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The man is foolish!

They are the ones to shout TRP and how a man's life is hard but the moment they see the opportunity to add more financial burdens, they take it.

It doesn't just make sense to me.

Why should you pay your in-law's rent? For what reason are you giving your in-law money to start business?

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meobizy:
Onila, may God help you.

Is she onila? 🤣

It's not. Things are just too bad.

When they say things are hard, some of you think it's just on paper because you still eat no matter what.

For real, things are almost 3x their prices within one year. Best way to remedy it is to increase income by that amount but we know how hard that can be.

God did! 😎

Mourning the death of a ex is something I would perfectly understand

I know a lady with a similar issue, her own even involved abuse from her in-laws while she was living with them and the husband did nothing.

She and her kids moved to her parent's which is a stone throw from her in-law's and the husband has made no effort to move from his family house nor reconcile with his wife and kid.

Clearly, the man neither loves nor respect his wife. The question then is, why marry someone you don't love or respect?

My own issue is how young people like this look really mature. How are you guys doing it?

If you don't have the balls to tell them to leave then keep spending with a happy face.

Mariangeles:
Who better to take advice from than from someone who's seen it all, hmm?



Go and stop her naa.

If it were up to most of you guys ehn, many females would've been written off, but thank God say man no be God O!

Don't ever quote me again in your life Linda Ikeji!

Linda shouldn't be giving relationship advice.

tosinhtml:
LOL you lacks experience, If women in 1st World countries such as Singapore prefer men who earn more than they do, then why would you ever think women from your own 3rd world country would do the opposite.

Humans are similar to animals more than you'd think and in fact there are too many evidences for that, the only differentiating factor is rule of law. That is why Nigerians behave like animals as we have no rule of law.

I can Indeed tell you categorically that 20 men will likely date all the 100 women in a cage. Using real life examples, as someone who frequents Lagos Island environs, less than 10% of the wealthy men who live in Lagos Island environs date majority of the women living in that same environment. The people buying luxury houses, cars, jewellery and trips for all those women are the same few men.

IRL, there are women hotter than Yvonne Jegede that are happy with their husband in a face me and face you apartment.

Please don't make me laugh

If this were true then broke men would have no wives or girlfriend but that isn't the case.

Dyfynezz12:
Did he tell the guy to take the drink and he refused?

This is not the behavior of a friend.

Dyfynezz12:
If i was your friend nd u do that to me,I will definitely cut u off,I won't even send u any text or call.

It's not everyone that wants to kill u

Then you prove it by drinking the beer.

It's his life, he has the right to safe guard however he wants.

iamL:
No one has ever lusted after a Nigerian man outside of Nigeria. Abi na those old oyibo granny that are marrying those yahoo boys you want to talk about? Give Nigeria women the opportunity they wouldn't even marry Nigerian men, that should tell you something.

That tells that inas much as some men are Good their personality is nothing to write home about.

Faulting Nigeria women for their men demanding sexual services monetary shows how hypocritical low you are.

Abi Nigeria women you wan fault for the rapes, sexual crimes, raping mainors when some men dey do up and down?

You are a bitter feminist. God will heal your soul.

Gerrard59:
I beg to differ, humans and animals in the jungle have so many similarities. Only that humans have laws guiding them and higher intelligence. Everything else is almost the same. Besides, the cage example of 20 men to 100 women is extreme. Rather 20 men to 80 women. Just yesterday, I read that women in Singapore prefer men who earn more than they do, and taller men too. Mind you, these women earn too and even have 2 years ahead of the men since they don't go for compulsory national service.



No way a male class rep would date all the girls, but he would be able to date as much as he desires. The opportunity is there. Also, the environment is different - academic. The richer classmate would have almost all the girls to himself. There should be some room for statistical error

There's a big difference between preference and what you deserve or can get.

I would prefer to not be where I am right now. lol

Based on my own life experience, the big and powerful can attract and get a lot women for instance, but the average can replicate that too, and can fuc.k up the powerful if he oversteps his boundary.

This is something you'd hardly see in animal kingdom.

We are just too complex for this animal comparison especially when you are doing it on a social level IMO.

Gerrard59:
Poverty also plays a major role. Poverty has made people more brutish and have an "an-anything-goes" mentality. To make Nigeria prosperous, we men have to do the work. So, again, the men are to blame.

I get.

But no one has ever lusted after a Nigerian woman outside of Nigeria. It should tell you something.

If we swap genders today, the bar will be very low because most women are straight up nice guys.

A lot are good but but the personality isn't just there.

So, let them take the fault here.

Gerrard59:
No too dey vex na.

But you are right anyway...women are supplying what men demand.

How the times have changed.

Supply can cause demand too.

In all these, women have their roles to play too. When a woman has a good personality, she'd get her fair share of admirers.

But take away the clothes, breast and nyansh, many women in Nigeria don't even have that great personality.

The worst of men have better game than most women out there.

APOPTOSIS:
you are correct..
most people can't distinguish the various "weights" attached to boxing.
Mayweather though "undefeated" never rose to the level of "Anthony Joshua".
JOSHUA, LEWIS, TYSON will skin him alive. That also applies to Manny Pacquiao..
Those Bodyguards are heavyweights and will kill Mayweather straightaway.

That's the reason Tyson remains a King. He was 20 years old and of Lightweight when he submitted himself for a heavyweight fight and knocked out his opponent.

Mayweather never rose to whose level?

Oga, what are you saying?

This same Mayweather defeated big show

Gerrard59:
Amongst chickens, the cock with the biggest and reddish comb gets the most hens. We have chickens and I noticed how they move: all the fine babes follow one cock. I witnessed cocks with shorter combs and stature being so lonely without any hen moving towards them. The same applies to the Cat animal sub-classification.

The comparison between animals and humans is not a good way to explain this thing.

I see people use it everytime because it suits their narrative but it is wrong. It is worse than comparing apple and orange.

Humans are way different from animals. If you put 100 women and 100 men in a cage, 20 men won't be dating all the 100 women.


IRL, there are women hotter than Yvonne Jegede that are happy with their husband in a face me and face you apartment.

It's the reason your class rep wasn't dating all the girls in your department in school.