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Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by SamOchuko: 10:35am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: I’ll suggest you encourage her to go into it since you don’t know what to do, things are tough for you so her way to help out is to sleep around, give her one room in your premises to use for her business, you can be her manager 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by 4ward4: 10:36am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Forget it she is cheating on you...Her friends aren't dumb to lay such accusations...They know just what they are saying, U fit wait till his kingdom come before you can ever catch her In the act. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by MPESA(m): 10:36am On Aug 08, 2022 |
frozen70: No reason to justify her actions.... Food or no food.. let's call a spade a spade. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Templee333(m): 10:36am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Ihatebuhariwith:if she doesn't want 2 repent |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Advancedman(m): 10:37am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Base on her claim about trying to be resourceful in the family pls Calm down and talk to her as a friend and offer to help then you can be sure of what happened, happening and going to happen at least you know her. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Willie2015: 10:38am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Marriage is a difficult journey... No one here can give you the perfect answer... Pls be calm... u gat kids with her.... Engage in serious prayers... Day & Nite for wisdom and the next line of action.. Some things will shift when we pray !!!! Is any among you afflicted? let him pray....James5 13 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Pinuc: 10:38am On Aug 08, 2022 |
When a man have sex with another woman that is not his wife, no strings attached, he still loves his wife, but when a woman does the same, she with draws her love from the husband and can even kill the man, just to continue being close to the other man. Your children will still live, if you are dead, my brother make the wise choice here. Its only a man alive that thinks about children and marriage, a dead man does not. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Jnana19(m): 10:38am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Plz go and commit sucide Lastborn0074: |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by 360Master: 10:39am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Your wife is already fucking multiple dicks. It’s only a matter of time that she’ll infect you with disease or better still bring you a bastard. Plus, the silly question you’re asking about how you’re gonna take care of your 4 kids. What if you die or your wife eventually ran away with another man, how would your kids be taken care of? Your wife has displayed gross disloyalty, and only living under your roof, waiting for the right time to dump your sorry ass for one of those many dicks she’s riding. Your eye go clear soon when she give you HIV. Ode man! 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by na2016: 10:39am On Aug 08, 2022 |
when the TRUST is gone, when DECEIT is creeping in, when DISRESPECFUL behaviors are the norm, then really, you need to ask yourself what are you in it for? this person you called your "wife" has no RESPECT for you nor the marriage you guys are in. This is your answer. Man up and send her away. Don't bother about what people will say. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by sukar886: 10:39am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Divorce her |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by SenatePresdo(m): 10:42am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: The bitter truth is that; There is nothing you can do to make her not want to cheat, but there is something you can do to make her not cheat. Read that again. If you like kneel and cry before her, she would still do it is she wants to. She might promise you not to do it, and get more discreet about it. And secondly, it's not because of hardship. Promiscuity is part of her, and she may want to do it for the fun of it. Possibly. And if she starts, be rest assured that she may never stop. What you have to do is to let her know the consequences she would face should you ever find out. The Fear Factor is the only thing that can stop her, not even love. Do not take it calmly, if she senses you are calm about it she would do it regardless. Call her mom, father, and siblings tell them what she's planning to do, do not be ashamed and do not feel for her, I know you will be tempted to cover her, Do not. The only way to keep a woman on check is to always let her know that's she's replaceable. Tell her you would pay her back in a terrible way, make her fear in any way You can, you know your wife better. Bro fear is the only thing women fear. If her friend has already started avoiding her, that means she has even started having sex with them. Lastly if you overlook this, she might end up bringing another man's child to your home. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: What does women want? Bro just let her go. There is nothing like people will be telling you be a matured man. Traditionally, these are one for the things that even cause family problem, a married woman furnicating up and down. This affects the man. Which tribe are you please and which tribe is she 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by PrinceMajestic: 10:42am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074:how do you know they're your children? She probably introduce them to prostitution business at tender age and still say is because of hard condition. You better kick out the hoe and stop being a pussy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by PrinceMajestic: 10:44am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Women will always ride on pussy men like you. You showed her that you're nothing but a pussy from the very time you agreed with her that's it's cool for her a married woman to flock herself with male friends, I believe you knew that they're fhuckin your hoe but you approved of it because you're weak. I know you can never be a Deltan or Niger Deltan or even igbo or hausa because men of these regions can't exhibit your level of idiocy and simping. Even after catching her with chats you still went ahead with her. God! I hate simps so much. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Amayabor1: 10:45am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Some men sef! Why allow your wife have so many "male friends"? Your wife is probably a flirt and it's very easy to sleep with such kind of women. Very easy! I don't know how a woman will get married and still be keeping male friends everywhere! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by OmoOshodi(m): 10:47am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by afribabe: 10:47am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Pinuc:This here is what I hate hearing/reading..... Going by this analogy, no strings attached for men but what about the side chick attaching strings and doing anything possible to have the man to herself? Abi you think it can't happen? The same way you guys think a cheating wife is going to think about doing all these to the husband, same way a cheating man's side chick is going to think of doing likewise to the home wife. All I know is that a cheat(M or F) is exposing the other partner to danger. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Keji1012(m): 10:48am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: What if she's dead, won't u take their responsibilities? Wait till u kill yourself or she kills you.. A promiscuous woman will either kill herself or her husband. Use your head 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Bigredmachine: 10:48am On Aug 08, 2022 |
I still maintain that no man and woman can just be friends... It's not possible... It's like you keeping yam in front of goat and u trusting nothing will happen between the goat and the yam... Anyway it's nothing new, just don't do what will take u to prison... 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by oodua1stson: 10:49am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074:baba, the reason there is hardship in your family is because your wife has been cheating on you for long even before the days of smartphones where you can find evidence . If I were you oo, I would send her away and anybody that tries to beg for her will forever be my enemy. In fact I will physically attack that person |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by PrinceMajestic: 10:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Bigredmachine:the guy na idiot 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Temptee101(m): 10:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
nifemi25: I'm not sure whether you read and understood the write-up sha 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Angeloihe: 10:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Go and do DNA test for ur kids immediately, before more damages are done Secondly chase her away with some disgrace 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Keji1012(m): 10:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Strongdickfresh: Most useless advise of the year 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by rollywise(m): 10:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
She's cheating already. Send her out of your house and cater for your kids. You can't be the one who goes thru economic stress to feed the home and still come home to face emotional stress. She's a conditional wife and that's not good for marriage. Marriage is for unconditional people. Meanwhile ensure you tell at least one person from her family all that's going on before you execute your plans finally |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Socratiz: 10:52am On Aug 08, 2022 |
I advise you to contact a marriage counselor. You cannot get good counsel from young people who fill this platform. There could be other reasons beyond your financial challenges why your wife is having affairs with other men which can only be discovered in counselling sessions. For you also, your marital boundaries are too low and this further encouraged your wife to disregard it. The solution to your challenge may not be a separation or divorce. There is no reason to assume that your marriage is beyond recovery unless this becomes obvious after seeing a qualified marriage counselor. You can send me a mail for further guidance. |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Oyiboman69: 10:52am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074:you need to move her to her parents for the time being. you complain of hardship,don't you know these her behavior is the cause of it all?. stay there and be asking of to do,you'll get to understand your action when you're crippled with illnesses or accident or whatever strange things. now that you know,stop sleeping with her or eating her food for the sake of your survival. keep deceiving yourself, not God and man,I pray you don't learn your lessons the hard way cos at the end,women don't get affected. it is either your children,if you are not aware or you,and now that you're aware,you'll surely be on the receiving end.... 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Algold: 10:53am On Aug 08, 2022 |
She complained of the hard times for her reasons. Invite God into the home ooo as quick as possible, I forseen destruction. Sexual immorality brings setbacks and delays. Please sit her down 4 kids nor be one oooh. You need heart to heart talk. Take down all her social media account if she refused just know that she is deep into it. Married woman don't need male besties, Draw a line. The only friends she needs in her life is you and the kids. On a joke level...your wife she is heavily endowed? |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by IamMobisola(f): 10:53am On Aug 08, 2022 |
jeromestarks:LMAO What difference does marrying a virgin make? Anybody who wants to sleep around will do so without hindrance |
Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Bobloco: 10:53am On Aug 08, 2022 |
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