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rita25:
Thank you for your care i truelly appreciate. God will take charge he is the Author and finisher of our faith i leave all to him

That's the spirit, mama.

I hope you did feel a bit better after releasing the load in your heart here.

Don't forget to always pour out your heart to God in prayers as well. HE is the God of all comforts.

Love hugs.

oke22:
My LO no wan show face ooo 39 weeks now by my first edd I’m almost 40 weeks I don kpekus,climb step, dance, long walks, zobo drink, pineapple, nipple cleaning Abeg all these things Na lies e no Dey trigger labor Abeg

Lol. This had me laughing

Sorry mama for the wait. I'm sure baby is taking his or her time

Hang in there, it's almost over!

I can't stop laughing

rita25:
funny enough i am not making troubles and i cant talk to my mum because where do i start from? the beatings the STD and all who would understand? i can talk here because no one knows me here also i have remained for my kids but am really getting drained

Ma'am,

please you might need to leave for a while if your life is in danger.

You can as well make a report at the woman affairs commission or any other appropriate commission if necessary. Even if he doesn't take care of you, he needs to take responsibility of the kids.

Please take care of yourself.

rita25:
i know its hurting expecially for TTC moms i wish God can replace a mothers womb with my baby but i truelly have no choice bearing the bills for 3 kids alone is hectic then adding a child i will just increase the pressure and the kid will suffer too.......i cant stay with anyone due to my job the kids school...as for my husband attitude i have asked the blood of my unborn to hunt him forever and may his side chick remain barren even if she eventually gets married for the pain they have caused me.

I am practically lost for words. I may not understand what you're currently going through, but I feel for you.

Please seek advice from your mum or a matured person, someone you can talk to physically before taking a decision.

Please don't make troubles with him, your health and safety of you and your kids should be paramount.

This is what we call egg pie

rita25:
hi all,
i am so depressed,am pregnant but a lot of issues i already have 3kids and this is on the way,my husband has been acting up and keeping side chicks,i cant eat always weak its affecting my health and job,no one to help me.....i would love to keep the baby but i cant ...am not asking for any financial assistance am drained my only option is to terminate

God will comfort and strengthen you, mama.

I think you should stop worrying about your husband's attitude and face your kids.

Please do not terminate that pregnancy. Why no go stay with someone who can take care of you until you deliver rather than having to live with the guilt of not having the baby.

Remember that there are TTC mothers on this thread too.

I pray that God sends a helper your way.

Abu23Rahman:
EDD Feb 21/02/21
EDD Feb 22/02/21
EDD Feb 25/02/21

I'm 41 weeks gone .... should I still wait small or I should find how to induce labor.. I'm using a local maternity around my area and the only thing dey always check his my weight and the length of my stomach and blood pressure..

Pls advice me

Good morning ma'am.

Do you meet with a doctor on your ante natal visits or just the nurses?

What are they saying about the vitals they check? Do you always ask if everything is okay?

Do you monitor your baby's movements?

When is your next ante natal visit?

Are you feeling any signs of baby getting ready to come yet?

By 'local maternity,' do you mean tradomedical practitioners or health centres?

If the answer is health centres, please kindly request to see a doctor and let them examine you. They might need you to wait for some days, induce labour or cs, as the case may be.

*On how to induce labour on your own: zobo drink, pineapple, dates, walks, sex, etc. But note that even with all these baby may still not be ready to come and that's the reason why you need to speak with a doctor, they know what's best for you.

Please don't take chances. Speak with a doctor today.

Abu23Rahman:
What can I use to induce labor I'm overdue and I'm using a local maternity

Ma'am,

Please stop saying you're OVERDUE because you're NOT.

To induce labour, you can take zobo drink, pineapple, dates, long walks, and meeting with hubby. However the case may be, baby will come when it is time or when the doctors feel it is time.

As I can see from your scan results, your baby is coming soon. Rather than worry, do the necessary things so you'll be strong for your baby on the D-day.

P.s: PRAY!

Abu23Rahman:
Good morning I have been following the trend for the past 6months now and today I need help.. EDD is 21/02/2021 and yet I haven't seen any sign..pls I'm using a local maternity hospital, pls advice me on what to do .. because these nurse don't know about most of the things I learn here..I'm overdue

Good morning, ma'am.

You are NOT overdue. Please note that EDD is usually plus or minus 2 weeks, so it's not necessary for you to give birth on that exact date. However, your doctor is supposed to tell you if there are any negative signs.

Please do well to ask questions in your antenatal classes and when you meet with your doctor.

Stop over worrying and wait for the time; eat healthy, exercise and if possible meet with hubby and PRAY while you wait.

Congratulations in advance.

Simvan:
Please can anyone tell me how to get rid of after c-section scar. Had a stillbirth a month ago

Eeya. Sorry about that, ma' am. May God comfort you and bless you with kids that will stay with you till the end of time.

I'm sorry, I really don't have an answer for your question. Let's hear from other mamas

Missfree:
am scared of that tear sis. I ask my mum why they need blade at the hospital because it’s on my antenatal card (things to bring to the hospital) and my mum said it’s to cut my yansh if the baby it’s too big since then have been scared

They don't use razor blades (as far as I know), plus you're not supposed to feel the cuttings until after the analgesic wears away, which is supposed to be after the cuts have been sewn. And you'll have some pain relievers in your medications to reduce the pain.

I don't think it's something you should bother yourself with for now but for you to be delivered of a healthy baby.

alaricsaltzman:
After over 24 hours labour, our baby girl finally came out.

I couldn't control my tears when I saw her come out of her mother.

I cried uncontrollably because my wife was in so much pain.

It almost felt like torture.

But thank God for a safe delivery.

DOB was on Saturday night.

Now, sleepless nights starts.

Does it get any easier?

Congratulations to you and your wife. We thank God for a safe delivey.

Welcome to a stretch of vigils

alaricsaltzman:
Just found this thread recently and I must say I love the atmosphere here.

My wife is due in a few days...

EDD - February 1st.

So we are chilling for when LO (Team Pink) is ready to show up.

Kind of scared cos we don't know what to expect.

But we pray for a smooth delivery by God's grace.

Please pray for us.

I'd be sure to share our experience. ✌️

Welcome on board, sir.

You don't need to be scared o! Wait for the day with a high spirit . It's an amazing and an wholesome experience you'll always cherish. Expect your princess any time soon, not necessarily on the given EDD.

Congratulations in advance, sir.

Dinma27:
Thanks much.Baby landed today

Awwnnn...

A hearty congratulations to you ma'am.

All thanks to God for a safe delivery.

You just made my day.

Dinma27:
I just found this thread and I must say I'm happy I did.

I clocked 40weeks yesterday. Me I'm already getting tired, I thought baby would have arrived before now. According to my mum, all her children came two weeks before time. I was almost induced at the hospital yesterday- (my choice) but my mum asked me not to, that the baby will come at the right time. In. her words- God that put it there, will bring it out at the right time. The hospital said once it's 41weeks with no signs of labour, I will be admitted and induced. I have been online trying to read about induction . This is my first and I honestly wish the labour starts naturally ASAP.. Leave days already counting.

First scan EDD Dec 29th
Subsequent EDDs and according to last MP-Jan 11th

No two bodies are the same. If you compare yourself to others you might end up being disappointed or depressed.

You might end up falling into labour before 41 weeks, if not, please follow the doctors' advice. Be prayerful. No birthing method is easy, whether natural labour, induction or cs. It takes the grace of God and how much we follow the doctor's advice. The main thing is seeing and carrying our healthy beautiful little pumpkins.

P.s: Please, don't just sit at home. Do some less stressful chores, take some walks and eat healthy.

Congratulations in advance, ma'am.

Zino89:
Please mamas my baby is 5 weeks I gave birth through cs the incision site is okay I don't feel pain there anymore but my stomach muscle is still not strong enough getting out of bed is a bit difficult. Please how long does it take the stomach muscle to heal?

Sorry mama. It takes about six weeks or more depending on your body. Please avoid doing stressful things, rest well and take some walks around the house as the body permits.

FlowerGirl040:
I am a bit confused sis. Thought I saw your baby bump here..

Pls mamas my breast milk is adding to my pains, I mean thinking of my baby and crying. What should I do since there is no more baby to suck it

Sorry mama. Please try and express it for about 3 to 4 times daily and gradually reduce the frequency. You can take some pain relievers or apply something cold.

Please also seek a professional advice. You can ask a nurse or doctor in your area.

Please kindly engage in activities that will distract you from grieving too much so your body can get prepared for 'babies.'

I pray that you come here soon to give us the good news.

hapheey007:
Hi mamas,
My baby is 5months 2weeks but his BCG injection site has a collection of pus.
It was initially hard like boil. I was given an ointment at his 3months checkup, since then it has soften but has pus inside. I've been waiting for it to burst on its own since. What do you suggest I do?

It will burst on its own... Movements from the baby, carrying and while bathing. Or it might as well dry by itself.

Oh my God!

I'm so sorry for your loss. God. I don't even know what to type...

May God comfort you and your family.

May you be blessed with another baby that will be with you until the end of time.

Please take care of yourself. Let it hurt and let it go. If you need to break down and cry please do to relieve the burden.

My heartfelt prayers of comfort goes out to you.

Love hugs

FlowerGirl040:
My precious baby boy I gave birth to on the 19th November is late,we lost him on Friday afternoon 18th. So heartbreaking. But who am I to complain.

threegees:
BA
Baby girl came last night 19/10
via emergency CS
weighing 2.8kg

BS coming later

Congratulations ma'am. I rejoice with you and your family wholeheartedly.

All glory to God for a safe delivery.

P.s: our princess is my birthday mate. *Winks*

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Hello ma'am,
I've always checked in here looking for your BA and BS since you clocked 40 wks. I noticed your absence in-between and was glad thinking you already had your baby, which will happen by God's grace.

Kindly erase all your fears and go to the hospital tomorrow, tell the doctors you want your baby out, let them do their job. All births are a miracle, no birthing method is easy.

Please don't wait until next Tuesday, for the love of our precious little one.

We await your amazing BA. Kisses and love hugs.

threegees:
Yeah, sis. Thought of this and made up my mind to go for induction if nothing happens by Tuesday which is 42 weeks. Thought of using castor oil too

I saw your post on the previous thread. I hope we all learn from what happened. Thanks to you and others for always coming to our aid.

Hassan Omoyemi Sherif

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GT Bank

Your kindness will be highly appreciated

I'm enlightened, thanks OP.

But the 9/11 conspiracy is quite confusing, though.

Pascalville:
As an Actuary and Insurer.. i would say Nigeria Like over doing things... The recapitalisation in this corrupt country is bad for the Insurance company because government with siphon those funds.. but on the other hand it is very nice for the insured.. cos Insurance companies just wanna collect but lack the capability of given back.. So the Insured's are safely covered if this happens.. and Insurance can work in Nigeria if only you guys can have the mindset.. Insurance is what keeps an economy up and running... Insurance comes in various varieties.. the most important of all is Health Insurance.. It covers all your Health expenditure.. even surgery.. The most common is NHIS. Now the question is are you insured.. don't you think you need at least an health insurance.. it is not a must it must be on cars and houses..

You are quite right. However, your opinion above can only work in an economically stable country. You don't expect me to get an insurance cover when I fight tooth and nail to feed, clothe and get a roof over my head.
Getting insured gives peace of mind to a considerable extent. There's also need to create awareness. The industry is making money but quite unknown to a large number of the populace.

biggerboyc:
Hi guys, I'm here again. I don't want to say I'm sad. But today I really see a digital Air strike call of 36 minutes. I've Benn working on it since 9am. Around 12 I went out and come back after 6 to continue my work. Before 8pm I've finish and submit. Before 9 pm they return my work with another work I did earlier. I work on the 36 minute and discard the other one because its just 3.5 minutes. Now my redo is rated 3. Which means at least my labor is not in vain. But my concern now is that my Quality rating is 1.94. I've done over 17 calls all together. I was working with small calls before I just decided to go for this big one today. The call was really clear from beginning to the end, but I don't know what happen. Please guru in the house. What should I do. My starting phase really destroyed my account. My first 5 calls were rated 1. Should I wait till they pay on this account, close it and open another one or what should I do

I'd advise you work on shorter calls for now to improve your rating, that's what I always do when they hit me with poor ratings. If you can get at least a rating of 4 on maybe 5 or 6 shorter calls before cut off on Sunday, I believe you'd be fine.

CBS Reality and Supersport

If this is true, I'm so elated right now.

This is good news. Congrats Dbanj. God will protect this one for you. Amen