Romance / Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Kebbiprince: 9:00am On May 09, 2021 |
eazzzy1: Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?
1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.
2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.
Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.
Nothing like compatible babe mama, from the word 'go' she is naturally free to flaunt other men even in your front of which is the likely case 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Kebbiprince: 8:57am On May 09, 2021 |
Mikester: This post is to those guys out there who believe having a baby mama is more restful, secure and enjoyable than having a wife.
Your fear of marriage and clinging to baby mama hood doesn't guarantee you a less strenuous life as some of you may think.
There are more challenges and difficulties when you have a baby mama which might even lead you to an early grave which I will be highlighting here.
Here are the reasons why I believe having a baby mama is a bad idea...
1. You'll have a whorish woman to deal with
In the case of having kids with a random woman or women, if you don't marry her, she is not exclusive to you. So you may have other baby daddies to compete with which you may not be able to handle.
Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just by means of contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman will never go to the grave in peace.
The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rotteness in your bones.
Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.
As a matter of fact when a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.
2. You might have a scornful child
Growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child to having a well-balanced life. Also considering the high tendency that women fall for bad boys, your co-baby daddies could be drug dealers, scam artists, etc.
Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit their own children will teach your child crime and cause him/her to be scornful and such a child will not be a joy to you, his father.
He/she will tend to despise upright things and cleave to atrocious ones.
He/she will also despise you as well and would hardly listen to your corrections.
3. Your child will be poorly cared for
Besides the irresponsible mother, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kid(s), so whatever you pay for your kid(s) will also be shared with the irresponsible baby daddies kid(s) leaving your kid(s) with less.
4. You will contend with an unapologetic manipulative woman
A whorish woman perpetuate evil but will only rub her hands and clean her mouth and say, "I've done nothing wrong."
That is how she is and that is who she will be to you.
Besides poisoning your child's mind about you, she may also deny you the right to your child(ren) when you fail to meet to her requirements and there's very little you can do about it.
5. You may contract sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)
If by chance you sleep with her again, you might end up having health problems gotten from co-baby daddies such as STDs.
6. You might get into trouble
You may have to battle jealous co-baby daddies and might end up in trouble due to a fall out with them.
7. Your life becomes more difficult
You're more likely to have difficulty in various aspects of your life, financially, socially, spiritually and mentally.
8. Your reputation might suffer
Society will deem you irresponsible and you'll be shamefully categorized as one of the grown irresponsible fools around.
On pure thought is it worth it?
Let's not deceive ourselves. Marriage being natural is more restful and enjoyable than having a baby mama.
When you marry the person compatible with you and you are up to the task of being a true family man, you'll have a beautiful home.
Stop looking at those with failed marriages if you're a man driven by bad news and learn how to lead a home properly, then every other thing will fall into place.
Don't know what's on your mind... Ubi Franklin don tell them how e de be, if them like make them no get sense, nothing is ever easy in this life 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Soldier Leaks Shoot-At-Sight Order, Advises Orlu Residents To Relocate - SR by Kebbiprince: 8:40am On May 09, 2021 |
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Programming / Re: Programmers, How Do You Cope With Generator Noise In Your Area? by Kebbiprince: 6:53pm On May 08, 2021 |
PotatoSalad: As someone who works with generator when there's power outage, although the power supply in my area is really good, I hate it. I really hate it
I got a good quality noise cancelling headphones cos of that and the generator noise feels like ceiling fan white noise whenever I wear them now How do I get these noise cancelling headphones |
Programming / Re: Programmers, How Do You Cope With Generator Noise In Your Area? by Kebbiprince: 6:52pm On May 08, 2021 |
Harpyeagle: @Activist001 Use ear phones!.. But if you are like me that easily gets distracted by same music from the earphone.. Google search "white noise mp3" download one for urself so u could play it to cancel noise..there are different sounds, choose the one ur preference(i usually use one that sounds like rain falling.. The sound is very regular) they are usually as long as 1hr u would not be distracted at all.. Also u could download instrumental of calm music or songs. Where can I download it |
Education / Re: Afe Babalola University Student Beats Up Female Lecturer (Video) by Kebbiprince: 6:25pm On May 08, 2021 |
SmartyPants:
Yes I knew this would play on people's minds. In fact, the mods have phrases this headline in order to trigger the memory of that incident and draw a parallel, thereby causing you to sub consciously link the two events.
Yet, one would watch that video from beginning to end and all you will see there is a young man who is being assaulted by a woman who refuses to let him go.
He does not once strike her body but merely attempts to break free. Now to test your earlier position, if the genders were reversed who would you blame in this situation? Are you minding all these sociopaths |
Education / Re: Afe Babalola University Student Beats Up Female Lecturer (Video) by Kebbiprince: 6:22pm On May 08, 2021 |
PenName55: Guys like this are supposed to be killed by firing squad. If I had a gun and I witnessed this. I would have shot him dead instantly. No matter the consequences.
What an animal!
I can bet it, this guy will rot in jail no matter whose child he is. Afe Babalola will see him through a long term in prison. You sound like a goaaat, the boy is struggling to free himself from the assault of the woman, she's liable for assault for holding him 1 Like |
Education / Re: Afe Babalola University Student Beats Up Female Lecturer (Video) by Kebbiprince: 6:20pm On May 08, 2021 |
karkel: What I can see from the video clip is the guy trying to be free from the female lecturer Same thing I'm seeing |
Education / Re: Afe Babalola University Student Beats Up Female Lecturer (Video) by Kebbiprince: 6:19pm On May 08, 2021 |
Zxcvbnm98: The student is wrong because she's a lecturer, not because "she's a woman" like the people in the video are saying. Exactly my opinion, being a woman as an excuse is nonsense 1 Like |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Chinese Rocket To Tumble Back To Earth In Uncontrolled Re-entry by Kebbiprince: 9:48am On May 08, 2021 |
Abdul05: It might land in Nigeria Why? Nigeria is far from the launch site |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Chinese Rocket To Tumble Back To Earth In Uncontrolled Re-entry by Kebbiprince: 9:47am On May 08, 2021 |
Wahala |
Religion / Re: Pastor Gushes About His Honeymoon Experience: “It Is Very Sweet!” (Video) by Kebbiprince: 10:23pm On May 07, 2021 |
Prettylima: So this man of God too Don taste am so he now knows how sweet it is. Waiting patiently on my wedding night to also have such amazing experience with my boo Sex is overrated though, a cool music is sweeter |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 10:17pm On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
You can include politics, crime and gossip Lmao, I give up then |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 8:41pm On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
Hmmm . Hope it's business talk sha Lol, must it be only business? |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 8:00pm On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
Thank you... Don't you think we need to know |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 3:09pm On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
Entangled OK, cool, you sound nice |
Politics / Re: Governor Ortom Approves Guns For Vigilantes In Benue State by Kebbiprince: 10:19am On May 07, 2021 |
Baawaa: Hope it will not backfire Backfire how? Anything to protect the north from marauders 163 Likes 6 Shares |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 10:18am On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
Nop nop nop. So are you single or entangled? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 9:49am On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo:
It's no more a new thing na. Do you like it too? |
Romance / Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 9:24am On May 07, 2021 |
folabayo: Yes ooo. They are everywhere and they are actually proud of it.
Nawa oo, that's odd |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Friend Is Confused by Kebbiprince: 10:27pm On May 06, 2021 |
reuben81: what are u going to do in Zaria for Haven sake,can't u see the kidnapping going on there,my brother forget about cheap things ur life matters alot even me that's living in Abuja is not safe,use ur head Seriously I wonder why people don't consider security with all the whole bandits wahala for kaduna. Hmm, I even ran away from zaria due to bandits |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Friend Is Confused by Kebbiprince: 10:25pm On May 06, 2021 |
Emu4life: Zaria any day, anytime twice on Thursday. Op ignore the ignoramuses/barbarians saying Zaria is not peacefull. They never left thier tents/caves. Zaria isn't peaceful, I just left there say the truth |
Politics / Re: INSECURITY: A Nigerian Petitions UN, Threatens Hunger Strike by Kebbiprince: 8:25pm On May 06, 2021 |
This is good, Nigeria indeed has gone to the dogs |
Religion / Re: Leke Adeboye Reacts To The Death Of His Brother, Dare by Kebbiprince: 3:15pm On May 06, 2021 |
ngadaAwo: on behalf of igbos i reject this scumbag he can never be Igbo
we urge the honorable mods Myn44 lalasticla Seun to fix him How do you know he's igbo, you're not different from him |
Politics / Re: Buhari: NIN-SIM Linkage Will Help Us Identify Crooks by Kebbiprince: 3:10pm On May 06, 2021 |
It bandits are having a field day in kaduna despite phone calls 2 Likes |
Romance / Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Kebbiprince: 2:23pm On May 06, 2021 |
I want to know it they're actually ladies that like to be with married men and what's exactly their reason aside money |
Romance / Re: I Have Been Infected By My Girlfriend (pics) by Kebbiprince: 1:49pm On May 06, 2021 |
kingjizzy2:
If you have anyone around Anambra tell him to go to Bridge head market where they sells drugs, let him ask of Cream Line when gets to Cream Line he should buy you Mikol it's #800 the last time I bought for someone it works like magic. Mikol? 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Is My Visa Agent A Scam? by Kebbiprince: 6:21am On May 06, 2021 |
kenodrill: I pray I don't make same mistake.I'm also thinking of moving to canada.I met an agent online who claims he is based in Dubai and can guarantee me a four years visa with working permit at the cost of #3.8m.please any advice Lol, just sow a seed of 1m in my life Shebi u be Christian before agent chop the remainder |
Politics / Re: How Ejike Mbaka Disappeared And Reappeared In A Motorcade by Kebbiprince: 5:53am On May 06, 2021 |
WiszyFraud: Did you know??
The hormone that makes you grow is only produced when you sleep.
Drs, nurses and medical students already knew that growth hormone is best produced during sleep. You're the only one just getting to know |
Politics / Re: Anambra Election: Top 3 Front Liners For APC Victory by Kebbiprince: 7:07pm On May 05, 2021 |
Andy uba the thief 13 Likes |
Politics / Re: How Can Desmond Elliot Save Himself From Being Blamed? by Kebbiprince: 8:06am On May 05, 2021 |
pricklewane: If you like be from hell fire. Desmond who spent less than 4 years as a rep built substandard toilet n bridge n he is being dragged when will Igbos drag Abaribe that spent 20 years in the senate without a single project. What is tribal about that ? Shouldn't such failure be dragged to hell fire b4 they come for Desmond who as obviously outperformed him if project are what they should be judged by.
I don't care about you igbos and Yorubas esp u from sambisa hell fire 1 Like |