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Da Doctor:
You are enjoying sex? for how long would u do that and with how many guys? is it scriptural. or u are a babalawo?

Till the day I die.

Am I not supposed to enjoy it? I don't get the point you're trying to make.
I don't care if it's scriptural or not. At the end of the day I believe in God but not all the B.S I read in the bible. I pick and choose what I feel I should. The white man brought the bible to Africa, but funny how na the Africans dey defend the bible pass the oyibo. There are more important things to worry your mind about than who your neighbour is shagging.

Babalawo wetin? I aint backwards like you. I don't believe that shyte!

Hardunnii:
I just hope u endup marrying guy

Same. But if not, it aint the end of the world. Unto the next one.

LMAO! Didn't realise it was a yes or no answer.

I said yes nau. . . ahn ahn!


Anyways, I would love my school books to come with a summary as well. . . . no be everybody like book like you.

Da Doctor:

KAI. I AM CHALLENGED AND TOUCHED.
PLEASE TELL THEM LADIES WHO HAVE ALLOWED BVAIRED MEN DRILL HORIZONTAL AND VERTICAL DRILL WELLS IN BETWEEN  THEIR LEGS. WHERE HAS MORALS GONE. PLEASE KEEP PREACHING TO THEM. GOD BLESS THOU

Doc, is the guy raping me or what? I don't get it. I am consenting to sex cos I enjoy it. What's your problem though?
"allowed" LMAO! Mehnnn!! Your mentality is pitiful.

Hardunnii:
As u lay your bed so u will lie on it, u shud stop sleepin with d guy n concentrate on d important things

Important things like what?!
LWKMD!

Girl, you're not getting any, so you wont understand. It's all good.

Da Doctor:
And u cant ascertain how many more men u wud date ?? add that up to the past ones u have dated. how many do dey add up to? So u share punny?

You are assuming how many guys I have dated, good for you.

Who knows how many more I will date, or if this is the last one? As long as I am happy doing me, I don't see how that affects your life.

SMH at the ignorance this old man is displaying.

Doc, I don't have to marry every guy I date. I'm not asking him to marry me. Will be nice cos we go way back and we good together . But that's not the point.

You need to grow up. So skinny people now break during sex?! O lawd.

Babe, the O.T talks about slavery, taking women and children, slaying infants, and what not.

Ha! What a joke.

Makes no difference. This topic could have been about someone on here and the chick will still display such ignorance.

Killz, aren't you familiar with the O.T?

Cos life is that easy and straightforward?! You sound like someone that lives in a cave.

Da Doctor:

And moro u marry anoda 'spoilt gurl' and she doesnt bear a child? wud u go probing to see if her womb has been off in one or 2 medical bruhaha?

Being a virgin isnt a crime Mr, most of u unmarried ones would like them for a relationship and subsequently marriage. compared to a gurl who cant even count the number of men she has sucked there dikkk before driving it into her punny.

Are you blind? I'm female!!
So every non-virgin is spoilt, and has aborted, and will have problem getting pregnant. Your mentality stinks and you are a typical backward Nigerian. How people like you can even have friends, girlfriends or wives is beyond me. Wouldn't even associate myself with people like you in real life. God help you people.

Who said being a virgin is a crime? You should be modest but not rub it in other people's faces, or condemn the next person cos in your opinion he's not as morally upright as you. To me it's as bad as fasting or making donations and making so much noise about it. What do you want? A cookie?  I don't need anyone to tell me that I am a much better person than you, and will deffo make a much better wife than yours-if and when you do have.

If the man I'm dating hasn't got a problem with the number of men I've shagged, why should you?

There's more to a person than the status of their [b]v[/b]agina, how many men they have shagged, if they are cohabiting or not, etc.

Hardunnii:
Ofcourse, lookín foward to that night
Btw, i dnt judge, i only adviced nt to move in uñtil she's married to d guy

Ye cos you were "advising" when you said this:

She can call him whatever she likes, what you should be concerned abt is teaching your daughter moral principles which will be a diff task, since you dont have one urself, poor girl goodluck.

Interesting!

Imagine dating that Nigerian guy that blows a lot of grammar. Will deffo do my head in.

They would rather carry on studying at night instead of making love.

These are just assumptions sha. I've not dated any one that "extra", but I can imagine.

Mango.

Hardunnii:
@kelz and co are u guys mad at me being a virgin or d declaratn Well few of us still av morals, if u do, u are supposed to know your body is a temple of God, so u should nt defile it.

It's the way you went about judging the next person, and not cos of what you are, or not.

Na morals I go chop? Abeg, lemme enjoying the good sex I'm getting.
Keep up the holier than thou attitude. Hope you're looking forward to the painful [b]s[/b]hag on your wedding night.

Ye I asked for a summary of the B. S cos the topic alone made it clear it wasn't worth straining my eyes to read.

Hardunni you should learn not to judge others. No one is perfect!! (Besides, this topic is hypothetical for all I know!)
Just cos you're managing to keep your virginity doesn't mean you should make so much noise about it.

Being a virgin doesn't make you better than the next chick who prolly lost it when she was 14.

Your personality on here stinks, if anything. And like someone implied, you might be sexually frustrated. Check yourself.

The way this thread has turned into something else. . . . Na wa!
Unless you're a very religious person you shouldn't see anything wrong with it. No one is forcing you to cohabit but you shouldn't condemn the next man that chooses to live with his woman. Don't forget that not everyone wants to get married, so this might be a better option for some couples. Besides, cohabiting is cheaper than both of you living separately. Each to their own.


@topic:
I would call him by his name, or Mr. X
The days of calling any older man uncle is so over! I have never called another man daddy, so I cannot advise a 6 year old to call another man dad, especially when her own dad is alive, and involved in her life.

When this man's mom named him did she name him uncle, bros, or whatever?! So what's wrong with calling him by his name? Nigerians and their mentality-"Am I your mate?", "Don't you know I senior you"? Makes me cringe.

Tired.

sexkillz:
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I hope you dont have this same mentality toward your books!. . .[/color]

My school books are not written in this format. Duuuuh!

Don't know why I'm indulging you by going back and forth on this issue.

Seeing as you know it all you should be able to tell me why we no longer take slaves, kill infants and all that.

There's clearly no room in your heart for change, or bending of rules to serve a better purpose. At the end of the day the bible was written by man. I would be more understandable and read it the way you do if God sent it down from heaven.

I refuse to believe everything I read in the bible, or take everything literally. I refuse to believe God instructed the warriors in the OT to kill and take over land. I refuse to believe God asked Abraham to kill his only son. I refuse to believe God hates gays. This is not the God I serve. Asking me about right to change the rules is another thing cos n your eyes I am fr from being  a Christian cos I am nothing like you-or even the Catholics that believe the bible word for word, or the pope that ruled against contraception.

But beef with the Catholic church aside, don't you think the idea of priests marrying would disrupt their work in the church? Be honest.

So many things in the same bible have been changed, like killing infants, taking slaves etc, I don't see you having any problem with that.

We have told you why the rule changed re:bishops marrying yet you choose to argue blindly. Enjoy!

Had to google that ^^

I have said what I had to say nau. Na wetin??
Mature guys I know do not have that kinda mindset, while the immature ones do.



Or you want me to comment on the second bit?
Ok[b]. . . . [/b] Some guys can be silly like that. They are obsessed with being the head of the family to the extent that when they find themselves in a powerless position-financially, they are not able to handle it. Didn't you read the story of the jobless man that killed his wife in Naija?

This is why relationships should be equal. Head of the house my foot. I'm my own boss.

From all I said that was all you could pick out?! Interesting!!

Obviously I was referring to the holier than thou heteros on here condemning homosexuals.

So what if I was g[b]a[/b]y? Am I se[b]x[/b]ing your sister?

Get a life.

You guys better focus your prayers on Naija and stop being selfish.

The one God will revive your business and you wont remember your fellow man tomorrow?! Mchewwwwwwwwwwww!

Silly immature men have that mindset. You and your boys need to grow up.


E be like say una no dey see pxxxx on a regular na hin dey make una kolo like this.

You will be alright.

Person like me go just leave you to sulk.

When you've had enough you can then respect your old age and behave yourself.

Why can't people summarise their b.s, or at least space it. Who really has time for this?! Euuurrgh!