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Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

This is the reason I don't want to be in a relationship. Most of naija girls are gold digger. Chop you finish and run away, if you are not ready for marriage yet my broda stat alone

ojehmario1969:
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https://www.skysports.com/amp/football/news/11095/12910786/declan-rice-arsenal-make-third-bid-of-105m-for-west-ham-midfielder

Arsenal buying rice for this huge amount is something they will definitely regrets later

HonNL:
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university 140 for cut off mark . Na WA very soon na 100 e go enter

kyber:
You see the way ladies are just embarrassing themselves lolz
This work I must learn am I swear shwoo

What do you guys have to say about this

My guy dey used one eye look pussy. He prick go don stand fall stand again fall again

nazicartel:
Did you forgive or leave the relationship?

she log in her fb in my phone and I got a call that time , she forgot to log out . I got home in the evening I open my fb na her own I see, Omo when I see all the things my gf dey do , I almost melt dating 3 guys at once and I'm the third guy . Fear girls o.i can't trust a girl again

webm:
I love this babe and intend to settle down with her but a couple of things keep worrying me.

When we started dating she was usually on call with a lot of guys whenever she visits until one day I asked her whether she has a lot of boyfriends? She responded no and stopped these calls whenever she is around. I don't know if she continued the calls at her house or she has really stopped calling those guys.

Another thing I noticed with this girl is that she celebrates a lot of guys on her WhatsApp status. Hardly celebrate any girl. Personally, I can't celebrate any girl's birthday on my WhatsApp status if she's not my girlfriend or sister. So I keep wondering why this girl celebrate a lot of men on her status.

Ok. Today I noticed that we have a mutual friend that celebrated birthday yesterday. I'm not very close to the friend but we are both on WhatsApp, so I do see his status. The guy posted on his status that my babe sent him money, I was like what the Bleep. So celebrating men is not enough, she's also sending money. This friend is married by the way so I'm surprised.

Other posts on her WhatsApp status are vilifying women that do hookup or women that act indecently. She has no control on how dirty her WhatsApp status could be, like showing a video of a girl doing some crazy things with her vagina and she would be advising girls with that kind of video. One day, I told her to stop those kind of sexually explicit posts. Gave her reasons why it's important she stopped. Basically that she has younger ones on her contacts. She agreed and stopped being too extreme on these posts about sex. Again, I'm not sure if she really stopped or blocks me whenever she's making such explicit post.

To be fair to her, she did engineering in school and also posts church things. She matched my energy in sex Na wetin I take dey forgive her

What's your view about this kind of person based on these status posts?

You nor get sense at all. You dey see all this red light you still dey talk rubbish. Because of say she sabi Bleep you well. Marry her na. Fool

dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

don't be in a rush to marry, are you financially strong for that it's very important. No pressure just be yourself

yungzed360:
This is my girl. Our problems are she most times receives calls and chats with lots of guys and she lies to me alot, I've told her severally to stop and always tell me as it is, although I get angry very easily bt it would be better to digest the truth than lies cus it's hurt me a lot. So I've broken up with her many times and she sometimes swear never to come back again. But after a few days or weeks. She will come begging, calling and texting again and then I keep forgiven her.

Below is a screenshots of our most recent quarrels when she came back begging and the reason for the quarrel was she was at my house when another guy called again, and she couldnt tell the guy she was at her boyfriend's house even though the guy kept asking where she went, she only said she went out.

What exactly could be the problem?
Is it me? Is it her? I'm I too over protective or feeling insecure? Please guys what should I do?

You already know how she is , just used her to pass time till when you find your right partners. Don't break up with her yet till you are ready to move on. Make she dey fool herself for there

Odunayomi247:
Just two days into president Tinubu's administration, dollar price crashes to #461,this was what the previous administration struggled with for 8 years

#Godblessjagaban

you be big Fool o. Na Google u dey check for dollars rate. Olodo

Septagon:
You guys above saying its too small.u guys are funny.have u converted it to naira?do u know how many games they officiate in three months?do u know abt allowances?

If you don't know what to say just shut up, footballers received more than 100k euros every week even if they don't play ball at all or have injury but a referee will run and work so hard and been paid 1300. Watin concern them with naira na Nigeria 🇳🇬 they dey stay or live. I hate people who reason with their anus.

No matter how good a phone is , once the battery life isn't strong than it total rubbish. Battery life is the first thing in a phone . Go for the Tecno pop

Delta is a pdp state,it will be very difficult for another party to win here. I though APC could win because of the candidate ovie Omo agege but pdp too strong for delta state, more than 24 years now . We just pray the incoming governor lift delta to a greater height. The big heart

Na Desmond idiots handwork o. Greedy and most useless politician in Nigeria. Come on Saturday L.P will win

This man just dey give himself false hope. For Nigeria when we dey u dey truth judiciary, if e like make e nor wake up from this impossible mission.

Sometimes we should tell ourselves the truth. I like obi but it's impossible to remove tinubu and make obi president. Obi should just back off and save himself the stress and drama

seanwilliam:
That one na you . No be me

Lol Oga mi. But too much of it is not good o. Anyway enjoy yourself

yemzone:
Choose ass bro. Ass is life.

Bro choose boobs . Boobs is life I swear

seanwilliam:
E plenty o
1. Anger
2. Late night sleep
3. Borrowing people money I can’t let go
4. Helping people at my own detriment( not that I’m nice, but if you ask me for help, I might do it and will end up regretting and beating myself in private). I’m always moved by sad stories
5. MASTURBATION
You see the bolded, I’m the commander-in- chief for southwest zone

Bro abeg o. I'm also trying my best to stop it, I regret everytime I finished doing it

internationalman:
If you have a big dick and know how to use it very well, please I beg you in the name of God don't fûck a good girl if you aren't going to get serious with her.

Because the moment you do they are going to lose their sense of reasoning and cling and stalk and beg you to not leave them..

This is exactly what I'm going through with my inamorata currently. Babe can't even leave me for a day let alone leaving me for good.

Big dick ambassador clap for yourself, if you like nor go make money she go still cheat on you. Only premitive and poor people that brag with dick

Yes I have. It's very difficult Sha but I try my best to resist her. She is a married lady about 24 with 2 kids , although we kiss 💋 but it was a mistake and decide to avoid her . She seduce me and even naked herself in my front, it's very difficult oh but I still manage to resist the sex.

Seunosewar:
you went and collected old notes from the bank now you no fit spend am, you see say your mumu no get mate

You be big Fool o. Read to understand before you comment. Olodo,block Head.

Seunosewar:
you went and collected old notes from the bank now you no fit spend am, you see say your mumu no get mate

. Mumu pikin.. I just dey pity your family when born animal in human form

You be big Fool o. Read to understand before you comment. Olodo,block Head

Market women are not accepting the old naira notes and this money was given to people in banks. I still don't understand why cbn haven't said anything on this, so people can be sure of what they are doing. Most shop and businesses don't even want to see the old notes, you need to see the fight and quarrels in market today. Nigeria problems and issues don tired person . I swear