₦airaland Forum

Youngmaster0:
No one has desert the community, how can a community like orifitte be desert..

you are right. The news that hit frontpage this morning was written by one afo.nja from somewhere is Osogbo.

Angelfrost:
With all due respect sir, that is unacceptable!!! Where in this universe do healthcare professionals especially in a hospital fold their hands and watch a patient bleed to death, because of a worthless piece of paper from a fvcking useless police station??! Where??!... What sort of barbarism are we condoning in this Jet age??!...

There are certain things even you should be ashamed to utter in a public forum for Pete's sake!!!

you are right, it was barbaric and wickd of them to watch her bleed to death but sorry the rule is the rule. They could have treated her and prolly get into trouble too.

You are right Cheillini, just same way you helped Cannavaro robbed Zidane off in 2006 with that your useless stunt.

Oponu irare. Nonsense and headnaldo.

I pray ignorance won't finish us all in Nigeria. If people had known that hospitals will probably refuse to treat her on the basis that stab wound require a police report before it could be attended to by a hospital maybe they'd have probably rescue her through first aid, stopping the blood rush at least cuz i'm sure she'd have died losing blood.

They could at least keep a little alive with that while they rush to nearest police station for report.

I think the ministry ofinformation have jobs to do in this area, they should always help us with vital informations such as this. Someone like me only knows of the gunshot wound.

R.I.P Moradeun, i saw how she was eulogized by people on twitter yesterday. She must trully have been a star like someone described her.

Hausa/Fulani no carry una wahala reach Ijesa people land o. Dem juju no be here o. Even me dey fear dem.

Ladylite:
Do not forget there is a Psychological side to such things as marriage

There is also a spiritual side

There is also a cultural side

And the commonly known financial side to marriage.

So how do you think you can find one answer.. My dear, you can't o.

Everyone has their own side.

The struggle is because of our tradition makes marriage a do or die affair.... We do not have notable people who are not married yet very successful.... So everyone seem to think marriage is progress and success.... Without knowing it is hard work and a slowdown on life.


Marriage is good but not for every body. We also think a marriage is not successful unless kids are born.... Meanwhile in developed countries.... Children are optional even in marriage.

When a concept is too magnified it become hard to achieve.

I'm glad you get to see it the Nigerian way like me.

Those sides (Spiritual, Cutural) are for those ruled by those two and for the financial side, it ain't suppose to b issue unless one or the two parties wasn't on the right path prior marriage.

And as for notable people, i wouldn't see it that way, if you are doing things because people are doing it and not because you see the neccessity then it's not worth it.

Marriage is for everybody also, man was created for the sole purpose of procreation and since God Himself forbids fornication then it must happen that He wanted marriage so His purpose can be fulfillled. Except in the case where a person doesn't believe in God. But well, you can talk of a situation where a person also make it optional just like some married folks make children optional too.

There was this man in my neighborhood then, he should be almost or exactly 40 years, he told me then how he was busy chasing better life then while he ignored girls and all thinking he'd be soooo rich someway somehow and so he can get married before or at the most 32 years, then at 40, he wasn't a millionaire self and then struggling to find a lady he could convince because he wanted younger ladies @ 28 and all but he also seems too old for his specs.

I have lots of stories like that to tell but that's not the reason for this thread.

What i'm asking is, should he really be that hard to find someone to marry? Shoud people really struggle to get a spouse?

Like, why does it seems hard for people to get husband/wife. Is it really suppose to be so? Or we are propably being too watchful or maybe judgemental or maybe too careful?

I'll be talking about Africa and Nigeria precisely here, you know i read alot, magazines, pamphlets and all mostly sometimes foreign. Most of the times i read about this westerners getting married at age 18, 19 and co, i mostly ask myself why that is a bit hard to achieve down here. I remember this son of a pastor, he finished his study abroad, return home and got married, he was just 21. People were talking here and there about how he wasn't ripe for marriage bla bla bla, when exactly would he be ready for marriage? @ 35 when he probably fornicate away his destiny?


When it comes to marriage and all, i think the muslims are doing better, they get married as early as they can, they are living the right purpose of creation, they don't leave in delusional unlike their xtian counterpart, no matter how hard situations are, they still get to get together into it rather than fornicating around praying to God to show them right spouse, praying to God to pick their calls and all that. Well this is not religious something sha.

And also, i've seen times without numbers on this forum how girls always advice the ones amidst them ready for marriage to start looking out for men above 32 and all when in the right sense an 18 year old man is old enough to take consequence for his own action so why setting that high age for marriage?

Gotaya:
Today's Rescheduled Match

Don't miss it
#NPFL20

when it comes to southern matches any team can win but when southern teams visit the north they dare not even play a draw with their teams there.

LMC still have a long way to go.
It's not as if they can't ask for 1-2k mobile police for every matches which will provide protection during the match and escort the visiting team out of the city to avoid been attacked, same as the ref. And the league will grow tremendously.

Imagine Sunshine deliberately losing to Katsina. The league is still nonsense for now.

Juli Juli. She's a good actress, can't deny.
Buh she speaks too fast sometimes. Well Lebanese factor i guess.
Liberians still waiting for her to claim her Liberian root sha.

maynation:
Ma.rt.inez39

Maynation, come and merry me(in Indians voice) now.

I'm still hoping the gal that will be bold enough to break up with me will come my way someday. #Kolewerk

Heard it's around that Moniya axis. I think Oriders, taxify can easily take you there. Or just go to that IITA area and pick any okada there and explain you are going to the train terminal. Any okada around that axis will surely know the terminal. And awoof no must, if you no see the new one, go Dugbe go buy ticket and follow the old one. Train be train.

I don't know why Ondo state wasn't included in all this their train something self. Tayo Alasoadura made a whole lot of noise last year about how he inserted Akure route to the Itakpe-Warri thing but seems that one ain't active yet.

See their caps like that of Shekau. Useless lots.

Next presidency must also be president of the south for the south. I don't want someone like that former failure that parade himself as an educationist at all o.

Yea Aketi is rich but all the same they could have done this thing at Agodi gardens in Ibadan.

Na dem sabi sha.

SS girls are the most beautiful girl in Nigeria truth be told.

Bad gal riri. The Barbadian goddess. Who's more beautiful between Beyonce, Rihana and Keri Hilson though?

ShegzyB:
A train station without a proper terminal....... dem no even get small shame!!! Why not make a proper terminal complete with payment hubs, toilets, cafeterias, lobbies/waiting halls etc before test-riding....small thing, their body don dey shake to deceive us with 'free ride'....
nonshense an ingrejent!!!

and who tell you say dem no get terminal? Why some of you no dey get sense like this?

jossiwan:
Wait, they will soon introduce kidnapping in other to gain more customers... Case study? Kaduna-Abuja Highway

Sango is still around the corner.

kelechi50:
If you check the people that entered the train there are our brothers from the west

na your primitive backward brothers from yeast for come enter am now since Lagos,Ogun and Abeokuta belong to ibo. Omo irare.

ckmayoca:
No body wan trek Luke that abuja own. Imaging person trekking from Ogun state bush to Ibadan.

na body go tell you if you go enter bro guru dem boys hand. if you eventually make it out from their den, if you hear free ride again, you go pretend like say you don die.

Liftkid:
Our Traditional marriage Held on 23rd November. wish us something

Picture 1 and 2 when she was being prepared

picture 3. when she came out to welcome guests

omo nnas dem marriage. Ku orire