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Classickj:
A Ugandan female marriage counselor has told women to avoid giving their husbands money.

The Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, said in a TV interview that even if a woman can afford to help her partner
financially, she should not do so. W.T. H
According to her, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to
work continually and not become lazy.

Kakyama added that men should let women spend their money so it can make them work harder for more. She also urged women to put
their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.

She said;
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head.
“I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them.
Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”

https://newswirengr.com/2022/06/03/giving-your-husband-money-will-make-him-lazy-marriage-counselor-tells-women/

slivertongue:
Bad Belle people. Una go fail

IamDora:
Dear Nairalanders, Good evening to you all. I'm in a state of delima right now and I'm so confused on what to do that's why I decided to bring the issue here.

I have a Cousin, he's wealthy and we used to be very close to each other, we do alot of things and talking together. Even when we do meet at Villa during festive periods, we are always together 24/7 that people do think I'm the one eating his money. (If cousins were to marry each other, we would've married ourselves)

So fast forward to 2020, things began to take a new turn, he began to change towards me completely, he hardly picks my calls, neither does he reach out to me thereafter to know why I called (Mind you, I'm not a leech to him, as my family were very comfortable too) When I lost my mom (May her soul rest in peace) this my said cousin never called me to sympathize with me, and I didn't hold it against him either. He started giving me space, I tried everything possible to know why the sudden space from him, but to no avail. So I kept my cool and distanced myself from him.

So fast forward to this 2022, his fiancee (Whom I knew her from him) called me on the 20th of last month to tell me that their wedding is on the 18th of this month and she would so much like me to be in attendance! My cousin never bothered informing me about it even till now!

Now my question is,' Should I honour the said invitation by his Fiancee and attend their wedding or I should stay back and call her to wish her Happy Married Life after their Wedding?

Please help me push this to front page so I'll get a wider audience to share their opinions.

Thank you.

Reality3080:
If we are to b truthful to ourselves without bias

Only tinubu can match atiku

Religion wise- The majority north will think twice before voting a Christian so that reduces d chances of southern Christian contestants n tinubu have an edge in that regard

Influence wise - how many of u know osinbajo before 2019?
Where is his ward n local government?
Can he influence election in his state?
Aside rivers state where is Amaechi known again?
Even in rivers his legs are shaking

Don’t forget atiku has been around since early 90’s n same with tinubu during d nadeco era so both have come a long way.

How many governors can d likes of Amaechi n co control to do their bidding?
How many senators do they have on speed dial?
Any other apc aspirants will b thrashed like paper here

Wealth wise - Amaechi na better money bag compared to osinbajo n with real stats d Amaechi we know can’t stand atiku dollar for dollar even rivers state bullion van just collect finish from atiku hand despite oil money at his disposal (wike)

Dollar for dollar tinubu will give atiku a run for his money

For people who are willing to counter come with facts n not emotions or hear say

ganisucks:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/05/30/2023-presidency-jonathan-has-no-place-ruling-party-–-apc-chieftain

Jamesbally:
Someone should mention one Town or City in the EAST, that is free from floods due to good drainages and Roads and I'll give the Person 10k.


The infrastructure in the East are in a sorry State. The few ones that are available are regularly destroyed by IPOB.

Utanisco:
Put klopp and guardiola together

Can never match sir Alex Ferguson


GGMU

Salvador1:
Star boy turn Yahoo boy.

Deji zukwanu ike.

Maxymilliano:
https://www.facebook.com/47904265/posts/10105883010302470/

Kisico:
Three days ago I received an sms from a company where I dropped my C.V close to two years ago. I went through it and low and behold, it was an invitation for an interview yesterday being Saturday. I was happy really. I prepared well for it, cancelled my supplying business appointment. I do a supplying business while looking forward to a good job opportunity. So, I woke up quite early dressed up and left for the venue. I got there around 8:10am while the interview was scheduled to hold by 9:00am.

I got to the venue and met two persons who was there for the same reason. Before it was 8:50am the whole place was filled up with others who also came for the same interview.

Finally, the interview that was scheduled to hold by 9:00am started around 11:30am. It then got to my turn, I went in and met three persons in there, one man and two young ladies. Then the man started the interviewing questions and I was giving out an impressive answers, while one of the ladies tried asking me a question, the man now cut in and ask, ' by the way, are you married'? I answered, 'no, I'm single sir'. He then asked again, ' were you married before'? I paused for a while and was wondering if it will be proper to let it out exactly the way it is. Then I decided to come out plain and answered that I was married, and I tried adding to it that I left because of a case of domestic violence, but he didn't want to hear that at all, so, he immediately cut in and said, 'young lady there's no need going ahead with anything else again since you couldn't manage to stay back and remain married, is it the company that you can be able to manage'. At this point, even the two ladies were more than astonished at him than I was. He ended it and said, 'Just forget about the job'. I just left feeling so devastated.

I managed to hold back tears till I got home and nearly cried my eyes out, recalling all that I went through. It's really sad that some people feel they can throw words anyhow at others not minding what those words are doing to their emotions.

iramure:
he actually made a lot of sense. Prayer is never the solution as it never works. It's merely a wish!. He(adeboye) and other mega pastors have been praying since 40 years ago, has anything changed?.
Prayer is as useless as a dead horse. Get that right first my brother. Be a forward thinker. Prayer is a scam

Cryer:
Make this man fem with em mumu prayers abeg,we need actions not all these jaga jaga talk.
Oga wetin be way forward,e clear die,prayer no dey work na mumu go still dey chop that one.

Stvvpid,we still dey carry prayer for head,you go tell me whether na prayer go solve naija issue,dey there dey fvvl your followers.
All these old fvvls are worse than Buhari in power, deceiving their idvtic followers wey no wan get sense, scamming them with baby talks about God.

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.

I have a girl who is in the university currently. She's 21 already. I Live in Abuja while she lives in Owerri.

Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there. Ever since I did that act, she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend. I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again. Out of love I agreed and we continued again.

To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed. I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly. She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her. She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school. This is the girl I intend to marry.

Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways. She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently. I need solid advice my people. I don't wanna act out of anger.

Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating. I Am 28 and ready to settle down.

Help my people.

MichaelSokoto:
Puut-in urchins will not like dis news!

dey can kiss Zelenskys a$s for a full 100 yrs, dey wit their evil war monger Puut-in will NEVER overrun Ukraine.


Puut-in urchs, make una bring d fight come here, I ready 4 una!

Dididrumz:
But Russia is pushing for war with NATO.


In Putin's mind, whenever He mentions Nuke the world will tremble at His feet; A foolish bully is what Putin is.

degamonn:
This is one reason why stealing of public funds will never end in Nigeria.
So after paying for nomination form with this amount, the money for campaign other logistics is not there yet and we expect the winner after election to remain patriotic.
This factor plus the recent express approval of the President for Public office holders to steal as much as they can through Presidential pardon granted to criminals who stole our money creates a fertile ground for those who are coming in 2023 to empty public treasury.

olufunmi01:
All these epistles just to discredit this man..... Tinubu is going no where

mvem:
when did you start watching football...how old are you?...just shut up

illuminutty:
If Liverpool plays like this against Chelsea, they will lose woefully.

Starz825:
You know it baffles me so much how you guys go about talking down on Madrid...upon all the legendary legacy laid and triumphant European nights we have had...you lots still see it as a myth or fluke...I pity you...
Did you know that in last 8 ucl campaigns...Madrid won 4 ucl titles while the the remaining 4 was shared among 4 other great European clubs in Barcelona, Liverpool, Bayern and Chelsea respectively..
We did it once ...it was said to be a luck..twice thrice...you don't need a soothsayer to tell you it's in our DNA...it just happened..it's a supernatural feeling
We were at this stage last year...and here we are again....
So even if man city will kick us out, we deserve some respect...

linearity:
The article I read cast US as a peacemaker and the only Country standing in the way of NK running over SK and you myopically think there would be peace if US was not there?

Agreed, US fights lots of wars, but can you point to one of such wars, where US was not first provoked?

It baffles me sometimes when you guys take the sides of dictators in China, Russia & NK and cries about Buhari. I am beginning to think that, Nigerians truly love dictators and we need one or a dictatorship party that will run things in Nigeria.

princeeze1:
Good observation! Also ever wondered why every major conflict in the world has the US written over it? Wether it is open military confrontation, regime change, social uprising, insurgency/freedom fighting just name it. No matter how far from across the Atlantic it seems to be happening, the little fingers of the US is always somewhere lurking and playing devils advocate. From all major conflict since world war 2, look at the current political turmoil in Pakistan, the heavily divisive elections in Serbia and Hungary, how come the US is always mentioned? This will give you an idea of who is really destabilizing the world covertly or overtly. The world would be safer if the US stops interfering in sovereign affairs of other nations, and stop trying to divide nations into us or against us, stop trying to have sovereign governments subservient to US foreign policy and allow them chart courses that befits them more economically and politically.

thebosstrevor1:
i agree that not paying unnecessary bills is good but me and you know that you are joker if you think a woman that you are dating or married to will share bills with you, i dont care what race the woman is but i can tell you that a woman who shares bills with you will never respect you.

Racoon:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4879445922103871&id=100001155348708


Joe Igbokwe shades PDP after bandits reportedly attacked Abuja-Kaduna train

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nationaldailyng.com/joe-igbokwe-shades-pdp-after-bandits-reportedly-attacked-abuja-kaduna-train/%3famp=1

Amotekun777:
Una dey craze ni?

internationalman:
You people hate everything about British and Americans, but y'all wouldn't think twice to jump on a plane to these two countries ahead of your beloved, Russia, China, Iran, North Korea, Afghanistan and the likes..

If that's not hypocritically stupid and foolish I wonder what it is..

vicdom:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/breaking-court-sacks-20-cross-river-lawmakers-for-defecting-to-apc/

Privatepart00:
Yes Israel have such Centre , make Google your friend. The day Israel strike Iran directly it will get its response.
Israel are bluffing for decades about hitting their nuclear facilities, why haven’t they done it? Noise makers can only shoot unarmed Palestinians

Shoodboi:
Meanwhile Putin is still drinking vodka and preparing to launch a final assault on Kiev.

NATO can end everything by just assuring Russia that they won't expand east and all this will end quicker than it began, but they won't.

Before quoting me, please educate yourself about the Cuban missile crisis when US almost went to war with Cuba because it was getting too close to the Soviets.

foryourmindlol:
Imagine the woman selling okpa in your street banning you from coming to her shop. Meanwhile there are 18 other okpa shops in the same street you patronize before coming to hers.

AroleOduduwa2:
Zelensky knows what is coming to him won’t be child’s play once his human shields is taken off him.