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Miracood2:
I've finally find a girl that make my heart beat very fast whenever I see her.

I'm in problem guys.

Karlifate:
Funny enough, dude might be joyful he married the "love of his life"

Truly, the heart of (wo)man is deep.
Who can unravel it to the end

heartofcity12:
“Make money and women will come and they’ll love you and remain loyal to you forever”- 🤡

Karlifate:
1: Dating apps

Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge are online dating services where anyone can make a profile and start swiping to find a match. When two people match with each other, they're prompted to start a conversation and interact with each other. This is where the interaction begins.

Pros:

• Easiest way to find women

• High volume of opportunities for interaction

• Women that use these services are sexually available

• You can spend as much time as you want on it

Cons:

• Quality of women varies

• Some women "catfish" or alter their appearance on the app to look more attractive than they actually are

• Possibility of getting flaked


2: College

College campuses are arguably the best place to find young, hot women who are at a sexually curious time of their lives. It would be ideal to be attending the college you are searching for women in, but you can find ways around this if you are not enrolled.

Pros:

• An abundance of young, hot women to choose from

• Relatively sexually open environment; seduction is easier

• High likelihood of common interest; conversation is easier

• Many opportunities to meet sexually available girls at

Cons:

• Overall quality of women is low due to hookup culture

• Low likelihood of maintaining a serious relationship

• Exclusive culture; those who are not attending the college won’t be as attractive as someone who is attending


3: Grocery or retail stores

Grocery or retail stores provide a pressure-free and relaxed environment where striking up a conversation is easy. Could be as simple as commenting on the kind of cereal she bought to get a conversation going.

Pros:

• Easy conversation starts (comment on what she’s picking up as an ingredient for something you want to cook)

• Casual, relaxed environment; no pressure

• Easy to approach; she’s probably not focused on anything else

Cons:

• Ages of women are mixed; many old women as well as young

• Girls might reject you because they don’t want to waste any time: for something that is not your fault


4: Charity/Volunteer events

Volunteer events provide an environment for you to find highly agreeable women. Agreeableness is also known as compassion, meaning you’ll find kind and caring girls at these events. This is a trait of high-quality women.

Pros:

• Indicator of high value in a girl (high agreeableness, high industriousness)

• Common interests; starting a conversation is easier

Cons:

• Can be a chore if you don't enjoy participating in these events

• If you don’t enjoy it, and you reveal it, you’ll be seen as dishonest


5: Places of worship

Whatever your religion, you’ll find some high-quality women at places of worship. It may be hard to find her at first, but once you do,

Pros:

• Assuming you are of the same religion, very likely to have common interests, principles, and morals

• The quality of women is relatively high

Cons:

• Higher chance of girls being a prude

• Higher chance of girls being in a relationship

• The average age of women is higher


6: Libraries or bookstores

Pros:

• Quiet environment for you to be able to focus in

• Relatively high-quality girls (students, readers)

Cons:

• Girls may reject you because they want to be left alone

• Girls may give you her number as a way to get you to go away, only to flake on you later


7. Clubs and parties

Pros:

• High volume of hot young women

• More sexually relaxed environment; seduction is easier

Cons:

• Interactions with a drunk girl may be forgotten, getting you nowhere

• High amount of competition from other men

• Loud environment; can be very distracting



Practice your game skills at these places.



📖 Wingman Daily

Meedon:
Sex that uni and poly boys are getting? A lot of people future wife's are being dickked daily in our higher institution.

CaveAdullam:
@colored:

1. A. Sex is a man fvcking a woman for the ultimate reason of reproduction and vice-versa.

B. Libido refers to sex drive. That's the motivation to have sex.

C. Testosterone is a male hormone that controls growth and reproductive development in men. When the male is sexually developed he's able to have sex.

So, my question: "How does sex have little or nothing to do with libido or testosterone?"

2. It's natural for every human to have a sex drive.

Self-control is important especially when you aren't ready for the consequences of sex like marriage, nurturing kids, pregnancy, commitment, provision, protection, emotional attachment, physical attachment, heartbreak, and stds/stis.

3. How long can a normal male who's neither neutered nor sick nor disabled deflects sexual thoughts and desires for sex from his mind?

He can stay celibate if he chooses to but the desires are there.

Self-control is only important if sex will be an albatross to his destination. The man with a large ambition doesn't need a harem of women orbiting him 24/7. Else, he'll quickly lose focus.

4. Promiscuity, h00kup culture, and sexual liberation cause harm to society. However, it doesn't mean that sex is harmful.
Modesty and necessity are what matters as with other things like food, alcohol, luxury, etc.

5. Like I said earlier in the juvenile pages of this thread: "As a man you're socially smart but evolutionary stupid if you choose not to reproduce".

Sex has value. And that value is reproduction. We're having this discussion because our ancestors kept passing their genes eons, then to us.

All the scientific, technological, social, economic, and cultural development we all see today boils down to sex; to reproduce efficiently so that newer generations may have a good environment to thrive and survive and also pass their genes.

6. Take you as an example: You've struggled from the bottom to the top. Your motivation was the survival of your genes. You may not be deliberate and conscious about it, but it is what it is. If you die tomorrow with no children, all that you've worked and gained will fall into the hands of different people to ensure the survival of their genetic line.

7. A man that complains about the scarcity of sex or the unavailability of women should first ask himself what he has done to attract women.

These guys think that is to count the ceilings above their heads while scrolling "Nairaland Redpill thread" is how they can get women. I laugh in Portuguese.

Women are not fools. They also come across the red pill contents. They have their experiences as well. They know what they want.

8. Men at the bottom like going above their league when it comes to women and get heartbroken or disappointed.

You talk about hypergamy but your crush is a millionaire senior manager. Or a beautiful prostitute who has millions of money in her bank account.
Meanwhile, you can leverage Nkechi who is at the bottom to learn about women as you walk to the top.

9. Women's attraction to men has always been based on an athletic body(sex and dominant genes), high status(power and protection), and money(provision of her needs). Other masculine qualities like confidence, intelligence, wittiness, assertiveness, and wisdom are good advantages.

10. Eric247/Jeshal, do you want women/sex? Edify yourself with the immaterial masculine qualities (not neglecting the material) and put yourself where women are plentiful.

These immaterial qualities will help you at the bottom. The material will make it easier provided you understand the GAME.

You don't need to be hustling up and down the streets of your locality bumping and jumping on different girls that your eyes catch.

Women are in churches. Women are in the gym. Women are in your class. Women are in the library. Women are in shopping malls.
All it requires of you is to know your game, enter where these women are, and work to your preference.

11. If you find yourself among 5 women, if you don't at least bang 1, you will have f0replay with at least 3.
Provided you are always in their midst, creating both physical and emotional contact.

Thanks.

Eric247:
Let's stop decieving ourselves, this alphaness na scam, most men are not enjoying unlimited access to unlimited sexuality except they patronize prostitutes, even married men aren't getting the sex like dat, sex hard my brother, sex scarce, only a small amount of men are getting this thing.

jonaifame22:
good evening bro,pls what are the risks involved with going interstate,cos I have a sienna too,I tried to put air conditioning in it ,and I thank God,I do get calls for jobs,but na that interstate I dey pray for sef

ubunja:
it's tragic when a young man doesn't understand his own value and worth. He has a low self esteem and doesn't think he deserves more. It's a shame. A lot of men are like this. Problem is these single mothers can be cute. A lot of these single mothers have an appeal to them that a man has to actively resist.

On the topic of guys with low self esteem,, I used to know a guy who was drop dead gorgeous, such that even ladies would stop him in the street to talk to him. Dude was too good looking. But you know what? The last time I heard of him he was slaving away at some farms .... What a waste of talent.

And finally, Yes guys need to level up. But it must be mentioned that the quickest way to move from Beta to Alpha without improving anything or changing anything about yourself is to CHANGE YOUR LOCATION. That's the cheat code. Cause different places have different standards of attractiveness. An extreme example is if you're average in the City then you go to the village, you'll (generally) instantly be one of the top men over there. Now even moving from one city to another will affect your Alpha/Beta. Plus the ease of access to sex varies from city to city. Some places sex is easy to get. Some places sex is hard to get.

Like I have already said, different places have different standards of attractiveness...Let's say you move to a city with a lot of good looking people, even if yourself you're handsome, you'll instantly see your Alphaness slide down cause competition will be fierce. But if you move to a city with a lot of ugly people, you instantly rise up the ranks. A lot of you Naija guys may be having a hard time with women over there, but just a relocation to Southy will instantly change everything. This side Nigerian men are generally regarded as high value although you guys have to slow down with the spending on women - Cause it tends to get a lot of your countrymen exploited.
This relocation to get better is also what is the basis of the American Passport Bros movement. Where a lot of these guys are struggling with women in the US but in Latin America and Asia they're at the very top of the pyramid, and very much in demand.

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

Brokeloser:
One with expect you with your alleged wisdom to be sensible enough to know where you're not wanted.Its not that hard for those with actual common sense to decipher.

The thread's name is strictly redpill but because of your "immeasurable wisdom" you and your sophisticated brethren choose to force blue pill ideologies down our throats.

I suggest you create your own strictly blue pill thread where you and like minded individuals can share notes on how to be real men.Please use your sense.

sinfultrust:
Yes running inter-state is too risky for someone like me too. I advice you sell the sienna if it’s in bad condition add little money if possible to get a new car. Even if it’s not tokunbo, you can get Nigerian used car for Uber business. Driving for Uber in Lagos is less risky and profitable as well. Don’t forget there’s always money on road business. Good luck my brother.

CaveAdullam:
Instead of that far distance why not run local, that is, within Lagos or the eastern part of Nigeria. Especially during the early and late hours of the day.

sinfultrust:
Been a redPiller for almost a year. I was going through heartbreak when I stumbled upon this thread and everything in my life changed drastically. It wasn’t easy but the results are massive. I bought my first car 3 days are ago, something I never thought possible. Last girl I dated was 27 and she pressured me to marry her by all means. I don’t have much but I was doing ok by myself before I met her. After few months of dating I found myself solving all her financial problems to the extent of supporting her family with financial aid. I’m an average Nigerian youth scraping to survive, I was blind to the fact that the only exchange I get in return for all my sacrifices was sex. Yes, I’m not gonna lie there were times she lend me money like 10k, 20, 5, 7 etc it goes on and on. Compared to what I’ve spent, I know I was on the losing end. Our relationship was hitting rock bottom fast because her demands was becoming outrageous and I was constantly broke to the extent of not having airtime or data. Come middle of last year she told me she’s going to NYC camp. That was when I started having guts feeling that our union is over or something crazy is about to happen. Before she leave for camp I got sick and she didn’t visit. Even though she knows I’m a lone wolf I’ve got no friends whatsoever she still didn’t visit. I was admitted at the hospital for a week, while I was going through WhatsApp status on hospital bed I saw a video of her in a party having the time of her life with friends. Honestly, that evening I cried, I felt betrayed I felt so many things I don’t even understand. I had no money for hospital bills so I told her to assist me with half of it if possible and she came through with half of it sent to hospital account. When I got out we talked for 3 good days on phone before I stumbled on this thread because I was already going crazy about the whole thing. I was searching the internet for answers, I was helpless and desperately in need of what to do next. Because, at the time I thought exiting the relationship would be childish or make me look immature. Long story short, this thread changed my life. I stopped contacting her and blocked her on both lines but not WhatsApp. I was expecting her to react but she didn’t contact me too. Months past, It was almost a year before she contacted me on WhatsApp on day, and said she just gave birth to a baby girl. I didn’t reply for 2 days and when I did reply it was just one word “congratulations” then she started asking how I’m doing, if everything is great and so on. My brother I didn’t respond. I know some of you think this thread is a joke but it’s not. In just a year of not being in any exclusive relationship I’m seeing transformers in my life. Nothing good comes easy, you wouldn’t know if you don’t try. My best and most reliable friend and partner is money and my skill to make money. I treat my hustle the way I used to treat girls, I don’t play with her. As a man my worth my beauty my affluence and everything goes down to what I have. So, if you’re here to fight and argue with others, you’re doing yourself more harm than good. I reversed my game with women I deal with. Strictly making all my dealings with them transactional. This is the best way for me, It might not work for you and of course everyone is different. The way you deal with Y is gonna be different from the way you deal with Z. But, whatever I do, I do it transactional. If she wants a favor from me that I can offer. Then, I want something from her too. No matter how small, she must do something in return except she’s family. Universal blessings to all brothers in the house and enjoy your weekend. Thank you

CaveAdullam:
1. Yeah. That's how men are being scammed from generation to generation. Sprinkle atoms of truth on falsehood, deception, and lies and it will be accepted by the masses. This is how deception and manipulations work.

2. How do women carry out their manipulative moves? Do they outrightly tell you they are manipulative? No. They act curly and mild while manipulating and siphoning you.

3. Great wars are not won by full attack mode but by infiltration. Once you consider your enemy as friendly or innocuous, the battle has been concluded. You are a fvcking loser!

4. How did Judas Iscariot betray his master? A friendly kiss. Is a friendly kiss harmful? No. But who is the person expressing such gestures? What's the character and nature of the person? Even satan appeared among the sons of light when God called for his sons. Ask Job. Satan appears as an angel of light. Ask Apostle Paul.

5. Do you see players and jerks walk up to women and say, "hey babe, I want to manipulate you and fvck you then dump you?". No. You don't hear it even though you can see it through abstraction. It is a game of manipulation and deception. You are not to know it but to follow it ignorantly even defending it.

6. How do your political leaders put you under their foot stool while you and the population struggle for the least indivisible crumbs of bread that falls from their table? They do it by presenting manifestos that sound good to the ear. They make fake promises. They perform philanthropic acts and act meek just to distract you from their games; a decoy.

7. What has the b@stard id!ot troll said that hasn't been said on this thread? You just tell me. Or, what is he saying that isn't inscribed on the pages of this thread?

We even created a sub-thread on business and money making but the thread is lying dead. What do you all want?

8. You don't put new wine into an old wineskin. In the same way, I will never entrust my child to pedophilia because he does the act of charity, is the same way, I will never consider any comment from a troll sensible.

They are called trolls for a reason: to steer the ship from its direction. The sea has different directions, but we have a specific direction here: to open the eyes of men to the nature of women to the best of our knowledge. We are neither Zeus, Narcissus nor Apollo, and never have we claimed to be.

9. Fine. Nobody is perfect. We know in parts and we learn in parts. Nobody is an island of knowledge.

Take Caveadullam and Ubunja for example: we have disagreed so many times on this thread. But because our goal is the same we still appreciate ourselves/ideas and live peacefully. None is a troll. Therefore, even though there are elements of disagreement, each can still find wisdom in the other.
This is way different from a troll, who shits around and expects us to take him seriously because at this moment he's struggling to shit.

A troll is a troll!

PS: I got books that will soon be on sale. Whatever you all think, I don't care. I and other respectable monikers have paid our dues here. So, if anybody thinks it is easy, there is a large space for performance. You are all welcome on stage.

Thanks.

Alright, this can possibly fit:DAY 307, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn how to see, because the more you look, the less you see.

pansophist:
Make I talk?

Martinez39s:
I thought they said feminism is just equal rights and fair treatment of both sexes.

Osoboshi:
U guys should check out this thread-women and their fishlike brain by myndd44 a 2014 thread very insightful

ubunja:
yes,, a lot of guys want to forever stay in the Psychological aspect of the Redpill. The sexual aspects makes them feel a kind of way.

ubunja:
it won't work cause guys are afraid of talking about sex.

pansophist:
There are two kinds of people. The weak and the strong. By weakness and strength, I'm not referring to the physical expression of it but internally, the energy of the soul. If you refuse to be used by anyone, there is a high tendency that you'll be loathed. If you start living from inside out, in accordance with yourself, you've basically set the rule to be a social outcast. A decision every man will come to face one day is to either choose to please the world, or himself. If you please the world, you'll suffer. If you please yourself, you'll prosper.

Most people are weak in their soul, and the symptoms of internal weakness is living from the outside to the inside. Meaning that they expect others to give them something they can't give themselves. For example look for an obese person, and ask how his/her dream partner should look like, I doubt they would desire an obese person like them. They want someone that is disciplined enough to eat healthy, the same lifestyle they can't live up to. Same goes for the uneducated, the broke, the lazy etc.

The weak are always a receiver and a burden to others and to themselves. They need to destroy your esteem to feel strong. They feel rich because youre poor. They feel strong when they control you. When you place them on a pedestal, they feel like a messiah. To grow taller, they push you down and to go faster, they cut off your legs. The weak are outwardly focused, and like a hoover, they need to vacuum other's self-worth to have an esteem. Basically they feel angry that you didn't give them what they can't give themselves, and genuinely pissed off that you refused to be used by them. The irony.

When you're good, they interpret it as weakness and an invitation for maximum exploitation. The concept of altruism, benevolence and compassion are alien to many, hence they don't get it when a strong person relates with them in that frequency. To respect you, they must fear you first. They are the first to criticise, but the last to give better alternatives. Basically the need to know you have teeth, and can actually bite, before relating with you as they normally should. Sadly, these behaviours are natural to the weak soul and the ignorance of their energy makes it worse for redemption.

A strong person lives from the inside out, meaning that they try to meet the ideal of their own imagination. They don't expect someone else to be intelligent, eloquent, fit, healthy, refined etc. They embody it. And if you are strong, the weak would want to use you, the same way a thief wants to steal from you because being strong is immaterial wealth, and also because the weak live from outside to the inside, when you refuse to be used, you'll be hated. If you understand how the dynamic goes, you really won't feel sad when people hate you, just as the bark of a dog doesn't disturb you, because you understand the dog. You understand the weak energy they are coming from.

Like the old saying, iron sharpens iron. When two strong people meet each other, it's basically an introduction to heaven. And if they are romantic partners, then each time spent together is heaven in itself. Imagine being in love with someone that is like a boost, launching you to greater heights. A strong person understands his/her weakness, and can understand yours as well. The only time a man can experience true freedom is when he is alone, but to be free even in the presence of another person is the greatest of heavenly blessings.

If you will learn anything from this write up, it should be about reflecting on your behaviours and determine if you navigate the world with a weak mindset, and change it. By default, the weak will suffer and the strong will thrive, this is the rule of the universe. So for one to reduce the suffering that characterizes life, you must be strong. It's not an option, it's a must. And if you're strong, stay away from the weak and do not apologise for it. Salvation is a personal journey.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
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Nwaotu10:
You're sick in the head, niggaaa. Get the 4***K Outta this thread.
I'm calling the mods on you, Psycho!!

youcanmakeit:
Shameless Approach. After reading that book, I felt like an alpha beast.

Pukkalolo:
Never come across as if you're "thirsty" or "desperate" for a woman sexual companionship. That's a huge turn off.

The thing is, I don't necessarily encouraging faking; but when it comes to this aspect, it's better to "act" or "fake" like you have other women who actually want to Bleep you.

Women prefer to Bleep a man who already has other women in his life than to Bleep a lonely sexually desperate man.

A Woman's attraction for you increase when she feels that other women also want you.