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slimjohn2k5:
Did she enter Uber from her house to yours?
Did u ask her to shower?
I observed when ladies trek some distance without showering, that place smells

budaatum:
Please note that she has not said she is looking for a sugardaddy to keep her nor a husband even.

She just wants to be dated by people closer to her age.

Listening2:
I was in town for some business and it was inevitable that I catch up with an old friend.

His babe prepared a delicious meal that she sent to me through him.

The fact that she's from my state, I had to appreciate her specially. So I asked him for her account and wired her some token of appreciation.

Even though my guy was very appreciative, I've been feeling uneasy, like I shouldn't have done that. And information reaching me right now is that he and his babe had a quarrel that same day. But I don't want to believe it's because of that.

Either way, I just want to know guys, was I wrong to send money directly to his babe?

James4358:
Marriage is not poverty alleviation program na. After spending my life savings marring my wife, she still went to give her pastor lover good buy sex just days to our wedding. I've not even recovered from that trauma yet. Things dey happen for life.

SpencerForbes:
Taking a wife from Nairaland is like buying a 'Follow-Come' I-pass-my-neighbor problem.

1. The Feminist Headquarters:
Half of them are 'Woke' feminists, and the other half are currently in training. If she knows you’re an active member, forget it. Any move you make, she’ll say, 'Is it that Red Pill thread you’re reading?' You can’t even exercise your 'Head of the House' rights without her accusing you of following 'Nairaland Mentors.'

2. You Are Official Content:
Omo, you are just one argument away from being 'Topic of the Day.' Small misunderstanding like this, you’ll just see a thread: 'My husband used his left hand to eat, should I leave him?' Next thing, you’re on the Front Page, and the 'Online In-laws' are already dissecting your life

3. The 'Judas' Advice:
I trust my Nairaland people—they don't know what 'Peace' means. Their solution to everything is: 'Dump him!', 'He is a narcissist!', 'Bury the marriage!'. Even if you just forgot to buy bread, they will tell her your destiny is not safe with you

Living with a Nairaland regular is like living with a secret reporter Fear Women, but fear the ones on this forum even more! Proceed with your chest in your hands!

guobe:
Great point clearly stated
Omo.

LeeSmart:
Who dey even talk about smoke self? You no read where op talk say him babe tell am say make e no disturb her say na she pay money for rent?
Abi that one no be disrespect wey i dey talk about?
Well my guy it's owkay if ur woman disrespect you and you see nothing wrong with it.

LeeSmart:
And you wey dey defend the bro no go even pray for ur enemies make dem marry that kind woman not to talk of yourself. Well my problem be say i no wan hear una complain say women don spoil and dem no dey respect men again ooo.

LeeSmart:
Oga stop capping, you and i know if she's your woman you won't even think for a second of settling down with her. The only thing that made u said so is because of the immoral things you guys will be doing together and nothing more sir.
At the end you will leave her for one innocent man to repair the damage you have done.

My apologies if i was rude/harsh🙏

Amykim:
😂😂😭

callmetade:
They call him Asake Omo ologo lameda

But wait o which one be DJ snake again o, I'm not surprised sha if we can have DJ chicken why not snake too

Cum4me:
No matter how you try to conpont it. Small DK is never a game changer. Imagine a man with 2inc tiny erected DK. You can't drive her it's like an empty space

joseph1832:
Correction: a single mother can never raise a son or a daughter properly. The presence of a man can never be overstated in marriage, never.

Lastmankc:
I promise one marriage,the way she's just opening her legs for me.I am even afraid.I wanted marrying her, but she have a bad temper.

Thundafireseun:
I pity the person that wants to date my baby mama… the person will surely see banza Dan buruba Shege

Mcreloaded:
You are very very right it's more easier to raise a son by a single mother compared to raising a daughter, but if there is no strong discipline when a single mother raises a son then ur guess is as good as mine.
Mind you not all single mothers are damaged goods as I have seen some single mothers who went through he'll to be a good single mother. Circumstances can do a lot of damage and you can't necessarily blame the mother.

NotSidestory:
wow thanks seems you are a psychologist.

Alphafarms:
Not true, go to South West and see young (men) graduate leaving school without jobs getting married, they will tell you is God that train children

ajalawole:
she refuse every attempt bro. She always say she wasn't ready. Her dad was the mean reason she leave my place, her dad have 4wives so he hardly stay at home and I don't know him, but I know her mum very well, her mum entrust her to me because I get her job where I was base... When her dad find out she was with me, the dad started to bring up issue and threatened to send the mother packibg that was how she went back the the village. I went to the village to ask for her hand in marriage, her mum told me my ex should be the one to tell her dad that she is ready for marriage because "baba Loni Omo" (father owned the child)... I do everything for her, but I have to let her go when it seems am forcing myself on them

ajalawole:
I was thinking same. Who will even get married at 23yrs... At that 23 er should be in uni.. Which parents will leave their 20yrs old daughter to get married at that age.