Emmanuelcann:
You're right. There's no guarantee that she'll change even after marriage. What about her positive attributes, can you overlook her flaws? Because you also have your own flaws too.

Everyone has flaws my namesake, she has hers flaws but I can handle the rest they hardly even exist to me on a day to day basis, but this is just the one i can't take, I believe that there's no place for pride in a relationship.
How can you be proud for someone that knows your secrets, your past, your dreams, they know where you come from and where you want to go, they know the flaws you hide from the world, how can you be proud to someone that has seen you naked and has seen your O face?

The answer is simple, they don't think much of you.

Thislady:
So it might just be that she's BROKEN, she doesn't want to let you know and she feels an apology would make her feel weak..
Yes she might be proud
Yes she might be Broken(due to past relationships) and her philosophy is if he truly loves me he'd come back, what's mine is mine. MAYBE

I have actually mentioned something like this to her not verbatim but it was along the lines of "I feel like I'm getting punished for the crimes of your ex" the guy cheated on her, I don't know if that's the reason she's this way but i know i can't bear it.

She's a great person and there's no one without flaws but is a deal breaker for me, how do I stick with someone that i feel doesn't love me back and is with me out of convenience?

I think it would be better if she found someone she can respect enough to apologize to, I wanted to be person but it's clear that I'm not.

Funkeshuga:
Reading your post I deduce that you are never in a relationship. You need to understand the meaning of relationship. there's nothing relationship about that weird engagement


Don't quit the relationship now but get a serious, loving and humble lady who has control over social life to date. After dating her for some months then compare, if this one is ok then you can stick with her because everyone has their own flaw but that your current girlfriend flaw is something you can't take away from her it might be from her background don't engage yourself in what you can't erase

Thanks for your advice, but I have never cheated in a relationship, I would rather end this relationship than do that.

Juliearth:




Usually I am a staunch optimist when it comes to faulty relationships,but this is definitely an exception. Sorry to say this, but your woman is egoistic. The only requirement for a broken relationship is "Ego" so be a bigger person,skip the "e" and let it "go" you have tried your best,op. If she can't be submissive whilst she is just a girlfriend,belief you me, she will never change in marriage. Even the Bible admonishes us to submit to our husbands/fiance.
Marrying her would be your undoing. Please let her go! I am sure your better half is closer than you think.

Thanks a lot.

toksbisola:
@Op; to love some one is a beautiful thing. When one is in a relationship that they think would lead to marriage, there are certain factors you need to consider before taking the “I DO” step. The factors are; Love, Compatibility, Respect and Friendship.

During courtship is a time to decide whether you can tolerate your partners' attitude or not. If you know that you can’t endure a particular attitude during courtship, then address it there and then as it has a tendency to probably get worse when you marry.

Now let me give you some quotes below to ponder over; here we go;

When a relationship becomes one you are enduring; it’s time to walk away

When a relationship becomes a violet one; it’s time to walk away

When a relationship becomes a selfish one;it’s time to walk away

When a relationship makes you unhappy; it’s time to walk away

When you become afraid of your partner in a relationship; it’s time to walk away

When in a relationship and the apologies comes from only one side; it’s time to walk away

When you walk on egg-shells in a relationship; it’s time to walk away

Note my words above and be sure to be married to someone who you see as one you can spend the rest of your life with in happiness, love and unity. We are not perfect but we can still make adjustments in our attitude towards our fellow human.

It would be in your best interest to TO AVOID PROLONGING THIS MATTER ANY LONGER as she's a woman whose biological clock is ticking and if you honestly would not be able to look beyond the “PROBLEM AREA” you mentioned above; PLEASE FREE HER AND FREE YOURSELF. Don’t have a selfish attitude (No offence hope none taken) where you want to have your cake and eat it by keeping her and STILL HAVING THESE NAGGING DOUBT/ISSUE THAT YOU CAN’T OVERLOOK.

Take note,

1) Never marry anyone out of pity simply because you have been with them for a long time and you don’t want them or you to lose out.

2) Marry for true love so that when the challenges start occurring in the marital bond (and best believe challenges would arise) the love both of you have built up would be able to withstand the ups and downs that would occur; take note that MARRIAGE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES.

On a final note, the decision is yours entirely whether to carry on with her or let her be as only you wear the shoes and only you know where it pinches; hence, no one else can decide for you whether you’ll carry on with the courtship or call it quits. It'll be totally out of a selfish interest to allow her to chase other men away (one man’s meat is another man’s poison) with her knowledge that she has met her husband; meanwhile her man is in doubt if he has met his wife; as that’s the way it looks at the moment from your write-up. Owing to the fact that you are not happy with this particular flaw of her not apologizing when she's in the wrong; (anyone who can't apologies when they are in the wrong has an inflated ego of themselves which portrays them as selfish) you're better off taking your time to find the right woman at the initial stage to avoid stories that touch and you crying over spilled milk when it all goes down south. All the best.

I rest my case

Thanks a lot.

fascowilly:

Honestly you right, that's marriage formula

I'm not looking for someone that will obey my every command, someone that shows me the same level of respect and regard i accord them is enough for me.

Lovemeforme:
cute you

Thanks

AGideon:
Well.... there's an Igbo adage that says: the hen that claims to be mad, is because she has not seen a drunken fox.

I believe there are subtle tricks you can use to get her understand she's wrong and have her apologize whenever she is wrong.

I don't want to have to coerce her to apologize every time she's supposed to, she's a grown woman not a child, if i make her apologize then that apology is meaningless.

Kooldon:
Which One Is After Marriage?
Wedding is a one day event while Marriage is an everlasting thing.
Slap me hard to reset to my default mood, if I'm nt thinking well

I've corrected it, now do you have any advice or opinion to share that isn't correcting grammatical blunders.

We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.

She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.

It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.

What do you think?

Sounds like a thermal shutdown, something is probably overheating.

Just take it to a repairer and don't listen to the shamers that have never given you one Kobo, some of them can't even afford to buy a Sega Genesis.

franchasng:
Black is beautiful

If not for modern laws and Christianity, 99.9% of men would want to have this number of wives and concubines to be truly happy

No law is stopping you from having as many wives as you want.

ADM
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.dv.adm

This is great, it'll ensure faster delivery.

Jiang:
No point, I already know what's gonna happen in the movie from beginning to end

It's for the younger generation that didn't grow up with the 1st one and for people that want to experience the story in a new medium.

I took this when I went to Ihiala.

Gionee M5 Mini
Edited with Snapseed.

Mrblaster:
You better order from jumia jeje

Smh, what is so hard in answering my question?
Jumia doesn't stock every phone brand in the world.

Mrblaster:
You better order from jumia jeje

Smh, what is so hard in answering my question?
Jumia doesn't stock every phone brand in the world.

Mrblaster:
You better order from jumia jeje

Smh, what is so hard in answering my question?
Jumia doesn't stock every phone brand in the world.

Why censor the face of a rapist?

When the word "rapist" should be branded on the forehead of every rapist so that everyone they meet would know they are in the presence of filth and treat them accordingly.

Google1111:
The screen is worst and too flexible
just two day old phone that slightly fell on ground, nothing be like iphone.

iPhone screen no dey break abi?

What was the price of the phone and how much was the customs charge?
I'm thinking of importing a phone.

The name of this font is Peace.

RajPeters:
my Gionne M5 doesn't have Google play installed and does not accept google play if sent from a Friend's phone. Does anyone have similar issue?

You bought a version meant for use in China alone, I bet you can't use 3G network too.

There's a way to install Google Play services on these types of phones, research 'GMS installer'

uwembass:





Please what's the name of the font you're using...
Is your device rooted?
What app did you use to change the font?

Yes the phone is rooted, I'm using Hifont app, and the name of the font is 'Peace'

Fiaburnthem:
am new on Android bro... What's the name of this app, you use for arrow directions for download pls.

It came with the phone.

Compliant:
But second slide is still showing this
What is the solution

You can only change one.

To use only your own picture, turn off all the subscriptions and click lock like in the screenshot below.

I use a M5 MINI, so it may be similar, just follow the pictures I'll post.

Wizdeen:
windows for perfomance ke?if you are using linux or macos,you will know that windows is thrash when it comes to perfomance,which is why most infrastructural systems e.g servers and routers are moving away from using windows bro.most developer run away from windows for the same reason.we either use linux or mac if we can afford it.but what do i know sef.am just an ordinary graduate of computer science who studied operating systems as a course.

Oga you're either biased or ill informed, I also studied computer science, it's a joke to say that developers favor Mac over windows for programming, seriously?!
servers and routers use Linux because it's more secure, versatile and lighter than windows, hackers favour it for the same reason.

Wizdeen:

Educate me please, i do really like to know what operating systems are amigo

You actually don't know what you're talking about.

Simply put MacOS for media work, Windows and Linux for proper and general productivity and performance.

OP, there's a reason MAC users also find roundabout ways to install Windows on their PCs.

Don't let marketing hype mislead you.