50calibre:

Look let me tell you. Being romantic to an mbaise woman is giving her money simple and short. Mbaise women only know how to spend money, they milk their husbands dry, all they do is complain about not receiving enough money from you, they give you examples of their friends whose husbands buys things for them, they don't think of anything apart from collecting money from their husbands and sending to her people.

How were you able to cope with dowry of an mbaise woman. How many million did you spend.

vicoson: I did not marry her because I loved her but I felt she will appreciate the fact that I married her against all odds. I was wrong. I think it was a conscience thing and I'm happy I did the right thing. Now I have to send her packing because I'm not sure I can give her what she wants. She wants romance which I don't have.

vicoson: I love those kids n they look like me.

yuzedo: Bia, you dis foolish geh with your wicked message, you dey sell ring? Na market you dey market your business so?!

See as you dey ginger as if say na beans. You don't even care about love, you just wan makes sure say your ring fine pass your neighbour own.. Shiorr! Na una type dey marry at 40yrs, divorce at 41yrs!

Sweetlemon: E eya!
I have been going through and studying the op's comments.
No, she's not a gold-digger. Just a helpless cinderalla romantic who has been dreaming of her wedding and prince charming for so long that she's so reluctant to wake up to reality.
Op, no need to feel bad joor. Most girls dream, or have dreamt of diamond rings at one point in time or the other. Only thing is that as we grow older, we start waking up to reality that not all of us will be lucky enough to marry such men and so we start to lower our standards and console ourselves with stuff like "things will get better" "I'm not materialistic so I don't care" etc.
Op, there's no crime in wanting a man who can spoil you with money, but please, don't put your mind on ready made only, look out for potentials as well. A hardworking, focused, self-controlled, well connected guy is a keeper my dear, even if he hasn't yet hit the jack pot.
ABOVE ALL, make sure a man loves you!!! The contents of a man's heart is more important than his bank acc. You may meet a rich guy who can afford a giant rock but may make your life miserable afterwards. So endeavor to see the man's heart first before accepting his ring o! This is however not to say that broke guys do not have their own wahala (talking from experience)
Let me finish off by saying that when a man really loves a woman, he gives her the best, materially, physically, mentally, socially, spiritually, etc. So saving 3 months salary for a ring shouldn't be too much wahala for him esp as she will be wearing it forever.
However, bear in mind that for most guys, buying an engagement ring is an emotinal issue. Most guys spend according to how special the girl is. The more special she is, the more beautiful the ring will be, so op, concerntrate more on being a special girl to the man whose ring you will wish for and watch him bring your dreams to reality.
Goodluck op!

Idowuogbo:
Which fevking thread? Dis wan wey u dey display mumurity? Ti ba yaka fun e ni left hen?


Bobo kilonpopcorn jare! Kasali dey vibrate for base give u o! He say make I tell u to accept Jesus as ur Lord and personal saviour.

bendazum: Nairaland derailers I bind and cast you out of this thread!

Idowuogbo:
Omg! Happinuyear o! U aite b?

Idowuogbo:
U don say!

fellis:

Some northern elders and politicians have actually come out in public to condemn Boko Haram.

And I think GEJ said that the people sponsoring BH are in his cabinet (why do people keep forgetting that he made that comment?) so why hasn't he done anything to fish them out and make them face the music?

afam4eva: When your wife lies to you about her salary it means she's preparing for a future without you. That's the sad truth.

mimi321: there obv has to be reasons why she lied , maybe your the type that feels that if your wife earns higher then na taboo
well as for me there should be no lying at all there should be communication

k2039:

This guy is one of the most intelligent guys I know on nairaland,his answers at times just amazes me.
Your answer made ultimate sense