Sexual Extremes


  


“That’s too much.” “That’s going too far.”


In my life, I have seen many sexual activities labeled “going too far.” When I was a child in an average American neighborhood, sex within marriage was permitted, but pre-marital sex was “going too far.” I remember when vaginal intercourse was all right but MouthAction was “going too far.” Then MouthAction became acceptable but anal sex was “going too far.” Then came group sex, then bisexuality, then... Where will this end?


I believe almost all of the SM community would agree that the following activities would be “going too far.”

1. Doing anything without informed, freely given consent. (I use the consent definition formulated by therapist and SM author Dossie Easton: “An active collaboration for the benefit, well-being, and pleasure of all persons concerned.”)

2. Doing anything that causes great damage or death, even with consent.

3. Doing anything with someone incapable of consent — for example, someone too young, too intoxicated, or too mentally unbalanced to give consent.


  


Society agrees with these limits. Laws exist regarding all three conditions, and I want to encourage my readers to obey all applicable laws.


I’m serious about that. Obey the laws. Some, like laws regarding age of consent, are highly arbitrary, but I want you to obey them. If you think they’re unfair, then work to change them or move to an area where what you want to do isn’t against the law, but don’t break the law.


I can tell instantly if a man is dominant or submissive: I just tell him to sit on the couch. If he’s submissive, he’ll obey at once. If he looks at me for a moment, deciding for himself, he’s dominant.

  
As I write this, SM activists around the world are working hard to change unfair laws. SM clubs, publications, and Internet newsgroups can keep you informed about the status of these changes and about how you can help.

I'll be updating this post periodically.

So many of you are out there, wondering. I know some of your questions, and something of the torment these questions often cause.


First, know you are not alone. You may believe you are the only person in the world interested in SM. Let me say to you, quietly but emphatically, that no matter how bizarre, extreme, or “perverted” your fantasies and desires may seem to you, please know that thousands of other people have similar thoughts. Indeed, if one highly credible source can be believed (Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, by Kinsey, Pomeroy, and Martin; published way back in 1953), at least 11 % of the population feels attracted to SM.

Learning how to do SM is like learning how to have sex all over again.

McStoic:

From your signature, you are an atheist. Do you really wanna father a child in that mould? You are a pro LGBT....ewww and you wanna father a child? Who is deceiving who bro? Would you realla wanna father a sexual deviant? Ohoo, sorry you are one already. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY WHILE TRYNA CHEAT NATURE. Anyway, i wouldn't want my child exposed to anything abominable. If he/she is exposed to other minor failures and mistakes of human nature he can at least be corrected and could outgrow them as part of their learning curve. ANYTHING POSITIVELY NATURAL IS PERMITTED BUT NOT UNNATURAL. TUFIAKWA.

there are many atheists that have happy home. there are millions of homosexuals that have great families, better than christians and Muslim's own. so I see no reason why my ideology should affect my children.

moreover, I support LGBT, that does not make me a gay. the same way you could be supporting buhari but you ain't the president.. STFUMF

I'm not a father but the prospect of being a father scares me. My family is pretty dysfunctional, dad is MIA, mother is so emotional and we the children share no real connection but that is how every family is, right?

But then I have seen a lot of happy family and I can't help but ask where is the fault coming in from?

so as a potential father, I want to ask fathers and mothers and also potential parent like me that what do you hope your kids will never know about life?

I've seen a lot of disturbing sh*ts in my life but the top one would be the time I went to buy drug in a chemist's shop down the street in my area in Ibadan. I noticed the shop was empty and being in dire need of the said drug, I called pit to the no-where-to-be-found chemist repeatedly but no one was answering so I had to move into the shop when I heard some creaking noises like a thief's footstep, I went back outside, picked a stick just to scare the their away so as to alert the neighbours if my suspicions were right. I didn't want to be the guy that's scared of rat.

So I moved back in, with a stick in my dominant hand and I rushed to the place and to my utter astonishment, guess what I found?

A man was having sex (backdoor way to be precise) with the chemist (an alhaja, eleha with 4-5 kids).

The place was so dirty and in their bid to cover the romp, the man removed his Pete so fast that the woman farted. I was so stunned to move away.

I still see the woman anytime I go back to our old street. we share a secret and I'm not breaking the secret. lest I forget, I've been buying drugs for free since.

The Students’ Union Action Committee of the Obafemi
Awolowo University (OAU) has said Vice-President Yemi
Osinbajo should not bother to honour the invitation to
attend a programme at the Department of Fine and
Applied Arts, scheduled for Saturday.

A statement issued by Gbenga Von, Pro tem Chairman of
the Students’ Union Action Committee on Friday, noted that the invitation
by the department was “condemnable” as Osinbajo is a
“prime figure behind the underfunding of education”.

According to Von, the presence of an “anti-student”
figure like Osinbajo in an academic arena is a “rape of
our collective intelligence in a university where students
activities are currently battered by the nationwide
industrial action of ASUU”.

The statement read: “The attention of the student
populace has been drawn to the invitation of Professor
Yemi Osinbajo, the Vice-President of the Federal
Republic of Nigeria to a public programme by the
Department of Fine and Applied Arts, Obafemi Awolowo
University, at Oduduwa Hall of the university on
Saturday, 17th November by 12pm.

“Firstly, it is condemnable that the Department of Fine
and Applied Arts of the university itself is a victim of
the negligence of government on education by the virtue
of the fact that the department, just like the faculty
of Law, FNC, Nursing, Dentistry etc., lost accreditation
to National University Commission (NUC) in the last
conducted accreditation exercise in the university. To
invite such a prime figure behind the underfunding of
education to be honoured among students is a mockery
of students and education itself.

“Apart from the fact that Nigeria is at a period of
economic and political bondage as a result of the anti-
masses policies of the Federal Government on the people
as piloted by the Muhammadu Buhari and Yemi
Osinbajo-led Presidency, it is also alarming the ridiculous
manner in which education has been drastically
neglected leading to incessant hike in fees across
several institutions that has made it difficult for
average children to access qualitative education, and
the struggle against these by students has led to
grievous victimization of students and repressions on
students’ unionism even on Obafemi Awolowo University.

“It is therefore surprising how Professor Yemi Osinbajo
would be able to speak about ‘Freedom On Leash’ as the
theme of the programme, when the Federal Government
is at the height of the leash on mass of people. At this
period where the Academic staff union of universities
(ASUU) has been on strike across universities including
OAU over the rotten state of university education, it is
still a shock to us that the only solution provided by the
government is for tertiary students to begin to pay
N700,000 as tuition fee per session.

“We, therefore, see the presence of such anti-student
figure of the government in an academic arena to be a
guest speaker, as a rape of our collective intelligence
in a university where students’ academic activities are
currently battered by the nationwide industrial action
of ASUU.”

Citing the conditions on which the vice-president would
be welcome in the institution, the organisation said
Osinbajo should firstly: “Initiate the adequate funding of
education by committing at least 26% of the country’s
budget as against the paltry 7% to the education
sector; immediately yield to the demands of ASUU on
university education and earned workers allowance; and
immediately effect the lift of the workers wage beyond
N30,000minimum wage to alleviate the striking poverty
level in the country”.

prostitution is older than Christianity itself and it has been said to be the world oldest profession, whether you, your religion, your culture and morality accepts it or not, it will thrive has it has been thriving since time immemorial

na only wetin the guy sabi be that. win, mba. play a tantalizing type of football, iro... na to dey park bus and play mind games

I wonder how many presidential candidates we have sef

should I drop my number?, I need you to call me in the next 9 months for the christening and owambe

thought pastors and Reverend fathers all around the world have been praying for the girl.

God should have proved himself na

I doubt Oyo state government really knows what is wrong with them and the lawyers that has been handling the case.

you can't just come out with conflicting statements and expect people to believe you.

And Ayefele should come out to defend these allegations

SolutionMee:
In saner climes and developed nation, it is very wrong for a presidential aspirant to protest in a police division not to talk of their HQ

The first aspirant to try that in America was sent to life imprisonment

The last aspirant that tried that was hanged to death

Due to flexibility in our constitutions and democratic practise, giving Sowore a quarter in prison is a juicy offer

name the man US sent to prison cos of protesting. He has every right to protest

OAU is not a joke

damickey:

John Obi Mikel has revealed that he rejected a move to Manchester United and opted for Chelsea because the London club were prepared to sign three more Nigerian players.

Mikel was 18 at the time and playing for Norwegian club Lyn Oslo when he was filmed accepting a Man United shIrt from club representative Jim Ryan with the number 21 in 2005. The Nigerian signed for United but stated his desire to play for Chelsea a month later.

According to Man United manager Carlos Queiroz, Chelsea had kidnapped Mikel while the director of Lyn Oslo said Mikel was pushed into a Chelsea move. Chelsea finally settleD the matter with payments of £12 million to Man United and £4 million to Lyn in 2006. Mikel has finally revealed what happened at the time.

“My Dad wasn’t too pleased about what happened,” Mikel said in a chat with the Players’ Tribune. “He wanted me to go to Manchester United because he loved Alex Ferguson. Back home in Nigeria, a lot of people were saying I should go to United because of how well they work with young players, whereas Chelsea just bought superstars.

I had all these people on both sides fighting over me. Agents, managers, strangers, guys handing me papers. I had Sir Alex Ferguson calling me on the phone on one side. And I had Roman Abramovich on the other side, putting me up in London, hiding me somewhere where only a few people knew where I was. It was really confusing, and I was a kid, you know?

“After a while, someone from FIFA gave me a phone call. They said, ‘Listen, we know you’re young and you have these two clubs fighting over you. We can’t decide for you. You can only go where you want. You have to tell us.’

“I thought about it for a long time. It was the biggest decision of my life. You know what made my mind up? Chelsea had signed three other players from Nigeria along with me. They were staying with me at the house in London to keep me company. These guys … their lives depended on the decision I was making. If I went to United, they were gone. If I went to Chelsea, they were going to have a career. No matter how long it lasted, that was important to me. Just to give them a chance, you know?

“I chose Chelsea, and four lives changed that day.”

SOURCE:-https://savechelsea.net/mikel-obi-why-i-rejected-man-united-for-chelsea/

always a leader since day one. buhari should learn from this guy

Movic1:


What! N u think this is the solution? Will it solve the problem or escalate it more?

yes, it will solve the problem. Some people cannot be in peace while some of us are in turmoil. let this country BOIL and boil till we can have peace for ALL

JustCalMeDBoss:
funny enough it pays countries such as Nigeria for Chinese products to be banned. they would embrace Africa.

China has already embraced Africa continent, it is pumping so much money into Africa's economy than most European nations combined.

And whether US likes it or not, China is going to be the next super power

Molayin7:


In Nigeria? Hmmm interesting

so many people hide their true self in a bid to feel among and that's making it harder for people people around them and themselves.

We need to stop thinking that anything out of norms is an abomination. ..

Open Marriage..
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I have been in one or two open relationships before and it was awesome give it a try

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I bet 75% of the 189million would be foolanis. The breed like pigs and cows

Baba no go disgrace yourself.. Politics is a dirty game. Remember your father's name and don't tarnish it.

This life na pot of hot beans.. Don't take life too hard, you will never get out of it alive...

chriskosherbal:
I think I totally agree with you on this one .




Unbelievable things happen in life oooo

So Angel thinks it is okay to guard a car when millions of human lives are in danger??

Methinks this is just bullshit

FGGC Odogbolu Ogun state Team Niger

sKeetz:
One less Puzzy... Oh my gawd!!

Not expectin this from you

ajibolabd:
O A U

Oba Awon University
Aluta against all oppression

The thing fit be a real one but I think it is not but in case it is real you can opt in to do it especially if not

One of the reasons why christianity is a sh.ty religion.. Too much contradictions

Kingspin:
This is her opinion. It does not cause a fight. You either accept or reject them. This is hoe I live my life daily.

Hoekay..