People called him mad-man but I was surprised when he moved close to me, He said, “can I ask you a very important question?”
I nodded, in acceptance, and then, he asked, “am I a mad man?”
The obvious answer, from a sane person, will be, "no", and that was what I said. “Thank you!”, he replied;
then he said,
“just because I don’t see things the way other people do, does that make me a mad man?”
"No", I answered again.
He bent down, wrote “W”, and asked me what he wrote. At this point, I was already feeling ashamed, getting involved in a lengthy conversation with him.
In a hurry to leave, I said “w”, but I was amazed when he replied to my answer, “You only see 'W', because of the angle at which you are looking at it.
If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”; If u look from the right side, it is “3”, and looking at it from the left side, it is “E”.
The fact that I don’t see things at the perspective that everyone is seeing it doesn’t make me a mad man, he said. Then he left.
I pondered for so long about this and its application to life.
Because We act, and relate to people, based on the perspective at which we are looking at their situation.
Have you taken your time to look at other possible perspectives?
I then decided that, before I get angry with, or act against, or judge anyone that has done something unfavourable to me, I will view it in at least three possible perspectives; 1.my own perspective, 2.his own perspective and 3.others perspective'.
So, before you judge people, before you rage your anger on them, take a little time to view their angle or perspective, and, if you still cannot see a reasonable reason, then you may act REASONABLY .
Difrent: Which menace? Is it right for Christians to FORCE muslims to adopt Christian laws.....the English common Law is derived from Christianity. Besides Christians are in the north and sharia law does not apply to non muslims. So calm down and stop this christianity paranoia
And they keep stoning Christians to death because of their so called blasphemy?
tonicyril: ahaa, why is everybody fighting this demon.
I just talk with my father not long ago, i explained everything to him, he persuaded me to do more as expected.
Why is this happening. But i warned my woman den ooh, i warned her but she tink she's wise, see what it has caused now.
Sincerely, they do things at times like no nig deal and when u get back at times, u start seeing epistles and cries.. trusting our wives self dey get as e be
BArris007: Oya na, let's go there, .... Family meeting is needed here. Please madam if i may ask, did you cheat on ur hubby while you both were dating, or did you commit any sin prior to your marriage? If you are clean, please do well to call for family meeting and present your case.
zakkxx: My Sister show true love for your husband, massage his ego! Always remove the stress from him by telling him all will be ok! Don’t knack, be prayerful, be very neat. Stress is killing him gradually, don’t cheat on him!! May God bless your home
tonicyril: i am on this table, tho i am the man. I am the one starving my wife of sex but not intentional, tho i know the reason but i am fighting to win her affection back.
Op, dont talk long, ur husband like u but the affection has reduced, maybe due to what u have done to him in the past or family pressing issue.
God bless u cos I am going through the same right now self
First and foremost, I got married last year as well a s I love my wife.
Lemme talk from what I have heard from my fellow married men and share here .
One, if u have a troublesome wife giving u problems everytime, it weakens your sexual lifestyle.
Secondly, some women are Oliver twist, they will keep asking for more
Thirdly, over work and stress and mental or emotional instability.
Our wives are meant to be our best partners but some wives can be so nagging, aggressive and temperamental although some guys might have a very low sexual libido but don't judge till he fvck another woman out there mercilessly.
Our wives should be the reason why their husband should always wants more of them..