meets the eye. Probably this separation is all she wanted all these while to make her happy. What do you think guys?

Men, some women are wicked

emeijeh:
Say no more.....

savagery on nairaland

Oshlander:
To be sincere, I'm tired of this "Server downtime" being witnessed on this forum recently.
How can I be opening and reopening a page by pressing 'reload page' 7 times?
And I'm not seeing more people or Seun talking about it or work in progress respectively!

Imagine trying to post "a" on a thread to secure post and it's taking you up to 10 times before you can comment!

Please do something urgently.

Thank you.

Serbia 2 : 3 Brazil.

guy check your network. It is very fine here

Brazil should score I beg. Over 1.5 is not too much. I can come and go kill myself bikoo

Mekanus:
People no just dey interested for this world cup again ooo

the dulling too much

KanwuliaExtra:
Pele o.
VAR is LORD!
Have you worshipped him today?

I warn you

KanwuliaExtra:
How far with Argentina na?

don't annoy me further

KanwuliaExtra:
And NL is the best place for advice?

Sorry! I am a HARD-CORE feminist. Can’t identify with your kind of “domestic tragegy”!

This is 2018. Unheard of even by primitive standards.

such a fool

TheCongo2:
Thanks bro.
I should start celebrating from the DR Congo
Nigeria will go through the rest of this tournament

guy how DRC

So this is all this man can say. God put Osibanjo in government what else do you want God to do, He should sent angel Gabriel down to be president of the vice president? If daddy freeze talk now, people we say he has started.

The preacher from hell !!!

Marry, you nor wan marry. Women have the magic. They speak with ingredients, they just know what to do

Moboj:
This Doreto guy is soo funny
This is one of the dumbest reasons I've heard of for breaking up soo far
If you look at it really,4 months is not too much
Ladies again and again some guys are not worth saying I do to
If you've not learnt the three cardinal points of life you're not fit for marriage
Love
Honesty
Tolerance
Love and Tolerance kills pride and ego,so what if she ignored calling,you went on doing the same,leaving two immatured mind's,
Op you just wasted a phase of your life for what really
Mummy and Daddy's love play of childhood wasn't this bad when we said "maa gbe keke e lo mi o ba e sere mo" we still reconciled
One of the biggest failures of life is a man or woman who couldn't handle "ego" or challenges in the school called "marriage"
Op you're only walking away from your weakness,face it
Maybe that's what your In-laws see in you
A weak man running from his weakness is all I see here
Coming here to listen to some bitter folks judgement,what happened to the love behind the "will you" ask yourself what if even after being more successful the next wife is like that,so you'd keep runningone day you'd run till the soles of your feets turns sore,then you'd sit back and cry like the weakling you've always been,you better go to your wife now,weakling

Madam just look at what you wrote.you are very bitter

LOSKYXANDER:
It's been forever since I last got likes. Please can someone just hit the like button for absolutely no reason...just do am your hand no go bend

I gave you a like and a share

Iran is exposing Portugal

Sammiejo:
Nope!

so why the thing pepper you?

Sammiejo:
Liar.

Obviously I have described you

EVILZIMBO:
no stress bro.....God dey ur syd

God blesss youuuuu for your prayers, the thing don enter, . Men this is my world cup, minimum, risk, and winning steadily

EVILZIMBO:
no stress bro.....God dey ur syd

amen ohhhhh. 45 minutes to go

m784n:
youre not nice