₦airaland Forum

A lot will choke you for this statement.

Houseontherock1:
Sometimes I wonder how people get money to LIVE in Nigeria! What Ajaero's team put out there is very apt, but these guys can't pay it, even if they have it. Hence, what is more important here is for the government to work on the economy so that whatever they pay as minimum wage will be a living wage

If na post wey dey criticize Peter Obi, this place for choke with racial abuses and bans to dissidents.

Responses to this thread are really sad. It goes on to show why Nigeria will never get better. Someone comes up to give suggestions as to how the nation will get better and this is what happens in return. This nation is irredeemable. E go hard for me to pray for Nigeria. It deserves whatever is coming for it.

It is this same idiot that will be begging NLC to call off strike if they start. Y'all have started yarning dust like your principal. You did not tell the world how y'all hurried to pay wage award following the rumour of a protest. Nonsense people in a nonsense government.

And the man dey follow am laugh. Him dey ztupid.

You and who?

Kunlelee:
Assuming this country police and judiciary know what they're doing, this guy won't have such effrontery, we all saw different assaults you did to the guy.

No mind the guy. And don't waste your energy on someone who has traded his or her brains for a pound of weed.

MSN1:
4 ur last reply, cos I don guage ur I.Q, u b OLODO!.
Naira MAY have introduced Mohbad to hard drugs and rough lifestyle, but was he a kid, was he forced?, Nigga chose the life and people he dealt with.
Was he forced to live the street life?
See the day u plant mango and expect to reap paw paw; Is d day u actually start living in stupidity.
1.Where u there wen Mohbad was signed?. Do u knw their agreement?.
2. Do u know the kind of wrong advice that comes from friends wen dey feel u ought to b incharge of ur glory, without even knowing how and who took u there?
3. Do u know wot transpired between them, mayb the back bitting and others?
4. Do u know what it takes to run a successful music label?. Only Rent and up keeps takes a lot from label bosses, so wen dey back bite u because they feel they are now known and big, do u know how hurtful it is and wot frustration could make u do or say?.
5. Do u have a reasonable explanation y a father buried a famous person like that, without an autopsy or duly consultations?

Have u seen or stayed with people that abuse drugs, what they could do or say?. I bet u haven't.
---NO REASONABLE person passes judgement without listening to BOTH PARTY.
Naira acted VERY mature from the onset and i give him credit for that.

--U just jumped on a thread and started insulting ur stupidity here, see; u must not comment on things u know nothing about.
Have u listened to a lot of things the Dad said, u are here thinking with your anus.
*If u think I am supporting Naira or anyone, then; U DON'T KNOW ME. I pass fair judgement, devoid of emotions (even if u are my mum, i don't support evil).
If u are wise as u want to claim; U wud have known that;
THERE IS NO CASE HERE; If there were to b; NAIRA OUGHT TO SUED AND INVESTIGATED FOR BULLYING NOT MURDER and
THE FAMILY HAS A LOT TO ANSWER.

*So if u were to be the judge of the case (though i c no case here); tell others reading your comments wot u wud decide in this case, because i just gave u my last mention.
Have a nice day.

Wetin you wan confirm? E sure me die say one on one you do nothing. Even if you smoke, zero motivation.

Mikelarteta:
Pls they should come to Ikorodu Agric bus stop I wan to confirm something.

If them keep you side by side with Ajaero, you no go cough. You dey nairaland dey yarn dust.

helinues:
Imagine the useless NLC we have in Nigeria, communique via Twitter?

Ajaero is due to go and no baga can stop that.

The mindless mob can hit their heads on something solid about this, na minus tantrums

Who dey explain now?

Centpico:
you go explain tire

Haarland wins it this time.

Them dey drag Naira Marley and Sam Larry

Elon Musk na Pluto boy.

NUPENG is joining the strike.

Jahwinaboy:
True. NMA, Banks and financial union, NLC can try and pull some weight but immediately NUPENG threatens, government sits up. NUPENG should do the needful

After refusing to pay September salaries. Money people have worked for.

If you kill am shey you sleep well for night? You go get complete peace abi? Online warrior.

Malroux:
Come to the street of Lagos and say this.

This is a rampant occurrence in Calabar but everyone is denying it.

I wonder how this made fp. Cos all these is business as usual. They're Robbing the poor to enrich the already rich.

My brother, e no go nice to argue with you o. But to be candid, Donald Duke did what all the governors after him combined couldn't. If you have lived and worked in Calabar for the last fifteen to twenty years, you will attest to that fact. Tinapa had a plan. It's a project that was audited by international investigators and these guys were not the 'pay go' guys, they were real and independent auditors. That said, a lot has happened in Cross River that you really don't know about so you shouldn't come online and be telling Donald Duke to shut up. Besides, during the endsars lockdown, who was the first to come out and tell the boys around the state to calm down, wasn't it Donald Duke? I Sha no need argue plenty with you but them no born you well to stand within fifty meters of the man and tell him to shut up.

festacman:
Aesthetically, Florence Ita-Giwa is at liberty, like any other woman, to make effort to look beautiful. Politically, however, there is basically no difference between Donald Duke and Florence Ita-Giwa. They are part of the selfish politicians that keep riding on the back of people of Cross River people to advance political and financial interests since the formation of PDP in 1989. They may change political parties, but their motives remain the same.

What is still baffling today is how Donald Duke, as governor of Cross River State, sunk billions of Naira in Tinapa Project, a project of which he alone seems to understand in the whole in Cross River State because even Liyel Imoke the successor governor he installed abandoned it and successive governors followed suit. The buildings are still there wasting away and he, Donald Duke has not even been able to explain how to put the buildings to use as the one who conceived the project.

All over the world, a massive project as Tinapa comes with a document that shows the plan, the phases, the objectives, cost/benefit analysis, opportunities it offers, scalability, how it will impact other sectors, etc. This helps everybody to buy into the project and successive governments would find it easy to continue or even improve upon. Tinapa looks now like Donald Duke's personal pet vanity project.

Donald Duke should shut the f*ck up.

Find satisfaction elsewhere. Don't ask for sex for the remainder of the year. Run am on code. Thank me later.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Mad o

DaTruths:
Tinubu told us he would hit the ground running.

We didn't ask him if he would be running forward or backwards

Twitter will have a new name soon.

Wetin this one wan achieve abeg?

Even before the subsidy. This is what I've done. My place of worship, work, school, market and even fueling stations are within 5 mins walking distance. Everything is within reach. [quote author=Meerahbel post=123625051][/quote]

The way some of us support this government will make some well-meaning Nigerians refuse to assist other Nigerians. They say NL is not tribalistic but what we have here is a far cry from what we are supposed to practice.

JOHESU wants to work in a hospital when Nurses and Doctors are going on strike..

NL has been reduced to a tool of propaganda. I expected this news to come with an official memo. But sadly, a few poorly educated people are masturbating on a 'mere text message'. I actually felt some Nigerians were wise. Now I know better. It's really sad that I come from a country where people support mediocrity with their full chest. JOHESU is an affiliate of NLC and y'all just wasted your data praising who I cannot describe (for want of a better term) for doing what is already dead on arrival. Nansense.

It's sad to say most people on NL have gone beyond reason to support mediocrity. Insult me if you must, but this was the same way Buhari was praised my praise singers of Nairaland and where has it gotten us. Now it's 'Tinubu is this, Tinubu is that.' Some of us have supporting this rubbish have not even eaten a square meal, but our stupid tribalistic tendencies will not allow us see and tell the truth. We'll check these names in the next eight years and woe betide them if the same people blame this government for anything. Evidently, Nigerians love hardship and that's why God is serving them this hot.

So you trust the present government abi? Double standards Kee you there..

Zxcvbnmghtr:
So what difference will it make apologizing? Some people just like making unnecessary noise. Almost 95% of Nigerians were against the removal of the subsidy in 2012 simply because we did not trust the government of the day.

A lot of people commenting on this are using free data. Some of them were not born when NLC went on the last strike. Some of you that say: 'the strike will never work', subsidy is gone for good' are still receiving allawee from your parents. You've not tasted what NLC strike looks like. Let Nigeria be shut down for straight 72 hours, y'all will come on this Nairaland and rant rubbish. Una no sabi wetin NLC and its subsidiaries mean. Do you know that Hospitals, airlines and many corporate bodies will shut down? Imagine the number of people that will die if healthcare shuts down for just one week for instance. Most of us are in our one room apartments ranting rubbish. Tinubu no be God, he will bend in one way or the other. And most of you have not read about Ajaero... He doesn't back out from a fight.

Ebonyi people saw shege initially, now they'll see shege banza...

Toast forever. Someone may even look for him in that UK and do something to him if he's not put under protective custody. Nigerians will never forget this guy, ever. I Sha feel for him. He spoke before he thought.

ajepako:
However you look at this guy and the situation , he is cast

The UK already made a decision to ban nigerians from migrating to the UK using study routes even before his interview

Yet this guy granted a video chat that cast the format Nigerians are using

Trust Nigerians , he is already being insulted on all platforms for casting the format and jeopardizing the chances of genuine immigrants to UK ,forgetting the fact that Indians and Pakistanis are even more culpable without making noise..

Already, 'Jeanslover ' and Lindaikeji blogs don cast am and the vawulence supporters are already out for blood

Even his apology video is fueling more hate comments online

Either way, this guy and his Youtube are toast for now