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Good steps but not too sure Nigeria is ready for it

Esji80:
Good , I am sorry I dont know that you are married... I called you baby earlier on... Good , I am sorry I dont know that you are married... I called you baby earlier on...

too bad then

Esji80:
Good, we are on the same page dear. I also hate Fayose because of so many reasons.

1. He takes politics as war and enmity against his opponents
2. He uses religious and ethnic bigotry to gain sympathy and use it as a campaign tool
3. He takes governance as scenes of nollywood movie- ponmo ,akara frying, stomach infrastures without paying salaries

etc

ok we are good to go then

Esji80:
I am serious dear,you are welcome

thank you but that does not stop me from hating fayose

Esji80:
I just like you baby

serious? Am so happy

Goodluck and Buhari said the same thing, now you are saying one term, we don't want to even see you in aso rock sef, so keep your one semester to yourself

I just hate this fayose can't say why

BianoJay:
Hahahahah... She doesn't, trust me.

how ?

Continue breastfeeding your child and have the other baby. Go to a good family planning center and choose a method

BianoJay:
Good morning guys.
I've been in many relationships before now, and I wouldn't say I have had the best of experiences, but I have come to believe that there isn't anything like unconditional love, well, that changed, yesterday.

I will try to keep this short. I'm a graduate and since over 3years after graduating from one of the best Universities in Nigeria, and with a second class upper (largely overrated), I haven't been able to get a job. Being the kind of person I am, who believes that being in a relationship is all about responsibility, and also with the fact that I'm someone who loves giving a lot, I decided I wouldn't get into any relationship until I get a job and be able to meet some financial obligations as a real man.

Well, I have been that way until I met this very young girl. We started out as friends. She sings and I play the piano, so, it was a musical thing. One thing led to another and we became closer. She is very young but, emotionally and psychologically mature. I enjoyed talking to her a lot and with time, I forgot all about my vow not to be in a relationship, and I fell for her completely. I later got to know from her that she has always crushed on me for a long time, because she saw a big difference in me, that I was like no guy she has ever known (I took that statement as one of those things, but it really wasn't).

We have been cool, talking about future, marriage and all. I don't have a job, and broke, but this girl believes in me so much that it scares me. She is so proud of me and has never made me feel less a man that I am. Now, this girl isn't just any kind of girl: she is extremely beautiful, tall and exceptionally intelligent, and most times I feel like I don't even deserve her, rather, for reasons best known to her, she believes she isn't even good enough for me.

Two days ago, I decided to do a general lab test and know my health status, she encouraged me to. When I went yesterday to collect the test results, an idea came to my mind. When I came back home, I texted her and told her that the relationship can't work, that the lab results showed I was HIV positive. She called me immediately, was calm and asked me what I wanted to do. I said I wanted her to stay away from me and focus on her life and career, that we don't have a future together. She wouldn't hear that, she kept calming me and asking me not ever say we can't be together, that she could never live without me. I told her I didn't want to tell my parents about it, and wanted leaving town, but she said I should give her just two days to get her stuff and go with me, that she couldn't let me be myself. She was almost crying and I couldn't bear it anymore. Had to open up to her that nothing was wrong with me and that it was just a game.

The relief in her voice was even more touching than the concern she showed. I'm just so happy to have her in my life. I feel blessed every day.

This isn't a fictitious story, it's absolutely true.

op the lady in question is HIV positive and that is why she wants to settle down with you

Like if you have watched this movie in African magic epic

God bless you Father, it is unfortunate that many catholic priest are now too money conscious. They hunt for money instead of souls for Christ. They live flamboyant lifestyle at the expense of holiness and meekness. My joy is that we still have priest like you, that still represent Christ on earth. May God bless us all

izzou:


Dont choke me Katier, please

my dear that thing they pain me like pepper. Anyway anything that rocks our boat, we Nigerians we are too special to ignore.

izzou:


Share this to ten people you love including me and see the blessings of God in your life tonight. Ignore and ten bad things will happen to you this week

lol your own is mild sef, seven years of bad luck if you ignore

izzou:
Lol.People must talk.

I don't block people. This is life is too short for such. But if you repeatedly send me broadcast messages, I must block you

same here, I hate those messages eh

Just listen to her message, forget any other thing. Muslims Christians na all one God we get

Heartbreaking for me. I just feel like crying. Your life can be perfect this minute and grumble in the next. Live like today is your last

They mistake my humility for weakness

Frankiss44:
See as the two of them look immature...

abi they look weird

Acknowledging beauties. Mature couples

Realberg:
Does it cost an extra mile to make money? Exceeding boundaries?

yes, killing, robbery and co

Princessmkpafi:
Iam very bitter now. I have a finance since 2010 till date, he's done with school, he stayed with his parent without a job for good 4yrs without a job, I do sent him money, bought him clothes, shoes etc. He wanted to die in the village, i told him to come over where I am, for good 9 months I too cared of him with money, I gave him a federal government job, they paid him 100+, now with are cat and dog, abusing me everyday, calling me names, compared me with people, this night he told me that he is done with me, that he will report me to his parent, that he will kill me, he went to see my parents oooo promised them that he will marry me. Look at now am noting before me. Please my good friends i need help, words of wisdom thinks all.

you are living with a man that is not married to you? That is wrong dear, he is blocking your chances of getting married or meeting the ideal man. Nobody has the right to hurt you in that way not when you went extra mile to make him comfortable. If you are sure, you are not bossy and rude to him, pls move on with your life and watch how he will be paid with his own coin

Beautiful write up. Everybody loves money. Everybody loves to make money and everybody wants more but not everybody can go the extra mile to make money

anayolity:
She needs a bullet in her spine!!!

easy, she is sick

indigenous234:
Therapy is for Oyinbo people.. She needs thorough and complete deleverance (Cele-style...

deliveryboy:
You are a woman, she's a woman, she maliciously destroyed a man's certificate (hoping to destroy him completely) now she needs a therapist to massage her emotions. A man slaps a woman, he's a beast and deserves to rot in jail. Nigerian women and their sense of injustice and manipulation.

which Nigerian woman? The woman is obviously sick, no right thinking person does that

jomoh:
Yes


I recommend A prison therapist with brain resetting slap every morning while I’m there.

something must be wrong with her

cold:
Correction: she needs some jail time

she is troubled, can you see

Ahmedhussain3463:
thera what?she need beaten that will return her to default nobody is born wicked people learn to be wicked.

lol what if the papa na witch

FarahAideed:
He has achieved more than all the males in your lineage combined and I can prove it ..

He has Better IVY league grade education than all the men in ur lineage so far.. Abi I Lie?

He has held higher political offices than any man from your lineage ...abi I lie?

He went to Eton boy preparatory school...no man from your lineage can dream of that for now ?

He is more handsome than all the men in your lineage ...Abi I lie?

He is more googleable than any man in your lineage ...abi I lie ...

He is more financially comfortable than any man in your lineage ...na lie?

He is more eloquent than any man from your lineage ..abi I lie?

And he has slept with more beauty queens than any man I your lineage till date ...Na lie?

As you can see he has achieved quite some things

haba bros. He meant no harm na. Nawa o