₦airaland Forum

Blue3k:
Lol only the mentally challenged believe such an idiotic story. There's too many holes in this story. The clown is simply repeating a story he heard or making it up he goes along.



• Sanusi was hidden inside a prison how?
• nobody was arrested for the murder.
• There's was no execution.
• When did Sanusi's father talk to Abacha?

sapientia:
Some doubting Thomas above me are Simply lazy Nigerians.

Everyone knows the story.

FFK did not say anything new.

Abacha nearly killed him.

SLS have a very fanatic violent past.

I don't know about now though.

doggedfighter:
Did I read 1900? How long ago is it?
Why bring Akaluka matter up today that he's dethroned.
Rabble rousing FFK

FocusedB1h:
It happened in 1995 and yes, sanusi was obviously born then and he led the group of Islamist who beheaded that Christian southern man and paraded the streets of Kano with his head.

domido:
1900?

2Women:
Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.

bluefilm:
Sure 3 points for Pep Guardiola's men.

Final scores:

Manchester United 0 Manchester City 3

Praise be to Jesus.

Now and forever.

Amen.

Skye231:
City is winning this no dispute

ERCROSS:
If Man City no finish us, make I bend

Greenx:
Man utd 2 Man City 0. Correct scores

drizslim:
Yahoo boys make it easier to fish them out from other peer hustlers.. U hammer small money u don' go lodge for hotel buy motto with iPhone but initially ur slogan na I want to make mama proud..

But SARS own sef no goes well, if u no settle dem go show ur face for crime fighter

Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

arukwe123:
You lie. a starting striker given 4.70 to score. never. You think bookies are Father Christmass

Bilabong:
Ighalo to score
Odd 1.82


Personal reasons exposed...

tsephanyah:
Thought and prayers. RIP

RUGA is the solution

Since the return to democracy in 1999, Nigeria has been grappling with diverse security challenges, chief among them are insurgency, election violence, kidnapping and most recently, the herder-farmer conflicts among others. The north central states of Benue, Plateau and Nasarawa and other states have experienced conflicts that led to thousands of deaths and displacements as a result of clashes between pastoralists (herders) and local farmers in several communities. In January 2018 alone, Amnesty International reports indicate that 168 people were killed as a result of herdsmen-farmer clashes.1

Struggle over grazing land and scarce resources have over the years resulted in perennial and growing violent conflicts in terms of frequency, intensity and geographic scope. Underpinning the escalation in frequency of conflicts in Nigeria is a confluence of environmental and demographic forces, especially desertification caused by climate change and population explosion. Expectedly, with the depletion of arable land for subsistence farming largely as a result of increasing urbanisation and the adverse effect of climate change, especially along the Lake Chad basin, there is increased struggle between herdsmen and farmers – leading to violent confrontations and conflicts, deaths and forced displacement, as well as the destruction of agriculture and livestock.

Olominira:
Shekau would definitely meet his Long awaited virgins because this is part of US election game. It's important for Trump

RapistOnBail:
Nice Try

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Damnnnnn

See comments from niggarrrz here
Damnnn

Scared niggarrrs
Pussy asss niggarrrs

Corona viruse ain't doing no shit
Stop fidgeting and complaining

Wait a minute
This Corona na grinding machine na

frankmoney:
Who else noticed that after the Coronavirus outbreak all the Hong Kong protesters that have been protesting for months have disappeared .

Nbote:
He who fights and runs away lives to fight anoda day... E b lyk say dat punch to d ear make am no dey hear word again

Christmasdon:
When its time. who says en.r!gland don't know how to manipulate matches, thats how they manipulate chelsea to draw.

nnadychuks:
people like you are the country’s problem. Are you a billionaire with this level of greed?

madridguy:
Yes I can.

Nomanlike:
Handsome is the act of a male having good looks. In our society today there are ugly boys, average and handsome boys. In review of 1-10, When a boy is said to be ugly the boy gets a review of 1-2, if a boy is said to be average looking the boy gets a review of 3-8 and if the boy is said to be handsome he will get a review of 9-10.

The reason why am saying this is because handsome boys pass through some problems in life such as:

1. People always think they are gay: this happens a lot in our society especially in USA, whenever a handsome guy is seen, People always tend to see them as gay because they are created perfectly, they dresses fine and they have good grooming. In our society People have grown with this mentality that only boys that are gay normally are handsome.

2. Women are too easy: a reader may be wondering why is this listed as a problem? It is a problem because boys are not really created to have good look as girls, For the handsome boys whenever they passes, girls normally admire them and always want you to be their crush. As a handsome boy it is a problem because every girl will want to be your friend, even those you like and don't like.

3. Centre of attention: whenever a handsome boy goes to a gathering or party. He always causes attention people will start looking at him especially the ladies, if the handsome boy is a shy person he will always feel embarrassed.

4. Girls always see him as a player: A handsome boy is always seen as a player all the time. Girls always assume that they are Bleep boys (boys who only want to sleep with different girls) so it is very shameful to be seen as a player all the time by people.

5. Girls always feel so low around them: handsome boy don't just date any girls because most girls will always hide from them due to fear of rejection. The first thing a girl hate in this world is rejection. Handsome boys normally gets girl who are very beautiful because it is only the beautiful girls that can come around them.

Don't think that handsome boys life are perfect, They have their own problems.