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tbaby534:
Lol, the guy lacks motherly guidance If only his father had a wife,he would have been a better man

isoryt, eminentme na 2:1 against u. wot u waiting for

tbaby534:
My mama raised me well, your way of thinking clearly shows how ur dad and ur mum lived their lives, (I never knew ur mother was a RoosterDrinker, an adulterous bitch, and u are a bastard son from an adulterous mother)

una get power to fyt o. me dey chop guguru dey watch una.

avosoft:
@OP that is the way you see marriage, that is not the way it is. thess reasons point to two things
it is either you are a flirt, who uses women when he wants and dump them, or you are not from a responsible loving family.
Children raised from a responsible family will tell you what love is from how their parents treated them and how their father treats their mom

woteva nigger

Dapo777:
Killjoy Please I need an honest answer from you. Are you married? Are you divorced? Or you just went Through some nasty relationships? Which of the above?

I went into a relationship without any intention to hurt her. I truly loved her n wanted to marry her. I gave her more dan I had, I gave her everything. she cheated on me n married someone else, I was very hurt n decided to knw beta about ladies so no woman can hurt me eva again. I started reading books on books bout women n relationship. den I learnt about men n women, I decided to share my knowledge with my fellow guys, den I created dis thread.

bluelover:
wetin concern you with the fact that someone broke his heart

why is it paining you?

its is choice! yea there was alot of generalizations and stereotypes and probably some lil bias but he said the truth!

The truth hurts my dear go sleep abeg.

you guys should leave him jare

lolzzz. take it easy bluelover, I knw some ladies r willing to strangle me with my entrails while odas want to brandish my head on a spike cos of dis post bt mrsbreezy isn't one of dem.

bluelover:
in as much has i hate the generalizations and stereotypes in your post.

i would have to agree that you did make some lovely and very true points.

this message shouldn't have been for the guys Alone but also for the ladies.

marriage is not by force. i wish people in this place of ours should stop counting marriage has a big deal or some kinda reward.

you are a guy it much easier for you to make that decision some like me who is a lady i wont rest. so much pressure from everywhere. i personally also don't have marriage in my agenda neither am i a big fan of kids. all this forcing forcing thing is annoying!!!

ride on op. but guy your generalization too much oh.

eyaa. all is well sha. don't let anyone pressure u against ur will my dear

unmask:
op and you say you don't plagiarise? You took all you said right off my head and put it in writing.....I have argued this to no wits end......marriage just doesn't show me any benefits......check my previous posts.....I am sure I have advised people to get a divorce more times than pastor biodun has bleeped the young girls in his congregation

lmao, ur very funny

ohzee:
True talk. I learnt early that correcting an adult is a waste of time and that helps me not to nag. I nag my boys instead and pray that they will learn a few things.
Just like you have 'emotional vampire' women same goes for men. A lot of men would love to nag their wives for so many things, unfortunately men would rather not discuss deep issues while women prefer to talk things to death. This again, highlights the differences in both sexes like you said.
However, many people rush into marriage without understanding their partner. Forget love, understanding is KEY. Understanding begets love and not the other way round.
Lots of married men who have nagging wives will also never tell you the other side of the story. Remember there are always two sides to every story. If they could actually listen a bit they will be very surprised to find that the woman actually is telling them something. Again, the man most times doesn't want to confront issues that do not directly enhance him such as what would make him richer etc.
However its a pity that these days a lot of girls are not well brought up for marriage. Same with guys. Marriage like every good thing in life demands commitment and determination.

well said. marriage needs commitment, determination, understanding, etc. Bt if I apply diz qualities to my ambition, I'd turn a billionaire before I reach 25. my career is more profitable dan being wit a woman. dats d honest truth

agidax:
Hello killjoy,
Can u be kind enough to share your personal story with us,it seems you were married before,but it came crashing,I get the angle you are coming from and wud like to know more.Its only a man with real experience that will understand where you are coming from.I can also perceive from yr write u that u're intelligent and really deep in thought,with no sentiments whatsoever,some things are over rated.
Reach me on 08053337314 or onojemma@yahoo.com
I can feel you.I want to learn more.

my guy I'm jst a regular guy who looked for love wer it doznt exist n I nw knw beta. I wish der is more to say Bt der isn't.

ferdiii:
The thing bible says is not being considered. Once u have money... u have women. No love and it is what Op and others are saying. I don't need any counseling or private talks. Everything is fake in reality.

its as simple as DAT!! dis ladies wanna transform reality with mouth. kai!

ohzee:
Why do women nag? What really is nagging? A lot of men refuse to grow up and be responsible. They are always seeking self-gratification and enjoyment. Is there any woman who nags a man who comes home early from work? Who provides for his family? Who is calm and loving? Women are naturally always trying to nurture and correct bad behaviour. So if your wife nags you, its likely your mother also did and you entered marriage thinking you had escaped all her (your mother's) correction and attempts to make you a better person.

I am a parent to teenage boys so I know what I am talking about.

mama weldone ma. nt all nagging is to correct d man. a man cud hv a psycho or emotional vampire on his hands or a miserable woman who looks for any available chance to share her misery with d man. women turn into many tins after marriage. shey u get

modified.

plus if a guy is single, he won't need any woman to correct his behavior, hence nag him to death. he can cum home weneva he likes, etc

cutiesoglam:
Woes unto any lady dt dates or even becomes ur baby mama.may God restart n reset ur brains to make u understand his covenant abt marriage and heal ur wounds dt has made u bitter..

who da fvck r u hv we met before?? did u lose ur way? u cud do wit a GPRS ryt about nw.

Emmycheeze:
where do u stay?

Benin y

ooshinibos:
its too late for some of us bruv

lolzzz. den just make d best of wot u hv

zicjoe:
nice work killjoy.

tnx

kccarew:
:PI aint a nigger bro! Am a pretty lady

oohhhhhhh. dat explains d prejudice n name calling. r u afraid ur husband to be shud read this post n decide against marrying u?? all is well sha

kccarew:
U and I know am not, he made his statement bf I said so, I tell u the truth, I call white white, when u see a fool making a misttake, u call him by his name" you fool come back here u are missing it" then u correct him, with much love from my heart, and believe me, am not, he needs cupid to touch him

nigger! u hv a lot to learn. we will see who is d fool in d end

rutibaby:
OP, ARE U ONE OF THE BASTARDS?
WHY DISTURB OTHERS WIT UR FAMILY PROBLEM.

I cud ask u dsame question u knw. so r u a bastad?

Horayce:
Hey Killjoy I really enjoyed reading your post which really wasn't long. Also perceived a whiff of satire, but I may be assuming too much. I held those same ideas in college. Existential questions. The futility of it all--marriage, blah blah blah. After a few years I've revised my views a bit. I'm still not a fan of marriage, all my siblings around me are happily married with kids and its an open secret that i may yet never get married. I'm ferociously ambitious and fall into the categogory of men who value their career much higher than some flimsy societal expectation such as marriage/ having kids. But i hate low brow sex( which you describe as easy to get) and I value companionship/relationships much more. After a hard days work in which you've been brusided by stuffy corporate pri.cks you just want to slide into the warm knowing embrace of your woman or man( if u r female/g.ay), and not some easy lay. Yes. Mother Theresa didnt have kids and nobody remembers who the greats were marrried to. But their partners all had their roles in bringing the best out of them. Sometimes it could be stability sometimes it could be influence. Read their biographies. Einstein had women in his life right through to his grave( Married his cousin Elsa,lol). In Zlatan Ibramovic's autobiography he raved about how settling down and having kids had a calming influence and propelled him in his career. Your views were generally spot on but marred by sample bias. I could cite two of my favorite poets( Larkin and Auden) who remained single but the vast majority of great poets were married. My point is that the overwhelming majority of successful people are married( maybe not happily married, but most of them were) So it'd be a stretch to say having a good marriage and a successsful career are mutually exclusive. Personally i'd just want to have a partner and cohabit "happily" without the burden of marriage. But if that can't give, there's always a compromise to be made.

I lyk d way u think.

karpentar:
You're wrong saying single men hv as much fun as married men. It's a fallacy! Single men have much more fun! Period!

bwahahahaha tnx for d correction

smartoliver:
so u're nt getting married@op?

not in dis lyf or d lyf to cum

kenex4ever:
OP if u make some dudes here decide not to marry again and u later go marry, the kind THUNDER when go fire u eeeh...na heaven sent.

OK sir

abelbriggs:
I just downloaded it a 188 pages.

yes sperm wars is 188 pages. the manipulated man is 69

abelbriggs:
Include me in ur books cos am with u guys

sperm wars by robin baker n the manipulated man by Esther vilar. download dem n read dem at all cost

Jolaoshot:
Bastard... Dickhead.. Maybe u are gay... Rubbish talk,... God forsaken slowpoke...

hahagaha. try again. is DAT d best u got

dimples2:
Op any woman u want to have a relationship with (not a prostitute) do let her know from the onset what ur intentions are towards her so she doesn't get it twisted

Then you are good to go.

ofxos I do! I'm against complicating a persons lyf for my personal gain. myt b hard to believ Bt I hv an active conscience

vislabraye:
Single men are missing the pains in marriage. And also, behind every successful man is a woman pushing him to his first heart attack .

..hehehe

to all those who tink I'm gay, deluded, etc, my way of thinking is above n beyond urs, its very unmainstream n probably nt in sync with d regular customs. OK? so, leave me be....

K9Uneet:
Hit a raw nerve, did he?

no. u can't get under my skin. its a mile thick. try again

TheNaijan:
Eff_ing true!Thumbs up man! I was about to make a thread like that...Lol
Besides you forgot to add: You can have the freedom to travel places eg: Brazil, Russia, Columbia, Japan and have amazing s_x with the young hotties you meet....
And you can have a kid if you want; from a surrogate....Just like CR7

guyman dats d way o

Jcob:
And the op will still end up getting married!

na Ur sister I wan marry

merit12:
Nor mind am jor,because he taught he can beat me..........always looking my trouble

He is a really fool, a sentimental fool,I kinda feel sorry for him.(I'm not insulting him oh,just singing asa muik)

Didn't do him any thing oh
*crying

I will tell my e-mommy for you


Btw mr e-eparator are you black?

well I'm a Nigerian if dats wot u wanna knw. plus wen u said black fowl , I tot u meant a fowl DAT has black feathers n everything black. did u actually mean a fowl from Nigeria hahahaha. very funny. take a look at Monica. I'm black