What are you even saying, Abacha government was far better than Obj, Yaradua and Goodluck combined......yardstick to measure good administration is standard of living ooo, what was the poverty rate then? Food Security and exchange rate, his problem was that he's a bad man as a person and hate opposition as a blooded solja.

EdiskyHarry:
Nobody would have believed that one day Nigeria will have a president that will beat buhari's record as the worst president of all time in the history of Africa.
Really sad. Tinubussss government is worse than Abacha

NIS Sagamu must be high on something.
Registered online and made payment for like a week, you confirmed and issue payment receipt via mail which was printed and submitted for capturing, only to call us out and said that our payment is yet to be confirmed, but oga una give me receipt Nah.
Had to write our contact and they promise to sms once they confirm payment.
Nigeria will stress you sha

Send me your number at charles.kayceemeka@gmail.com, will refer you somewhere very close to Onitsha with Anambra.

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Ive collected my monney thou, except agency and agrrement which is 120k.

CertifiedAgent:



Although your landlord and his lawyer will likely become defensive and less willing to be responsible for your plight by hiding under guise of 'Act of God' or 'natural occurrence', but the truth is that they know that their property suffers such dilemma which makes them hold you a duty of disclosure of information about their property condition which might have encourage a negotiation in the reduction of its rental value.

However, such behavior should not be welcome in the society. On a normal circumstance, property owners are required by law to disclose certain types of defects before sealing transaction. unless the property is sold or rented out "As Is", not taking action against them would be worse

Seems like someone narrated my current problem to you, the difference is that am single. Well am going back to that damn house to collect my rent in full today and move out this weekend, meenh never rent apartment at Ikate Surulere expecially Oduduwa street axis, those properties there are sinking and soaked and when its rains, water from ground pass through tiles and your funitures gone, just 1week of moving in my property now am moving out just 1 week..... I never sleep for the apartment for once, every damn things got soaks both my 55inch smart tv, center rugs, tv stands chairs,,,, please please...… I may likely break the lawyer head today if my money aint given to me today, 890k just like that

Millenniumlady:
How on earth she allow you play her up to this level is what i don't understand well i'm glad she's starting to think like a real lady and i think the best thing for her right now is to divorce you and move on cause no woman deserve to be in this terrible situation.....hope she finds love again from a REAL MAN

Words by an idiot, was she handicap when she said i do? What stop her from learning skills when the going was Rossy, my Dad knew that his wealth won't sustain him, he make sure that he sponsored my Mum through school and when he was broke.... Mumsi was doing well in education sector and taking care of the family without anyone knowing apart from immediate family.
You such a millennium Myopic Feminist and it's your type that was sent by Lucifer to wreck homes. Sycophant!!

Guy Chill, never invest now, stocks are going nosedive and buying and selling ain't helping matters due to lockdown. Don't risk it.... Who ever that's telling you to invest in this pandemic era ain't helping you, The world don't know when they will come over it

My concern is that waist, to hell with how she breathe

Just wondering why feminist also want to get married and frustrate marriage

Rekyz:
In times like this, music might be our saving grace.

Legendary and olden music that can relate to our current situation like Heal the World and not Zanku.... Nairamarley

Who is even listening to their Yeye music at this critical time self.

How much is the cheap?

You must be stupid for asking us if you should tell your Mum.... No don't tell her, allow him to bring disgrace to your father reputation and family lineage.
Please we have crucial issues at hand right now

How about Surulere? Close proximity to CMS loading bustop

I said it before, this virus will not kill us but ignorance cum illiteracy.

RAGGA40:
thank you very much i will do that.

don't forget to give testimony

RAGGA40:
[i][/i] please does any genuine people here have herbs or products that are cheaper that i can use in curing the premature ejaculation and impotency issues that is affecting me, please help a brother, it is a serious problem.

Stop sugar first
Search for Maca root grounded powder and Fenugreek powder, all from Jumia.
Buy Ginseng(preferably Korean ginseng)
Boil the ginseng very well and add the maca and fenugreek powder inside the ginseng water with the ginseng root inside and drink morning and night.
Stop sugar.
Aside from the above, also drink Adonko and eat noodles before the match, it helps to get high and think less

Na so we see am, I paid 600k for rent and pay extra 290k for stupid agency6, agreement and damages

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Agreement 60k
Commission 60k
Caution fee 30k
Agent fee 30k
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CreativeLuvDoc:
Hi Lekside230,

Let's look at some of the issues you raised and analyse them one after the other.

Okay?

Alright, time to think critically:

1.) She expects you to beg even when she's at fault.
This is a big character flaw. A person with good values will apologize
when they're wrong. It is never right to apologize for another person's misdeed.
The problem here is not you but her.

Understand this-- you can never change anyone. Change comes from within.
You can't continue to tolerate shitty behaviour from someone and expect
that they will respect you. It is counterproductive.

Just like Planetx13 said, you are acting like a "sissy."
I don't mean that in a disrespectful or insulting way.
It was said to give you a strong reality wake-up.

You need to start working on yourself as a man. Self development.
Take online courses that teach about self esteem, self image,
how to be an alpha man, etc.

2.) "She’d raise her voice at me even when I’m trying to correct her."
That's also part of the problem. She doesn't have respect for you.

Respect, as they say, is reciprocal. Raising her voice at you
on those occasions is also part of a character flaw in her.
Arrogance, inordinate pride, presumptousness, etc-- it is all part of it.

This is a fundamental character flaw that passes for a red flag.
It is not something you manage. You walk out of such situations.
Stay at your own peril.

3.) "If I’m tired of her I should let her know."
Issue 3.

She is tired of you. She's fed up with the relationship. Love has gone out
the window. I don't know much about the two of you so it will be wrong of me
to categorically say you never did her any wrong in the past that made her change.

HOWEVER, even if you hurt her in the past-- a person who is emotionally intelligent
knows how important it is to let go of past hurts and forgive and continue to love
the one they are in a relationship with.

Here's the thing, Lekside230-- she lacks emotional intelligence and good values.
These are not things you can impose on her. You can't change nobody. It comes from within.
It appears she isn't ready to change anytime soon.

Yelling, nagging, unwillingness to apologise are very solid instances of severe character flaw.

You don't deserve this nonsense in your life. Your sanity is very important.
She's becoming very toxic in your life. If you're not careful this will affect your
productivity at work and your interaction with women. You deserve better.

4.) "And if she cook for me again that she’s a bastard"

Lekside230, can't you see the handwriting on the wall?

What more do you want us to say?

To suggest that she's dating someone else?
I won't say that. That's not essentially the issue here.

The main issue here is that she is behaving inappropriately
and disrespectfully to you. If at all she is cheating on you
(which is highly probable from the scenario), that is a secondary issue
that is still worth thinking about.

Let's analyse her statement: She's using swear words at you.
She's threatening she will never cook for you again. Yes, both
of you are not married so you may not be entitled to her cooking for you
but for her to resort to threatening she will never do that again for you
in the throes of anger and malignant rage speaks volume about the kind of woman
you love!

It tells me that you need re-examining. You need to do a proper introspective analysis
and ask yourself why you don't want to overcome this door-mouth tendency in you.

You need to build your self esteem.

Settling for people who continue to abuse you speaks volume about you.
You need to work on your self so you can start attracting the right set of people into your life.

5.) "I just turn deaf ears to her....cuz every words she’s saying to me is really provoking me"

Being passive is also a problem, Lekside230.

Every relationship needs healthy communication to thrive. It takes two to tango.
It is very important that you understand the importance of speaking up and in a matured way.

Don't join issues with your girlfriend by raising your voice at her too.

She is already flawed character-wise. She may be goading you into provocation
so that you may one day slap her and then thereafter she will end up using that
against you.

It is obvious that it will take your girlfriend a long time before she can change. And it has to come from
within her. Nobody can change another person. It is volitional.

6.) "I really love her and I don’t wanna lose her."

You're "suffering" from codependency behavioral tendency.
You need urgent counselling with a therapist.

You can google "codependency relationships" to learn more.

The problem with codependency is that over time you become
addicted to toxicity. You develop coping mechanisms for it.

Toxic people can be dangerous. This is what they do:
they show you love one minute and the next they give you pain
and right after that they show you love again-- on and on
the cycle goes.

When you get enmeshed in this cycle your mind becomes messed up.
You become confused, too. Gradually you begin to settle for less-- you start accepting their
disrespectful behavior, you start tolerating their insults, you
start apologizing even when they are at fault, you start saying you love
them even when they are hurting you.

Lekside230, what more do I say?


IN CONCLUSION:
Don't just see this whole experience as proof that your girlfriend has issues.

You too have serious issues you need work on.

But to set yourself free walk out of that relationship now.

Want to know how to leave a relationship peacefully and still
retain your peace of mind and sanity?

Want to know how to start attracting the right people into your life?

Want to know what it takes to build your self image
and becoming a man of respect and start enjoying your love life?

If you need my assistance you can reach out to me via my bio.

I wish you the very best.

God bless you.

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Buhari was originally born to be a herdsman, along the line. he joined the army through the help of some friends. during the Northern rules, his rank increase and he unfortunately became the head of state, and the mistake repeated again in him being the President of a nation filled with 200 million educated and sound minded citizens.
Chai Chai... its a pity and he even told us that his second tenure aint negotiable as a tyrant

Liar, this is not Senegal parrot, people.. Senegal parrots are grey in color and that's the real Talking parrot, see the bird you wan sell as the price of real parrot

The lady Is so shameless, the boy just floored the respect many had for her, like seriously what was she expecting in the relationship... Marriage?