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babysmart:
Wow...@OP I must say u ar one very realistic nd upfront dude
Great points I must say, but i dont think dis applies to guys alone, not all girls nurse d idea of bein tied up for d rest of deir lives.

AbdulSleek:
Why dont you point out why it is "bullshit"?

Last time I checked, it is not for women.

mployer:
You just want to start a war

AfricanApple:
one thing is that, by the time you are married next year, you won't let us know o. you people will say one online and do two offline
there are some married also who loves being married

LordReed:
LoL! So now you recommend marriage? LoL are you confused?

LordReed:
Oh really? But you were so quick to emphasize that I am a "baabaa learner".

If the pressure is forever then something is wrong with either you or your wife.

LordReed:
Oh really? But you were so quick to emphasize that I am a "baabaa learner".

If the pressure is forever then something is wrong with either you or your wife.

holluwai:
Hahahaha..... Don't be so quick to judge me bro! I can handle the pressure but for how long? Forever? No!!!

AfricanApple:
well u can also be successful if u are with a woman, at least if you know what you are doing.

LordReed:
Why did you get married if you can't handle the pressure? Are you not the learner?

LordReed:
Bullshit is usually the justification for eccentric and idiosyncratic behavior, LoL.

Emperorking20:
No thanks OP
Just the thought of having my own tightly knit family makes me tingle with excitement
So no thanks

Ishilove:
Wow. So much bullshit tightly packed into one post. It's amazing.

Smh

LordReed:
First which family are you talking about? Mother, father, sisters, brothers? Or a future family?

OK banging chicks without responsibility may not be your only reason but it forms a core of your philosophy. Bang without consequence, the dream of the perpetual bachelor LoL.

nessaluv:
0f c0urse we d0 buh men carry a|| d burden.....starting 4rm feeding-accommodation-education- health etc, w0men take like 20% 0f d thinking den d men d0 d rest....

TDstarr:
plss give me the name of the book plsssss

LordReed:
LoL! You believe killjoy is single because he wants to be a better servant of God? ROTBLOL!

killjoy wants to bang chicks without any of the responsibility, very simple.

holluwai:
Kill her? Nahhhhh, I'm better than that bro. There are better ways and as a matter if fact it won't bring any issues....like if we lived on separate continents and we only see once in a while....you see?! That's a better idea

skelefish:
I must commend KILLJOY and COLINADUA, it's really not easy to make such a decision 'hats off to both of u'.

I have been following your post and I want u guys to know that u have made the right decision,just hold firm to it.

Both of u should always have these bible passage @ the back of your mind;
1 corinthians 7:26-28, 32-35, 38.

Christ wish for every man is to remain a lifetime celibate for heaven sake, but most men can't do this because of sexual drive. Mathew 19:3-12 buttress this.

The major problem every single man face is sex, but if u're able to condition your mind and build your self control, 70% Of the problem is gone. Pressure will definitely come,just be resolute.
U don't need to tell anybody, just keep it to yourself, cause the opposition is stiff.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing & obtains favour frm the lord. No doubt, but he will be anxious abt worldly affairs & how to pls his wife & his interests are divided. But the unmarried man is anxious abt the affairs of d lord, how to pls d lord,which gives peace of mind.
Marriage is good,but singleness is better.

Am not gay, neither am I a misogynist. Am just an easygoing celibate, who resides in d ancient city of benin.

AfricanApple:
Lol, i didn't even know the kind of book he was looking for, that's why I asked him. I'm not stingy with knowledge, you know, so I can tell him those ones you think I won't

AfricanApple:
the world can not take you seriously, only few unserious men would do that.
discrepancies in your list.

you think marriage makes a man miserable, what of those who aren't married, yet are fully miserable, what do u have to say about that?

holluwai:
A lot of times I wish I was not MARRIED!!! I can't stand certain things my wife does and I know one day I'll get my freedom again..... One way or the other!

AfricanApple:
sorry uhn, thought I might help

TDstarr:
thanks bro you dont realise it but you just changed my life , now i feel like a burden has been lifted off my chest, feel younger and wiser

AfricanApple:
nobody must take u seriously

nessaluv:
Cause dey tink 2much....