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blink182:
Guy ℓ̊  have only one sis and one ℓ̊  diot wan condemn am? For ђã†̥ na. If NA even car she wreck Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ go talk make we pay. This dude Iƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇  J̲̣̣̣U̶̲̥̅̊§τ̲̅ lucky. Woman wrapper, my    Iƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇ also like a part of ♏έ but nor be im ℓ̊  go take beat who de give ♏έ free pomo.

[color=#000030]When i'm done with him i go buy new BB give am. . . The guy na fool! He was calling to apologize. Why was he calling to apologize if what he did was right?

But im for realize im mistakes sha, na the idiots wey dey support am. Kai. Why e no be my sister sef, this guy for dey navy barracks by now. . .[/color]

breezy047:
so its allowed to beat your sister over porshe?
Thats all she means to you. . .you hungry fowl

[color=#000030]You are the hungry fowl. Because she smashed the BB you've been saving for all your miserable life, you want to commit murder. . . You are a discombobulated nincompoop! You are lucky you are replying me behind a screen sef. . . I'd have taught you a thing or two about respecting women.

And to the other idiots that wont beat their girlfriends, but are cheering on a hopeless  idi[i]o[/i]t that beat his up. . . Well done! The world needs more of you! [/color]

blink182:
Hahahaha. . . Na true Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ talk and that na why na JTF ℓ̊  go take bundle Τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ ℓ̊  diot if e happen.

[color=#000030]Your next plate of suya is on me o jare. . . [/color]

breezy047:
you get what you ask for.

[color=#000030]I guess you'd have killed her if it was a brand new BB porshe? Do sane people beat up their loved ones? Fool?
You will also get what you ask for if you raise your filthy hands against someone's daughter who you aint married to. Thank your fccking stars that her brother's are weak. . . Na your yansh you for use dey type now. . .

And we keep screaming against domestic Violence. . . [/color]

blink182:
Materialistic pri ck. ℓ̊  de wait for Τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ ℓ̊  diot wen never pay bride price come beat my sis. F00lish f00l.

[color=#000030]People no understand say na rubbish. Beat my sister over bold 4? No be even porshe? Thunder fire your left testicle. . . Nonsense![/color]

[color=#000030]^^^
I wonder too. . . The kind of threads churned out and the subsequent pathetic posts makes you think there's something amiss![/color]

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Ok. I'm not in any way smart! And why should i ignore you?[/color]

[color=#000030]It's funny because it was presened on Val's day right? If it was on any other day, would she not have rushed it? Especially is she was a student in a Nigerian University? Do i need to explain a girl student's love and affinity for Indomie? Craze don dey worry una sha. . . A gift is a gift. Fcck Valentine![/color]

[color=#000030]*Smell of Village Okada smoke. . . Quite different from Lagos and i don't know why.
*Smell of sugar ants after crushing them. . .
*Smell of molue exhaust fumes. . .
*Smell of fast food joints
*Smell of a burnt bush
*Smell of cooking gas.
*Smell of stockfish. . .
*Smell of kpomo. . . [/color]

Shollypopz:
@ Killz, as much as i think you are really smart and make loads of sense in your comments, you tend to insult people a lot, very confusing

[color=#000030]Confusing?  [/color]

[color=#000030]Another fable. . .

After wasting all your time wooing a woman, you want to call it off because she refused to change sim? Was that part of your agreement with her or what? Bullshit![/color]

[color=#000030]I wonder what these half baked hypocritical idiots would have said had it been that the guy smashed the girl's blackberry, and the the girl throws an object at him, wounding him and then runs to Nairaland, opens a thread like "I wounded my boyfriend for smashing my phone". . . Would they still reply like fools?

Hypocrites![/color]

[color=#000030]^^^
Yeah i'm good. Are you on YIM? I deserve to chat with my birth mate.
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MRS CHIMA

You know you actually suggested that it would be better if I had SMASHED HER OWN FONE back.

Now tellme how does that sound to a mature grown up like you?

[color=#000030]Mature and grown up is BEATING her till you are satisfied. . .

Slap yourself Motherfccker!


LMAO@ falling apart online. . . Bro, you'll be the only one falling apart soon. . . Mark it! [/color]

Mrs. Chima that's exactly my point here. That was so disrespectful still not hitting worth. Its all somehow depends on the hand you give your girl and the kind of girl you're dating. . OP try giving your next gf *don't even think about it look*

[size=15pt]Lucky you're in Africa, you'd be telling your story to your jail mates. Lol[/size]

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No mind the somalian chimpanzee. . .[/color]

KILLZ

Stop kidding yourself with this statement 'If she had died what would be the situation now'

Ever witnessed an angry parent beat her child for disobedience or whatever?

Does she kill him?

Just like an angry parent when you do this like this you are still sane.

So grow up pls

[color=#000030]You are a glorified idi[b]o[/b]t! Are you her father? have you seen any father that beat his daughter over a blackberry? Is it every time a child makes her father angry that she gets beaten?
Hold up bro, are you sure you are ok in the head? Are you trying to justify your dumb actions by any means? The fools cheering you on here won't beat their girlfriends the way you did! So, one way or the other, they believe you are a fool! But because they don't want to look like they are letting down a fellow idi[i]o[/i]t, they are spitting balderdash! She DID NOT THREATEN YOUR LIFE IN ANY WAY! Will you say you were defending yourself? Hey fool, watch your back cos she'll be BACK! [/color]

KILLZ

I don't know what to say to you.
If it was your sister what would you do to me? Lock me up? Arrange to have me beaten? Like you do to her teachers at school when she comes home to report to you?
Haha

They say you are getting married soon.
Nice becuz soon you will start experiencing things that you thought only existed in movies. Maybe then you will be able to communicate whatever your opinion is on issues like this without girlish subjective emotions

[color=#000030]Shut up dumbo! You are feeling cool because some idiots have your back online, if this case gets to the police, you'll be the only one to face it.
Just be thankful she wasn't my sister. Fool. How much is a fccking BB? What if she had died? And you'll open your stinky mouth to say you love her. . .

BTW i aint getting married soon, stop consoling your idiotic self. . . Log out and go sort out your offline issues. . . These fools wont be here when your arse is on fire![/color]

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=884556.msg10315233#msg10315233 date=1330701676] Yes it didn't change what she did, but now she knows she's not the only one who knows how to get upset  
[/quote][color=#000030]You only said this because she is still alive. . . If he had beaten her to death would you still sound this way? SMH!

Read his idiotic post again where he said "I beat her till i felt satisfied"[/color]

I don't condone hitting women but I can relate to what the OP went thru. I had a similar instance where my wife and I got into an argument and she snatched my android phone and dashed it to the ground. My thought process went blank and I gave her one helluva push that sent her flying through the glass screen door out onto the patio. For a minute there I was only thinking of my phone but when I realized the magnitude of my actions, I was ashamed of what I had done.

Sometimes we let our anger control our actions, it's only human. The fact that you realize your faults and you're ready to make amends speaks volumes about your maturity . Just give her some time and eventually things will simmer down back to normal.

[size=14pt]My mishap cost me 3 days in jail, a shitload of fines and 2 months probation. Plus it put a strain on our relationship.[/size]

[color=#000030]SAFO, thanks for this. But the mumu went for his phone first, and even at that, he doesnt care to know where she is because according to him, he needs a break!. . . I hope he reads where you said you went to Jail. . . I emboldened it for him not to miss it [/color]

@Killz I believe you have not experienced female confrontation and molestation before. A wise man once said, if you give a woman a room, she would occupy the house. While I do not encourage female assault and molestation, women nowadays now seize every opportunity to assault a man and claim it on being the weaker sex. We should look at the intension, we are all humans and expect to be treated nicely. Well FYI I have been assaulted by my ex-girl and she gave me a scar because of attention. Though I didn't beat her I felt emasculated. I would only blame the poster for going too far but his girl friend was wrong, if he doesn't act that way, the lady would break his head with a bottle because of attention. Believe me, I have seen that one (breaking of bottle) happen

[color=#000030]Helllllo. . . Is smashing a BB phone female molestation? Get a refund bro. So you support beating up a lady? Did she beat him? Is there no other response than beating her? What if he was with a knife? Would he have restrained himself from stabbing her to death? Now, what if he has beaten the wrong girl and his arse is thrown in jail, what the fcck will you say? he was right? If he was right, would he be thrown in jail? Ask SAFO to school you a little! Ok, honestly tell me what you will say if she was dead now. . . I'm waiting![/color]

[color=#000030]Smashing your phone is disrespectful but not a criminal offence. . . Beating her up is disrespectful AND a criminal offence. . .

Bro, thank your stars she is not my sister, be thankful too if she has no elder brothers to handle your pathetic arse. . . If i was you, i'd look for a way to appease her. . .

Nairaland can only soothe your conscience, NAIRALAND CANNOT SAVE YOU!

Watch your back. . . FOOL![/color]

[color=#000030]I wish you had beaten her to unconsciousness or even death! Maybe then, you'd have realized the gravity of what you did. . . She left the house, and you dont care where she is because your BB is working? And you need a break? You are an arse! Nonsense.

What was the quarrel about? Did you tell us? What if she was right and you were wrong? She was trying to communicate and you were pinging? You quickly rushed here, told a one sided story and you are feeling cool? Wait, she's on her way back and you'll hate yourself for laying hands on a lady who is not yours. . . You are a disgrace![/color]

[color=#000030]Thanks. Sorry about the length. I had to summarize it, it was longer. I replied anyway. Thanks again, at least i know what i MUST do! [/color]

Sugardiva:
The use and use and dump ones come on like a hurricane with mind blowing speed pumping u with texts and calls and all what not. So its not suprising when they blow over like the wind after they get what they want. .They are too serious too early

[color=#000030]This is a very good point.

Op, in addition to the above, a serious guy is never in a hurry. He wont ask you for sex on the first date, nor will he kiss you on the first day. He knows the complications that arises from throwing the word love around, so he refrains from telling you he loves you, until he really means it. He cares about your feelings and your welfare. His actions speak louder than his words. He gives you gifts but never gives to impress you, he's unhappy when you are unhappy, he genuinely enjoys your company and will never put you down in front of his friends. . .

Sadly, the serious guys are viewed by most ladies as weaklings. They fail to realize the seriousness, but choose to rather fall for the guy with smooth words. Quoting sugardiva again, "The use and use and dump ones come on like a hurricane with mind blowing speed pumping u with texts and calls and all what not". Most of these texts messages are mass produced. They send it to 10 or more different girls at the same time. Words Words Words. And they are so lazy that they forward the ones sent to them without editing.

It's easy to be swayed by words, especially when you are freshly out of a relationship or you don't have a boyfriend or when you are insecure and never thought someone will pay you attention. They will spend heaven and earth just to entice you and unfortunately most times, they succeed. When the euphoria of the good times spent have worn off, they move to the next girl and leave you looking like a fool. . . Well, if that happens to you, you are a what? A FOOL. If you don't deem him worthy enough of a relationship, don't accept his gifts. Even if he is your type, don't be in a hurry. Guys love girls that are uptight. Forget the hype, and stick to your values. . . If you have any! [/color]

[color=#000030]^^^
You are wrong about the age, and your advice is the essence of this thread. You chose to misunderstand the point i was presenting. Cheers![/color]

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Brb. . . [/color]

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It means "Love".[/color]

Adaeze003:
So i guess no love, relationship or marriage for the poor? In my opinion, there's no formula to this aspect of life. I know this because I've seen couples who started with little but with time things changed and now they can comfortably provide for their kids. On the other hand, the fact that you have a steady income now does not mean you'll have that for life so what if something happens and you lose your job? Will you expect her to stay with you?
Everyone deserves love as long as you are not expecting manner from above (lazy) things can change.

[color=#000030]When you say poor, what do you mean by poor? There should be no marriage for the Jobless. Does being poor mean Jobless? Couples that started little, did they start on nothing at all? If you have arranged your self and you feel you can start on a meager income fine. But don't you go into it without anything, hoping only on luck. When you have a steady income, you should realize that things can change since there's no condition that's permanent. How about saving for the rainy day? Would you blame me if you refuse to plan, and then you fail as a result of not planning? Everyone deserves love yes, but will love alone sustain you both? How about next time you are hungry, look down at you stomach and say "I love you". Lemme see if that hunger would abate. . . All i'm saying is, DON'T go into a relationship when not prepared. . . Preparation = Money!

How are you? [/color]

IZUKWU:
Kills, i wouldn't say i do not follow your line of arguement. But how do i keep in line the desires of my heart. What would you advice in this situation. For me ,its three years after youth service ,have been working and saving for my m.sc . So am on a very tight rope financially. But body no be wood,there is this girlfriend of mine. We have been on and off because according her ,am stingy why i refuse to spend more than 3k on her for a month. Once it has passed that ,she know she wouldn't get anything from me again. Since last month she has talking ,she want to enter school . Money to runs her o'level but i refuse to bulge. I know she has been talking with her ex  and he has promised to give her but for me. She is not my responsibility since her parents and brothers are there . And i have my own sister ,four of them at the present in the university with their demands. This girl keep telling me that she is am adult, that her parents take care of the younger ones and she should be the responsibility of her boyfriend,which i have vehemently refused to bear. These days i choose my expenses, i measure them,with an iron ruler.

[color=#000030]Well, this is an example of what i'm talking about. You have been working and saving for something else, and now you've drawn another problem to yourself when you are surely not ready for it! 3k is not enough for her in this case, but that's all you can provide at the moment, is that not bringing problems to the relationship? Would you say you are happy with this? To me, this is an insult. You have siblings needing your help, why don't you concentrate on them rather than a girl you are not married to, neither are you sure you'll marry her? But your motive should be brought to the fore as well. Why are you keeping her? Is it because body no be fire wood? I'll advise that you face your M.Sc, have a relationship but don't make it officially serious. If a relationship is not serious, i don't see how she'll make your giving her money a must! When you are balanced, you'll see that things will be a little easier for you.

Set your priorities, and stick to them. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]A lawyer defending a man accused of burglary tried this creative defense: "My client merely inserted his arm into the window and removed a few trifling articles. His arm is not himself, and I fail to see how you can punish the whole individual for an offense committed by his limb."

"Well put," the judge replied. "Using your logic, I sentence the defendant's arm to one year's imprisonment. He can accompany it or not, as he chooses." The defendant smiled. With his lawyer's assistance he detached his artificial limb, laid it on the bench, and walked out. [/color]

pendo89:
In that case I am Igbo cz that is what I do in real life.
Give me an igbo name.

[color=#000030]Ifunaya. . . [/color]

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=882619.msg10310069#msg10310069 date=1330632014][/quote]

ichidodo:
NGWA, bia. Let us dance mgbokpo nike dance,

[color=#000030]Nna relax o! [/color]

Nayah:
Lol but Killz you know brother, I've always tried not jugding easily people because we don't know their background: Look, if a lady comes from a very poor background we can't blame us to want a better life and think to have a fiance who has a better background, but yes better loving him too of course
Just to say life it's quite difficult and we need to balance our point of view, cases are different

But I agree using someone just because of money, this is not what I call love

[color=#000030]You understand. [/color]