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Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 4:09am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Bola146: Continue.. It's not the man's happiness to be jobless!!!! No it isn't the man fault he is jobless, well at least I hope it isn't, but my point is he is unemployed right now so he can help pick up the slack by doing some household chores to make it less stressful on the wife and don't say it wasn't stressful before because it was. Helping his wife would ease her stress and even give her the desire to put it on him in the bedroom. No woman has the energy for that if she's being worked like a slave. At least he should prepare dinner, damn it.  |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 8:57pm On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 9:47pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Le124: What stress are you even talking about here, she goes to her place of work that she has been going long before they got married. And she still do her house work has a single lady ,so why can't she take some responsibility as a woman should. Is that too much to ask I'm going to break this down so all of you selfish, spoiled, entitled babies can understand. 1. It's exhausting and stressful to work outside of the home and then come back home to chores, cooking, and minding the kids, be it the woman or the man. 2. If both partners are going to work outside of the home it is only fair for them to share household chores, and yes that means taking care of THEIR 4 month old child, if there is a problem with that, logic suggest that they go to the traditional way of marriage, the husband takes care of the outside and the wife takes care of the inside. 3. Sure, I understand that you men believe you bought and paid for a commodity to do whatever you say, but remember you chose these women to be your life long companions. They deserve to be cared for and loved. You can't claim to love someone yet treat them as your slave. A loving husband would show compassion. 4. To the wives, STOP being doormats and STOP raising your son's like this, teach them to be self sufficient so they won't have to depend on anyone, teach your daughters as well. |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 8:56pm On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 9:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Le124: What stress are you even talking about here, she goes to her place of work that she has been going long before they got married. And she still do her house work has a single lady ,so why can't she take some responsibility as a woman should. Is that too much to ask |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 5:11pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Ariza: They switched roles.... Lol.
But the wife shouldn't push it all on the man nah.  So the man should push it all on the woman, you aren't making any sense? It's a partnership that should be shared. |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 4:40pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Bola146:
Since the man did well when he had, why is the wife doing nonsense It's not an excuse for her not to take good care or do the house works. The man might understand or endure but she is just going too far! What if he gets another better job tommorow? When the husband worked outside of the home the wife took care of the home, now the wife has to do his job and provide for the family, he should contribute to the house keep. Marriage is.a partnership, not a slave and master relationship. The wife is.human, she gets tired. Why do the women raise such spoiled, lazy, entitled men? It starts with mothers, raise better men. |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 4:39pm On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 5:09pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Bola146:
Since the man did well when he had, why is the wife doing nonsense It's not an excuse for her not to take good care or do the house works. The man might understand or endure but she is just going too far! What if he gets another better job tommorow? When the husband worked outside of the home the wife took care of the home, now the wife has to do his job snd provide for the family, he should contribute to the house keep. Marriage is.a partnership, not a slave and master relationship. The wife is.human,.she.gets tired. Why do your women raise such spoiled, lazy, entitled men? It starts with mothers, raise better men. I bet they expect her to give him her paycheck as well.  |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 4:26pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Le124: Should a woman abandon her primary duty just because she is the one bringing the money Should the man sit on his lazy ass and not contribute anything to the marriage because he lost his job? The wife is now busting her ass outside of the home to hold things together until the husband can get back on his feet. He should be making sure the home is in order while he is there. Do something to contribute and show appreciation damn it. |
Romance › Re: The Wife Provides For The House And The Man Does The House Work. Is It Good? by khia: 4:08pm On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 4:49pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Bola146:
Since the man did well when he had, why is the wife doing nonsense It's not an excuse for her not to take good care or do the house works. The man might understand or endure but she is just going too far! What if he gets another better job tommorow? You people get on my last nerve, so the husband is supposed to sit on his lazy ass all day and contribute nothing while the wife goes to work, come home and do all the house chores, cook, and take care of the child? You guys need better home training, you are too damn spoiled. You don't even care if your wife is exhausted. Pathetic. Wait, do you guys feel this way because the wife is bought and paid for like a slave?  |
Romance › Re: My Wife's Friend Tried To Seduce Me But The Whole Thing Is Ruining My Marriage. by khia: 2:00am On Jul 15, 2020 |
Op, you better check the.paternity of those kids. |
Romance › Re: Is Will Smith The Greatest Simp Of All Time (photos) by khia: 9:33pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
kingreign: Aproko alaroro orofofo telephone wire. Were you there when she was doing all these or did you stalk them to know all these?
Better face your front and leave those folks. Yes, it was televised. John said he didn't want to get married but felt forced, for whatever reason he didn't expound. |
Romance › Re: Is Will Smith The Greatest Simp Of All Time (photos) by khia: 6:55pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Millennialaku: pls can you explain why john legend is on this list  John's wife controls him even calls him a bitch, she is nasty to everyone and she is very ugly on the outside as well as the inside. |
Romance › Re: Why Do White Women Age Faster Than Black Women by khia: 8:12am On Jul 10, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do White Women Age Faster Than Black Women by khia: 12:51am On Jul 10, 2020*. Modified: 1:09am On Jul 10, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Marriage Is Women’s Big Retirement Plan After They’re Done Sleeping Around (pix) by khia: 12:55pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
Adaibeku: Tank ur stars n ur godless self I don't swing with pigs LMAO  Just like I thought, childish and weak. |
Romance › Re: Marriage Is Women’s Big Retirement Plan After They’re Done Sleeping Around (pix) by khia: 3:22am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Adaibeku: Am so ready 4 u right now am lying on my bed bi.tch! Yes Bring it on SKANK, let's see if you have learn to be creative or are your lies still boring and consistent. |
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Romance › Re: Brown Or Light Skin?? How Do You Like Your Partners by khia: 8:57pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Brown or chocolate. |
Romance › Re: Marriage Is Women’s Big Retirement Plan After They’re Done Sleeping Around (pix) by khia: 8:36pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Adaibeku: Listen dey are good n bad females, in women 's world a lot happens , good ones attack the bad ones ,like d well brought up ladies hate seeing seasoned prostitutes marry, me it burns my heart, so d attack is initiated by good ones so that innocent girls will see d advantages of been good,
And wat pains d good ones is dat d bad ones will boast of been bad angels with money,power n husband, check it now That's y I fight khia ,she did terrible things in life You want to start your lying game again? |
Romance › Re: Social Joint For Nigerians And Nigerian-americans In The USA by khia: 8:50am On Jun 29, 2020 |
JustYu: Hi all,
As evident in the title, this thread is created to serve as a social joint where Nigerian youths residing in the US or Americans of Nigerian descent can meet to interact, socialize and possibly find potential lovers. Of course, this thread is also open to persons that do not identify with any of the above listed categories.
Motivation for creating this thread:
Obviously, real recognizes and likes real. Of course, we are still the most successful ethnic group in the US! From my two years here in the US, I noticed from my interactions with Nigerian-Americans and fellow Nigerians ( both male and female ) that when it comes to going on a date or being in a relationships, most of us prefer to have Naija/Nigerian-American partner. Thus, this thread could help us broaden our horizon towards finding potential lover. More so, on a lighter note, this thread could also serve to help us get connected to a fun buddy when one travels outside their state. Equally important, is that we can use this thread just to unwind and derive positive energy from one another.
NOTE: exchange of political, tribal or racial tantrums is not allowed in this thread.
Way to go:
If you feel we should promote the goal of this thread (as explained above) please drop few details about you so others can be encouraged. At the least, gender and location (state) will suffice. Feel free to dm anyone you think you wanna know more.
PS: I created new account for this thread to eliminate potential bias towards/against me Yes some Nigerians are doing well in the US but as of 2019-2020 Indians are the most successful and highest paid ethnic group in the US, and that's a fact. . |
Romance › Re: Social Joint For Nigerians And Nigerian-americans In The USA by khia: 8:30am On Jun 29, 2020 |
JustYu: Mine: Male Michigan 2nd Year Ph.D student |
Romance › Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by khia: 9:03am On Jun 28, 2020*. Modified: 10:32pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:44am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: They aren't doing the right thing Then you do the right thing, fight for injustice in your country, don't be lazy waiting for others to do it for you. I'm out. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:28am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: I'm not a protester Then keep your silence and let the ones protesting for injustice do their thing. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:14am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: I dont hear no one shouting David Dorn's name LOL.
Do you even know who he is ?
I don't blame you, it doesn't fit the narrative. Why aren't you out there shouting his name? |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:12am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: Nope. It’s the worst book ever written. That's because you have to read it with a clear mind and understanding which you have none. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:10am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: How does the woman he robbed feel about him till this day? Where are the protests for David Dorn? A true upstanding black man. The protest is for all injustices. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 3:08am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: Non religious while quoting the bible, tell me more I'm going to type this slowly so you can understand it. Juuuuust likeeee youuu cánnn.readdd frommm anyy boook anddd learnnn fromm ittt, youuu cánnn alsoooo learnnn fromm thhe bibleee. I hope that helped. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 2:50am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: LOL you think I share your religious delusion?
Please hurry up and go and get raptured so we rationals can have our planet back. Christard. That scripture had nothing to do with religion but wisdom which you clearly do not have. FYI I am not religious but unlike you I acknowledge wisdom. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 2:47am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: Oh, you're saying he didn't serve 5 years? Was he innocent ? Omg!!!  What the heck is wrong with you? If he did 5 years and it was justified then he paid the price. That was his past which had nothing to do with the actions of those thug cops. Let's just hope they do their time as well. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 2:35am On Jun 26, 2020*. Modified: 3:21am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Onebyonedead: Really pathetic she sounds like a broken record with the all lives Matter I even tried to explain to her that the movement is not saying all lives don't matter Even used breast cancer awareness ....like saying all cancer matters why have breast cancer awareness .. But people like her lack the intellect to understand Because they never think...
My conclusion is ....
That is one sad girl who is ashamed of her race She is one of those people who will be left behind because of her lack of comprehension. There is a parable in the Bible in Mathew 18: 10-14 where Yahushua taught his disciples spiritual truth. He taught about a shepherd who had 100 sheep and one of the sheep was lost. The shepherd left his 99 sheep alone to search for the lost one. Did that mean the shepherd didn't care about the other 99 sheep? No it did not. The moral of the story is All THE SHEEP LIVES MATTERED but at that moment in time THE ONE LOST SHEEP LIFE WAS IN DANGER. That is what these oversensitive, terrified of not being inclusive souls like Sharon can't understand. It's not that All lives don't màtter but #Black lives matter TOO. |
Travel › Re: Airport Suspends Banner Flights After "White Lives Matter" Incident At Man City by khia: 2:09am On Jun 26, 2020 |
1Sharon: Oh it's a lie? LOL..public arrest records are lies I said, did he serve time for it? Did you check the public records or are you going by what others say? You would be the first to say those cops don't deserve to be charged, but you know what Sharon, those cops were arrested, charged, booked and processed. Do you see how the system worked for them, well it should have worked the same way for George, Brionna, Castillo, Eric, Tameir, Trayvon, Sandra, and many others. |