eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.

Nothing like compatible babe mama, from the word 'go' she is naturally free to flaunt other men even in your front of which is the likely case

Mikester:
This post is to those guys out there who believe having a baby mama is more restful, secure and enjoyable than having a wife.

Your fear of marriage and clinging to baby mama hood doesn't guarantee you a less strenuous life as some of you may think.

There are more challenges and difficulties when you have a baby mama which might even lead you to an early grave which I will be highlighting here.

Here are the reasons why I believe having a baby mama is a bad idea...

1. You'll have a whorish woman to deal with

In the case of having kids with a random woman or women, if you don't marry her, she is not exclusive to you. So you may have other baby daddies to compete with which you may not be able to handle.

Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just by means of contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman will never go to the grave in peace.

The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rotteness in your bones.

Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.

As a matter of fact when a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.

2. You might have a scornful child

Growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child to having a well-balanced life. Also considering the high tendency that women fall for bad boys, your co-baby daddies could be drug dealers, scam artists, etc.

Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit their own children will teach your child crime and cause him/her to be scornful and such a child will not be a joy to you, his father.

He/she will tend to despise upright things and cleave to atrocious ones.

He/she will also despise you as well and would hardly listen to your corrections.

3. Your child will be poorly cared for

Besides the irresponsible mother, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kid(s), so whatever you pay for your kid(s) will also be shared with the irresponsible baby daddies kid(s) leaving your kid(s) with less.

4. You will contend with an unapologetic manipulative woman

A whorish woman perpetuate evil but will only rub her hands and clean her mouth and say, "I've done nothing wrong."

That is how she is and that is who she will be to you.

Besides poisoning your child's mind about you, she may also deny you the right to your child(ren) when you fail to meet to her requirements and there's very little you can do about it.

5. You may contract sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

If by chance you sleep with her again, you might end up having health problems gotten from co-baby daddies such as STDs.

6. You might get into trouble

You may have to battle jealous co-baby daddies and might end up in trouble due to a fall out with them.

7. Your life becomes more difficult

You're more likely to have difficulty in various aspects of your life, financially, socially, spiritually and mentally.

8. Your reputation might suffer

Society will deem you irresponsible and you'll be shamefully categorized as one of the grown irresponsible fools around.

On pure thought is it worth it?

Let's not deceive ourselves. Marriage being natural is more restful and enjoyable than having a baby mama.

When you marry the person compatible with you and you are up to the task of being a true family man, you'll have a beautiful home.

Stop looking at those with failed marriages if you're a man driven by bad news and learn how to lead a home properly, then every other thing will fall into place.

Don't know what's on your mind...

Ubi Franklin don tell them how e de be, if them like make them no get sense, nothing is ever easy in this life

Abdul05:
Very soon,we are expecting more refugees from south East


No time to ask questions,



Just pack a few things that you can and abandon or bury those you should.

I pity you southerners, Ogun and rest of South west people have run to idps in Benin Republic and now this

PotatoSalad:
As someone who works with generator when there's power outage, although the power supply in my area is really good, I hate it. I really hate it

I got a good quality noise cancelling headphones cos of that and the generator noise feels like ceiling fan white noise whenever I wear them now

How do I get these noise cancelling headphones

Harpyeagle:
@Activist001
Use ear phones!.. But if you are like me that easily gets distracted by same music from the earphone.. Google search "white noise mp3" download one for urself so u could play it to cancel noise..there are different sounds, choose the one ur preference(i usually use one that sounds like rain falling.. The sound is very regular)
they are usually as long as 1hr u would not be distracted at all.. Also u could download instrumental of calm music or songs.

Where can I download it

SmartyPants:


Yes I knew this would play on people's minds. In fact, the mods have phrases this headline in order to trigger the memory of that incident and draw a parallel, thereby causing you to sub consciously link the two events.

Yet, one would watch that video from beginning to end and all you will see there is a young man who is being assaulted by a woman who refuses to let him go.

He does not once strike her body but merely attempts to break free. Now to test your earlier position, if the genders were reversed who would you blame in this situation?

Are you minding all these sociopaths

PenName55:
Guys like this are supposed to be killed by firing squad.
If I had a gun and I witnessed this. I would have shot him dead instantly. No matter the consequences.

What an animal!

I can bet it, this guy will rot in jail no matter whose child he is.
Afe Babalola will see him through a long term in prison.

You sound like a goaaat, the boy is struggling to free himself from the assault of the woman, she's liable for assault for holding him

karkel:
What I can see from the video clip is the guy trying to be free from the female lecturer

Same thing I'm seeing

Zxcvbnm98:
The student is wrong because she's a lecturer, not because "she's a woman" like the people in the video are saying.

Exactly my opinion, being a woman as an excuse is nonsense

Abdul05:
It might land in Nigeria

Why? Nigeria is far from the launch site

Wahala

Prettylima:
So this man of God too Don taste am so he now knows how sweet it is.
Waiting patiently on my wedding night to also have such amazing experience with my boo

Sex is overrated though, a cool music is sweeter

folabayo:

You can include politics, crime and gossip

Lmao, I give up then

folabayo:

Hmmm .
Hope it's business talk sha

Lol, must it be only business?

folabayo:

Thank you...

Don't you think we need to know

folabayo:

Entangled

OK, cool, you sound nice

Baawaa:
Hope it will not backfire

Backfire how? Anything to protect the north from marauders

folabayo:


Nop nop nop.

So are you single or entangled?

folabayo:

It's no more a new thing na.

Do you like it too?

folabayo:
Yes ooo.
They are everywhere and they are actually proud of it.

Nawa oo, that's odd

reuben81:
what are u going to do in Zaria for Haven sake,can't u see the kidnapping going on there,my brother forget about cheap things ur life matters alot even me that's living in Abuja is not safe,use ur head

Seriously I wonder why people don't consider security with all the whole bandits wahala for kaduna. Hmm, I even ran away from zaria due to bandits

Emu4life:
Zaria any day, anytime twice on Thursday. Op ignore the ignoramuses/barbarians saying Zaria is not peacefull. They never left thier tents/caves.

Zaria isn't peaceful, I just left there say the truth

This is good, Nigeria indeed has gone to the dogs

ngadaAwo:
on behalf of igbos
i reject this scumbag
he can never be Igbo

we urge the honorable mods Myn44 lalasticla Seun to fix him

How do you know he's igbo, you're not different from him

It bandits are having a field day in kaduna despite phone calls

I want to know it they're actually ladies that like to be with married men and what's exactly their reason aside money

kingjizzy2:



If you have anyone around Anambra tell him to go to Bridge head market where they sells drugs, let him ask of Cream Line when gets to Cream Line he should buy you Mikol it's #800 the last time I bought for someone it works like magic.

Mikol?

kenodrill:
I pray I don't make same mistake.I'm also thinking of moving to canada.I met an agent online who claims he is based in Dubai and can guarantee me a four years visa with working permit at the cost of #3.8m.please any advice

Lol, just sow a seed of 1m in my life Shebi u be Christian before agent chop the remainder

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??

The hormone that makes you grow is only produced when you sleep.

Drs, nurses and medical students already knew that growth hormone is best produced during sleep. You're the only one just getting to know

Andy uba the thief

pricklewane:
If you like be from hell fire. Desmond who spent less than 4 years as a rep built substandard toilet n bridge n he is being dragged when will Igbos drag Abaribe that spent 20 years in the senate without a single project. What is tribal about that ? Shouldn't such failure be dragged to hell fire b4 they come for Desmond who as obviously outperformed him if project are what they should be judged by.

I don't care about you igbos and Yorubas esp u from sambisa hell fire