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Weeping Soul-Nollywood.

You dey advertise your current chick while thinking 'bout someone else. Not cool.

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]Each to their own what? In the end, they have to choose either! Why not just give them a faint idea of what you think? I dunno why i dont like that response. . . Each to their own! Like seriously! [/color]

Cos I don't want to condemn something I might find myself in tomorrow, so I am choosing not to rule it out-cos who knows tomorrow.

So many things I have said I wouldn't do, wear, drink, etc and I have found myself exactly there. These things tend to happen a lot, so I'm choosing to go with the flow. But like I said, I would prefer not to cohabit.

In other words, everyone in the church is living well and is very comfortable.

Don't make me laugh!!

Is that the chick in your profile?



Do you think you deserve her? What makes you stand out from the other guys?
TALK to her. Be yourself.

How about "none of my business" "each to their own"/"indifferent"?

Are we asking for see through bridge? I don't get how you can see anything.


There should be traffic lights or something. Gosh!

Killz, you should have created another option cos I can't vote either.

Hardunnii:
I dont judge, i give advice, if u like take it or not

Then you should learn to word your advise better cos it came across as very judgmental. Everyone saw that. And if you can't see it, then- - - - - -

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]Yeah i know! All that "that's me" "it's their choice" blah! If you are to advice sexkillz, what would you ask him to?

Doesnt mean your marriage will last longer, but which has a chance at lasting longer?[/color]

There are advantages and disadvantages of cohabiting.
It's not a topic to encourage or discourage. You have your own principles, so uphold them.

Even if I advise you to cohabit, you wont. So what's the point?

Wont it be better to sell the car and give the money to at least 5 starving families?

Heard it my nyash!! He read/heard all the bashing recently and is trying to redeem himself.

And some people will still attend the church. SMH.

I'm not bothered o!
I'm not the one that will be doing it with you guys. Eww!


Hope you've learnt to be less judgmental, from this thread-if anything.

Ye, and how many Nigerians actually divorce? Make I hear word jor.

So slim chicks get cheated on with heavy chicks LOL.

What wont I see on NL?!

neyostica:
@kelz88 am sure a heavy duty is doin d makeup job outside. Grow eyes at d back of your head or better still add more pounds

As I don't want to be heavy nau?
When you hear slim your silly brain prolly thinks "letter I" and that, I aint.

There's more to me than my weight. And if a guy can't see past that then. . . . he's just like you.
Don't forget not all guys like heavy chicks.

Hardunnii:
@cooger i said by God's grace it will work, are u agent of darkness??
@kelz u can sleep with even with dogs, its your life, but dnt be mad when u hear virginity cos u aint got it no more

I never saw the big deal with virginity so I wont be mad I don't have it.

I'm actually very glad cos I'm having great sex, and certainly not missing out.

Just to let you know, it hurts like mad the first time. So don't have hope of enjoying your wedding night cos you will need to do a few times, for maybe a few weeks or even days before you are completely comfy with it.

I'm not asking you to defile your body sha, just opening your eyes.

And I hope you plan to marry someone in the same situation as you sha, cos if not you're husband is just like me, and I know you can't tolerate that.

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]It looks so, but it's not! Cohabitation makes you give up easily! Marriage on the other hand makes you committed to making it work! Would you change your car every time it had a fault?[/color]

Ye, cos marriage is like a prison hahaha.

The guy will be less likely to leave even though he is very unhappy. How is this better than cohabiting?

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]My dear diplomat! You are in support of cohabitation, so pls come out of the closet! BTW, what do you mean by Dont knock until you've tried? Tried what?[/color]

Tried it. . . duhh! What else would I be referring to?!

I'm not for or against. I would rather date, get engaged and marry. But that's me.
Doesn't mean my marriage will last longer than X that co-habits, or not.

Things like this don't bother me. It's their choice. I'm in no position to condemn it. If they're happy then, good for them.

neyostica:
Lol, u better go n eat.
Person go one romance u, na soso bone we go dey touch, brea.st na bone, arse na bone, am sure your toto self na bone
@kelz try eating meat n drink alot tea

If our men are not complaining why should you? Just cos a girl's slim doesn't mean she's as skeletal as some of the models on t.v.

Assuming like the rest of them. I eat everything, truss.

This is how God made me. He didn't make a mistake. I like my size/weight/height/etc, it's cute! My man saw all that before he asked me out.

That's just silly.

Same body you claim is the temple of God wey you carry your mouth dey cuss and judge other people. You too much o!

Best you can do is pray you don't find yourself in similar situation as those that have defiled their body, and give advise without being judgmental cos they've already done the deed. At the end of the day you are no better than them, no matter how much you try to convince yourself otherwise.

Killz, looks like you are ready for every shock you get after marriage.

What's the beef with slim people?!
Bloody hell!! Just cos you can't eat and wear what we can no mean say you gotta hate na. Haba.

We understand.

Ouch!! ^^

Hahaha!

Killz, I just don't like judging or condemning stuff especially when there's no harm in it. I don't want to rule it out cos I might find myself cohabiting tomorrow, who knows! And what happened to "don't knock it until you've tried"?

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]Kelz! Why are you this diplomatic sef? Lingering on 2 opinions? Choose one and give reasons why biko! [/color]

I would rather not cohabit but I wont rule it out either.

Da Doctor:
Little wonder u look like a 'HIV -STRUCK BUTTERFLY'

Ride on.

some day u would come online rantiong for help. no be NL we dey?

LMAO! O lawd! So now I have HIV LMAO!
You have seen like 1/20 of me and assume I look like God knows what. How ridiculous do you sound?

The way you reason is so shocking. You keep coming up with more and more B.S.
And you remaining a virgin till you marry, and in turn marrying a virgin guarantees you will be HIV free?

Doc, we don see you wey holy pass na. Same bible we read tells you not to judge. But na you dey here dey judge pass.

I don't like calling people names but if anything you're the fool here.

Da Doctor:


SINNERS ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO COVER THEIR SINS, TRUTH HURTS SINNERS EARS.

I am up to the task. U neednt worry.

MY WORD ARE ALWAYS IN RED. CATCHING THEOR ATTENTION AND SENTITISING THEM FOOOLSS