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it has happened a lot of tyms - I see a fyn well endowed chick, I start getting close inof to earn a lay or two, but sumwer along d line, I discover her funny or amazing or intelligent personality n den booom! I don't get sexually attracted again. one of my neighbours I intended to lay is such a good friend of mine nw, i confide in her and she helps me with relatively sound advice bt d urge to polash her died mysteriously. anoda one is always telling me jokes wen we c. i just enjoy being friends. is dis peculiar to me alone? is der anytin wrong wif my mind?

Tymax:
Lol. Where is your faith? After now you will say guys are not caring.

muchechechecheche

DesChyko:
Give examples of Popular celebrities with this issue such that we know it is a 'today's' problem.

ngozy okonjo( then her hubby name) iweala, deziani Alison ( den her hubby name) madueke. objs married a bello n did dsame thing

dorlapoh20:
prove it

omg. omg. omg... i bet u wud pm him to send u card!!! hehehehe..., prove it!!!!

dorlapoh20:
i hear u. words cant change ya believe. but not all girls are the same

cliche... if i got a dime everytime i heard that sweety...

Women of nowadays should be very careful.
Back then their excuse for refusing to drop their father's name was because they have gained fame with the name but right now, even a jobless woman would still hold unto her fathers name after marriage (in the name of "I went to school"). Men are becoming softer, women are becoming more unreasonable n daring. After d responsibility of ur security, welfare, comfort etc has been dropped by your father n taken over by ur husband, I dont see any reason y a woman shud still bear her fathers name. Advice to guys - There's a thin line between loving/respecting women and being a spineless and stupid man. No offense to anybody. No apologies either....

kennygee:
E dey happen

@Op, hope you're not guilty of any of these?

hgjgj

dorlapoh20:
nigeria guys are never and will never be romantic

like u gals appreciate romance... if he gives you a bunch of flowers in lieu of a box of chocolate, wont u insult him and label him as broke?


9ja girls and hypocrisiy

Morkavictor:
Killjoy there is no truth in what you typed just the truth you what to believe.

*shrugs* the truth's the truth nonetheless

Tymax:
Story. If I vex I fit ask you to kneel down make I propose to you.

hahahahahahahha

fgdfg

urheme:
I hear you

Baba usman is not even a thousanaire but has 24 hours attendants even without snapping a finger.

Money does'nt neccessarily buy you slaves, can pay for good and bad services but you don,t need billions to command respect and have a good life,

Funny, all the billionaire i know are married even the most rascal ones still have family.

To stay single is a choice. I wish you luck in your bachelorhood.

lolzzzzz tanchu jare

sophieabou:
dere is no transformer here,wah 2do?

isshhhhh.... wellll errr... der is a transformer in my bedroom u wud be more than pleased to hug... drop ur number hon lets work out something. ok?

MzPreshie:
Now that wasn't the picture I wanted to paint. What I meant is that those days, women were much of assests more than our 21st century women. Then, their basic work was bearing children and taking care of the home. But now, women are invaluable.

corrected


you women have this make believe sense of importance shaaa....

urheme:
Killjoy is better you experience the whole nine yards of relationship and marriage and see that it actually failed you before you decide to stay single forever,

Yes and i agree, marriage does sucks but those who have never been married said lonliness is worse and i wonder why becase marriage does not neccessarily take care of loneliness.

Would'nt u rather be single and lonely than to be married and be lonely.

But in all, is good to marry, you will never be a man if you don't, it is a higher responsibility.

I will never respect and trust an unmarried man, no matter how old and rich he is.

I was taught in my jurisprudence class on one hand that the law is an as...s and an idi.o...t, and a bachelor
You see say na the same mama born them.

I cannot predict a bachelor, i cannot stand surety for them, can't recommend a senior bachelor, can,t do biz with them and cannot allow my kids to run errands for them.

Killjoy no blame me oh, na the society attach so much value to marriage, no be me, i don gengenly marry con born children and no senior bachelor go send them msg the way him like

not entirely to my surprise, that is exactly wot the society thinks of unmarried guys. but i am not one to live my life based on the dictates of society. i am mentally strong enough to handle societal pressures.


btw wen i make my billions i wont need to send d kids of married men on errands attendants will show up at the snap of my fingers... dats the kind of man i will be sooner than later

sophieabou:
go hug transformer

after you

kristina1:
Pls dont twist it....i neva said a guy dat kneel while proposing wl always respect the woman,,,at that particular moment,it shows respect and humility.

ok

chibwike:
Because he has knees

I tot a man has feet too

sophieabou:
ion tlk much

.lazy gal,

dorlapoh20:
it is not compulsory but it is necessary. standing to propose to a girl is like ' hey are u ready to marry me or not' ! . it's just one of those things man do to make his lady feel like a queen.
my opinion tho

lwkmd.... so kneeling to propose to a girl is like "I take God beg u, I beg, marry me if not I will die" I pray!

MzPreshie:
Then we were talking about the days of our fathers, weren't we?

yesss! our fathers wer strong dominant males who never stoopped low for a woman. Bt men of nowadays r weak n don't mind begging a woman to marry dem. Dats d idea I got from ur posts so far

Newkidoo:
Yes ooo.. How can u b killing joy up and down.. Wetin joy do u Na...

no vex my broda, from next year I no go kill person joy.

MzPreshie:
I think its a sign of love, just one of the many ways of showing you really love who you're with.

or, according to ur previous post, he is a beta or gamma or zigma male. a weak male... not necessarily sha Bt going on his knees cud be a sign of weakness too abi

kristina1:
To me,itz a sign of respect and humility,tho' itz not compulsory to go on ur knees while proposing.
Joecutie can xplain berra.

while proposing on his knees isn't mandatory, any man who proposes on his knees is a humble man who will respect d woman... dat wot u mean?

sophieabou:
i support u.

don't u hv a say of ur own?

MzPreshie:
Because in the days of our fathers, males were considered alpha beings, so kneeling down to propose to a weaker vessel was unheard of. And remember, romance is dynamic, not static. They had their own ways of proving their love then, just as we have ours now.

hmmm. nyc observation. guess nowadays alpha males r extinct - tnx to d overwhelming force of feminists. so is proposing on d knees a sign dat he isn't a strong male or its a sign of love or both?

Cutehector4u:
urm..i woulnt tolerate words like dat from u bro... Lets learn to be civilized in our comments.. I guess u would want that to be one of ur new yr resolutions... You dont knw who might help u

yyeaaa ur ryt... it was supposed to be a joke... damn me and my lame jokes

Newkidoo:
Because I love her!!!
Now are you happy

easy a... we dey quarell befor?

thexzy:
Going down on the knees is a sure way to receiving a positive reply.......it shows the sign of humility

so once i get on d street right away and get on my knees to propose, she.d most likely give me a yes... cos i am on my knees? plus accordin to ur twisted sense of reasoning, getting on ur knees for a woman is nw a sign of humility?

MzPreshie:
Nobody ever said it was mandatory for a guy to kneel when proposing, though every lady would love that. It all depends on how romantic the guy is and how much he loves his woman.

so wot ur saying is d more romantic and in love wit d gal, d more d chances of d guy proposing on his knees? wonderful... dat means our fathers probably never loved our mothers... but then, how come their marriages last longer dan d picnics many of us call marriages

jmoore:
That's hollywood stuff.
In reality, most nigerian men don't kneel down to propose.

But some ladies kneel down to propose indirectly, by saying "honey, I am pregnant."

niqqa:
Becos d guy na davido

wah did u read the question well before posting??