Sirkingsnado:
no he doesnt want competition and to run privat uni in east is more cost than north

pricklewane:
Foolish Igbos how many thread was opened concerning Abaribe miserable 20 years in the senate without a single project.

Karleb:


You get time.

Even my community leader can build toilets if he wants to.

The guy you're quoting has been brainwashed by politics. Imagine saying in spite the hate, he'll go on to win elections.

What sort of comment is that? If the majority are not happy with him then how would he win Kwa? By rigging?

Mynd44:

Do you even know the job of a legislator? Because even building toilets is a whole lot.

His job is to got to the house and talk not capital project.

Sirkingsnado:
Mr nwakacha i knw al hs family from power to ebuka chai i remeber the reasn he chose kaduna ova anambra nw amng all the uni thy chose yous

Spidermon:
I dey see this Kain scenario plenty

Women won't tell you the entire story. A man that isn't outrightly mad doesn't get angry without reason.

Some women (most of them anyway) don't tow the line unless they know that the man is capable of being crazy

She is already married. If she has sense, she will still enjoy the man. Even wild animals get tamed. It all depends on whether she has the required EQ

Johncuppa:

Court marriage is a formality and allows for divorce, only church marriage put covenant into marriage and divorce forbidden as commanded by God.

She can still call it off before putting God as a witness

By the way, I didn't read the court marriage part.
Where is it?

saajus:
They are already married legally. I would have advised her to back out but I think it's too late. If this was two or three months prior to the traditional wedding, I would advise her to back out.

If she has understanding parents and got their support, she should back out now. But, I really doubt it. My piece of advice, she should carry on with the wedding if her parents don't support her. On the wedding night or the following day, she needs to talk to the husband that he needs to change his ways. She needs to let him know he's not going to get a second chance if he hit one day. After three months of the wedding, if he continues sleeping around and also hitting her, she should not hesitate to separate.

kevoh:
Even in marriages without cheating and anger issues, there is lots of quarrels. Then, you add chronic cheating and anger issue, that means hell fire straight. Tell your sister/friend to divorce the man right away before she gets pregnant and complicate issues. Don't listen to any Pastor/Priest/Elder telling her to carry on! This is disaster waiting to happen!

pwettyJasmine:
Run! Please run. My sister is stuck in one. It's easier to walk now than later. Abusive marriages can be exhausting both for the partner and family members. Abusive partners are triggered by as little as picking a phone call while they are sitting beside you.
Please i beg of you RUN!

jikaseo:
If you found out these things before the court wedding, would you still marry him? If your answer is NO, then go ahead and get a divorce. People hardly change.

CSoul:
Admin kindly push to front page; dire help is needed how to proceed from here

CSoul:
Thanks for your pieces of advice; she's reading everyone of them. Pains, tears and fears.

Publicity ("Banns of marriage" is part of the church's requirements). So yes, the shame on how to face the family/friends and everyone else that has been told about the marriage.

Heavensent01:



is this how you talk to your mother ? Abike is still more important than the thing that birth you, that's fact

madridguy:
Nothing like Yoruba here. In series of comments here, the Biafra people are celebrating how they've successfully sent the Zoo Army away from their land so the man testimony is fallacy.

blizard44:
I doubt the authenticity of this statement.

If it is real, then it reveals the poor working of this woman's mind.

Because they escaped from prison they should be dehumanised?

And she heads our Diasporan community.

This country don taya me.

budaatum:


Was probably useless as a senator and lost his seat. But he should not give up. He must still have access to his former colleagues and can still run again to implement his ideas. I wish him luck.

Icumsa45:


That's Yoruba for you, even the most enlightened of them carries that behaviour.

Coldie:
Majority of those things are done by yoruba people.

In an official environment if u see 5 Nigerians and 3 are yorubas instead of them to acknowledge that there are other people they would just be speaking yoruba through out like other people don't exist.

Igbos try at least to be out going with others but yorubas and hausas anywhere they like forminf clique.

EkwulobiaTV:
I hope this was scripted!

qtguru:


The lifestyle is not comparable, if you monitor some Lagos professionals . some mostly take out, I know a female engineer who was always at work because of the importance of her role, she loves to cook, but this is someone closing at 11:30 to still monitor work remotely, if she is single, why bother to cook when you can eat out. Most of you over-simplify the issue then again una no get the same working lifestyle.

Tonymegabush1:
Eating out ain't bad but don't make it an habit

qtguru:


Cooking is stressful my brother, as long as she is not married, it makes sense esp if she earns alot and works alot. Unless you are talking about village women.

yanabasee1:
They say that relationship is different from marriage and the nice girl you date might be a devil when you marry her....


If the first man would divorce her and you only listen from her side of the story that she divorce him because of the troubles from his family.... You should listen from the other side to come to conclusion that what she said is actually true....


Don't rush into what you might regret and open another thread seeking for assistance....


Learn to operate without attaching too much emotions to it as a man.... Your emotions will mislead you.... Men think through without feelings...

I wish you good luck!!

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Visit to 10,000 capacity international conference center today Awka, Anambra state



Roofing stage which I believe will be completed this week