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ferdiii:
Marriage na public toilet...those inside can't breathe and want to get out while those outside are dying to go in.

hahahaha! nyc analogy!

ferdiii:
If I tell u my age...u will know u are the liar here...spambot won't allow me rest...so I'm as same as ferdimako. My pix is right there!

my friend plz stop exchanging words wit dis lady. she knows d truth. she's just trying to get under ur skin.

twerkjack:
I'm a woman and yet ȋ̝̊̅̄
Feel ur soooooooooo right. Infact no one can be righter. ȋ̝̊̅̄
Think the idea of marriage is crap livin ur whole life with a completely different person in ƮϦȩ name of compatibility, puulease.

tnx for ur honesty. one love

marilyn01:
Freak ni bobo killjoy yi sha. C ehn u cannot kill our joy o. Homebreaker like u. Wo ori e. Coconut head with fish brain.

u tok lyk a woman, insults insults insults. no sensible contributions. tomorrow man go carry u put for house. shey u see y I said men r better of alone. its cos of gals lyk u

Segirl18:
I dont find u guilty of all u wrote above, bt 4rm little i can tink off, il conclude that its either uve been once heart-broken or surely u havent found one suitable 4 ur taste cos i dont see a reason why men shouldnt get married wen im kinda convinced u'rnt a catholic who would want 2 become a reverend. Il bet ul overcome soon and come to thank me later bro.

d reason men shudnt marry is dat marriage is overrated n we can do just fine, if nt even better without it. simple n short

Ilekokonit:
Why den no go attack you. When you dey spoil their market.

most of them know in their heart of hearts that they are damaged goods anyway and are just looking for some unfortunate guy to take them to the altar and yet they will not be humble.

They fail to realise that smart men are beginning to reject foolish women regardless of their so called education or artificial beauty.

I lyk d last paragraph. I tot I was alone before I created dis thread. I'm shockd men all ova d country (if nt even d world) r sick n tired of women.

Ilekokonit:
Thanks for your honesty and God bless you with more wisdom.

Like I read somewhere, To marry once is duty, twice is folly and thrice is madness.

hmmm !! NYC punch line. I will memorize it

ferdiii:
A lot of married pple fuc.ck outside oh.

oh my God. guy! abeg just dey ansa dis self deceptive piple. tel dem d truth dey don't want to hear

ferdiii:
U don't lack audience when u are cool with ur career and cash.

its lyk ur taking dis words directly from my mind! dis guys kip saying one will b lonely wit tym. wrong! money attract pips. both boys n gals. money answereth all tins! do dey undastnd wot it means guys will die to hang out wit u, for women, forget it

Tabh:
Marriage is overrated really,why get married when you can do everything a married person does. Just make your money,have one or two kids and enjoy your life till you die.

first tym a gal has said d truth on dis thread

DaBullIT:
[size=22pt]This post make sense die [/size]


Make money. Fvck prussy. Born Pikin. Die happy. That's legacy

lolZzzz

enkay4love:
u wuld've bn better of as a politician,rather dan a pocket lawyer.Hehehe,still laughing.

woteva rocks ur boat baby. its beta to laff dan to cry. keep laffin jare

emFUN:
i was actually looking forward to reading your reply to my message Mr. killjoy

well I hv

@ emfun
waw! u actually spent tym typing all diz. I just had to reply ur reply

1. u missed my point here. lime giv u an illustration. wen women complain, most tyms dey don't want any solutn to d problem, insted dey want u to just listen lyk mumu n kip saying, eya, sory, sorry. Bt a man listening to a woman's ish doznt hv tym for dat, instead he wants to quickly solve her problem so we can hear word, r u getting d differences I mean, so to hv peace in DAT scenario d man has to be someone he naturally isn't n start forcing himself to listen n its a borin lyf. dis is just one difference I mentioned. dey r numerous. take tym to read bout men n women psychology, u wil see a yawning rift of differences.

2. leme make dis simple. d love from moda to child, broda to sister, fada to son is naturally genuine. Bt any love outside ur immediate family. ur on ur own. don't deceive urself about d love one mans daughter hv for u. no money no honey. don't say I didn't warn u

3. yea I'm happy u wer honest inof to agree with me on dis one. Bt marrying a friend , someone who laffs to ur jokes , d ryt person bla bla bla, for me, ladies will only respond to a mans money. u may be shocked y I kip saying dis, no vex na wetin eye dey see, na im mouth fit tok

4. I didn't boda to read d scriptures. experience has taught me dat pipl will always quote d Bible to support der argument.

5. on dis one ur bias. for a lady lookin for work after skul, der r ten lukin for husband. my dear abeg took tru. n women r always playing emotional games. women will DELIBERATELY create tension in d family wen tins go on fyn for long tym. abeg be honest. even if u hv a perfect husband u will make sure u guys fyt n settle regularly. wot it adds to women, I still don't knw

6. on dis one, I can't took too much, divorce rate is high n many of d couples still togeda r dying in silence. shame of wot pipl will say won't allow dem split.

7. plz tok true, Hw many gals r ready to start wit a man from scratch women of nowadays want ready made house abeg tok tru!! which 21st century woman wan suffer wit man wen her classmate marry man wer get range rover?? leme tell u d two tins behind a successful man, one a pack of haters, two a woman pushing him to his first heart attack!!

leme repeat dis again, der is no ryt person if u don't hv money. n every gal bcoms d ryt person wen u hammer. dats d bitter truth

enkay4love:
LMAO! U amuse me.Just continue wallowing in ur grief.Sorry oo.

wot is amusing about being different from odas? Hw doz refusing to stick to customs n tradition translat to grief? even a primary skul pupil going for a debate will be armed wit facts. u n ur cohorts lack facts so u try to get under d skin of d opposition by making baseless n irritating remarks. u can neva win dat way my dear. it wud hv been beta for u to hv said nufin.

DiplomaticG:
Tell me dat girl who shattered ur heart..

my heart is in one piece. wot r u tokin bout

ferdiii:
Old boy, u can't even keep a girlfriend without cash. Oh well, if u play ur cards right, that is another way to get kids but to live with her as well won't be fun. Go check!

abeg open d guy eye well well. he rili doznt knw wots up.

ferdiii:
You wrote well..the thing is the real marriage has been watered down to suit the women. That is y as u are graduating, trying to get a job and ur feet down, ur women classmates have all gone to marry already made guys and expect all from them. When that does happen, they log out and wait for u. That is not marriage, that is robbery. So pple are saying let's come with equity or to ur tent oh Israel. I know a rich guy who sends his wife to birth abroad and his wife's friends are envying her. But d man told me he's open...in case d wife messes up...he will let her go. Guys like this will live long and see their children develop..but those who think they can't do without their wives...well u know where they are. Most guys without cash see marriage as a means to claim manhood.

kai!!! ur last sentence describes many Nigerian men. men who hv nt succeded in der careers hide der shame under d guise of marriage. u tink once u hv made money u nid to prove ur a man by taking a wife?? fvckin rubbish

zoe123:
NL guys n their hypocrisy,marriage sucks but u still want a girlfriend that will prove her wife materializm by coming to cook in ur house abi? so if she come learn all these una rules n regulations of what a good african wife should be like,who she go practise am on as many of una no come believe in marriage?anyway anyone that applies most of d crap written here in real life, I sorry for am

wot is dis one saying? who asked a gal to cum cook for a guy? go n practice ur good African wife crap in ur fadas house y do u seem distobed DAT men r nt as interested in marriage as u tot? don't worry about d people who apply d crap I wrote Bt worry about urself my friend.

ojiefi:
JUST LIKE YOUR NAME KILLJOY INDEED. BAD SON FROM A BAD MOTHER AND FATHER. DON'T USE YOUR BAD EXPERIENCE TO INFLUENCE OTHERS. IF YOU DONT WANT TO MARRY THATS YOUR CUP OF TEA. MANY ARE MARRIED TO THEIR FIRENDS AND ARE TRULY HAPPY. GOD CAN NEVER MAKE A MISTAKE. HE CREATED MARRIAGE AND ORDAINED IT FOR THE MAN; FOR THIS CAUSE A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE. DOES THAT SOUND FAMILIAR? KILLJOY? GOD MADE MARRIAGE FOR THE MAN. YOU GUYS ARE TURNING AROUND AS IF THE WOMAN NEEDS IT MORE. IS IT NOT THE MAN THAT PROPOSES TO THE WOMAN? SHIOORR!!!! CHAUVINIST!!!

ur just shouting nonsense... did u go to skul? do u even knw d meaning of d last word u just said? ur words betray an ignorant n illiterate sentimental fanatic.

eminentme:
an old f00l like you wouldn't rest, keep constituting nuisance till your tired. #Mr Goat on heat.

tbaby534:
Never knew ur dad was a coward o, ehyah take heart

eminentme:
an old f00l like you wouldn't rest, keep constituting nuisance till your tired. #Mr Goat on heat.

let nt d sun go down while still harbouring resentment for ur broda. sun has set n even risen, yet u guys r still playing cat n dog. u guys beta stop dat

skelefish:
Which God's command? Is it go into the world and multiply the only command in the bible? How come pple are saying God's command, it's not even among the ten commandment, so it's not obligatory. Marriage is distraction, that was why some great men in the bible didn't get married, so as to enable them fulfil their assignment, if marriage was compulsory as being speculated, the likes of jesus, paul, elijah, stephen, including rev fathers....wouldn't have remain single. Killjoy is the man of the year, God bless the OP for this...

my broda dis God commandment pipl don tire me seff. dey refuse to mention men in d Bible who chose nt to get married, cos it doznt support der argument. let dem kip deceiving demselves. I hv vowed to call a spade a spade damning who gets hurt or offended.

man19king:
wht happen to Gods command? can U deceive God? are u married? are U a christian? Do U born ursef? who are U? Can God lie? waiting for ur ans

mehnnn, u will hv to wait until d cows cum home

SavageGarden:
I'm afraid This doesn't look like a debate to me bro. Besides Who makes the rules. The OP is a reprobate He needs help. Xorry for the insults all the same.

at first u spoke lyk ur brain was in ur assss Bt nw I'm certain u don't hv a brain at all. sorry for d insults all d same

ISCSUS:
Swtheart to be honest with you,u really need help
Smth must be wrong with your developmental stage,there must have been a fixation at a particular time.
No offence pls

darling, u must b an incorrigible fool. no offence plz

eminentme:
dude, mind your own biznex

u wan includ ref for una fyt?

Olutola88:
Gentleman be careful! You don't just insult people anyhow. I'm not one of the ludicrous nairalanders you can use epithets on. Look before you leap man! I never insulted you, I only told you to improve your argument. I don't deserve to be bitten by a dog that has rabies

OK. OK. u hv a point. noted. kpele

Olutola88:
You mean this post could have made you say NO to marriage? Excuse me! The post didn't even move me an inch. Maybe the OP should improve his argument next time

or maybe u shud improve ur reasoning capacity next tym

Lolarez:
Forgot to add that I'm new on nairaland! Any welcome parry for me?

yea der is. if ur a gal d party is at my house, if ur a guy d party is at d bottom of ikpoba river. so shud I expect u

Lolarez:
Smh @Op

wetin apn

eminentme:
i'm not a coward like he is

and d draw was short lived as eminentme has moved a step furda. the battle is raging

eminentme:
in times like this: you allow a fool rant after which he shamefully walks away, scum!

and finally eminentme has evened tins up, I'm happy to announce we hv a draw! dis in indeed a fierce battle. let's see who takes d next attack.