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Some of you guys na wah. You have been dating this same girl for God knows when and you knew her personality all along. You have been working on getting married recently, meaning you have accepted her for who and what she is and now you're asking us these questions for what exactly? So na when wedding plans done reach you begin remember her flaws? You better carry your cross oga. None of them are perfect you have found the one that you can enjoy her goodness and also mange her witchcraft side. Hold am and stop looking for ways to run away. It's too late for that now. You shall and you must marry that girl

RealityKings1:
2 seconds is too much.
A man is supposed to just go in and Come out.

Lol

Hopez456:
It is normal, it is the acidity of the area that Grey's the hairs.

God I no fit laugh... These guys won't kill me

Mayflowa:
Where is it a crime in Nigeria under Nigeria’s constitution? I am not referring to any religious law. The people harassing them are the ones committing a crime. If you are not satisfied with your spouse’s action or activity, you divorce .

So why didn't she divorce her husband instead of sneaking everywhere to fck another even with a child growing in her? The double standards with you women is legendary. If a man does it, it's demonized, but when a woman does it, there's always reasons to justify the act

Life should not be that hard. You no longer want your husband leave and go be with whom you really eand enjoy yourself instead of this shameful act. Funny part of this whole thing is when the husband eventually leaves her, the boyfriend(s) will no longer want to play main guy or husband,do they dump her too and she becomes miserable trying to find her way back to what she destroyed with their help. They say women are always super h0rny during pregnancy, so if she's not giving it to you the supposed husband and father to what's growing inside of her for wtv reasond then she's giving someone else. So there's a very high chance that someone else is the real father while you're just being used for convenience.

LeeSmart:
Hmm if this one no dey take her personal hygiene serious especially the armpit region, omor no be small bacteria she go dey train for there oo😲😲

Na the armpit you really dey talk about

Lol when juicy positions dey available for public corporations and reputable government positions him no involve youths but na dem dem dey use am lobby themselves and them own. Em reach the one when high risk to life involve him dey urge youths. Yet same youths still don't realize these people are never going to be for them but genuinely against their well-being. Una go suffer, una never even start

This my state governor with head like pen1s. Your time dey come, no worry

Double0h7:
Wicked how? I gave him wise counsel 😏

Yes, a very wise one I sincerely hope he follows through

Double0h7:
Last year it was a woman with 4 children that you were eyeing up, and now it’s a pregnant young lady. I think this is your calling so answer the phone and marry this lady, raise the child with her, then add your own to the count and live happily ever after.

If she’s a nice lady, she isn’t running the streets (anymore), and she is willing to settle down then go for it. The story she gave you is tales by moonlight btw.

BUT! you have a fertile young lady, no offence; I don’t think your SMV is high enough to be picky, so grab this one while you can, and start your own family.

Lol so you wicked like this

KingAzubuike:
This one na likely navy. They nor get strength at all. Na mostly navy dey fight like sissy like this.

Navy guys are the least ruthless of the 3 forces when it comes to chawusing civilians.

Ignorance. Navy guys are rather the most civil when it comes to dealing with civilians just like the top educated personnels in the army and air force. It's the uneducated recruits who are majority in the army that you're mistaking for being ruthless. Cross line first you go know say no be by who razz or do gra gra means power. You don't know anything

You don't want to pay Seun for ads and you're using agbari to invite people to your services abi? The mods aren't able to detect this but if na to serve unnecessary ban now dem go dey flex.

If I'm liking a girl or considering dating her then she starts that sir thing, I will politely correct her and if she still continues with it na to avoid her as best as I can. Calling me sir isn't respect. You show respect by how you treat me directly and not by mere words like "sir"

ezewealth:
How can a fucking grownass man cry to a song. .is funny sha, na una dey commit suicide because of woman

Na dem.

UnknownQueen:
Even you yourself, one way or the other, you go still cry before you leave this earth...

Tears na tears my guy

Nope, tears nor be tears
Losing a loved one to sudden death can make anyone shed tears. It's not the same as crying over a girl for no reason

Tears of finally getting something you always dreamed about but never really thought you could achieve isn't the same as that useless tears.

Tears of joy too ain't the same with that. He's obviously still very inexperienced in the ways of that gender. He's about to learn the truth soon. I'm very sure of that

dollytino4real:
to cure conji abi wetin u dey wan talk

You already know

And this is front-page worthy? Omor this place is finally buried

Tf did I just read

dollytino4real:
See kiss and tell guy, u don't know the level of hunger in her home, hungry fit make u do the unthinkable, God help us to see our destiny help who will not take advantage of us

Which advantage again? Or you nor know say destiny helper sef need to cure

cr7lomo:
Boys they use am pass am like one touch football....she come de delude herself with " dating" ... when dem chop u finish ...otilo

You sabi the code. Back in uni me and some special guys used to do this with certain types of girls. Once one of us gets her he introduces her openly using the code word why the unsuspecting tools will be smiling thinking she's playing everybody. But once she's passed around successfully we dey cast her, to know she's not a player but the played. Not every girl tho. You need to see them when they think they're smart, the lies they tell to cover tracks 😂 I use am understand the other side of that gender and really see them finish. After school when I started seeing girls in the real world with such character traits, I go just laugh at thei folly they think is wisdom, cos I sabi her type, she's only lucky the boy grew up to be a man

Booooollllsiiiiiiit

Love800:
It's still confusing to me how a bullet fired upwards will harm a person when it gets down.

It baffles me.

Can't be upwards. Must have hit a surface and ricocheted towards the child.

The shooter was most likely under the influence of some substance. What's all this about shooting unnecessarily as if it's a parade? Those found guilty should be arrested and dismissed from service.

RollinTNDA:
This girl works in pharmacy
We eye each other for 1 month
Until I finally risk am and ask her out

Talking stage I get to meet her mum
She is a single mother raised 2 kids
But she is into lesbianism

She sees nothing wrong with it
Is this a huge red flag or is it none of my business?
Will it affect me to have a lesbian inlaw?

Most single mothers are into lesbianism fr... A plus for you. 3way parrtey errry weeknd

I saw the headline and decided to scroll down to the pictures first before reading, thinking they were for personal use as in drug users... Omor as I see shipment I nor know when I shout JESUS! inside room.. These are major drug dealers. Pastor indeed

thrillionaire:
I dey always wonder how them dey do am wey begging nor dey enter their hearts. That thing wey dem wan do, dem must do am.

Because they prefer honesty and integrity. What's the point begging now when you simply could have done the right thing at the right time

henrimoto:
...No blame her on this. She is a young mother and wife at that, Her mindset is positive and innocent.

She just believe say ,her man mind go dey like her own.

Even at that, the husband no be am, no be better man.

And you na better man? Saint Henry

Lanre1st:
Your mother history want to repeat itself onn you
I will advise you to forgive him, but don't forget to take the advantage of what happened to subdue him .

She nor know say she's the one to break the pattern and the price to pay is before her.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

Great now you will divorce him and find someone else to marry you, have more kids with him and your kids will grow up traumatized just like your mother before you did . It's a pattern that follows the bloodline and restricts you from their full potential. You're not awake enough to realize it's up to you to break the pattern.

Yes the man goofed big time but don't let it affect your kids, the next generation. It's easier said than done, I know but it's the price to pay. Forget those empty feminists playing the rapist card. You know who you married, has this been his nature? to force himself on women? I doubt because you would never have agreed to be his wife and partner. Men don't turn overnight. Trust me.

Some of these house helps are from hell with a single mission to destroy homes. I know what I'm saying. Your husband's fault is his failure to resist temptation by allowing his desires overcome his sense of self.

Not saying your husband is innocent, he's not no matter how you look at it but forgiving him and staying married will benefit you and your young family more. Except it's his nature, you should forgive but don't forget it, I say don't forget because no one really does.

Focus on getting better and building a strong family, also help him get through this period but never be too available for him. He must learn to enjoy the consequences of his actions too. I mean emotional and physical availablity

Two options: Stay for your young family's future's sake Or leave for your ego sake.

My simple advice to you: Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions

FriendsAndFans:
If you end up divorcing, where will you go with the 2 young children? A 4 year old and a 9 months old.

It's very difficult to be a single parent even if you have a well paying job.
It's all upto you tho

She wouldn't listen

When you marry a garden tool for any reason. Expect to be disgraced steadily for any reason

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Cheap guy after Una go say girls cheap. Just egusi soup you done fall yakata for bed