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Impulse80: I know u are a juvenile but i am gonna see if i can get your prehistoric brain to work. First if you had read my post well you would have seen that there was never a place i said that love doesn't exist, rather that love is self-defined, for instance, how do you know that you are in love with someone?( I doubt that your type could see the line between love and infatuation) now answer that!

[color=#000030]You re a fool. What did i call you? A fool!
Now, where in my post did i refer to you saying love did not exist? You were in a hurry to further prove your foolishness, right?
You started a thread and it was obvious you did not know the meaning of love, thereby you asked "what is love?". But in an earlier comment of yours on another thread, you said you love your girlfriend. That meant that you used the word "love" even when you knew sh[i]i[/i]t about it's meaning! My comment on this thread pointed out your foolishness in using a word you know not it's meaning. . . That's foolish! You refused to accept your foolishness, but rather chose to circumambulate and grow fat in your foolishness, quoted me and asked me a foolish question. . . You see why you are a discombobulated fool?

Reply to this comment to finally hit the nail on your foolishness. . . Nonsense![/color]

[color=#000030]Just passing and saying Hi. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]^^^
LMAO! [/color]

acidtalk: I have decided to launch a Biography of you on this Forum.


Then we will see who will go about posting rubbish on people's thread.

Let's see who will laugh last.

Since you have decided to be stubborn like you have always been. You inferiority mother-+Bleep":er. Na nairaland you wan come get mouth bah?

[color=#000030]My biography is already on here. . . Tell people something new. They are refreshing your thread, waiting for the disgrace of killz, pls don't disappoint. . . Cow!

Upload every picture you saved. . . I can't wait to be finally disgraced![/color]

xynerise: how I wish

[color=#000030]Abeg, ask your wife to buy you 200 naira recharge card, so you'll know if she's a golddigger [/color]

xynerise: actually its 5 and half female

[color=#000030]You even dey informed pass me sef

I was only putting them to test like OP is advising. . .[/color]

xynerise: see as u serious dey pour me spit

[color=#000030]Na wa o. . . You sure say na spit? It fit be acid o. . . [/color]

acidtalk: A step further of your nonesens post and I will silent you permanently on this forum

[color=#000030]I just gave you the go ahead to silence me na. . . Expose me please. . .

I've gotten 5 Female Nairalanders pregnant. . . [/color]

xynerise: *yawns* boring. Killz abeg help me bring that remote make I put playboy channel.

[color=#000030]This guy "mumuism" sweet pass playboy na. . . Make we watch am small. . . [/color]

acidtalk: Can Seun come fast to help drag this Luna*tic off my post.

Freaking punk, I have read enough of your stupid post on people's thread. A word of advice, stay clear off mine because I will so much expose and disgrace you, you will feel sorry why you started what you couldn't continue.

I have not one of those people that you will insult and get away with it.


Trust me, you don't know what I have in stock for you to make your permanently shot that leaking hole in your face you call a mouth (or scarey fingers of yours typing those crap).


A word is enough for you if you are so wise.




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[color=#000030]Abeg disgrace me. . . I need disgrace! Pics, chat logs, names, whatever you have about me that i did not upload on a social network myself, pls do disgrace. . . Nonsense![/color]

xynerise: He needs a psychoanalysis

[color=#000030]The thing be like wetin dem use yansh type. . . He was just circumambulating in catastrophic discombobulation. . . [/color]

xynerise: Killz can u elaborate wetin dis guy dey yarn?

[color=#000030]I still dey try circumnavigate the yarn. . . E be like say dem do the guy strong thing. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]Smh![/color]

[color=#000030]Sad experience you've got there.

Life is a stage. You do not jump a stage and expect all to go well with you. You made a mistake as a teen, you chose a life of crime, you made money the wrong way. With your money girls flocked to you. You actually attracted them. . . The good, the bad, the ugly. NONE came because of who you were, but because of what you could give them. Definitely, when conditions change, they abandon ship cos they were never there to stay in the first place. At that age of yours, life had not really thrown any challenge at you, you were thieving and making money without really working hard for it. The challenge started after you were caught, then, reality slowly began to dawn on you.
I believe you learnt from your mistakes, but maybe, not fully. Learning from your mistakes should have made you understand that those girls that flocked around you like flies on sh[i]i[/i]t was one of your biggest mistakes. Other ladies from other countries blah blah blah, yes, because they did not know your past. Ask the guys from those countries who have been in your position, and you'll be shocked that the same girls you re elevating above your own, will be put down by their own men.
We all have sad experiences. . . Most of us have been heartbroken, countless times too. But the difference between us and people like you is that we accept the reality on ground. Forget the past and look towards the future. There is no need circumambulating and ruminating over the past, and over the girls that left you. You cannot change what happened in the past, but you can influence and mold your future. Thankfully, things are falling into place in a legit way like you said, so i believe you are still learning from your mistakes, and steadily correcting them. When you fall, pick yourself up and move on. Holding a grudge against Nigerian ladies as a whole because of a microscopical few that left you to dry is unfair. You have to realize that life is like that some times, and how you handle it matters.
People make mistakes. . . You made a mistake, you were a criminal, but know you are a changed person. What if someone that knew your past used it against you? Would you be truthfully happy? Deep down you have changed, and all you would be asking for is another chance. . . What if someone refuses to grant you that opportunity to prove yourself a second time?
I wont advice you to go back to those ladies in your past, but look into the future. There are st[i]u[/i]pid girls everywhere. If i'm to assume randomly, 7 out of 10 girls out there is what? Is st[i]u[/i]pid! That means, that the majority of girls you come across, or vice versa is definitely st[i]u[/i]pid, but will you compartmentalize the remaining 3 as being st[i]u[/i]pid, all because of 7? Remember, in the end, all you are looking for is just 1 girl. Take your time, it's not worth rushing over, you'll find a girl that loves you for who you are, and not what you are, or what you may become. Many girls make the mistake of falling in love with a guy because of his "future potential". . . And not Him. That's pure undiluted bullshit! It thereby means that if that "future potential" clause was not attached to him, they look for the next available person. Right? Yes i know!
The way forward is for you to accept your past, and stop being so acrimonious over your own past and your mistakes. . . Remember that it was your first mistake that took you down this path. . . Forgive yourself first. Forgive yourself for the crimes you committed against others, then it will be easy to forgive these ladies, for whatever it is they did against you, so that you can move on. You are not getting younger, and life is so short to dwell constantly on bitterness. It's naturally expected that as you leave a stage of life and progress into the next one, you are more matured to handle challenges, what happens when you are supposed to be heading into stage five, and you are still clutching the baggages of stage 3? It will only get heavier as you climb life's stages, or don't you think so?. . . Any lady that turns you down without knowing who you really are, count it as her loss and move on. Guys face the same trials everywhere, i face them too, But no matter what, i try to see the good in people, i try to put myself in their position and weigh their disposition in the matter. Most times i don't blame anyone. The country in it's own can frustrate any sane person, and that has made people - guys and girls inclusive - to develop the "me first attitude". . . No one wants to suffer.
But then, there are the good ones. . . If you for one second believe that you -bittyend- are good, what makes you think there is no Nigerian lady out there that is good? Look at this fact again. lot of Nigerian girls are also angry bout the way guys have used and dumped them in the past. Now does than mean there are no good guys out there? Diamonds do not occur so pretty in nature. You have to pick it up from dirt, - rough and uncut- then after a lot of hard work, it becomes the pretty Diamond everyone wants! Can you imagine picking up nicely cut and pretty diamonds anywhere? So it is with people and attitudes and characters. . . Add to that the "Imperfection" factor of "all" humans, Nigerian girls Inclusive. . .
You may have a good heart and good intentions, but the way you go about issues can ruin things in all totality, and leave them worse than when you began. Anger is a small madness, do nothing when angry, cos what you'll spoil will be more than what caused your anger in the first place. . .

Most times, it sounds as if i'm defending Nigerian girls as a whole, but in fact, i'm defending and looking out for the interest of the "3" i talked about earlier. . . The other "7" can go to hell for all i care!. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]So, how is this nonsense romantic? Is it "all" whites that share sentiments such as these?[/color]

jay bee: Dude, I'm perfectly OK and I'd appreciate if you address me in a respectful manner. Either of you are not allowed to break NL's rules so I'm warning you guys for the last time.

[color=#000030]I've heard you. . . Sir! I hope you take into cognizance that anonymous or whatever his name is breaks the rules first. If you want to warn anyone for the last time, let him be the one you'll warn sir. I won't tolerate his nonsense if he starts it sir. And i don't care the consequences, as long as i did not start it. . . sir![/color]

jay bee: @kills & annonymous
For f.ck sake, what's wrong with you two? Why don't you guys just give it a rest? I don't wanna have to clean any of your e-fight posts again ya heard?

[color=#000030]Are you ok? Who starts it all the time? Do you think i have time for anonymous or anyone else for that matter? Pls don't deliberately get on my nerves now, pls![/color]

[quote author=anonymus11_1]mr robocop of nl................... d mafian dt operates in d cupboard of his father till his father decides to have a shower so he can strike on d poor man........................... boy alinco in trainers holding a dried aboki horsewhip pick on ya gender u desperate uneducated gay albino with d quest to be famous on nl just to fill up for no school cert when d owner of nl is a graduate................ u role model for low life lazy women on nl but a bad example for responsible and focused women with a real life and education.[/quote][color=#000030]My biggest fan. . . No day goes without you worshiping me. BTW, keep up your guesses about me. Good boy![/color]

[color=#000030]Ok. But what if she falls among these categories of women?
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eghost247: 1. The Barbie.
The only thing Barbie has, is her pretty face. Finish. She’s the type of woman that doesn’t know much about anything. Hell, she doesn’t care much about anything! As long as her pretty face is intact, the world can burn for all she cares.

2. The Drama Queen.
Avoid this person like a plague, even as a friend. She has no qualms about creating a scene over a perceived sin. She would bawl her eyes out loudly in public if she feels you don’t love her; or love her enough. She cries, she’s passionate and yes, she looooves the attention.

3. The Possessive/Obsessive Clinger.
Similar to Miss DQ above, but she doesn’t have the need to cause drama; she has a need for YOU. At all times. She calls thrice an hour. Her first question always is ‘Where are you?’ If you don’t pick up because you’re getting chewed up by your boss, expect the multi-page accusatory text messages to start flooding in. She gets upset when you have the barest interaction with another woman. She wants to be the only presence in your life. Before she goes the way of Cameron Diaz’s character in ‘Vanilla Sky’, quickly give her the boot.

4. The Wife.
She is not interested in dating. She doesn’t want a boyfriend: she wants a husband. She wants to marry. Now! One date and she’s ready to meet your parents. Two weeks on and she has chosen the names of the children you will have together. Nobody said women were logical creatures but then, life – as well as love – is in stages. I’m not sure I like you yet and you’re already choosing aso ebi… slow down madam.

5. The Party Animal.
There’s nothing wrong with letting your hair down and having fun occasionally. When it now becomes a way of life, nne, we have a problem. Sometimes one needs to chill and enjoy the other person’s company. Not this lady. She knows all the happening places in Lagos. And Abuja. And London. Her friends are going. And she must be there too. The party animal will be bored with you in no time.

6. The Cheat.
Seriously, do I need to explain this? There is no way in the world to have a meaningful relationship with someone who’s cheating on her boyfriend with you. Even if she gets out of that relationship and starts a new one with you, you know that she has no qualms about infidelity. She’s going to cheat on you too. Period.

7. Nairabody.
“I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger, but she aint messing with no broke n…” This is the type of woman who craves the finer things in life and expects a man to provide them. She’s with you only for the money. She might actually ‘like’ you, but if you can’t buy her things and generally assume responsibility as her personal cash dispenser, forget it; you can’t get five minutes of her time. She’s a pro at using sex as a tool: you get it when you pay. The moment she finds a more affluent man (that is if she doesn’t have a bunch of you suckers around her pinky already), she’s going to kick your broke behind to the curb. Expecting a steady stable relationship from Nairabody is futile. There are better ways to waste time and money.

8. Your neighbour’s teenage daughter.
Forget how she looks in a tank top. There’s a law against that type of thing.