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wickyyolo:
From your reply, I can see you're a very bitter woman

If you are going to accuse me of being bitter for having an opinion at least tell me what I'm bitter about and why.

Booboo7:
Lol...easy you guys! Ok back to your question Mr. Hondata, we don't do racial discrimination in Nigeria! We ladies want to be loved and pampered as much as the white women do...so if you find a black woman, please treat her right! Color, race or cultural variations doesn't matter...feelings does! Good luck!

Culture doesn't matter when you think the person is white but amongst yourselves you are very tribal . The HYPOCRISY is alive and kicking. By the way, he isn't white/American.

Martin0:
see sorry to ask! have you dated before?

Yes, I have dated, why?

MufasaRebirth:
You are smart !!

Well, I'm American so I know he's a fake.

Martin0:
I don't have any plans /plan! I'm just going to tell whoever it is from any part of the world, "I don't believe in any law or traditions "that signifies payment of bride's price.

Well, be prepared to give up other traditions like the house belonging to the husband only.

Martin0:
don't worry about that! it up to me

I'm not worried I'm just wondering if you have a plan in action.

Martin0:
exactly, I'm not paying anything for whoever I choose to marry!

How will you accomplish that unless you plan to marry someone out of Africa?

This is disgusting, how is he allowed to be on the force? He can't chase a suspect down on foot, he's in no shape to protect himself or any innocent civilian. Nigeria SMH!!

Igbokiller:
just answered u.when African saw how other people practis bride price .they cared less

Why must there be a bride price anyway, it looks as though the woman is being purchased like a slave/property?

Igbokiller:
since the fact emerged that bride price is cross continent practice not just African

I didn't ask about the other continents I asked about Africans.

Igbokiller:
sorry.I don't believe in bride price

Since when don't Africans believe in bride price?

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money either can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. hehehe she and my daughter, [b]hopefully, it will be a daughter, [/b]can run me down financially. I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Is it because of the bride price you will receive?

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money neither can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. . hehehe she and my daughter, [b]hopefully, it will be a daughter, [/b]can run me down financially .I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Is it because of the bride price?

Alezy:
wow

It's true, don't get me wrong, other minorities, Hispanics, Asians, Natives, Muslims get it too but the color of black skin triggers something in

their DNA that makes them behave like rabid dogs. They are angry because blacks are no longer their slaves. That's what Trump meant about

"Make America Great Again" America was never great for minorities, Trump wants to go back to a time when it was legal to discriminate against

minorities and he wants to make America as white as possible that's why he is sending minority immigrants back to their homeland. He told the

Liberians they have until 2019 to get out of the country. He'll be coming after Nigerians as well. Let me explain something to you that is so sad.

Trump is targeting Africans and Black Americans aren't supporting Africans because of their loyalty to whites that they have shown since

they came into this country while spitting on black Americans, some of them are prejudice against us simply because the whites (who they

worship) are. That is why some black Americans don't like Africans because they feel betrayed, again. Believe me, if they would have shown an

alliance with us, we would protest to no end. Now they want our help but most are turning a blind eye. The only advice I can give to them is

to get to California because California is a sanctuary state. They will be protected here. Oh!!! Let me add. THEY MIGHT HAVE THE POLICE CALLED ON THEM FOR BREATHING WHILE BLACK!!!! BUT CALIFORNIA IS A IMMIGRANT FRIENDLY STATE, JUST ASK ALL OF THE MEXICANS.

Alezy:
special someone?

What's she talking about

You have a beautiful spirit and I pray for your happiness and well being.

amaniro:
You can't just take judgement to your hands because of some little sentiments, am sorry maybe I don't know because[b] I have not seen or experienced it. And the last time I checked you were not black. How come you turned blacks advocate

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LITTLE SENTIMENTS, nigga, please!!! You sound just like them. That's the thing, you have not experienced the racial hatred/abuse so who are you to judge me or any minority in the U.S. What do you mean by I'M NOT BLACK? I told you that I was part NATIVE but the rest is ALL black. I'm done with you.

Alezy:
is it possible to keep a spouse that is not money driven with same money?

It is only money driven ladies that get kept with money. How do u even keep someone with money? What he said up there is total trash

Ok, have you been blessed with that special one?

amaniro:
All those outrageous examples are they still happening like presently? if not then you still have to forgive them.

Didn't I say they are doing these things today. You can't forgive someone who doesnt want forgiveness and aren't sorry for their wrong doing, I don't owe them my forgiveness they aren't worthy of it.

COvo:
So blacks should be treated differently? Stupid fat idiot!

Blacks are treated differently than anyone else in the U.S. They treat animals better.

lordchiz:
Nairalanders!
I have been reading stories here relating to heartbreaks but I never knew I would also experience and testify one here! It is funny! More Amusing because I suddenly realize that I can't sleep with my sudden discovery this late night! Pls u guy should pardon my English... Anyhow una see am, make una enjoy because I no dey tink straight!

Anyway the name is Emmy from Kaduna! I am 31yrs
I recently met my girlfriend (21yrs) during my sister's wedding where am also the bestman!
I broke up 2months ago before meeting this lady! I thought I have met my last bus stop. I heard few things about her past from my sister and how she was maltreated by her ex.... To some extent, she was harassed, brutalised and hospitalised!
To cut d story short, we exchanged pleasantries and started dating! I wanted to be cautious, watchful and smart about this relationship at first because of my experience with my immediate ex and her love for the word 'insincerity'..... But later I said to mysef that it was of no use since I noticed her love was genuine!
I later introduced myself to her family and also my family too, just to make it known that I was playing at all! During the course of this relationship, i noticed some flaws like her inability to speak fluently in English and her wrong spellings when chatting on Facebook messenger platform! (Take note that I opened the Facebook account for her too). But in all this, my love was real and I took some time everyday to teach her both during our chats or when I meet her facially! I did some few things to pamper n care for her because... And only because of her so-called past experience that may have traumatize her! This continued for like a month now.... Sometimes she persuade me for sex.... But I don't want to rush her because I was seeing it was a genuine love already from me to her too.... But I later gave in.... We had it like 3times and she claimed i was the best ever and gave me appraisals as if I just won presidential ticket to 2019 election.

Last week, Pressure came from a member of the church where we all worship... The lady said she likes her for her elder brother to marry... Before u knew it, the family of the so-called lady came to tell my gf and her family there intention and to take the girl to Onitsha to meet their son,
She rebuffed the offer, she told me wat happened... She also laughed over it that she is in love with me and wants to further her education than getting married now! Moreover there is this confidence and hope that she really meant her words...

The Girlfriend's mom also refused, the brother came to tell me of it, he also said he ain't in support of her sister getting married to the unknown guy!
My Girlfriend calls me some nights crying.... Just to tell me dat the family are using there relatives to mount more pressure on her! But I gave her good words to calm her nerves!

To cut the story short, she told me on Friday night that she wanted to go and see her aunty the next day saturday, that gave birth in the next town, just about 15-18km from our place... She also said she was going to come back on Sunday evening! I casually agreed and secretly happy because I will have enough time to watch the match between Chelsea Vs arsenal! #Blues4Life!

I woke up Sunday Morning only for my sis that got married to their relative... to tell me that my girlfriend traveled with the lady to go see the unknown guy! She saw I was shocked because she thought I knew about it..... I casually pretended as if all was fine.
I later called her when I was alone and ask her whereabout, she denied that she was with her aunty in the next town, till I mounted little pressure that I knew everything before she admitted. Before she will start preaching 'I didn't want u to get sad, I love u', and the rest bullshit.... I cut the call!
Her missed call is over a hundred miss call!
I picked yesterday afternoon to tell her to move on with her life..
She has pleaded that it is me she loves, that she only went to take the remaining of her belongings in Anambra before coming back to Kaduna! I said to myself 'More lies'!
I advised her to accept the guy and forget about me.... This my girl knew I hated lies.... And that is the only thing that can make me forget a girl as if she never existed!
Take note that I caught her telling lies severally during this one month of love but I waved it aside and forgave her severally!

Now this midnight, I was tempted to login her Facebook acct I opened myself, to my greatest surprise.... She was chatting wit my ex too.... She was curious to knw if my ex still loves me, and wat really broke us up!
The one that shocked me more was her Cousin chatted her the pix I will attached..... Marveled me!

Seriously it is never easy passing through this shock!
But Base on the IBO boy, Nwa IMO state! I go move on wella!
This is an experience to always expect bullshits from any lady any day, anytime.....

Thunder fire any man wey go commit suicide because of one Olosho babe!

All of this drama over a one month relationship.

VictorRomanov:
Why do homosexual weddings and relationships get featured on Nairaland front page frequently?

Is it a way of making us gradually get comfortable with the lifestyle and then come to accept it?

Cos we keep seeing photos of people we don't know, and the only reason we are seeing them is because they are gay or lez.

Just asking...

Maybe the owner is gay, bisexual or straight, or maybe he's not homophobic. To each his/her own. There is a saying that goes, "What they eat won't make me poo", and " Who they screw won't make me cum". We all have more important things to concern ourselves within our own lives than to worry about what others are doing in their own lives, as long as they aren't hurting innocent people, who gives a damn.

Homeboiy:
was her his prick removed and a hole drilled?

They don't remove the pen'is it's tucked inside a man made va'gina, but this is probably a cross dresser with butt and hip pads, that's why it looks so awful.

Hondata:
Nope, I'm from Washington state, Vancouver to be exact.
In the northwest states, we dont have many black people, easy 500 whites, to 1 black. We have alot of Hispanic people.

Southern USA has alot of black people, oregon,washington and Idaho not really.

Americans would say, I'm from the state of Washington, you are African.

amaniro:
Calm down, I can see someone here is more racist. I should have never hated whites. so I forgave them, not because of her but humanity. The Bible says all things are passed away all things are new, I just shoved the whole racism stuff out. And you really think I melted on my knees for someone ave never met, C'mon African girls never finish ooh. Ave never had a good or known white people very well and I don't know if they are manipulative. Khiaa you have to forgive them, don't take us to the past.

Learn the meaning of racism, I loath them for their evilness.
This coming from the person who has never experienced their evilness, cutting off men balls and watching them die in agony while laughing, hanging pregnant women on trees and cutting out the unborn child just for entertainment. Shooting and killing a 12 year old boy who was playing in the park, hanging a 17 year old boy and girl for being black, killing a 11 year old child and taking out his vital parts and selling them, tying a rope around a man's neck and dragging him with their car until his head comes off and much, much more. These are not things that happened in the far past but atrocities of today. Forgive them you say? NEVER!! Always expecting black people to be meek and turn the other cheek while they continue the evilness. Do you FORGIVE SATAN?

amaniro:
Lol, actually I started this race drama and all, from the beginning of the post you'd see that. The white lady is actually married na and we were still talking about sensitive race matters.

She's not married, she said that she is inlove with an Igbo guy whom she has been conversing with via the internet for two years. She gave all Nigerian men a compliment and you melted to your knees, and forgave her for their racism which was a sign of weakness. You have to be strong toward those people they are very manipulative and you fell for the manipulation.

amaniro:
My native American friend, you've forgotten me right

No, but I saw you kissing up to that white girl so I thought ok....

2buffagain:
These aren't Nigerian females.
These are Black Americans.

Black american women are very open about their craving for cawk and nut.
Makes bachelorhood very simple in yankee

How do you know they are Black Americans and not Carribeans, Afro- Latinas or Africans?

johnmattew:
I don't blame Nigerian ladies for their materialistic nature...blame the guys.

Nigerians guys mostly use money and luxuries to lure ladies .[b]they use the money to keep the relationship even when they know that there is no true love.when they become broke and ladies jump to another rich dude,[/b]they start calling ladies names.

watch how our music and society preach about and encourages using money and luxuries to spoil ladies...this have become norm and culture.

Alezy is the embolden true? I hope such wickedness never crosses your path.

nero2face:
Majority of Guys in their early 20s that's Financially stable did not really work for it, maybe there are some who inherited from their Fathers, But that doesn't mean u should remain lazy, even if ur not stable, at least be dependent...

Independent.

rinzaugustine:
Entering into an argument with an African,particularly those living back home will always end in misunderstanding because they have not walked on the shoes of the black Americans as per the effects of slavery.They see the white man primarily as a benefactor and not an adversary because most of the good infrastructures they see today were done by them.An African man sees a fellow black man from another tribe as his real enemy and mot the white man.I am yet to see a black African country(except Ghana and some few countries) that have not fought a civil war where several fellow blacks were killed

I understand all of this but that's not an excuse for them to remain ignorant to the truth. What state are you living in?

Alezy:
m good, been really busy. What's going on down here? What av I missed??

What have you been up to? You haven't missed much just me having fun.

Martin0:
madam ar dey fin oo

I'm doing fine, how are you today, my virgin boyfriend? I hope you are saving your virginity for me.