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fuckwell2080:
@kennethbe59 always follow my directive on nairaland especially for SIMP MEN and DAUGHTERS OF EVE you become learn how to be ALPHA MALE.Alot of SIMP are ALPHA MALE today because of my directive change them for good.many thanking me with bottle of wine.nairaland is a place will learn new tins every day.

Boss I want to be Alpha male

fuckwell2080:
When you choose to be a SIMP you be serve bad breakfast.Am always an ALPHA MALE that why BITCHES flock around me begging to be Bleep.babes dont like MR NICE GUY.They TRIP and CARE for BAD GUYS.They want to be Bleep and RUBBISH by BAD GUYS.So a SIMP will always be serve breakfast.My COUSIN was a SIMP before but since i lecture him today he is an ALPHA MALE happy now thanking me always for directing him.So many SIMPS have change to ALPHA MALE.I will keep directing those that want to CHANGE to ALPHA MALE.

Thanks Boss

MJBOLT:

Not Gonna Make It

Boss please what's NGMI

CaveAdullam:
DAY 256, REDPILL 2022

Reproduction always follows survival, but when it comes to a time you put reproduction before survival, just know that you are NGMI.

Authority: Be wise.

The thing self tire me,

Alot of Men are suffering from scarcity mentality onetis.

Even me way never bleep girl for a long time no fit Jose like that.

kokaneprodigy:
Lol, “she’s still in your house”

you’ve done a lot of foolish things. But that “she’s still in your house” line shows you are beyond redemption.

I can’t help you

Thanks Brother

LIVINGICONREBOR:
No it doesn't. As far as you don't do indiscriminate use of anabolic steroids. Infact gyming boost penile erection more. The reason why it appears the penis size is shrinking is because as the body size/frame (muscle mass) increases the size of the penis stays the same(non flaccid state). The way an erect penis size of 8 inches would appear on a body builder would be quite different from the way it will appear on a normal dude. On the latter, such penis would appear large but on a body builder with enough muscle slabs the penis size appears normal.
Moreover anabolic steroids only shrinks the testicles but does not affect the shaft.

Even for sex it's not worth it.

JESHAL:
Who In his right sense invests in a depreciating asset, I dealt with a leftover woman yesterday, her stomach filled with stretch marks, her boobs like Dunlop slippers, her face aged and wrinkled, I ask myself who in his right mind will deal with such women for long term commitment asides managing them for only sex.

Boss in the house

Please I have a question

Does gyming reduce the size of a man D*ck

My Brother, just do exactly what cave ask you to do...
You will see some changes.. also you have to stop watching porn And masturbating.

You can contact cave privately l, he will assist you.

He has help me, I believe he will help you too.
But you have to be ready to follow his instructions.

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Osborne69:
Good evening brothers..
I know this is not a pharmaceutical thread, and I don't mean to derail the thread, however, I feel someone here must have been through what this situation of mine, and of course so many people with similar issues may be on this thread but refuse to talk about it, as it looks shameful, I noticed that I have erectile dysfunction, and I have tried everything I could, visited different hospitals (urologists), bought different expensive drugs, yet no improvement/changes, please anyone who knows what else to do should please help me with a response, all the teachings here still end on being able to lead(the most important part which is to be able to fucck), I'm lagging behind in this aspect, I have to kill the shame to talk about it..
Thanks in advance

Boss your wisdom is from another planet

CaveAdullam:
"Only virgin men should seek virgin women".

Translation: "I'm a damaged h0e".

DAY 245, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Avoid h0es.

Death to simps

Odunharry:
I hope and pray you don't lose your job..

When she start calling you handsome, hardworking, calm, God fearing etc

My Brother Know it that you are not doing it right

DonEvarest:
Simps never disappoint. Idiot!

Thank you Boss

The question now is,

How do a man manipulate a women emotionally

ubunja:
I hear you man,, Cause you realise you've been lied to this whole time and made to believe a lie. Women are emotion based. They think with their feelings. Where as a man you process facts a woman processes feelings. If something feels good and nice to them it's right, if it feels bad and painful then it's wrong. So RIGHT and WRONG to women is a matter of how they FEEL about something not so much about the facts and logics presented. When arguing with a woman she's not considering the facts you're presenting but how the facts are making her FEEL. If your facts make her feel good she'll agree with you, if your facts make her feel hurt, she'll disagree with you. Regardless both times you're speaking facts.

Depending on how you view it this can be a good thing. Cause, for one, it means that a woman you don't stand a logical chance with, but by playing on her emotions you have a fighting chance. It means that girl whom all sense and logic tells you she has absolutely no reason to date you, you can make an emotional case and have a better chance.

With women always make an emotional appeal never a logical appeal. Ignore the facts. They're irrelevant.

Let me tell you a story:
Some time ago I made a business transaction with this other dude which soured and he wanted his things back. Now honestly I can't remember who fucced up the deal me or him. Anyways he came for his items and I refused. He tried every trick to make me see his side of the story but I wouldn't budge. Then the niggah went and told her mother, who had a reputation for being a loudmouth who shouted at anyone who dared mess with her. But see even myself at that building I had made a reputation for myself of being a no nonsense guy and this lady herself had seen me deal with my babymama and she knew I didn't take shít.
So when I heard a knock on my door and went to open and saw it was her, knowing why she was here, I said to myself "here we go!!" . I was Ready to lock horns and argue with her and make a scene. But did the woman shout and berrate me and rain curses on me? No. She asked to come in, sat down calmly. Then started telling me the shít her and her son were going through lately, financial issues, a funeral at home, etc. All the while almost coming to tears. You know what? I was touched. I softned. I fell sorry for her. And reversed the deal and gave her what she was there for.
It didn't take long for me to realize old woman had played me. Instead of asking about the logical aspects of my deal with her son, she skipped all that and made everything about emotions. Not what happened, who did what, etc,, she simply showed me how much pain and suffering they were going through and how much my reversing the deal with go in alleviating that pain. And because I'm human, My humanity responded to the emotional appeal. And she won.
I'm sure she was laughing and mocking in her mind as she went back to her place. But whatever.

When dealing with women, this is how men must do. Skip the facts and make emotional appeals .It's not easy cause men have never been taught emotional manipulation, only psychological manipulation, but a guy who can work a woman's emotions will stay winning. And it's something anyone can learn.

How do we do the above mention sir

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the number one gospel of the redpill is and ought to be EMBRACE MASCULINITY!. Not ''chase success"or "men are the prize" or "self improvement" etc. Think about it. All the problems modern men have with women today is as a result of the decline in masculinity especially behavior wise. Women flaunt, enhance, weaponise and attract and keep us with their feminity( their number one asset) as such its only natural that we in turn embrace, enhance, flaunt and even weaponise our masculinity to attract and keep them. This right here is the central theme of great redpill books like mode one, the book of pook, rational male and even the unplugged alpha. Evolution has made Men to want women and vice versa. There's more to say but I'll rest here! Much obliged!
PS: if all other things up there e.g self improvement, financial success etc are taken care of and masculinity is absent, you'll still lose bro. Pussy only gravitates towards men.

Bross abeg continue, we dey learn

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the number one gospel of the redpill is and ought to be EMBRACE MASCULINITY!. Not ''chase success"or "men are the prize" or "self improvement" etc. Think about it. All the problems modern men have with women today is as a result of the decline in masculinity especially behavior wise. Women flaunt, enhance, weaponise and attract and keep us with their feminity( their number one asset) as such its only natural that we in turn embrace, enhance, flaunt and even weaponise our masculinity to attract and keep them. This right here is the central theme of great redpill books like mode one, the book of pook, rational male and even the unplugged alpha. Evolution has made Men to want women and vice versa. There's more to say but I'll rest here! Much obliged!
PS: if all other things up there e.g self improvement, financial success etc are taken care of and masculinity is absent, you'll still lose bro. Pussy only gravitates towards men.

@ubunja u said something last week that all the sense in the world is nothing to women.
Since then I have be unrest thinking about that statement..
Sometimes it hurt when you know that women are not what you think they are.

ubunja:
they say you never know a woman until in divorce court. I'll never understand why women become vengeful monsters during divorce like did we not spend 10, 20 years caring for each other being each other's best friend? Smh

Boss please check your mail

Pukkalolo:
Ok... you can send me a pm and I'll send the link to you.

If you just type Shameless Approach on Google, you might see it on search engine result

Please can you send me the book
Shameless Approach

Pukkalolo:
This seem like a trick question, but I'll try to answer it. Read this delicately because I believe you'll gain massive value from this.

If you actually want to get more female sexual opportunities thrown at you, first of all, you have to believe that woman actually love sex.

The society and media have fooled men into believing that men are the hornier gender. But that's a big lie.

I'm speaking straight from experience: Women love and enjoy sex as much as men does; don't mind any simp that tells you otherwise.


Ok, now let's get our hands dirty.

My strategy for dealing with women is based on two things:

#1 To get girls while spending only little or no money on her and without going out of my way to impress her.(With my "fearless confidence" I easily accomplish that.)

#2 I've got low tolerance for a woman who exhibit manipulative, disingenuous or disrespectful behavior. (I'm respect focused.)



The Female has two side: #1 Sexual side and #2 entitlement side.

Her sexual side is her real self. Her real self love sex as much as men does. Her real self is submissive to the male energy. Her real sexual and naughty self is hiding behind her entitlement side

Her entitlement side is the side she shows to the men. Here is the female entitlement belief: “I expect every man to put me on a pedestal and treat me like a flawless goddess.”

Women, from young age are trained to never show their sexual side to men so they won't be perceive as slut or LovePeddler. They are socially train to only show their entitlement side to men. That's why most of them walk around acting rude and saucy to men.

Girls entitlement mindset is overblown as a result of constant compliment, ass licking and undeserved attention from guys.
Her entitlement side is layered on top of her sexual side. This is why you don't see her sexual side because her entitlement self is covering it.

Women don't show their sexual and naughty side to nice guys. They only show that sexual side to the bad boy, alpha, experience and dominant guys. The only side the nice guys and simps tend to see is her female entitlement side. This is the reason why nice guys struggle to get sex.

Here's the core difference between the nice guy and alpha bad boy:

The nice guy SUBMIT to the female entitlement belief while the alpha bad boy CHALLENGE the female entitlement belief

Here is how it works: when meeting a sexy and attractive lady for the first time, she'd naturally show you her entitlement side first. When you "challenge" her female entitlement side, she assumes you are the alpha bad boy type and then she'll gradually start showing her true sexual naughty side to you. Soon she'll be on your bed and you'll be banging her silly.

But when you start exhibiting behavior that "submit" to her entitlement side and put her on pedestal, she assumes you are the nice guy type, then she'll hide her sexual side from you indefinitely. Then she'd start manipulating and exploiting you.

When she meets you for the first time, here are top two ways a woman can immediately tell that she's dealing with the nice guy type:

#1. You immediately start spending your money on her and doing nice things for her.

#2. You tolerate disrespectful, saucy and bitchy behavior from her.


An attractive woman would never want to show you her real sexual naughty side until she's sure you're the dominant confident alpha bad boy type.

A typical attractive woman wants every guy to submit to her female entitlement side, so what she does is to psychologically and emotionally bully you in to submitting to her own selfish desires; Her underlining behavior with men is "you better treat me nicely and put me on pedestal or otherwise I'm going to reject you, dislike you and indefinitely start ignoring you."

The Nice guy easily get bullied by a beautiful girl and he submit to her entitlement side. He start offering her financial gift. He start doing things for her. He tolerate her bitchy behavior. He does all this things with the hope that she'll give him sex, but still he never get even a kiss from her.

I would never allow a beautiful woman to emotionally bully me. I care less if she threaten to ignore me or reject me. I always just focus on challenging her entitlement belief.


If you "submit" to female entitlement side, her interest for you will gradually be decreasing until she eventually puts you in the friend zone or start avoiding you.

If you "challenge" her female entitlement side, her interest for you will increase, and soon she'll be falling for you.

Have you ever had a lady who seem attracted and interested in you initially, but then she gradually start drifting away from you and giving you attitudes. She now rarely returns your text or calls. She has lost interest because you were submitting to her female entitlement side.

The reason why that woman is not returning your calls or text anymore is because you have already proved to her that you are the weak ass nice guy type that she can emotionally bully.

The wicked thing about these ladies is, when you are submitting to their female entitlement side, they call you sweet names and say "you such a darling" or "you're such a sweet guy", but their sexual interest in you is dropping quickly.

Submitting to her desires and putting her on pedestal is a major sexual turn-off to an attractive and sexy lady who's in her prime. An attractive lady subconsciously wants you to challenge her entitlement side.


When you challenge her entitlement side, she might get upset. Most men think that causing a woman to become upset can ruin your chance with her. That's not true. It can actually increase your chances of being with her if you can handle her "upset" while being confident and remorseless.


The nice guy is already always salivating for the attractive lady. The nice guy interact with her as if she's a goddess or idol. He's careful with his words. He's careful not to upset her.

I'm totally different from the nice guy type. I'm not careful with my words, infact I actually want to provoke her so i can see what she's like when she's upset.

I act like I'm the prize to be won. The nice guy place the woman on pedestal; but I place my ATTENTION and COMMITMENT on pedestal...she has to earn it.



*Interacting with a lady

Nice guy type: "I love you so much... I'll do anything for you."

Pukkalolo: "you seem like a classy lady, but I wonder if you can handle an experience guy like me"


* She wore sexy outfit with her sexy shapes showing.

Nice guy type: "Wow.. wow, You're looking sweet "

Pukkalolo: *looks at her skeptically* then says, "something tells me you're wearing a fake hip."


I always act unimpressed when interacting with a lady. I act like I'm in doubt about her. In my earliest stages of interacting with her, I just concentrate on challenging her entitlement belief until I break her down totally and get her to show me her sexual side.


Remember I said her real sexual and naughty side is hiding behind her entitlement side. If you are interacting with an attractive lady especially the one in her prime, you've got to exhibit behavior that challenge her and “break through” her female entitlement side and get to her sexual side. If you've read "shameless Approach", you see that I went really hard in explaining this concept with lots of real life examples from my past interaction with attractive ladies. If you don't know about it, you can check my profile to get the link to it.

If you are dealing with an ugly or unattractive girl, you can act like a simp and get away with it. But If you are dealing with an attractive lady who happens to have many guys chasing after her and putting her on pedestal, you have to deviate from exhibiting “nice and boring” behavior towards her. You do this by NOT submitting to her female entitlement side.

Like I said, From the moment you meet a woman, her sexual interest in you is either gradually increasing or decreasing. If a girl was Interested in you initially but then days later or weeks later she starts losing Interest in you, then it because you were exhibiting behavior that submit to her "female entitlement side"

More ink to your pen

CaveAdullam:
1. I get where you are coming from. You are looking at men and women from an egalitarian point of view. But to understand thee genders you must first consider them from their evolutionary background and biological imperatives. When it comes to sexual mating which of course is why men need women and vice versa, what they want differs.

2. Humans are rational beings, they don't sit down all day thinking of how to fulfill their basal primal instincts, however, regardless of their course of actions, they are being led subconsciously by these instincts.

Like it or not, your self-development is to fulfill your biological imperatives; you may deny it consciously and be outspoken about it, however, genetics is what it is. It all boils down to survival and reproduction.

3. Women can benefit men aside from sex in a relationship but sex and offspring are her first point of concern for both her and her husband or the man she's in a relationship with. These other benefits they provide are because of their evolved thinking above primal instincts; give or take, hypergamy is still the reason. She buys a house for you, hypergamy. She gives you money, hypergamy. She's invested in you, hypergamy.

Women are submissive to dominant men, which signifies good genes and resources, so they invest in that man to satisfy hypergamy.

4. Men date low, women date high. That behavior took millions of years to become biologically wired in the human psyche. Society may not be going the way it ought to, notwithstanding, nature will always prevail.

What men want in women: beauty, fertility, modesty, grace, kindness, submissiveness, smartness, coachable, young, and elegance.

What women want in men: dominance, confidence, strength, intelligence, strong-willed, leadership, and resources.

Ying and yang will always come into place here: there is always a dot of femininity in men and dot of masculinity in women. The dot is to maintain balance and to help understand each other better. If there is a disorder in their makeup or how they ought to behave there will be abnormalities like what our contemporary world is experiencing today.

Expecting a woman to act and project what belongs to the masculine domain is abnormal. This always gives birth to caricatured males - feminists. Ditto for men - soy men and simps. Alias Mr. Nice guy.

5. A woman can support and help a man in their journey but that doesn't make her a captain and a man must not expect it from her. Demonstrating masculine qualities doesn't mean inheritance. Two captains can't lead same time.

But if you start viewing things from an egalitarian point: she must own a house, a car, a career, you are only settling for a masculine woman. (This hurts but that's the truth). You are calling for a share in power.

It is not bad if she owns these things per se, but most times they sacrifice their femininity on the altar to achieve them. Men and women will never come out with the same result if they pass through hell concurrently. Men most times are always refined and shaped, and women most times end up damaged. Why do you think career women and feminists are not alluring to men?

There will always be outliers: women who retained their femininity despite the hurdles and struggles. But they are the exceptions that prove the rule.

6. A man's highest investment in a relationship is his money/commitment because it is what women want. A woman's highest investment in a relationship is her body/sex because it is what men want. Any other thing they are benefiting from each other emanates from these basic roots. Women are the gatekeeper of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

After heartbreak is how you can also see this properly: women will always cry and repeat "after all that I have done for him...he used and dumped me". Sex is what makes her bitter. At this moment, sex can no longer be used to get his commitment. The woman that you didn't fvck will never complain bitterly after a breakup.

For men, you will hear him say " after all the money I have spent on her, paid for her expensive trips, paid her tuition fees, bought her gifts, and showed her a lot of surprises". What he is bitter about is his money and that his money will no longer be used to get sex. A man that did not spend much on a woman will never weep bitterly after a breakup. This now takes us back again to the concept: of genuine desire.

7. Genuine desire will make her sacrifice her highest investment which is her body/sex on the altar of your body/d!ck. Subconsciously this is hypergamy in display but consciously she is not placing a great demand on your shoulders. She has entered your frame and you can direct and lead her as you please and effectively. Other things will always fall in place because she wants to please you. Now, she has placed herself on the losing side for the betterment of the relationship. It is then left for you to maintain the frame and act accordingly. If you fail, you awaken her subconsciousness, the game changes and you become the one on the losing side.

8. The family and divorce laws hinge on a man's accomplishments. Because on a norm, even if a woman becomes uninterested in the relationship you still have her home, car, and money. She came with nothing and must leave with nothing. (Children benefit you and their genetic lineage).

Based on the biased family and divorce laws, at this junction, "sex seems not to be a woman's highest investment" because she is taking part of your resources she didn't work for. Here, egalitarianism seems reasonable, because in the advent of breakup you don't lose much.

Egalitarianism or not, women will still demand leadership from their man, and a man, followership from his woman. What then needs to be done is a proper understanding of their behaviors, characters, actions, and the societal structures that can ensure the efficiency of those actions and behaviors. Chaos looms when this is not done or followed appropriately.

Thanks.

DAY 240, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Positive masculinity. Positive femininity.

Cc. Heartofcity12.

Intelligentguy5:
Yup. People need to realise that the following are top derailers of destiny:

1. Women
2. Alchoholism
3. Masturbation and sex addiction
4. Gambling

Etc.

The part of the brain that controls these things is same place where creative energy comes from and it’s such that you can’t be addicted to them and function optimally. Something has to give.

. Please explain more

Have you guys seen the new Guiness advert on BBN

Na Women Dem use do the advert...


So, Women now takes Guiness more than Men...

Nawa o

Check ur mail Brother

CaveAdullam:
Alright man. Send a DM

Cc. Kennethlbe59

I am ready Brother

CaveAdullam:
Please, the bet is not you giving me any money or paying for my time. It is just a thing you look unto as you press towards your goal.

You are paying me zilch, nothing, nada. It is just for me to squeeze out time for you and maybe others. And you putting in the work.

We rise by lifting others.

If you are ready, I'm ready.

Thanks.

Boss I am ready
I will pay you for your time

CaveAdullam:
If you are ready to put in the work, we can make a bet and ride on. The bet is just a carrot, nothing more.

Take note: I'm not the kind of person that stop strangers on the way for chit-chats. However, I interacted with strangers during the first meeting and kickoff from there. What I do is initiate rapport, based on the short moment we are together.

Since you want to build your communication skill, we can try to work on something. And if you are ready, I will squeeze out time for you.

Thanks.

If u masturbate, please stop if you watch porn, please stop.
These are ur mean problem

Blackavast:
Good morning guys
Please I need your help I have some issues of myself I'm trying to work on.

I don't know how to interact with females I'm attracted to
I don't know how to flirt with girls
I don't know game.
I've never had a girlfriend
Anygirl I chat with finds me boring due to lack of communication.

I need help on this issues. Please note I'm not a womaniser. I'm just trying to improve some aspects of mylife. I'm in my late 20's.

Eedris is just lucky.....

1 out of 10million women will do that for a Man.....

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CaveAdullam Ubunja u guys dey Burst my brain.....

I understand both of u........

As for me, I think will go fory own survival

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I don't think i got this

CaveAdullam:
DAY 227, REDPILL 2022

The women you're interested in are not strangers; act like a lover.

Authority: Be sharp.

Madilas market

KardinalZik:
Where do I get men's jeans, t-shirts and jerseys at cheaper wholesale prices? It's urgent.

Bread fruits street bologun

realmiracleakab:
OK what of where to buy makeups items and products at wholesale prices