₦airaland Forum

aureen:
Stop hidding on a faceless forum, you are a fool conceived in hate if you don't go to Twitter and support verbal abuse of parent, So now go to Twitter

Your parent and loved ones must be ashamed of a top verbal abuser of parents in the world.

Idiots like you will expect there 8 year old son to start giving them money. That is the height of your delusion. Ode

UjuJoan2:
Actually I don't think he is. He is bitter and resentful because he doesn't feel like he has a mother. Just because someone gave birth to you doesn't mean she is a mother.


Why did she abandon her responsibilities towards her children all in the name of religion. If she didn't want to be a hair dresser, she should have made plans for a viable alternative, not completely abandon her duties. Now she expects these same children she selfishly refused to cater for, to cater for her. It's just not fair.

There should be a balance in life. We take care of our parents because they took care of us when we couldn't . . . What happened when they abandoned their own duties half-way, and you had to struggle extra hard to be where you are, while the person that brought you to this earth lazies about. Let's quit being sentimental and be practical for once.

I'm a woman, and I'll sell my blood for cater for my kids if I have to. There's just no escaping that!

you have a lot of class.

aureen:
You are an idiot/dickhead for supporting verbal abuse of parent, I expect nothing from a person like you who was conceived in hate.

That's exactly what we are talking about. A product of useless and irresponsible parents. You all deserve one another. Okpo

Oritzy:
Does anything the OP wrote about his mother a negative influence to him?? Let's focus n this topic bro. First it's Outrightly disrespectful to bring your mom to public. And I repeat again. even if she's a witch I will celebrate her.

Hmmm. My brother, you are suppose to provide for your child all his needs till he is an adult. Failing to do so, will have a very negative effect on his chances of survival.

Since when does seeking for a solution to an arbnomal behave become an insult? Are you suppose to retire from job at the age of 30, just for another person to assume your responsibility. My brother reason am well na.
The woman needs medical attention.

Royal155:
I swear, this is the best advice I have seen here. Not all these lazy girls here supporting the mother's action. Like the op said, you can NEVER know or understand what he is passing through until you find yourself in that situation at a tender age.

More matured men with reliable source of income are even finding it hard catering for the family, talk more of a 20 year old son.

God bless your soul. I feel for the young man but the woman definitely needs help.

odigbosky:
i feel it is schizophrenia. Similar thing happened to my mun and we failed to follow same path instead we followed the ojuju thing which they said once worked but that shit didn't work again. But the bottom line is when something bad happens to them and they don't share it....pple like them sink into depression which can be so hazardous. This thing has ruined my family completely

Really sorry about your family. She actually needs help.

Oritzy:
My brother if my mom was a witch I will still celebrate her, Mother's are the best beings on earth for your Info.
You dislike her because you don't know what it feels to be a parent most a especially a mother.
Mark my words when you start producing your own you would appreciate her everyday.
That woman you hates so much secretly prays for you everyday.
She secretly hopes she becomes the mother of a rich son
You owe her everything
Be nice to your mom man.
Love and respect her.
Go to church with her.
Pray with her

If you know the negative effect bad/irresponsible parents can have on the society, you won't be typing this. You don't bear children you have no plans for. All those boko haram, Fulani herdsmen, kidnappers, armed robbers are mostly as a result of bad parenting. Irresponsible parents should never be celebrated.

aureen:
Stop lying IDIOT conceived in hate, in an advance country the woman will send the man out of the house for marrying another wife and request for alimony

Swear to God that the holy spirit was the one who told you that it's a big lie and if you lie against the holy spirit the sin will not be forgiven

Haven't you seen grown ass men/women above 30/ 35 years in Nigeria who inherited their late brother's property or are depending on their rich brother/son? stop deceiving yourself or are you the type of person that believe in the culture of maltreating kids after the father's demise meanwhile some of them depended on the brother for everything even to get something doing with their lives, stop lying we know what is happening in Nigeria. Can you swear that this doesn't happen in Nigeria. Stop lying it's not good for your soul

We are talking about the fact that the woman failed to contribute anything for the children upkeep which is part of her responsibility and your here talking like an idiot you are. She can press charges against the husband and demand that they go there separate ways but that doesn't absolve her of her part of responsibility as a co parent. You don't have strength to work, but you have strength to have unprotected sex.
Now before you start writing nonsense like a dickhead you are. Read through op's post again and you will see were he stated that the father was doing it alone.

Ezkid:
Don't mind that yeye Victorian, she keep saying I hate my mom, im ungrateful this and that, ungrateful about what exactly? Its not my choice to be brought into the world its her choice, its also her choice to stopped working without considering the effect it would have on her children, when u don't come from a good background, when u don't have good parents who can take good care of you and invest in your education, then your chances of becoming successful is very slim. Bringing innocent children into this world isn't the height of parents responsibility. Taking good care of them is.

Don't mind the idiot. Na one of those feminist wana be. Read through her comments, she doesn't believe women should ever do anything.

Just take it easy with her. I understand how you feel. Forget the fact that she didn't take her responsibility. She actually needs your assistance now. Try and take her to a doctor.

aureen:
I know a man that started feeding himself from primary school and currently he gives his mom who has not been working for more than 30 years monthly upkeep , most of his siblings who are more than 30 years old cannot feed themselves without him.

Never forget that every child has a responsibility towards his/her parent.

So what do you have to say @op?

A big lie. Is actually the other way round. It is a very big sin for you to bear a child your not prepared to take care of, in the eyes of god and man.
In most western society, you are suppose to save some money when your younger. You don't hope on your children when you get old. Nevertheless, is good to love and assist your parents, if they did you well. In a sane society, the woman should be doing her time in the jail. At your 30s, you should be working your ass of.

victorian:
Not every woman can work till 80years or 100years old.

Every woman body mechanism is different. So let her be and appreciate her presence until God calls her.

Do u know there are some young wives who do not wish to work. Have seen young married women who prefer to stay at home, breed kids, cook and simply attend to home duties, than go out there and hustle. Women of 26, 30,35,40, etc. They are everywhere world wide.
They just want to be housewife and there is nothing there husband can do about it, than to manage the situation.

So it's good, u all have left her to do her own thing.

My landlady she's 50years old, her husband is late. She doesn't work. All she does is collect rents from houses the late husband has built down. Then her grown up children, who lives abroad and also in Lagos. Pays her ticket fee to go spend vacations with them in UK, for like 3months before coming back to Nigeria. She has maids, she has some shops her daughters are handling for her.

All she does, is keep tabs of her rents and small businesses by the side, then sometimes organize birthday parties for herself.

What will u say about this one? Is she not a woman? Is she old? Just 50years. She doesn't work but enjoys life. While their is a 65years old lady cleaning our surroundings three times a week with other compounds on the street. This woman will work her heart out, after cleaning I will see her carrying bottles on her head, she's heading to the market to sell palm oil.

U can see the difference. Every woman with her own kadara, as Yoruba will say it.

So just accept your mum like that.

My friend your talking rubbish. Someone stopped working in her early 30 and you think is cool. That's how you promote laziness among your kind. You should be at your peak and very productive at your early 30 whether your a man or woman.
Op my advise to you, is to try and take her to hospital. She is your mum and she needs your support now.

Wow am so impressed. Very motivating.

elgramz:
These clowns will just hand Cee-C the victory with their behavior. I see a lot of pity votes going her way. People like standing up for the underdog

Either miracle or cee c will win it

If what happened in 1998 repeats again. Guys go pop champagne.

OtemAtum:
Government have failed
Churches have failed.
The fsilure of one doesn't render the failure of the other insignificant. They are both bunch of failures.

Our Imams and mosques have also failed.

kareemkamil:
According to Pastor Adeboye bring ur tight & ofring then he we offer you Heaven. Such of criminal talk.

Adeboye na wayo man

CowHard:
Good observation.....


Afonjas are church thieves

when will you all get tired of this afonja and ipob nonsense. Please let's get together and save this country.

Please let's give sowore our support. We can't continue to recycle old wicked politicians. Let try something different. Otherwise, na buhari and atiku we go get

eateba:
True story but not all Churches.

your church is among.

He can implement his 1984 policy in daura. #BackToDaura

Mires:
When will Nigerian youths ask for common sense to fall on them? All the cry for Prof Osibanjo not to be replaced as a running mate by another person from South East, of what advantage is Osibanjo in that office to South Western youths besides his family members? In the same vein, of what benefit is Bubu presidency to Northern youths? What will be the significance of Igbo presidency in 2023 ( that's if at all it is feasible) to Ndi Igbo?

Youths are wasting their data discussing of ethnicity when the politicians in their closets remain ever formidable and united despite their tribes and ethnic group. Until Nigerians begin to crave for good governance irrespective of where the person comes from, it will continue to be the same dividend. If I may further ask, is it Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani men that has been governing Abia State for the past 19 years? Nigerian youths, please pray for common sense to fall on you and not only banana.

Intelligent man.

Na today. Adeboye be senior crook, just like our useless dwarf vp

Let him preside over the affairs of your home. Idiat

Terrible country.

goodnews777:
What do you expect when everyone in military leadership is from daura or 50 miles radius. Buhari is cursed. His tribal and religiously biased security arrangement was to ensure boko haram and Fulani murderers which he sponsors goes on undeterred.History will not forgive him. Every church in Nigeria not speaking against evil buhari is a fake church.

Example Rccg where our dwarf VP came from.

CeeKay17:
They've reached 2 finals in 3 years recently. I don't think anybody cares that they lost in the group stages this year.

It's actually one final. The point is, they are nothing special this season. Chelsea and roma got the better of them. Arsenal can do the same

CeeKay17:
Obviously I'm talking about Arsenal who didn't even make it to the group stage in the first place

They could have saved themselves the embarrassment by not participating.

Treasuredlove:
Let us start by cutting his sugar intake

Don't listen when people say you must buy all those juice boxes, chocolate, biscuit for your kids and if you don't you are suffering them. Just don't listen to them. Natural fruits will do

I used to have this neighbor, her voice is on a constant high...her boys are extremely hyper...imagine actually tying them to a chair to keep them seated for homework....just saying, I don't think you have anything to worry about

Just practise a menacing look that you know will work
Or my all time solution was getting a needle-less syringe plastic and putting toothpick where the needle is supposed to be....oh my...once they start I just ask calmly who feels like having an injection and start acting like a serious nurse...they sit sharp sharp

Lol nurse eliza

Most Nigerians are dishonest.

DTeekay:
Nigerians don't want to be patient when investing, true investment takes time to grow, I work as a financial advisor and some of the feedback I get when I introduce a profitable but slow growing investment to people is appalling, little wonder why they fall victim to fraudsters. My dear if you want to invest your money safely and profitably walk into either ARM office, Stanbic IBTC, Mansard or Ensure Nigeria PLC.

Your average Nigerian is dump and very selfish.

Pavore9:
Nigerians will never learn.

They are looking for the easy way out. The only way out is to wage serious war against government at all levels. Revolution is the answer.

CeeKay17:
How about a team that couldn't qualify FOR the groupstage

No, when you say couldn't qualify for group stage, your trying to say they couldn't make it to group stage of champions league. But when you say, couldn't qualify from there group, it means they couldn't make it to the next stage, which is exactly what am trying to say. They were eliminated at the group stage of champions league, hence why they are competing at Europa.