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PoliticsRe: Fubara And Wike: Rivers of Lessons by Kayceenaz(op): 10:52am On May 20, 2024
Righthussle:
You didn't learn any lesson about betrayal.

What I learned from this crisis :

1. The fact that someone answers "sir" and "yes sir" to everything you say when you are above him doesn't mean he's loyal to you.
You're mistaken. This point was captured in the third paragraph "underestimate nobody."
PoliticsFubara And Wike: Rivers of Lessons by Kayceenaz(op): 10:24am On May 20, 2024
Recent weeks in Rivers State haven't lacked abundant political drama that can inspire Nollywood directors to production. While Rivers indigenes, residents, the media are preoccupied with former governor and FCT minister Nyesom Wike's offenses and Governor Siminalayi Fubara’s defenses and vice-versa, mine are the timeless lessons unobvious to onlookers. These truths can rescue you today or tomorrow.

First, don't overestimate your influence. Wike assumed being a two-term Rivers State governor with access to great wealth and spearheading Fubara to power justified micromanaging him. Appointing personal aides and commissioners for his successor was frivolous. Irrespective of how infinitesimal or immense your power in a place, beware of its temporariness and step back when your reign is over. Thinking you can be as influential off a seat as you were on it is unrealistic without the occupant's permission. It diminishes your influence left and pushes you towards oblivion.

Second, underestimate nobody. Wike misinterpreted Fubara's quiet demeanor as docility. That your subordinate(s) is a man or woman of few words, obedient, zealous, and loyal is no incentive to toy with them. Human nature's self-preservation instinct can make the most agreeable or amenable persons fight back when you oppress them. Believe everybody is capable of good and evil, loyalty and disloyalty. Manifestation of either could be or not be of your making. Fubara's resistance flabbergasted Wike. Expect the best and prepare for the worst from people. Surprises are no luxury.

Lastly, greed can demystify you. Wike's influential place in Government House Port-Harcourt after leaving office was uncontested. Then came loud whispers of expected monthly remittances in billions of naira. This was ill-thought, covetous, and unsustainable. Wike should have known powers of a sitting governor can cease such largesse and neutralize any roadblock. Wanting and adding more than enough subtracts what you have, and multiplies your misfortunes. It draws you closer to ruin. Ambitiousness varies from greediness. Ambition recognizes humane limits, greed doesn't. Greed ensures you're crushed to powder. This answers why former Imo State governor Rochas Okorocha's political career dimmed. Insignificance awaits.
©Kelechi O. Naze (KON)

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FamilyRe: Christianah: Breeding Dysfunctional Children by Kayceenaz(op): 10:17am On May 01, 2024
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FamilyChristianah: Breeding Dysfunctional Children by Kayceenaz(op):
Many couples today are more interested in birthing children than raising them. Commonplace is assumption that a child's needs ranges from physiological, spiritual to educational dimensions. Positioning children towards self-awareness and teaching them complementary timeless values are either neglected or delegated. Are you on this table?

Ignorance and "I am so busy with work" excuse underpin this trend. Parents who didn't discuss how to raise their children at length during courting or lack pragmatic family information are a danger to society. Copying what previous couples did and present couples do are inevitable. Convention doesn't logically imply correctness. Some parents let chance dictate. They use positive affirmations to mask their vacuity. Also, some parents justify their long absence in nurturing their kids' minds with making money for family wellbeing. Maids and relatives, clueless about details of a husband and wife's marital vision, take over. Sole reliance on school teachers oozes parental irresponsibility. These tendencies harvest low-self-esteemed, non-visionary, mediocre, immoral, and deviant children. The bully and bullied girl in that recent Abuja British secondary school viral video stir parental questions.

In fact, as a potential and actual dad or mum, onus is on you to raise (not breed) your children to become aware of themselves in order to develop unique identities that endure and enhance humanity. But you can't do this from a place of scanty or zero knowledge. First, reevaluate interactions with your child so far, talk to him or her on distinctness as a human person, define corresponding values to imbibe, and reiterate them daily. Researches in psychology reveal it is best to shape children when young--I recommend from first year. It is more difficult with adults but not impossible. Second, readjust your work schedule. Commit now to spending at least one quality hour with your talking child daily. Listen to the naive questions, comments and use most as avenues to enlighten him or her on becoming assets. Take over from their nannies after you return. There is time. In the words of Carthaginian conqueror Hannibal, "There is always a way. If there is none, I will create one."

However, my position could be accused of indoctrination and underestimation of family tradition. These indicate misunderstanding. Enabling a child attain personal identity conditions him or her to think for himself or herself by rejecting dangerous conformity and modifying learned ideologies upwardly. Consciousness that family tradition is open to revision reflects a child on the road to exceptional. Don't breed your children, raise them.


©Kelechi O. Naze (KON)

FamilyBreeding Dysfunctional Children by Kayceenaz(op): 9:53am On May 01, 2024
Many couples today are more interested in birthing and breeding children than raising them. Commonplace is assumption that a child's needs ranges from physiological (food, shelter, medical access, clothing), spiritual (religion) to educational (sponsored enrollment in school) dimensions. Positioning children towards self-awareness and teaching them complementary timeless values are either neglected or delegated. Are you on this table?

Ignorance and "I am so busy with work" excuse underpin this trend. Parents who didn't discuss how to raise their children at length during courting or lack pragmatic family information are a danger to society. Copying what previous couples did and present couples do are inevitable. Convention doesn't logically imply correctness. Some parents let chance dictate. They use positive affirmations to mask their vacuity. Also, some parents justify their long absence in nurturing their kids' minds with making money for family wellbeing. Maids and relatives, clueless about details of a husband and wife's marital vision, take over. Sole reliance on school teachers oozes parental irresponsibility. These tendencies harvest low-self-esteemed, non-visionary, mediocre, immoral, and deviant children. The bully and bullied girl in that recent Abuja British secondary school viral video stir parental questions.

In fact, as a potential and actual dad or mum, onus is on you to raise (not breed) your children to become aware of themselves in order to develop unique identities that endure and enhance humanity. But you can't do this from a place of scanty or zero knowledge; that's why I (an excellent personal development speaker) exist to aid you jump this hurdle online and offline. First, reevaluate interactions with your child so far, talk to him or her on distinctness as a human person, define corresponding values to imbibe, and reiterate them daily. Researches in psychology reveal it is best to shape children when young--I recommend from first year. It is more difficult with adults but not impossible. Second, readjust your work schedule. Commit now to spending at least one quality hour with your talking child daily. Listen to the naive questions, comments and use most as avenues to enlighten on becoming assets. Take over from their nannies after you return. There is time. In the words of Carthaginian conqueror Hannibal, "There is always a way. If there is none, I will create one."

However, my recommendation could be accused of indoctrination and underestimation of family tradition. These indicate misunderstanding. Enabling a child attain personal identity conditions him or her to think for himself or herself by rejecting dangerous conformity and modifying learned ideologies upwardly. Consciousness that family tradition is open to revision and amelioration reflects a child on the road to exceptional. Don't breed your children, raise them.


©KON

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LiteratureRe: Short Story: First School Day May Be The Last by Kayceenaz(op): 10:40pm On Apr 11, 2024
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LiteratureShort Story: First School Day May Be The Last by Kayceenaz(op):
Monday morning opens door of a new session on a gleeful note for the excited mid-teen students. Pleasantries traded in hilarity swept through almost every classroom inch. It seemed freedom had begun heeding their entreaties. Stepping up to the next grade was a reminder of proximity to life without parental decrees.

Miss Theresa Mayozi, garbed in her green-white-red polka-dotted gown accentuating a six-foot physique, took some minutes more to offload learning materials on the adjacent table.

“Good day! Everyone,” she greeted. The students responded, unimpressed by her mid-thirties appealing youth while reaching for their desks. Silence, though skepticism-sodden, pervaded.

Their previous grade teacher shared similar features but teacher-student interface thereafter enlightened them appearance isn’t reality. Miss Patricia negated her humility and friendliness they surmised. Wearing a lukewarm mask in mingling with Miss Theresa was the consensus.

“I am Miss Theresa Mayozi, your 10th grade teacher. I hope our academic journey together would be remarkable and memorable,” Miss Theresa introduced herself. Zest in her voice coincided with perplexity in her mind about lethargy of the students. She was, unknown to her, paying for another’s debt.

Shaking the hurdle off, Miss Theresa proceeded to scribble “History” on the whiteboard. “What’s your understanding of this concept?” She u-turned, inquiring from her audience seated mute for ages.

Thirty-two seconds passed. Finally, a hand rose to break the ice. Alvin, edified by those evening strolls alongside his ex-US army officer father with scars from Vietnam and Afghanistan, answered “History tells us about battles humans fought.”

Following, Gabriella—orphaned at two and bred by her novel-loving maternal grandmother—conquered the warring nerves within to contribute, “History deals with stories told about yesterday."

James, whose fleshy and rotund build earned him a “humpty-dumpty” nickname, added “History explains little we have on our plate today, because of much we didn’t prepare yesterday.” Knowledge of his marriage to food plunged other students into laughter. It overrode appreciation of metaphor permeating the answer, one sighted by Miss Theresa. She beamed a smile in gratitude for both the denotative attempt and comic relief.

As Miss Theresa quoted G.W.F. Hegel—“We learn from history that we do not learn from history”—to synthesize the contributions and as a preamble to her definition, gunshot sounds thundered from outside. “Everybody on the floor now,” she bellowed to the terrified students, squatting her way to ensure closed windows for threat mitigation.

The students drew her attention to Clara’s asthmatic crisis triggered by shock. She was breathing fast, gasping for air and slipping away. Miss Theresa’s experience from a stint in paramedics as a volunteer came in handy. She maintained calm and sought an inhaler from Clara’s multi-layered bag. Fear-laden screams from neighboring classrooms tensed the atmosphere further; varieties of causal speculations saturated.

“Hurry up, please,” Miley, Clara’s best friend, muttered in tears cascading down her cheeks. Finding the inhaler was relieving but its content insufficient. Clara planned to purchase a new one after school. The perturbed teacher resorted to mouth-to-mouth resuscitation, it worked, stability ensued Clara’s deep breath.

Meanwhile, Gregory bled. Red droplets on the floor led to him. Miss Theresa raced to her handbag, reaching for a towel-like handkerchief to minimize the leak pending help’s arrival.
Mr. Maxwell, the principal’s secretary, wafted in. “We are on top of the situation. Everyone calm down. You are now safe,” he informed them. Heaves of relief echoed. It dawned on the students their first school day in a new grade could have been their last.

“Wait a minute, Maxwell,” disheveled Miss Theresa hurried to where he stood. Her enquiry about the pandemonium’s cause revealed an irate 9th grade student fired a two-round pistol at a fellow student—who fled and evaded burial with a leg bullet wound—and others within sight. Fortune was kind, the other bullet landed on a nearby wall before the student was besieged by security. “Nobody else was hurt,” he concluded.

Indeed, the high school did little in the preceding weeks to forestall this terror, given reports of pockets of fatal shooting in schools around the country. That was ample incentive to mount scanning devices at entry points or activate stronger security protocols. The management didn’t learn from history.

Forty minutes later, the principal, Dr. Catherine, toured classes, apologizing effusively and reassuring students of their safety. Miss Theresa’s students were particularly detailed, flooding the principal with tales of her proactive efforts when uncertainty stared. Again, their preconceptions were wrong.

©KON

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