Politics › Re: Kano Imposes Down To Dusk Curfew by kapelvej: 4:08pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Dude397: Exactly but does it have an end? I mean the ponderance of where we come from, also is there a final consensus among scholars concerning the matter? I have watched the most recent scientific clip about the big bang theory and the beginning of earth from NASA's scientist, shockingly it is not different from what the Bible said. Even NASA clearly said the world started all of a sudden, but gave the credence of that sudden start to a force of nature which christianity call God, and that it will end all of a sudden by a force of nature. The beauty here is that science is just being able to discover in 2023 what the Bible written 2000 years ago without physics or chemistry was able to determine accurately. If you need to watch the documentary, I can send it to you. It is on BBC iplayer. You need a vpn if you are outside the UK. I can also send you my VPN login details if you want. It is interesting. I really appreciate your detailed scientific understanding and Christian faith |
Politics › Re: Kano Imposes Down To Dusk Curfew by kapelvej: 9:07am On Mar 20, 2023 |
Dude397: Jesus" what a mighty name!! Over the past few years, I've dabbled on the concept of spirituality and also the concept of the soul and immortality.
Is there really a "soul" or "spirit" that lives on after a man dies and is a man's very existence? what happens to a man after he dies?.
Is there truly a life after death?? What exactly controls the universe and also gave birth to this great universe?.
Is it Big bang or the multi verse theory that caused the existence of the universe and nature? is it evolution by natural selection that gave birth to living organisms??
The epoch of humanism breeds tell tales of philosophers and scientists trying to uncover this "mystery". Of a truth, is it really a mystery? What is time? And what is humanity? Are we only existing and obeying the commands of Mother nature?
Why are we even desperately trying to uncover our origin in an attempt that never ends for millennia way past since the beginning of literacy and time itself? and also a quest for self discovery that never ends and in an unfathomable circle?
The beginning of this article mentions a name. Yes that name answers all the questions we will ever ask in this life and the hereafter.
That name uncovers the answers to what humanity has been desperately seeking, this time around, the name is above religion and science.
The name is the overall "answer" to life's questions whether we like it or not. We only "accept" as there is no other alternative or way for the salvation of mankind now or ever.
The choice is yours. You either make it or you don't to the detriment of your own soul and very existence. Time has run out and the set time has come for the Glory of the Almighty to be revealed in this fallen world. I appreciate this post because you demonstrated deep knowledge of the celestial and academic theories of the origin of the earth, man life and other yet to be answered mysteries before settling for The Christian version. This makes more sense because I can see that this person understands both sides of the theory and went ahead to choose one, instead of some Christians that just thrash everything. I think it is in order for mam to ponder were they come from and were they are going |
Politics › Re: Ogun Final Results by kapelvej: 9:52am On Mar 19, 2023 |
press9jatv: Congratulations to Ladi Adebutu of Pdp in advance  we funny shaa, you post few local government and went on to congratulate PDP |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Things Many People Don't Know About Pornography by kapelvej: 9:43am On Mar 19, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by kapelvej: 7:02pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
DaytonaAries: Honestly, everyone needs to put themselves in the woman's shoes.
Imagine having to wait to another year t9 graduate because a man cannot stay with his kids for 5 days.
Imagine working your ass off and having to wait another year so you can actually graduate, and we are still early in 2023.
The husband and wife should find someone to stay to stay with the children. Her being stubborn has nothing to do with this, when someone is trying to better themselves academically, their partner should support them no matter what.
Imagine if the reverse was the case, many people on this forum will call the woman names. can you read please. The post has just been updated by the op. It is just right above your comment, yet you are still writing this |
Family › Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by kapelvej: 2:38pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: Career FIRST always. You can lose your husband and children, but your career can NEVER be taken away from you. We live in a selfish world currently. These same people called 'husband' and 'children' will ABANDON YOU if you fail to secure your future.
Ladies and gentleman. . . don't let the illusion of marriage and family fool you. Marriage and family are always the first and second to go. . . Then, what do you have? 
Look around you? The people who die miserably are those who failed to secure their futures and spent their whole lives sacrificing themselves for EXTREMELY SELFISH spouses and children.
Children are the WORST! If they can't get anything from you. . . you are irrelevant to them o. Spouse nko. . . never to be trusted.
You must have a balance. . . if not, choose your career and stick with it.
Your spouse and children will always earn your respect because YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO DEPEND ON THEM. Evil, but sounds very reasonable |
Family › Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by kapelvej: 11:58am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: ■ Ask the woman to find someone, maybe a church member who is a stay-at-home wife to look after her kids while she is away for the course. She can negotiate fees and whatever else with the lady and her family so she gets the help she needs for the entire 2-month period or until her husband travels back from wherever he may be to take care of his own kids. The husband can show up while she is already enrolled in the course to take over care of the children that way. 
Marriage is supposed to be an agreement and a partnership between a man and a woman, not an enslavement of a woman by a man.  hmmmm |
Family › Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by kapelvej: 12:49am On Mar 15, 2023 |
These things are really deeper than this. But only one thin can be sure of, no woman that truly respects her family can go against the genuine voice of her man. And as for the man, I hope he has not lost his direction to the extent that the woman no longer trusts his lead |
Politics › Re: *college Of Agriculture, Iguoriakhi* by kapelvej: 7:49pm On Mar 13, 2023 |
Impeachment loading. All these will not help |
Politics › Re: Obaseki Is Regular With Staff Promotion And Regular Monthly Payments by kapelvej: 2:23am On Mar 10, 2023 |
All these will not help. He has failed the edo people, running the state with 10 house of assembly member out of 22. No local government election for 4 years. Please we are voting labour from Edo south, Oshiomole brings in the guys from edo north, and Orbih brings his gang from Edo central and boom, obaseki is gone. |
Politics › Re: *the Rise Of Effective Legislation In Edo Through Mega* by kapelvej: 2:14am On Mar 10, 2023 |
No way for Obaseki, the ogbomwanyese 1 of Edo kingdom |
Politics › Re: Omokri To Obidients:19 States Plus FCT Can't Win You The Election by kapelvej: 11:26am On Mar 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Can Still Win This Election by kapelvej: 3:49pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Meet 18-Year-Old Goodwill Yogusuk (South Sudanese Goalkeeper) by kapelvej: 11:05am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Iagos: See Christian names o. I used to think that they're Muslims in south Sudan that is one reason they could not live with the other sudan which are predominantly moslems |
Politics › Re: Suggest A Running Mate For Datti Baba Ahmed After Obi 8 Years by kapelvej: 8:57pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
upoturat: When I look at the billions Tinubu is taking home monthly just because he is Lagos ex governor and I look at how Peter Obi rejected everything, including his gratuity, I become tempted to vote Obi.
But as a professional tribal bigot and naturally w!cked person, I will vote BAT  |
Politics › Re: Permit Me To Call My Primary School Teacher A Fool by kapelvej: 8:23pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Bahdguyishere: Charity they say begins at home. You have no regards for your parents at home, if not, you won't be here writing these about your teacher and insulting Yorubas. It clearly showed you were badly raised by your parents and you are a disaster waiting to happen. Why guilt tripping the OP . What kind of a teacher insults a president in the presence of school children that she teaches |
Education › USA University Admissions by kapelvej(op): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hello all, please is there any examination that someone aspiring for a degree programme in the US should take before admission? |
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Family › Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by kapelvej: 9:48pm On Nov 05, 2022 |
Madampauline: Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.
He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.
I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.
I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.
I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.
She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.
I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.
Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.
Advice me please The crucial thing is that she MUST know that the help came from her late husband's influence and goodness. Why not tell her that you dated her husband briefly long before they married and the man was good to you. So you are just paying him back his good deed. |
Family › Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by kapelvej: 9:32am On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14: My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.
Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.
The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding. Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning. Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket. And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.
For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder. I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian. very sad, but remember for anything you do, she is your wife's twin |
Politics › Re: Rabiu Kwankwaso Commissions NNPP Office In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by kapelvej: 1:29am On Oct 09, 2022 |
Kennitrust: This man is a tribal bigotry I agree, he is a tribal bigot full time |
Family › Re: Rebuttal- Complex Marital Issue Https://www.nairaland.co by kapelvej: 10:38pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
aieromon: First account opened 29th of September 2022 and threads hits front page.
Second account opens rebuttal thread 24 hours later and waiting to hit front page. waooo. Are you the person involved. So sorry for the challenge |
Romance › Re: He Wants To Date, But He Doesn't Like My Son. by kapelvej: 3:36pm On Sep 19, 2022 |
MaryAye: I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.
He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.
Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.
I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.
Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not? Please just leave the guy alone, even if he pretends to change later. Just leave him for the safety of your son. Your son is a blessing to you, and let no man make you feel otherwise. I know things are racing in your head now about the circumstances of his birth. |
Family › Re: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by kapelvej: 2:55pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Chidiesta: Good day nairalanders,
I have lived in Germany for 3 years now i have a 1 years old daughter and I also have a 8 years old daughter who lives with my elder sister in nigeria.
She is married with three kids , I provide everything for them and I pay one of her child school fee but my sister is never satisfied with the money she keep demanding me for more money.
She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.
I make sure that I send a big parcel for all of them once a year as I am typing the parcel is on the way but she want me to pay school fees for all her children too and I can't afford to pay for all four.
I am paying her son school fees is 87k per term and my daughter own is 67k . On the 2nd I sent her 300k for school fees and foodstuffs she called on monday demanding me for 154k for her son and my daughter school fee I asked her what about the money I sent on the 2nd she said she bought foodstuffs for 120k and use the 180k for her two oldest children school fee and she want me to send the 154k for the youngest 2 , I was angry with her and I cut the call.
I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.
I have spoken to my friend she is happy to take care of my daughter for me until I am stable enough to bring her to Germany. I like the idea because my sister is not helping me to progress.
I hope my daughter living with my friend will be a good idea.
I haven't told my sister anything yet because we are not in good term but I want to hear from you first please let me know if I should allow my friend to take care of her or I should leave her with my elder sister. Blood is thicker than water ohhhhh. As long as your daughter is not being abused. Dont go and drop her where they will abuse her because you want to save money. If a girl child is abused, the damaged is almost forever. This should make you hustle quick to get your papers so that you can move her. |
Politics › Re: Which Guber Elections Will Apc,lp,pdp And Nnpp Win? by kapelvej: 2:31pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
garfield1: Edo guber is 2024 u are right. Thanks |
Politics › Re: Which Guber Elections Will Apc,lp,pdp And Nnpp Win? by kapelvej: 12:26pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
garfield1: Apc Zamfara,kebbi,sokoto,katsina,Kaduna,jigawa,borno,yobe,gombe,Niger,nasarawa,kwara,Benue, Ogun,lagos,cross river,IMO,ebonyi
Pdp Taraba,kogi,Oyo,rivers,akwa ibom,Enugu,abia
Lp Maybe plateau or Enugu Nnpp Kano,maybe bauchi,
Battlegrounds Adamawa,bauchi,plateau,delta,cross river partially, bayelsa.
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Kyase Passing shot Oghenaogie Helinues Majamatic Dannycypher Kingyakos Aiel Noethnicity Cajal Quotasystem Majole Seanfer Chrixxx Penguin2 what is this . No Edo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 250k Job In Lagos Vs 200k Job In Benin by kapelvej: 12:01pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Gr8mike: Good day my fellow Nairalanders,
So I recently got a job as in IT officer in Lagos and in Benin, the one I got in Lagos(Restaurant /Fashion Store) is 250k plus pensions and HMO while the one in Benin(Hydro Farm) is 200k, no pension but there is free weekly farm produce available for staffs.
I currently reside in Lagos and my house rent is on the High side but I am from Benin and getting accommodation in Benin won't be hard.
With the high inflation rate, will you advise I move to Benin considering I won't be spending on food, transportation and housing is cheap.
Please I need your comments. I hear dey usually wake up by 3 am in Lagos for a job starting by 9 am, just to avoid traffic |
Family › Re: Dr Joe Abah Celebrates 30 Years Marriage. Share Tips For Young Men by kapelvej: 9:17pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
RedChiefPriest: Hmmm lol Some of you men are funny for real You don't believe you deserve good things but you sha have to slave for you to be a real man. Na why I like women,they sabi how to make you treat them well and enjoy life .
Buy charger every week because she's going to spoil her charger? Charge the powerbanks because she will just come and use anyone when she needs it? Does that even look sane to you? When mama spoil charger 2 times,she will start buying her own. When you use up the battery of the power bank,why won't you charge it? Na mumu thing be that. Helping out in the kitchen is cool actually, you talk and bond more self unless she does not approve. Helping out around the house is sane also,they don't have to tell you that one. With all the epistles written above, a man is to do this and do that,what should the woman do for the man? No gift for the man,nothing to make his own life easy from the wife ba? Oh! I forgot,as a man slave for the family and make sure your wife is happy or else you're not a real man . God punish the society definition of a real man.
Dj! Plenty kegs of palmwine for me and other people interested Barman! Play me "Manipulated Man" by Joseph Yobo and Kim Kardashian.d I feel you bro. The OP is funny |
Politics › Re: OBJ, IBB, Abdulsalami, Gusau, Abdullahi Are Supporting Peter Obi - Sowore by kapelvej: 11:01am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Oluwabusobomi: In response to Joe Igbokwe who affirmed that Tinubu will win in 14 States, I want to emphatically say that if election is conducted today, Peter Obi will win handsomely in the following states:
1. Rivers 2. Akwa-Ibom 3. Delta 4. Edo 5. Cross- River 6. Bayelsa 7. Enugu 8. Anambra 9. Imo 10. Enonyi 11. Abia 12. Benue 13. Plateau 14. Kaduna 15. Taraba 16. Abuja
Plus a very good outing (40%) in all south west states except Ogun and Osun for now.
Good outing in Christian dominated North East areas
At least 25% in the remaining Northern states
No doubt, the numbers will continue to increase till the Election Day.
@ObiDatti is a goal
Lalasticala Next time put Edo in number one. Obi is getting 95 percent votes there. Those guys are not smiling |
Romance › Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by kapelvej: 11:48pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
LUAN1: you are right bro, We don't have any woman who is entirely wicked or have bad character, it all depends whether she likes you all not, if she likes you she will respect you, her bad character will not manifest, but if you are not the kind of man she want, you will see all manners of drama and attitude that she will bring from the pit of hell. Same way you will meet a girl and tried to toast or ask her her for sex, she denied you, while the kind of guy she likes won't even stress himself before she fall for him. excellent |