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No one should blame the lady, we all did stupid things for love at one point or the other. Unmet expectations cause serious pains, that's why she is cursing. There are many men who have had their own share of this situation, in fact more men get jilted this way than women. So her case is just one of such. She could be paying her own dues for something she has done in time past... Karma never forgets. This wicked cycle will continue unless she decides to forgive herself first, forgive the guy and move on with her life.

beautiful232:
tell him to go rest
and resume back to work leta

Beautiful

When you're dating a lady that's not enlightened. Common sense should have told her to simply reciprocate in order to keep the fire burning but no, she just sits there passive, sucking up everything, relishing it all and giving very unintelligent responses.

There are numerous articles on the Internet about this topic. And to the one I read on this thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/3359837/why-girls-love-dating-bad#49518143

this morning, this is what I think.

This exposes a fundamental flaw in the female folk. Terrible experiences of physical and emotional abuse, serial exploitations and raging emotions has left these ladies with chronic cases of low self-esteem.
Unable to accurately identify and differentiate between genuine kindness and it's opposite, they opt for the cowardly option of praying for a 'nice guy' but expecting a bad guy (they dream about transforming a bad guy to a good guy... Sic) . I guess it's easier to bear being treated with disdain than being treated with respect.
If you worry about a 'nice guy' kindness, time will tell about its genuineness. It's sad that girls would rather have a guy abuse them than treat them well.
So guys, if you're a 'nice guy' and you meet any girl that cringes at your niceness, please run in the opposite direction. She's got a lot of baggage she's carrying, unresolved emotional issues, low self esteem, trust issues, daddy issues... She'll drag you down to her level and pull you in the mud. It's not your duty to save or enlighten her.
I have dated girls who responded well to my, permit me to use this phrase; show of niceness. So the good news is that not all girls are walking wrecks.

I honestly didn't want to mention you, Lalasticlala, but then, you know the drill.

This exposes a fundamental flaw in the female folk. Terrible experiences of physical and emotional abuse, serial exploitations and raging emotions has left these ladies with chronic cases of low self-esteem.
Unable to accurately identify and differentiate between genuine kindness and it's opposite, they opt for the cowardly option of praying for a 'nice guy' but expecting a bad guy (they dream about transforming a bad guy to a good guy... Sic) . I guess it's easier to bear being treated with disdain than being treated with respect.
If you worry about a 'nice guy' kindness, time will tell about its genuineness. It's sad that girls would rather have a guy abuse them than treat them well.
So guys, if you're a 'nice guy' and you meet any girl that cringes at your niceness, please run in the opposite direction. She's got a lot of baggage she's carrying, unresolved emotional issues, low self esteem, trust issues, daddy issues... She'll drag you down to her level and pull you in the mud. It's not your duty to save or enlighten her.
I have dated girls who responded well to my, permit me to use this phrase; show of niceness. So the good news is that not all girls are walking wrecks.

Man...

kenonze:
This is what we are aware she does,

Only she and her God knows other stuffs she did

Get sense na...

golor:
Bros I can refer two for you, d two re extremely wife material one a fresh graduate of English department, good cook she's, intelligent she's to make matter worst, you can travel for years and still come back to meet her d way you leave her, she's from akwa ibom state.......the babe I swear is a wife material. The second is just graduated from sociology, from cross river, extremely good cook your friends and family must love her, she's a treasure, she doesn't keep enemy, even if you like offend her, she will still be the one to reconcile with you, you can keep her and travel as well, she's a die hard hustler. They re both my neighbour here in school uniuyo. Both are extremely godly. You won't regret any if you choose any.

LOL... Bado

sinaj:
As big as she is, she doesn't knw her mom's no by heart



I hope someone that knows her see this thread tho
For d dumb ones quoting me, ensure ur children know ur phone number by heart, it's one of the basic things they ought to knw.

Evn if it will require u writing it on their school bag.
Or composing it as a poem for them.
If their school fail to teach them that, ensure u teach them.
It's ur responsibility

I have a 3yr old that knows his dad's number by heart so don't misquote me

I doubt if u will ever know the importance till something like this happen to u.

Why are you so angry...?

Madam, he didn't leave you because of the allegations of infidelity, read in between the lines: he left you because you have too much drama. You are temperamental, you too dey give am wahala. A man naturally runs away from a woman who wouldn't give him peace of mind. Sorry.
And to all the ladies, you should first be God fearing and then God will send a God fearing man to you, He will not send a good man to you to finish off with your excesses. Daz all.

Ludwig Boltzman who created the Boltzman constant.
The value of Boltzmann's constant is approximately 1.3807 x 10 -23 joule s per kelvin (J. · K -1 ). In general, the energy in a gas molecule is directly proportional to the absolute temperature. As the temperature increases, the kinetic energy per molecule increases.
Dude committed suicide after his work was rejected by other scientists. Years later it was found to be accurate. Phew... This life.

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Every great man gets to the edge of darkness, that point where you say shit, I'm done, it's over, can't push no more, can't carry on anymore. Like the guy above says, it shows that you are destined for something great. Don't chicken out now, you'll lose it both ways if you do.

And all the seats in shilo are full, no space. Lol

Hahahahaha... I understand your fears perfectly. I chickened out on a rich girl once, she hasn't forgiven me since then. But she wouldn't understand, back then I wasn't sure at all if the risk was worth taking. Years later I ask myself; what's the worst that could've happened?

These are the guys who make life difficult for other guys. Five the girl 1week, if she is still forming, move the hell on. Just like fishes in the ocean, there'll always be someone new. Damn. The girl is even advertising herself indicative of someone with low self esteem.

asuo27:
They actually like the stubborn types, but in a responsible manner thou!.

Let me burst your bubble; no man likes a stubborn woman, you only become a challenge to him, a trophy to win and hang in his trophy room. He'll never take you seriously. His only satisfaction will come from breaking you. Sorry

No they don't respect them, they just fear them, because they can grossly disrespect you. I have avoided ladies like that all my life, it simply shows that they have got unresolved issues to deal with themselves.
So I hear that ladies always like 'bad guys' who treat them like shit and then they end up saying all guys are the same while ignoring 'nice guys' aka boring guys. This could be your case. Deal with it.

Grace,

henriettanenye:
chaai chaai chaai,am having a good Saturday ooo,EFCC dey do guy for me,one thing is that am the type that doesn't poke nose,but when my hubby thinks he is smart,I always outsmart him,if I want to know whom my hubby has being poke nosing on in Facebook, I will simply enter his Facebook through Facebook mobile app,go to search and all the recent people he has been searching for and viewing in facebook will just display themselves...


Am not a bad girl my people

No you're not a bad girl, you're just insecure.

Song is in Hausa Language.
Yayi oh, Yayi Yayi Yesu Yayi. Yayi oh, Abin da mutum bai yi ba, Yesu Yayi.
Translation
He's done it oh, He's done it, He's done it, Jesus has done it. He's done it oh, What a man cannot do, Jesus has done it.

Typical Narcissistic post. Careful guys, it's a trap.

AZOGtheDEFILER:
Recently, Twaci called me dear and sent me a lovely smiley. Is she liking me now?
Cc lalasticlala
Cc mynd44 fynestboi
Cc dygeasy

Nope

dmgr:
tellin her am nt into her is ma prblm nw

Oga Just tell her that you get what she means but that you can't reciprocate the kind of likeness she has for you. but think about it deeply. Make sure you are sure that you'll never go back to tell her otherwise. Because from Experience, you may feel the need to eat back your words later. The female is very patient and hopeful in matters like this, she won't let up easily. A male may move on easily to another person but not the female. Good luck

Op, if you like her, no problem just go ahead and reciprocate. If you don't like her that way, politely tell her that you are not just into her like that. It took her a lot of courage to step up to u. You may lose a lover but keep a friend.

Real strength is the ability to keep your aggression under control. Unfortunately, a lot of ladies only realize this when they are old. As they hit their late 30s, they start craving a soft partner to treat them nice, after wasting the youthful part of their lives with men who treat them like shit. It's a test to know who I can roll with, if it gets into your head that I treat you with value and you behave aloof and disinterested, one day you'll wake up and discover that I've disappeared. Now I have most of my exs wanting to come back, they crave the love and care and want to reciprocate it now. Sorry

Damage control. This Dalungie is still a punk. He is incompetent and needs to be sacked.

When you love without expecting, then walking away from it when its not worth it is very very easy.

There is no hard or fast rule to get a woman to like you. Just be real and confident, grow some balls. Don't be afraid of letting her know you like her, then let it be her decision to reciprocate the likeness. If she doesn't like you back, move the hell on with your life to a prettier woman. Read her body language and move in for the kill. Nice guys don't finish last.

Flexherbal:
Is that a crocodile?

No its a small pin Nokia charger

beautiful232:
funny pic
So true

You're biuriful it's true.

ireneony:
May God bless me with this kind of man

God prolly blessed you already, but because the man didn't look like 'it', you bounced him. But if He hasn't, here is an amen to your prayer.