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Wordsfrombimpe:
You are the dumb one

dumb bimpe
continue deceiving yaself, calling yaself coach.. Aston Villa coach..

am an introvert too and I feel disturbed whenever a gal brings up relationship and friendship stuffs to me..we seem to be on the same lane

this gal is just growing foolish everyday,what and how is this helping us, can't somethings stay tf off social media...

i wonder if people have alittle shame with habit of constant begging

mumu man I you video her to show the internet...must everything be internet...

na to beat this mumu de hungry me.. serious look at the type of boys parading as men we are raising nowadays... you caught her countless times cheating,her mom made it clear is over and you still have the gut,no shame at all to come here and ask whether to leave or not..

some guys matter done tire me

una still de do relationship una dey try ooo

no disrespect lampard is next...this guys are not yet ready to coach in the epl..they should stick efl league..low divisions

people are heartless..soo he's now an illiterate..she should pay

second wife loading....
my next option

they say real recognize real right.. here's my advice: make it in life first let's see who you will be attracted to.. peace

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

girls don't associate or do with guys who:
promise
smart
visionary
wise
lastly
loving and caring.....they want it soo fast,i mean faster the riches,doings and weddings,they know who loves them but that foolish mindset of fast fast keep deceiving them..send her away jaree..i hate ungrateful people...2 phones and a laptop and she still had the mind to do you dirt... heartless bicch.. break up with thaa #oe

abi una no no una mates..why married woman sef...

freestyle her and set boundaries,boss you will get married One day, reason am wen you find ya wife asking a man out... break with that lady

wanna leave family house,been buying property since may,almost done but to find a room is troublesome and to make it worst rain just dey para..am back on regular morning duties and my two boss are off,i don't have enough time to check for house in aba here.. gosh..money wey i wan use find house don de go low into another stuff.. quite discouraging..

foolish guy, you are sending 50k to every month..mumu

ph gal i wan book and smash told me she did abortion,omo feelings are gone..even to send messages na war

block da bicch,she tryna fuq you.. maybe she's sex starved or wanna #oe around

no dey bring this kind yeye tori for nl.. what should we do with it

una still de do relationship una dey try ooo... good people

even at 30 am not thinking of marriage,i will hunting for goals and life achievement.. with what am seeing today from the other gender, marriage don tire me