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Movie way dey my phone currently.... great actors but the storyline I no too enjoy am...e too simple... I love you Ginny but you can do better!! This is just an honest critic not hate, I hope to see more..Ride on girl, it's your first directed movie

njuwo:
Can cymera photoshop?

Bro how can you make use of phone to do the kind of editing Photoshop does?? it can't, download Photoshop from play store and still its only few things you can do

njuwo:
Can I get it on playstore.

Lol yes it's from play store... you can use Cymera to adjust n edit pictures in different ways but I didn't use Cymera here ooo..I was only joking oo... d picture is real, not edited.. just 2 guys who snapped.... but still download Cymera, you'll love it

njuwo:
Which Android app did you use in doing this?

Cymera

See as men above me just cool down dey discuss woman Nyash for this Jan 2019

Here's a special shot alongside Romelu Lukaku

Cutthbert:
I sent u a mail brother.

I've texted you... I think NL should find a better way to reach other members though

JasonScoolari:
Lol, so you expect us to sing their praises and call them heroes?



Bro, they only end up adding more problem,

-Unnecessary burial budget.
-Unnecessary condolence visit.

You sef, think am.

on the contrary bro, I don't..come on that's you exaggerating. I've been through that shít, I've stayed depressed and suicidal for years, but I came out of it..
Now will I say I'm some sort of hero just because I didn't break? Nope, what hero is that? At the same time I can't call the people who failed and stopped fighting cowards. I know how what it is to feel that way.. Let's just express or say whatever we want to without calling them names such as cowards or heroes..
My brother I can't call anyone of them names, I can only thank God I survived what they couldn't survive

JasonScoolari:
Beautifully presented.

But KiddoiLL, no matter what the situation is, Suicide shouldn't be an option.

We don't need to be in their shoes to see reasons for their cowardly act.

Lol bro, again with the word “Coward”... cowards run from fights, cowards doesn't face any of their Battles.
You can't term someone who has been fighting for his life over years as coward when he finally loses and gives in.
We can't be strong forever, pray you don't get depressed to the point you get suicidal, in fact pray none of your family members do.
I think we can express ourselves in ways that'll be clear and say what we feel about them without calling them cowards or weaklings, don't you agree with me on that?.. it's the calling of names that's bad, it does no good to anyone

Hello, Happy new year y'all.
This might be long for some of you who hate long articles but bear with me.
The reason I'm writing this post is because of the thread I saw yesterday concerning the DJ who committed suicide and the reactions I saw from almost everyone.
I thought well I'm sure it's nothing they've experienced and so it's easy to sit down there and judge a suicidal person. The comments on that thread was so mean and pointless. You see people calling him a Coward, others say stuffs like I can't kill myself for any reason o, while some just call the dead different names. You judge and call he or she names and yet you don't understand half of what he or she went through.

Is it really possible to understand why people commit suicide?
Personally I don't think it is but when you've never been in that position, you won't know how bad or messed up it is for someone to consider suicide.
This post isn't to encourage suicide, this post isn't to justify suicide, no it is not. This post is for you out there who will sit in your comfort zone or deal with what you're facing and because you have/had the grace to survive, you'll term people who couldn't as weaklings and cowards and say different stuff. It really needs to stop, it only proves to someone else who is on the verge of breaking how judgemental people can be no matter what.

I don't know what the DJ went through, I have no idea, some say it's general issues that led to depression, some say its because of a woman. (How stupid does it sound to say a man with a wife and possibly kids killed him just because of the wife)

No matter what you try to say, you can't feel what someone else is going through, while someone is facing their demons and battling, you can never understand that it's the said person alone against the world.
Families and friends could reach out, suicidal people only see death as a way out because they're At a point where life makes no meaning, Hopelessness is all they feel and they see nothing valuable to live for.
To the living soul, you see it as selfish and lame decisions. Weak people do not, I repeat weak people don't commit suicide. It takes someone strong to only do that, and with how strong they were, it only comes at the point where the spirit is broken and when they feel to get peace, they need to be dead.



I'll just drop this perfect analogy by David Foster Wallace here:




"The so-called 'psychotically depressed' person who tries to kill herself doesn’t do so out of quote 'hopelessness' or any abstract conviction that life’s assets and debits do not square. And surely not because death seems suddenly appealing. The person in whom Its invisible agony reaches a certain unendurable level will kill herself the same way a trapped person will eventually jump from the window of a burning high-rise. Make no mistake about people who leap from burning windows. Their terror of falling from a great height is still just as great as it would be for you or me standing speculatively at the same window just checking out the view; i.e. the fear of falling remains a constant. The variable here is the other terror, the fire’s flames: when the flames get close enough, falling to death becomes the slightly less terrible of two terrors. It’s not desiring the fall; it’s terror of the flames. And yet nobody down on the sidewalk, looking up and yelling ‘Don’t!’ and ‘Hang on!’, can understand the jump. Not really. You’d have to have personally been trapped and felt flames to really understand a terror way beyond falling”




Take your time and understand what that means, and that you can't stay down there and judge people, acting like you understand why they did or not once again let's stop this calling of names and stop acting like it's that easy. Someone out there who is suicidal is definitely seeing all of it, and it doesn't stop them, all it outs in their head is how it's obvious that they'll never be understood.

Only few who've been on that part will understand the battle and the demons you face.
This is my 2 cents.

Cc Lalasticlala
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Cc Fynestboi
Cc Seun

SweetBuns:
Use the money you'll used in buying the drugs to invest on something tangible instead. Sex isn't pleasurable and its not war. Baba, are you drilling for oil?
This type of attitude should've ended in 2018

Someone's looking for treatments and ways to cure himself of his big worry and you're saying this should've ended in 2018... Aunty shebi after he invests instead of treating himself, when he blows up, you'll be the one to stay with him after he's ready to settle down? Look at it from this way, he's not worried about money or stuffs, man wants to fix himself, he'll settle down some day

Hehehe, do any of you ever get that weird feelings that movies such as Geostorm, 2012 and a few others are so true and that man will surely cause its own doom? Every day I keep seeing reasons why Thanks wants to wipe away half of the universe

watch video here, watch video here, watch video here...Op respect yourself this new year so

Freeze man tone it down a bit...it's still 2nd of Jan for fvck sake!!, can't we just go a month peacefully without you doing or saying something to ruin the vibe?? ... No start with your madness again I take God beg you

That car doesn't look like cars used for drifting... Or they thought Drifters make use of just any car... Nonsense move

Nonso92:
I call her Sansa the mumu! But she kinda surprised me when she saw little finger's move towards her against Arya. And she did the needful.

But mine is Jon Snow, and Tyrion Lannister.

everybody loves Jon Snow bro...

Tyrion Lannister any day and Arya Stark..... looking at Sansa makes me wanna break my TV sometimes

Originalsly:
Lol...as expected!...well the main reason I said people like you should sit your wife down is to save her from your fury!...just the thought and you're already fired up!.... this topic really struck k a nerve in you!

Lol.... I said I won't hide it from her so she'll understand...it's not something to hide from a permanent spouse

COOL10:
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Damn,bro. That's tough

Man that response he gave can never be erased from my head...

Originalsly:
Hmmmm....child mentality only?....bro...read your entire comment... the more you wrote...the more the bitterness surfaced.... showed in the tone of your writing. No doubt... you wouldn't show favouritism.... but what if your wife does? Anyone is such a situation need to sit their other half down and draw the line in the sand.
Nothing good ever comes out of having a favourite child.

she shouldn't try that shít with any of my kids oo...well it's not a thing I'll hide from her, since it will help her understand why it's bad and why I'm against it..

SlimHan:
@kiddoiLL
Good to know someone out there knows exactly how that feels. Pray I grow up to do well just like you did sir.

Been there
Still there and it's not just easy.

stay strong and keep a straight head, you'll do just fine

Santinojr:
Bro ..I can totally relate . i experienced mine from when i was about 10-11 years old. It all began when my dad said he saw me associating with so called bad friends. From that day he beats me at any slightest opportunity , accuses me of stealing his money , says abusive words to me . When i asked my mum why i'm being treated different from my other siblings, she said my dad hates me and wants to disown me ... Mehn I grew up with that feeling of being rejected and hated till I reached 18 .

E no easy bro, the good that came out of it is that, we all learnt from it and we'll work to never let our kids go through that same thing...

firebaby:
I tell bro I have been Tru all this poo....but I thank God o am healing now.....it's ok we are together in this God will always be there for us.happy new year

Happy new year sis..stay strong

Chenzee:
My brother, you really passed through alot...I believe that stuff really challenged you to be better...And thank God you didn't opt for suicide coz I wudnt have learnt wat I just did now...
I also thought of suicide at one point...I stood on a road waiting to be knocked down by a car...But as d vehicle was approaching me, I ran out of the road...I was constantly reminded of how useless I was...
Thanks a lot.

Bro I'm grateful because still there are people and teenagers going through worse than I did.. I didn't break because of the grace of God and having my cousin there for me always.
Glad you're still alive and kicking bro...
Now I do tell myself that maybe if only maybe Mom was still alive back then, Dad wouldn't have done all those stuffs

it is so so wrong, that shít fvcks up your child mentally while you have no idea how it's affecting them. This exact post you made is part of my struggles when I was depressed. Like I once said My dad was mostly responsible for a big part of my depression even though he had no idea.... He would show it openly in front of us all, and say it to us how my brother is so lucky and how he likes him so much, I have two brothers, and 3 sisters... Man would spend a lot of money on my brother back then nd would come up with reasons for the rest of us.
Shít even got to my kid sister the last born who felt she's always being treated unfairly, and she would tell my cousin about how she just want to do and then leave home... when she left for school, you don't know how happy she was that she was gon be free from some of the treatment and drama.
Never treat your kids like one is better than the others, never treat one like he's superior to the others...
even if one is weak, embrace he or she and shower on them all the love they need, love only makes them stronger... Love is a strong language and kids and mostly teenagers need it, that's why they end up doing stuffs outside and ending up making the wrong decisions just because you as a parent failed to do the right thing, all you know is some fvcked up sense of righteousness and religious bullshit, forgetting life is more than that and they have feelings and crave other stuffs. .. your kids won't tell you, but it affects them mentally, at some point I hated my family cus of how it made me feel...
I can still remember the day he came home with one of his friends (that one is a traditionalist), his friend told him in my presence that I've been telling myself that “one day they'll wake up at home and not see me anymore”.
He was right because i was planning and developing ideas to leave home and kept thinking of where to go... the reason why I still remember that incident is because of the respond NY dad gave him, it's forever stuck in my head, my dad responded with “If anyone decides he wants to leave, he's free to”... I was just getting into J.S.S.1... the response he gave hit me so much i couldn't get it off my head.

you should never treat one child better than the other,
I was suicidal but I got passed it, I'm fine and doing well now and up till now my dad has no idea the damage he did to me all those years.
I know how it feels to go through all that whole shít and depression and I vowed I'll never let any of my kids go through that phase or treat em that way....

and whoever can should push this to FP, there are still folks who needs to know and get this message

This is plain stupidity, this isn't any riddle or IQ questions, this is a trick maths questions that were normally set out in the past to confuse and trick students whose minds will fall for the trick...
you got 100k.. bought laptop 97k and you're left with 3k, you gave your dad 1k and gave your mom 1k, you're having the remaining 1k with you. Asking a question bout this is plain dumb

rafhell:
Lord have mercy. What a way to start 2019.

His mercies kept us going throughout the past years

Bia Op!! I am not ready for all these nonsense twitter posts and crap today Jan 1st, do you want to be unfortunate this year??

it's 10:32AM Jan 1st 2019.... some of you have already had sex this year, awon ashawo n oniranu

Abortions:
am a guy b!tch. And i wasn't reffering to u

Aaaaaaw don't cry now.. Need some candy? you're a guy with the gender of a female on a forum.. who's d bítch and wimp now?... who knows? you might be one of em niggas who has boobs n who will gladly HV his deek removed

Abortions:
And u believe this shit of not banging the younger one in his tranquil hotel room U are a disgrace to this community

Yea he believed him, some of us do because we know not all men are dogs, so wetin u dey find upandan?? Na every deek way come ur way u dey chop??