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Politics › June 12 Honour, Do You Think Buhari Knows What He Is Doing by kapelvej(op): 4:20pm On Jun 12, 2018
It appears buhari does not know what he is doing. He honours Abiola and worships Abacha at the same time what an Irony.
Click like if you think Buhari is confused as usual and click share if you think he knows what he is doing
Family › Re: Man Buys His Daughter N35m BMW, A Job, An Apartment For Graduating At 23(Pics by kapelvej: 10:41am On Jun 12, 2018
decatalyst:
I pray and declare this morning that I will be a father my wife and children will be proud of and a man of accomplishments and great exploits.

A boss man! So help me God
Amen, the fisrt thing bro is to marry a good wife.
Politics › Re: Destroying Me Amounts To Destroying APC In Igboland – Okorocha by kapelvej: 6:59am On Jun 12, 2018
cheddahboy:
Okorodudu
cheesy grin
Politics › Re: Twelve Fact You Need To Know About Moshood Kashimawo And June 12 Election by kapelvej: 6:55am On Jun 12, 2018
And the Yoruba fools are celebrating a Greek gift
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Keep Going Back To An Ex? by kapelvej: 6:51am On Jun 12, 2018
malificent:
Personally I don't. Cause I'm a very patient person when it comes to relationships, I'll give you enough grace to do me over time and time again before I make it known to you that I've had enough.

When I'm done with a relationship my mindset is that the guy lost me and not the other way around. Affluence, mind blowing sex, even fine face will not make me go back to an ex, Its almost like going back to eat my vomit.
it means you had at least three exes, then something is definitely wrong some where
Politics › Re: Photos Of Dino Melaye In Court As Accused Persons Deny Allegations Against Him. by kapelvej: 7:52pm On Jun 11, 2018
iamleumas:
Well in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking at this matter in a different way and without fighting and by trying to make it clear, and by considering each and every ones opinion, I honestly believe that I have completely forgotten what I wanted to say...
cheesy
Politics › Re: Photos Of Dino Melaye In Court As Accused Persons Deny Allegations Against Him. by kapelvej: 7:52pm On Jun 11, 2018
ChiefAzubuike:
I wonder why this thug was arraigned in court and his case adjourned when he can clearly be judged of being a criminal by mere looking at his face. There are some people you don't think twice before locking them up for good.
grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Dead Man Comes Back To Life In The Mortuary In Edo(photos) by kapelvej: 3:17pm On Jun 11, 2018
Praise God. If you don't believe, please leave us that believe. If you like call us fools. All I know is, my God liveth
Politics › Re: Govt That Watches Its People Get Killed Every Day Is Irresponsible - Amaechi by kapelvej: 1:58pm On Jun 11, 2018
[quote author=360great post=68378636]See who is talking [/quote grin]
Family › Re: 10 Marital "Nevers" by kapelvej: 7:16pm On Jun 10, 2018
shobam1410:
1. Never respond to your mate brashly.
2. Never hit your mate out of temper or frustration, ever.
3. Never seek to shame your spouse in public (or in private for that matter).
4. Never fight in front of your kids (or use them as leverage in a disagreement).
5. Never mention your spouse's parents or any other family member in the moment of disagreement.
6. Never dig up the past; try to stay on topic.
7. Never try to win an argument.
8. Never yell, use derogatory comments or verbally defame your spouse.
9. Never withhold physical intimacy or use sex to manipulate.
10. Never put off seeking resolution.
so if the past is relevant to the present problem years u should not dig it up. If the problem is dat, you discovered your husband has a child he never told you about you should not talk about it
Politics › Buhari And Apc's Psychiatric Illness (cognitive Distortion) by kapelvej(op): 9:36am On Jun 10, 2018
When Buhari and the APC came to power, a lot was expected from them, three years down the road, it is clear that the APC and the Buhari led government suffer Cognitive Distortion. Follow me as I take you down their road of cognitive distortion which is a major psychiatric ailment
The cognitive distortions are:

• All-or-nothing thinking: Seeing everything as binary: black/white, true/
false, good/bad, etc. Thinking in these terms is called dichotomous reasoning and often forces negativity as things are rarely wholly positive.

• Arbitrary inference: Quickly drawing conclusions (usually negative or of failure) with little or no evidence to support them.

• Disqualifying the positive: Ignoring or undermining any positive statement that does not relate to The APC or Buhari

• Emotional reasoning: Assuming that (negative) emotions reflect the way things truly are: ‘I feel it, PDP and majority of Nigerians are corrupt, the youths are lazy, criticism is corruption fighting back, therefore it must be true.’

• Jumping to conclusions: Reaching a negative conclusion from insufficient (if any) evidence. This utilizes mind reading, concluding that someone is thinking negatively from their behaviour and then reacting to this assumption without checking with them and fortune telling, predicting a negative outcome and acting as though this prediction was an established fact.

• Magnification and minimization: Exaggerating any perceived failure/weakness and diminishing any success/strength. Also called the ‘binocular
trick’. An extreme example of this is catastrophizing, assigning the greatest emphasis to the most terrible possible outcome, however unlikely.

• Mental filtering: Concentrating on a negative element in a situation to the exclusion of everything else.

• Overgeneralization: Drawing global conclusions about worth/performance on the basis of insufficient (often only a single) negative experience. In its extreme form, this is (mis)labelling—attributing a person’s whole character based on a single action/ behavior which may have been due to error.

• Personalization: Attaching personal responsibility, and usually guilt, for an event over which there was no control. Also blaming (opposite of
personalization) is holding other people responsible for distress (often emotional) caused even if was out of their control.

• Selective abstraction: Dwelling on insignificant (negative) detail while ignoring more important features or stimuli.
Career › Re: What's The Salary Of A British Council Exam Invigilator? by kapelvej: 8:25am On Jun 10, 2018
Beress:
Were u later employed for this job?
hahahahahah, British Council examiners are never allowed to let the public know the nature of their job
Jokes Etc › Re: 40 Funny Pictures To Spice Your Weekend by kapelvej: 7:05pm On Jun 09, 2018
Skepticus:
cool

Any man who thinks the first meme refers to Benin Girls alone, and doesn't include most of Nigerian Girls is a first-class Maga!
God bless you
Jokes Etc › Re: 40 Funny Pictures To Spice Your Weekend by kapelvej: 6:52pm On Jun 09, 2018
Yungwizzzy28:
Here's some funny pictures to ease your stress after a long week.


Tag any edo girl you know grin grin


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Politics › Re: You’re All Reaping What You Sowed, Jonathan’s Aide Tells Obasanjo, Others by kapelvej: 8:53pm On Jun 08, 2018
thesicilian:
He has forgotten when he said that.
grin grin
Politics › Re: Shocking Revelation: Real Reason Buhari Is After Saraki by kapelvej: 7:58pm On Jun 08, 2018
Daviddson:
My only grouse is that some people who should be intelligent enough to see this thread and its content as complete trash, will zealously come here, commenting with the whole of their strength.
let's start from you, prove to us you are intelligent by telling us how this post is a trash
Politics › Re: You’re All Reaping What You Sowed, Jonathan’s Aide Tells Obasanjo, Others by kapelvej: 7:39pm On Jun 08, 2018
I thought Obasanjo said he preferred buhari to win, even if he jails him than allow Johnathan to win.
Such a fool
Family › Re: Foreign Based Naija Or Naija Based Wife by kapelvej: 6:48am On Jun 08, 2018
Culture › Re: Ovonramwen Nogbaisi: The Oba Of Benin Conquered And Exiled To Calabar By British by kapelvej: 7:23pm On Jun 07, 2018
Ubijus1:
This is the touching life story of Oba Ovonramwen Nogbaisi who ruled the Benin empire before he was dethroned and exiled by the British.

Oba Ovonramwen Nogbaisi (ruled 1888 – 1897), also called Overami, was the Oba (king) of the Kingdom of Benin up until the British punitive expedition of 1897.

Born in circa 1857, he was the son of Oba Adolo he took the name Ovonramwen Nogbaisi at his enthronement in 1888, every Oba took a new name at his coronation, the name translates as Ovonramwen meaning “The Rising Sun” and Nogbaisi meaning “which spreads over all.”

At the end of the 19th century, the Kingdom of Benin had managed to retain its independence and the Oba exercised a monopoly over trade which the British found irksome. The territory was coveted by an influential group of investors for its rich natural resources such as palm-oil, rubber and ivory. The kingdom was largely independent of British control, and pressure continued from figures such as Vice-Consul James Robert Phillips and Captain Gallwey (the British vice-Consul of Oil Rivers Protectorate) who were pushing for British annexation of the Benin Empire and the removal of the Oba.

A British invasion force headed by Phillips set out to overthrow the Oba in 1896. The force’s weapons were hidden in baggage, with troops disguised as bearers. Phillips plan was to gain access to Ovonramwen’s palace by announcing that he intended to negotiate. Ovonramwen’s messengers issued several warnings not to violate Benin territorial sovereignty, claiming he was unable to see Phillips due to ceremonial duties. Having been warned on several further occasions on the way, Phillips sent his stick to the Oba, a deliberate insult designed to provoke the conflict that would provide an excuse for British annexation.

Phillip’s expedition was ambushed and all but two were killed. Subsequently a military operation against Benin in 1897 led by Harry Rawson resulted in the burning of Benin City, the destruction and looting of the royal palaces, and the deaths of untold numbers of its inhabitants. Although the British had orders to hang the Oba, Ovonramwen escaped, but returned to the city to formally surrender on 5 August 1897. When Ovonramwen returned to the city, after six months spent in evading capture in the forest, he was richly dressed and laden with coral beads and accompanied by an entourage of seven hundred to eight hundred people.

He attempted to escape exile by offering Consul General Ralph Moor 200 puncheons (barrels) of oil worth £1500 [£183000.00 today] and to disclose where his 500 ivory tusks were buried [today’s value: Up to £275,625,500.00] however this offer was dismissed as Mr. Moor had already discovered them.

Ovonramwen was exiled to Calabar with his two of his wives, Queen Egbe and Queen Aighobahi, and died there around the turn of the new year in 1914. Ovonramwen was eventually buried in the grounds of the royal palace in Benin City. He was succeeded by his first son and legitimate heir, Prince Aguobasimwin, who ruled as Eweka II.


https://wakanda.ng/ovonramwen-nogbaisi-oba-benin-conquered-exiled-calabar-british/
oba GHA tor kpere
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu And Ebube, His Daughter (Photos) by kapelvej: 6:35am On Jun 07, 2018
overdrive:
This man brief sha grin
have measured the height of his pocket ?
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet TL Kelvin In Sex Scandal, Sleeps With Married Woman by kapelvej: 2:43pm On Jun 06, 2018
Almunjid:
Yes, but how do u know the good ones them? Because the pastor u may recommend maybe among the tricky ones.
well, difficult
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Czech Republic Friendly - 0 - 1 (Full -Time) by kapelvej: 2:24pm On Jun 06, 2018
Gamesmart:
Watch here guys.

Don't mind the idiots posting useless links. I don get correct one.

http://www.sportingvideo3.com/20180605/wv5b16f63d54531898238495-1984155.html
God bless
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet TL Kelvin In Sex Scandal, Sleeps With Married Woman by kapelvej: 11:47am On Jun 06, 2018
Almunjid:
If he gives his life to Christ who will help him to grow in d lord?. Pastors cannot b trusted. Christianity is in deep shit. �
of course not all pastors are tricky
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet TL Kelvin In Sex Scandal, Sleeps With Married Woman by kapelvej: 6:58am On Jun 06, 2018
NwaChibuzor060:
Bleep you and that pastor feeding your head with lies.
grin grin man I am sorry, I should not be preaching a message of condemnation. I sent that before o realised. However please give your life to Christ. Forget what pastors atevdoing, Christ is the standard. I am sorry for the earlier message of condemnation grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet TL Kelvin In Sex Scandal, Sleeps With Married Woman by kapelvej: 6:43am On Jun 06, 2018
NwaChibuzor060:
Yes. Are they above any scrutiny?
there is a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end there of is destruction
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet TL Kelvin In Sex Scandal, Sleeps With Married Woman by kapelvej: 6:18am On Jun 06, 2018
NwaChibuzor060:
Marriage is a scam and bondage. Let he who hasn't cheated or have an affair outside marriage be the first to cast a stone. Even the likes of Folu Adeboye and Faith Oyedepo sure must have cheated before . The problem with marriages today is that we focus more on loyalty than love.

Fact is I'm not married yet but when I do I will definitely have numerous affairs outside because I can't use egusi soup to eat for the rest of my life .
Man gats try new soups once in a while.
you bring in the Oyedepos' into this ?
Politics › Re: How Governor Fayose Carried A Woman That Fainted by kapelvej: 9:01am On Jun 05, 2018
priceaction:
Watching the video you will know that this is totally staged.
From the camera angle to the movement of the woman, to the emerging of the governor, then to the whole jubilation that follows, and watch that many cameras were involved to the continuities of the whole scene then to the editing.
Pure drama, well anything goes for political office holders and their loyalists. We ekiti people in diaspora don't even understand them again.
and so ?
Family › Re: Help A Friend In Distress With Accommodation by kapelvej: 9:54pm On Jun 04, 2018
mizlovette:
Nairalanders please help a friend who just left a one year old marriage due to violence. She has no where to go to and is almost depressed
She just needs a place to stay for a while yo put herself together and start life afresh. Please this could go a long way to heal her. Note: she has no child. Please help
where does she live
Family › Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by kapelvej: 9:53pm On Jun 04, 2018
timilehin007:
after reading ur missive lol...I wanted to ask that are we sure she's not same girl. Probably using so super natural power to run both homes with same ideology. ..to God she is a flirt too...she doesnt know ow to tell men 'no and she doesn't hide it from me or be secretive abwt it...she says she doesn't have anything with them that shouldn't worry myself but to me she's giving this men a possible hope and I detest it...she gets angry and goes really bitter that I dont trust her...Although she once misbehaved with a guy sha...I don't want to go deep into that...
PGA, hope you are not repeating my story. I may have to call you on phone, because now you are making me scared. Just imagine the last thing you said. This happened exactly to me the way you narrated it
Family › Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by kapelvej: 5:35pm On Jun 04, 2018
timilehin007:
I replied u there. ..The same system or scope to overpower them will work for us o..cuz dey are same. .for four years she didn't do any work her mum was always on my side then..just last year that she started her mom changed from hip hop to blues cuz she supports her financially too..shame can never let me say some other things she did that I tolerate for the sake of the kids and love...I swear u situation is fair o..compared to mine
Waaaat, this is exactly my story, hope you are not quoting from my story
Family › Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by kapelvej: 5:14pm On Jun 04, 2018
timilehin007:
I'm interested I will read it
Please do me the favour of letting me know your thoughts on the case
Family › Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by kapelvej: 7:59pm On Jun 03, 2018
timilehin007:
Bros I swear to almighty God. This your comment points all fingers to me. She had been using my weak point which used to be the kids. I just did exactly what u said here...and guess what?; it happened just 2days ago..I dumped her sorry ass for good . I considered that if I die the children would survive so now my well-being comes first o...I was too soft bro if I narrate my own story from the kind of torture I got from her and her mother ehnnn even the OP will shiver. .his own case is very small compared to mine..
chairman, you are learning, read my story, and tell me how it feels. https://www.nairaland.com/4447411/wife-finally-moved. And this https://www.nairaland.com/4457718/update-wife-finally-moved

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